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that she did consent, the conformity of a woman's behavior to the conven-
tions in question would be sufficient to acquit a man of rape.2
The importance of establishing whether, and why, certain forms of behav-
ior may be understood as indicating consent to some state of affairs should
be obvious. I have two aims. First, I intend to criticize the argument given
for thinking that there are general conventions whereby a woman's behav-
ior may be interpreted as her consent to sex. Second, I wish to expose the
dangers of relying upon the view that there are such conventions. The
reasons cited for concluding that certain forms of behavior may be inter-
preted as the giving by a woman of her consent to sexual intercourse are
not good ones, but there are good reasons for not so interpreting her
behavior.
I. CONSENT
For the purposes of what will be argued here I will make four claims about
consent.3 First, the normative significance of consent is that it results in a
change in the moral situation. In particular, it does so by giving to the person
to whom consent is given a good moral reason to expect something from the
person who gives consent. If Smith consents toJones's doing of p, then Smith
has no right thatjones not do p, andjones may legitimately expect that Smith
will not stop her from doing p or will assist her in doing p.
Second, the normative situation may change in the same way as it would
if consent were given but without it being the case that consent had been
given. Smith's behavior may lead Jones to believe that Smith can be de-
pended upon to perform some further action. The legal principle of estop-
pel in pais holds that Smith would be liable for losses incurred by Jones in
acting in reliance upon the expectation that Smith would perform the
further action.4 Peter Singer has spoken of quasi-consent, since "under cer-
tain circumstances, actions or failures to act may justify us in holding a
person to be obliged as if he had consented, whether or not he actually
has."5 His own example is that of someone who participates in the practice
of buying rounds of drinks. He may be expected to buy a round when it is
his turn, and others in the group rely upon this expectation when they, in
turn, buy their round. He does not consent to the practice, but it is as if he
had when we come normatively to characterize the situation in terms of
expectations of behavior.
2. Douglas N. Husak & George C. Thomas III, Date Rape, Social Convention, and Reasonable
Mistakes, 11 LAW & PHIL. 95-126 (1992).
3. An excellent account of consent is provided by John Kleinig, The Ethics of Consent, 8
CANADIANJ. PHIL. SUPPLEMENT. 91-118 (1982).
4. This is the case as long as Jones did rely upon Smith's future performance, and Smith
intended Jones to expect the further act or was careless in allowing such an expectation to be
formed.
5. Peter Singer, DEMOCRACY AND DISOBEDIENCE 47 (1973).
6. For a defense of the view that this is howJohn Locke understood consent, w Frank Snare,
Consent and Conventional Acts in John Locke, 13 J. HIST. PHIL. 27-36 (1975).
held there. It is for Smith to give his consent to holding the party in his
house, and this is because it is his house and not mine. Saying "I agree"
when it is the giving of consent is a performative utterance as saying "I do"
is in the context of the marriage ceremony. Saying "I agree" only as an
expression of assent is not.
Assent, unlike consent, can be both an act and a state of mind. I can
express my approval of p or merely wish for p. It is, of course, also true that
I can, in one act, simultaneously express my assent and consent. To the
question "Is it okay to hold the party in your house?" I reply "Yes," and
thereby both consent and assent to its being held there. I both agree to hold
it and agree with the idea of its being held. Yet I can consent to that which
I do not agree withthat is, do not assent to. If I consent to holding a party
in my house, I can do so while wishing I did not have to agree to the
proposal. I do so, for instance, because other people have, in the past,
played host, and I recognize the need to return the favor.
Dissent may be taken as the contrary of both consent and assent. In the
absence of further explanation or context an expression of dissent from p
is both an explicit withholding of consent to p and the signaling of one's
disapproval or dislike of p. Dissent, like assent, may be both an act and a
state of mind. But it follows from what has already been said that sincere
and willing consent may be given to that from which one dissents, in the
sense of not assenting to. It is also true, and importantly so, that consent
need not be given to that from which no dissent is expressed. When Smith
submits sexually to Jones in real fear of her life, she makes no protest but
she does not consent.
