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Introverts: A Defense
| Larry Dossey, MD |
Solitude is out of fashion. Our to their Diagnostic and Statistical Man- aggressive social promotion of me and
companies, our schools and our ual over 30 years ago. The World Health mineis embraced by extroverts and
culture are in thrall to an idea I call Organization has included a similar item has spawned a new marketing specialty,
the New Groupthink, which holds in its manual for classifying diseases and that of the personal branding consul-
that creativity and achievement
related health problems. In short, extro- tant, for which a Google search yields
come from an oddly gregarious
place. Most of us now work in version has been considered advanta- over four million hits.6 A related trend is
teams, in ofces without walls, for geous; introversion needs to be xed. the hiring of a personal life coach or
managers who prize people skills The assumption is that introverts are trainer, who tries to help an individual
above all. Lone geniuses are out. lacking in extroversion; the possibility stand out, meet one's life goals, and be
Collaboration is in. [This has led that extroverts might be decient in happier. A Google search for personal
to] a colossal waste of talent, introversion is considered absurd. life coach yields 80 million hits.7 In the
energy, and happiness.1 Although introverts make up from one- face of these developments, introverts
Susan Cain, Quiet: The Power of third to half the American population, cringe.
Introverts in a World that Can't Stop they have always been at a disadvantage What fuels these trends? Author Wil-
Talking in these arguments because, by their liam Deresiewicz, who taught at Yale
nature, they are less voluble and argu- University from 1998 to 2008, probed
What is an introvert? Generally, intro-
mentative, more prone to listen than these dynamics in an inuential essay,
verts are individuals who embrace soli-
talk, and less likely to toot their The End of Solitude, published in The
tude by spending time alone; process
own horn. Chronicle of Higher Education in 20098:
their thoughts in their head rather than
These two personality traits are gen-
talk them out; focus on depth and not
erally believed to be uniquely human, What does the contemporary self
superciality; are less demonstrative want? The camera has created a
but introversion and extroversion have
emotionally and share personal data culture of celebrity; the computer
been identied in almost every species
with a select few; prefer writing to is creating a culture of connectivity.
of the animal kingdom, all the way
talking; occasionally suffer from people As the two technologies converge
down to fruit ies, one of the favorite
exhaustion and need to retreat into broadband tipping the Web from
subjects of geneticists. In actual experi-
aloneness in order to renew energy and text to image, social-networking
ments, there are fruit ies who sit still in sites spreading the mesh of inter-
clarity.2 As poet and novelist Charles
place, as well as fruit ies that roam connection ever widerthe two
Bukowski put it, People empty me. I
around and explore their environment. cultures betray a common impulse.
have to get away to rell.3 Extroverts are
Some researchers believe these two types Celebrity and connectivity are both
polar opposites of introverts on every
of behaviors constitute different survival ways of becoming known. This is
point. The major difference in introverts what the contemporary self wants.
strategies, each of which has value in
and extroverts, however, is how they It wants to be recognized, wants to
certain situations. Because both can
respond to stimulation. Extroverts crave be connected: It wants to be visible.
confer a Darwinian advantage, they have
more outside stimulation than introverts If not to the millions, on Survivor
become widely distributed in the animal
in order to feel most alive, excited, and or Oprah, then to the hundreds, on
world, including humans.4
happy. Introverts feel more alive when they Twitter or Facebook. This is the
are in quieter environments.4 quality that validates us, this is
how we become real to ourselves
Soon after the terms introvert and THE GREAT CONTEMPORARY TERROR by being seen by others. The
extrovert were popularized by psychiatrist
Introverts are word economists in a great contemporary terror is anon-
Carl Jung in the 1920s and later by the
society suffering from verbal ymity .
MeyersBriggs Type Indicator personal-
diarrhea.5 So we live exclusively in relation to
ity test, a vigorous debate developed
Michaela Chung others, and what disappears from
over which personality trait is better.
Introversion was widely viewed as a Today the tide is running against our lives is solitude. Technology is
taking away our privacy and our
character aw. The tendency toward introverts more powerfully than ever,
concentration, but it is also taking
aloneness, it was claimed, limits one's as social media has transformed our away our ability to be alone.
ability to integrate and perform success- society into an extrovert's paradise. Not Though I shouldn't say taking away.
fully in a competitive world. The Amer- having a personal website presence is We are doing this to ourselves; we
ican Psychiatric Association proposed widely equated with being a nobody. are discarding these riches as fast as
adding introverted personality disorder The obsession with brandingthe we can.