David Tian, Ph.D.

presents

INVINCIBLE: www.auratransformation.org
The Charisma Code, Part 3
 Contact Closing
Why its not important
Why it is important
101 ways of number closing
Default number close
Contact close as escalation
Other media
 Touch Rewards
Rewards Good Behaviour, Punish Bad Behaviour
Operant conditioning
Your touch is a reward
AFTER her investment (immediately after)
During your excitement
Variable Reinforcement
 Touch Technique
Layers of sensitivity
Incidental touch is best
Rewards
Playful
Protective
Withdrawing touch as punishment
Her touching you
 Dominance in Escalation
When to escalate?
After her investment
During your excitement
Calibrate
Physical withdrawal
Verbal takeaways
Mini-Isolation
In-Venue and Out-Venue Bouncing and Isolation
 Review VIII

Contact Closing
Touch Rewards
Touch Technique
Dominance in Escalation
 Phone Follow Up
Sub-Communications and Emotional Contagion
Your First Text
Investment
No Questions!
Ping texts
Mass Invite texts
Slow Track
 On the Phone
Tonality
Sub-Communications and Emotional Contagion
Have fun, and have back up in the pipeline
Same as initial contact but condensed
Re-establish fun vibe
Screen & Qualify
Only invite as a reward for her effort (Investment)
Schedule same day to capitalise on high
 What to Think on the Date

Screening Frame
Abundance Mindset
Flow Hack
Outcome Independence (Be Desireless)
 The Perfect Date
5 Cs of Dating
Convenient
Smooth logistics leads to smooth escalation
Changing
Time Distortion and Dominance
Contrast
Emotional highs and lows
Cheap
Watch Investment levels
Conversation
 How to Set Up and Get Back
Setting up your Seduction Location
Cut down on space (mini logistics)
5 Senses
Conversation Starters
Getting Back
Have a Plan (and a Plan Band a Plan Cand a etc.)
Seed early and often
Bounce early and often
Continuous Flow of Action
Inner Game of Transitioning
 Sexual Vibe
Fashion and Image
Body Language
Verbal Rewards
Physical Rewards
Tonality
Eye Contact
Sexual State Transference
 How to Escalate on Dates
Incidental Touch
Good Closing Dates: Cooking, DVDs
Touch Sequencing
Build anticipation
Higher levels of investment automatically unlock lower levels of
investment
Verbal LMR: Agree with all
Physical LMR: Two steps back
May need to patch up Believability
 Review IX
Phone Follow Up
On the Phone
What to Think on Your Date
The 5 Cs of Dating
Setting up and getting back to your place
Sexual Vibe
Escalating on dates
NEXT: How to lock in your gains for LIFE
 How to Be Awesome Forever
Train your Thought Life
Its all about YOU
Condition your mind to see yourself and the world
differently
Replace limiting beliefs with empowering beliefs
Surround yourself with success
As you think, so shall you become. Bruce Lee
 Affirmations

At least daily
Sample affirmations
Engage emotions
First-person and second-person
Adopt appropriate body language and delivery
 Visualisations
Vivid picture of your Super Hero
Real life or fictional exemplars
Experiment with the possibilities
Movies for Modelling (Asian Rake post)
Use written script to guide and prompt
Disassociated and Associated
 Train Your Body
Outside in: Use body to influence the mind
Body Language
Tonality
Fashion
Fitness
Physical Anchoring
Facial expressions feedback loop
 Riding Off Into The Sunset
80/20
Thought -> Action -> Habits -> Character -> Destiny
Getting the girl is just the beginning
Community
Mentors
Surround yourself with success