II. CONVENTIONS
Husak and Thomas have argued that there are social conventions by which
women express their agreement to sexual relations.7 They reason as follows.
Psychological studies reveal "courtship rituals" whereby women give nonex-
plicit encouragement to sexual advances from men, and thus indicate their
willingness to be sexually intimate with them. The use of such rituals is
understandable inasmuch as women are socialized not to be sexually for-
ward or explicit, and fear being characterized as promiscuous or "loose" if
they are. That women do regularly and systematically employ nonverbal
solicitation behaviors is a matter for empirical investigation. Crucially, the
law should concern itself with how behavior between the sexes is currently
patterned, and not seek to enforce an ideal of such behavior, which does
not conform to the reality. The crime of rape occurs if sexual intercourse is
unconsented, and the defendant acts upon an unreasonable belief that it
8. The requirement of mens rea is met if the defendant knows that the sexual intercourse is
unconsented. As to the question of whether it matters that the belief in consent is sincere, even
if unreasonable, there has been much debate, especially in the wake of the infamous Director of
Public Prosecutions v. Morgan [1975] case. I presume a prevailing agreement that his belief in
her consent, to give the required mens rea, must be both sincere and reasonable. I leave open
questions of how "reasonable" is to be construedwhether, for instance, it is relative to this
particular individual or to men in general.
9. C.S. Nino, A Consensual Theory of Punishment, 13 PHIL. & PUB. AFF. 295 (1984), who quotes
Thomas Hobbes in support, "Whoever voluntarily doth any action, accepteth all the known
consequences of it," LEVIATHAN 218 (Michael Oakeshott ed., 1955).
e e r on a system of bidding signals, such that scratching her nose shall mean
a n increase in the bid of $500, a tugging of her ear lobe shall mean an
increase of $1,000, and so on. There is nothing about these actions as such
t h a t gives them this signification. They acquire them only in consequence
o f a convention agreed between Smith and the auctioneer.
Other conventions are such that the behavior and its meaning are related
less arbitrarily. There may be an obvious and direct connection. If I word-
lessly toss you the keys of my car, then you might reasonably take my action
t o signify agreement to your borrowing my car. It would certainly be reason-
able to believe this if my action were a response to your request to borrow
it. However, taken in and of itself the throwing of the keys is just that, a
transfer of keys. Yet the keys are related to the car in such a way that I may
b e said metonymically to be giving you the car. Nodding and shaking one's
head to indicate agreement and disagreement, respectively, are interesting.
They are not culturally universal expressions, although people in very many
cultures say "yes" by nodding. At the same time these expressive behaviors
may have an etymology. A nod signifies agreement inasmuch as it derives
from a curtailed bow, which represents a ritualized submission to the other.
Shaking one's head, it has been suggested, may originate in the baby's
refusal of food by turning its head away.10
However, there is a danger of confusing a convention that connects the
behavior p to its further meaning q with a rule that displays the regularity
of p's succession by q. Someone who sits in a restaurant and orders a meal
normally intends to eat what is brought to her table and subsequently to pay
for that meal. If there is thought to be a convention to the effect that
someone who orders from a waiter is consenting to eat and pay for the
ordered meal, it is because the placing of the order standardly portends a
certain sequence of events. But an ordered regularity is not a convention,
and the question of whether a convention does or does not exist is separable
from the question of whether the convention may be described as resum-
ing, or being based upon, an ordered regularity. This is especially important
in the case of what is alleged to be nonverbal sexual solicitation. What
flirting leads to is distinct from what it immediately signifies. A wink may be
the precursor of a relationship that is eventually sexually intimate, but a
wink is not a nodthat is, actual agreement in itself to the intimacy.
There is a further important point The regular succession of p by q may
be explained in terms such as that the whole point of doing p is that it can
be succeeded by q, or that doing p has little value unless one goes on to do
q. If I agree to your borrowing my golf clubs for a week I would be surprised
to learn that you had not used them but merely stored them in a corner of
your house. Of course, strictly speaking, I might have agreed only to your
"having" the clubs, but I would normally be understood to have thereby also
I have given some reasons to be cautious about assuming that the relation-
ship between a piece of behavior, and a subsequent action, is always to be
explained in terms of conventions. I now want to challenge directly the idea
that there are conventions whereby women express their consent to sex,
and that an individual's reliance on these can serve to acquit him of rape.
I propose to make some general comments and then turn my attention to
the particular argument of Husak and Thomas.
It would be implausible to maintain that there are no sexual conventions.
First, consider two special cases. Sadomasochistic sexual activity, while giv-
ing great pleasure to its participants, also runs the risk of exposing them to
serious harm. Practitioners of SM stress the importance of consensuality yet
acknowledge the difficulties, given the nature of the activity in which they
engage, of ascertaining whether consent is or is not being given to some
practice. They will thus engage in prior negotiation about the limits and
terms of any subsequent encounter. This may include agreement on con-
11. For critiques of this model in the context of legal thinking about rape, see Bernadette
McSherry, 'No! (means noV), 18 ALTERNATIVE L.J. 27-30 (1993), and Ngaire Naffine, Possession:
Erotic Love in the Law of Rape, 57 MOD. L. REV. 10-37 (1994).
12. See evidence given to the British Law Commission, Consent in the Criminal Lnxo, Consult-
ation Paper No. 139 (London: HMSO, 1995), 10.32. One respondent speaks of "ritualized stop
words."
13. "Her lips said 'no' but her eyes said 'yes'" is a familiar excuse offered by a man who
sexually persists in the face of his victim's protest.
14. Susan Estrich, REAL RAPE, 100 (1987), citing Boston Globe, July 29,1985, p.9.
15. This argument is given most notable expression by Catharine MacKinnon. See, for
instance, her Rape: On Coercion and Consent, in TOWARD A FEMINIST THEORY OF THE STATE 171-83
(1989). See also Carole Pateman, Women and Consent, 8 POLITICAL THEORY 149-168 (1980),
reprinted in her THE DISORDER OF WOMEN: DEMOCRACY, FEMINISM AND POLITICAL THEORY 71-89
(1989).
16. Among those who have defended an affirmative verbal consent standard (consent is
given if and only if an explicit "yes" or its verbal equivalent is uttered) are: Lois Pineau, Date
Rape: A Feminist Analysis, 8 LAW & PHIL. 217-43 (198); Lani Anne Remick, Read Her Lips: An
Argument for a Verbal Consent Standard in Rape, 141 U. PA L. REV. 1103-51 (1993); Stephen J.
Schulhofer, The Gender Question in Criminal Law, 7 SOCIAL PHIL. & PoL'Y 105-137 (1990).
(A) 1. There is a convention to the effect that anyone who does p is consenting
toq;
2. Smith does p;
Therefore, 3. Smith consents to q.
There is a clear difference between the two arguments, which turns on how
the convention is to be understood, and which gives license to quite differ-
ent conclusions. Indeed, it is proper to think that only in argumentative
form (A) does a convention properly function. In (B) the "convention" is a
law or rule in the sense of an inductively grounded regularity. I may reason-
ably believe that if p then q because q and p are regularly conjoined, and,
in consequence, reasonably believe q because p is true. It might be reason-
able for a man, observing that a woman's behavior falls under such a rule
as (B) specifies, to believe that she consents to sex. However, he may not be
justified in believing that her behavior is consent, if there is no convention,
such as (A) specifies, to that effect.
Husak and Thomas shift from one claim to the other, and on one
occasion they do so on the very same page. They say it is "crucial to
understand the convention by which women express their agreements to
sexual relations," and they speak of convention "wcs," standing for
"women's consent to have sex." Several lines later they state that "conform-
ity with convention wcs is a reason to conclude that the man's belief [in the
woman's consent] is reasonable, whether or not his partner has in fact
consented." 17 Of course, if convention "wcs" is the convention by which
women express their agreement, then conformity with the convention is
consent. The man's belief in consent is true, and not just reasonable
"whether or not his partner has consented."
To repeat, the shift from one form of convention to another is to be
explained by thinking of a convention as both a rule, which governs the
meaning that can be imputed to a behavior, and as an inductively
grounded regularity, which permits someone to expect what is normally
associated with some behavior. The difference is between a convention
that gives a nod the meaning of "yes" and a "convention" that says a
wink is regularly associated with the giving of an affirmative answer. But
a wink is not a nod, and there need be no convention that allows a wink
to be read as a "yes."
It should be noted that the "convention" is weaker still if it links together
not behavior and present consent but behavior and the probability of future
consent. A woman's "wink" may not be regularly conjoined with her now
giving consent, but be frequently succeeded by her later consent. However,
a man cannot reasonably claim that a woman's behavior indicates current
consent when it only supports a prediction of possible subsequent consent.
In general, any doubts that there are conventions whereby a behavior is
itself consent (as opposed to rules supporting the assertion that there is or
will be consent) and evidence that a behavior need not mean consent will
also subvert one's confidence in reliance on these mere inductively
grounded regularities.
My second difficulty with the argument of Husak and Thomas is that they
fail to acknowledge the possibility that men and women attribute different
meanings to the same behavior. Because these writers attach enormous
importance to empirical evidence,^ it is surely valid to note the wealth of
material that documents cross-gender miscommunication, especially in the
area of sexual interaction. Among the most salient findings of this psycho-
logical research is that men consistently read behavior in more sexual terms
than do women. They interpret friendly behavior as conveying sexual inter-
est, and they are more inclined than are women to see certain dating
scenarios as indicating a willingness to have sex. Men thus view a token
piece of behavior by a woman as indicating more sexual interest and
willingness than do women.
It may be the case that women make use, consciously or unconsciously,
of conventions whereby their behavior can be understood in sexual terms.
Conventions provide a useful shorthand language whereby intentions and
desires can be communicated. It may also be the case, for the sorts of
reasons Husak and Thomas suggest, that women have a special reason to
rely on such conventions. Feminine modesty or chasteness, whether natural
or socialized, may make it difficult or impossible for women to be sexually
explicit or forward. It is also possible that there should be some conventions
18. At one point they speak of "the dangers of trying to resolve these matters without
consulting empirical data"; supra note 2, at 110.
19. A classic article is Antonia Abbey, Sex Differences in Attributions for Friendly Behavior: Do
males MisperceiveFemales'Friendliness? 42 J. PERSONALITY & Soc. Psraioi.. 830-38 (1982); see also
bpencer E. Cahill, Cross-Sex Pseudocommunication, 26 BERKELEYJ. SOC. 75-88 (1981); Charlene
L. Muehlenhard, Misinter/mled Dating Behaviors and the Risk of Date Rape, 6 J. Soc &
PSYTCHOL. 20-37 (1988); (); R. Lance
ce Shetland and jane M. Cmig, Can Men and Womm DiffaZtiate
b e t w e e n Friendly
between F r i e n d l yand
andSexually
Sll Ittd
Interested B Behavior?
hi? 5 151S Soc.P PSVCHOL.QQ.6 66-73
67 (1988)- Tracy D
Bostwick and Janice L. Delucia, Effects of Gender and Specific Dating Behaviors on Perceptions of Sex
Willingness and Date Rape, 11 J. Soc. & CLINICAL PSTCHOL. 14-25 (1992); Robin M Kowalski
Inferring Sexual Interest from Behavioral Cues: Effect of Gender and Sexually Relevant Attitudes, 29 SEX
about the meaning of behavior upon which both men and women are
agreed.
What obviously does not follow is that those alleged conventions upon
which men rely to infer a woman's consent are always ones that women
themselves also rely upon to give their consent. Moreover, a powerful
reason to doubt that this is the case is provided by the evidence of gender-
based differences in interpretation of the same behavior. What to a woman
is just a wink is likely to be seen as a nod by a man. It was argued in section
II on Conventions that a relevant consideration in deciding whether some-
one is entitled to rely on a convention is the extent to which the convention
has a universally univocal meaningthat is, how many people understand
the convention in the same unambiguous way. The evidence is that the
conventions to which Husak and Thomas appeal need not be understood
by women as they are understood by men. Moreover, given the same
evidence, it is much more likely that women are not consenting when men
think they are, than that they are consenting when men think they are not.
In short, male reliance on a convention of the sort Husak and Thomas favor
regularly exposes women, without any obvious compensating rewards, to
the risk of unconsented sex.
It may be said that women know the risks and should modify their
behavior accordinglythat is, conform their behavior to the convention
that men, if not they themselves, understand as prevailing. This does not
help, and it merely compounds the problem. In the first place, it is not as
though men decide to read women's behavior in one way, and women
another. There need not be, and probably is not, conscious awareness of
any conventions, nor of any difference between those employed by men
and those that women employ. Even those who might be expected to be
aware of the difference need not be. 20 Let us assume that both sexes do
become aware of the difference. Why should women change their behavior?
It is men who run the risk of inflicting injury through a mistaken under-
standing, and it is they who should adopt a policy of caution. Moreover, they
are able directly to confirm their understanding of women's wishes by
inquiry. In these circumstances, reliance solely on a convention that is
known not to be necessarily shared is culpably risky.
20. Consider the following opening paragraph from Antonia Abbey, Sex Differences in Attri-
butions for Friendly Behaviour: Do Males Misperceive Females1 Friendliness}, supra note 17, at 830:
T h e research described in this article grew out of the observation that females' friendly
behavior is frequently misperceived by males as flirtation. Males tend to impute sexual interest
to females when it is not intended. For example, one evening the author and a few of her
female friends shared a table at a crowded campus bar with two male strangers. During one of
the band's breaks, they struck up a friendly conversation with their male table companions. It
was soon apparent that their friendliness had been misperceived by these men as a sexual
invitation, and they finally had to excuse themselves from the table to avoid an awkward scene.
What had been intended as platonic friendliness had been perceived as sexual interest. After
discussions with several other women verified that this experience was not unique, the author
began to consider several related, researchable issues."
conventions "wcs." He may, on the other hand, come to learn that her
behavior does not conform, entirely or in part, to the conventions "wcs."
Husak and Thomas cannot surely believe that the man should still give a
presumptive weight to these conventions, arguing that as a woman-in-gen-
eral she must mean this by her behavior even if as this particular woman she
does not give her behavior that meaning. Here the "specific schema" simply
supplants the conventions "wcs." In short, it is not that some "specific
schema" should operate in conjunction with conventions "wcs"; such a
schema should operate independently of and without the need for the
conventions.
My fourth concern about the analysis of Husak and Thomas is that
they appear simply to discount the duty upon men of seeking to assure
themselves that women are consenting when there is a risk of mistake
by exclusive reliance upon the convention. I argued earlier that it is wrong
to rely exclusively on a risky and uncertain convention when you don't
have to. Everything seems to suggest that this is how things are in the
present context. It is not reasonable to rely upon a convention "wcs" that
is not universally acknowledged, nor unambiguous. At the same time it
is possible for men directly to inquire of women whether or not they are
consenting. The harm to a woman of unconsented sex is much graver
than that of the loss to a man who refrains from proceeding to have sex
without consent.
There may, of course, be costs in requiring that men do directly inquire
of women whether or not they are consenting. It has been conceded that
reliance upon agreed conventions can be useful and particularly so for
women. The requirement that in every sexual encounter and at every level
of sexual intimacy men request directly and verbally of women whether they
give their consent to further intimacya requirement given formal expres-
sion in the much derided Sexual Offence Policy of Antioch College23is
open to the charge of cumbersome and clumsy insensitivity to the realities
of consensual sexual behavior. Can it really be envisaged that a couple with
a long and loving shared sexual history must expressly communicate and
seek approval for their actions on every occasion? What is plausible is that
the presumption that such express approval needs to be sought and gained
diminishes in weight the more familiar a couple are with one another, the
more that any shared sexual history has successfully displayed reliance on
mutually agreed conventions, and so on. The Antioch College policy has
the same kind of failing as the approach of Husak and Thomas: insistence
upon a general rule of sexual conduct at the expense of an insensivity to
the particularities of each and every interaction.
23. An extract from the 1993 policy document reads, "If the level of sexual intimacy
increases during an interaction (i.e., if two people move from kissing while fully clothed
which is one levelto undressing for direct physical contact, which is another level), the
people involved need to express their clear verbal consent before moving to that new level."
The claim made here may be described as standing between two ex-
tremes. On the one hand it is dangerous to allow men to rely in all their
sexual encounters with women upon allegedly general conventions "wcs";
on the other hand it is unrealistically inflexible to insist that in all dieir
sexual encounters with women men should be required to seek permission
for every kind and level of sexual intimacy. There are serious costs and risks
of significant harm from subscribing to either extreme. However, nothing
that has been argued here is incompatible with the use of nonlinguistic
behavior to communicate desires and intentions, or the development of
"specific schemas" of shared sexual understanding between particular per-
sons.
Husak and Thomas concede that there may be an emerging convention
that does impose on men an affirmative duty "to be more certain that the
women [sic] is truly consenting" but maintain only "careful empirical re-
search, not wishful thinking" can confirm the hope that this is happening.24
However, the duty in question is deducible from a general, natural duty to
avoid causing harm to others, where this can be done at no unreasonable
cost to oneself. The duty is not a social convention in the way that the
convention "wcs" is, and the duty's prescriptive force is not dependent upon
the existence of some social rule that acknowledges it. It may well be that
very many men are presently failing to fulfil the duty. That is to be con-
demned, and the demand that men change their ways does not need to wait
on empirical evidence that, as a matter of fact, they are starting to recognize
that they should.
IV. CONCLUSION
There are a variety of ways in which people may, by their behavior, incur an
obligation. In some kinds of circumstance a behavior may be taken as
constituting indirect consent, and there may exist conventions that allow a
behavior to be interpreted in this way. However, reliance on such conven-
tions should not occur when there are evident dangers in doing so, and the
existence of a univocal convention is not established. This is true in the case
of sexual encounters, where the injury of unconsented sex is great, and the
alleged conventions with respect to sexual consent are uncertain.
Of course, it is true that sex may be both unwanted and yet consensual,
and that it would be wrong to characterize as rape sex that was only
unwanted.25 The distinction made earlier between assent and consent, what
is agreed with and what is agreed to, allows us to acknowledge this fact. The
issue, however, is whether consent may be inferred simply from the fact that
a behavior falls under an alleged convention. I have given reasons to believe
that it may not, and reasons not to believe that it may. The giving of consent
is an intentional, deliberate act, and because it does change the moral
situation, it is important to be assured that consent has been given. The
assurance can be gained from direct inquiry of the woman. Whether that
inquiry is appropriate in every sexual interaction, and whether it should be
satisfied in every instance only by the giving of an affirmative, verbal answer,
is a separate matter. The argument here has been that the assurance cannot
warrantably be gained from exclusive reliance upon conventions.
There are, it seems, two relevant proverbs. "A nod is as good as a wink"
means that, on occasion, one's meaning can best be communicated to
another by means of a physical expression. The longer proverb, which dates
from the eighteenth century, "A nod is as good as a wink to a blind horse,"
means that there is no point giving a hint to someone who refuses to
acknowledge it.26 In the case of sexual consent, a wink is not as good as a
nod. A woman's agreement to have sex need not be best communicated by
means of a physical behavior. Men are certainly not blind horses, and a
number of them are on occasion all too eager to read actual consent into a
hint of possible willingness. Yet men are wrong to act as though women
believe winks will do as well as nods. Nods and winks are different behaviors
and do not have the same meaning. The man who fails to see the difference,
and acts accordingly, is not merely blind but culpably negligent.27