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People Styles session
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“ Making Bad Relationships Good &
Good Relationships Better”
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2/7/2008
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People Style
“Making Bad Relationships Good &
Good Relationships Better”
No wonder we have people problems
What’s style?
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1- Assertiveness:
- Degree to which one's behavior is seen directive or forceful.
- More assertive doesn't mean Aggressive (use of style)
- Less assertive is not Submissive.
Assertiveness
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2- Responsiveness:
• Degree to which one's behavior is seen showing his or her emotions
and demonstrate awareness of others
• More responsive doesn't mean (Let it all hang out).
• Emotionally controlled doesn't mean they don't have Emotions.
Responsiveness
Less Responsive More Responsive
Less responsiveness
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1- Level of Assertiveness
• Does the person show more emotions than half the Population?
2- Level of Responsiveness
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Less responsiveness
Analytical Driver
less assertiveness More assertiveness
Amiable Expressive
More responsiveness
Remember:
• You can't change your dominant style
• Your style is just a part of who you are
• You are different from others in your style (Mohamed Ali and Bill Clinton
are both Expressive but different)
• Accept all other styles
• It takes all' styles to make an effective organization
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“ Styles “
• Driver
1. Very result focus.
2. Goal-oriented.
3. Action takers (even if they are 55% sure )
4. “ You win some , You lose some “
5. Amazingly they tend to change their mind fast.
6. Walk and moves fast than other people.
7. Very serious facial expression.
8. Tend to hide their feeling.
9. Their style tends to intimidate people.
10. Strong eye contact.
11. The most forceful.
12. They look very serious most of the time.
13. Poker face.
• Expressive
1. Most energetic.
2. Like to be the center of attraction
3. They don’t like to spend too long time in one place.
4. Enjoy being where the action is.
5. Always away from their desks.
6. Always using nonverbal communication and gesture.
7. Very strong eye contact.
8. Most outgoing.
9. Relate easily to strangers
10. Have lots of friends.
11. Always invites people to lunch and sports.
12. Prefer work with people.
13. They are dreamer and enjoy high imagination.
14. Hate details, look at the big picture.
15. Impulsive and spontaneous.
16. Live in emotional roller-coaster.
17. Last minute approach at deadline.
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Amiable .
1. Team player.
2. Encourage other to expand on their opinion.
3. Open to opinion.
4. Very generous in their time.
5. Unselfish.
6. Extremely friendly.
7. People oriented tend to built relationship more easily.
8. More interested in hearing your concern then expressing own.
9. Sensitive to other people’s feeling.
10. Perform best if you identify them their role.
11. They might be distracted from work by relation more to people’s
problem.
12. Some are better at creating organization while amiable are better
at maintaining organization.
13. When risk is involved, they delay taking decisions.
14. They tend to prefer to hear from people then reading there memo.
15. Very patient with people and organization.
16. When angry, very slow for forgive and forget.
17. Warm voice low volume, speak slowly.
18. Dress what people like.
19. Tend to avoid direct answer.
20. Dislike to conflict.
21. As manager, they are very tolerating to employees’ inadequate
performance.
22. They avoid use authority at work.
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• Analytical
1. Most perfectionist
2. They want thing to be always right.
3. Set very high standard.
4. Willing to do time consuming work.
5. Seek to achieve and exceed standard.
6. Pay match attention to details.
7. Big in criticism and low on compliment.
8. Vary systemic and well-organized.
9. At best, they built highly effective system.
10. At worst, they generate bureaucracy system.
11. Very task oriented.
12. They want to certain before taking decision.
13. Like to be alone and prefer work alone.
14. Dress conservatively.
15. Body language is very low: speak slowly, less eye contact and facial
expression.
16. Lean back on chair when making decision.
17. They are the quietist. Think before talk.
18. Very slow on deadline. Because the seek perfection.
19. Focus on analysis and then taking decision.
20. Break point into 1st. 2nd, 3rd …..etc.
21. Talk about the fact then the feeling.
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Expressive backup: attack
• Avoid conflict.
• Avoid personal involvement and emotional expression.
• Lake to be alone.
• Being unemotional is better than making scene.
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Damage control:
When you are in backup:
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Always Remember
• Knowing yourself is the first step of building good relationships with
others
• Understanding others style will help you to predict them and build
common ground with them.
• Knowing how you act under stress will help you to manage your
stress and others stress
• Try to determine who do you know adopt which style.
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• Expressive ’s Strengths
• Amiable ’s Strengths
• Analytical ’s Strengths
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STYLES TEST
Less responsiveness
Less assertiveness More assertiveness
More responsiveness
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• How to Flex:
2-Plan: select 2-3 types of behaviors that you could use differently
to get in sync with him/her
3- Apply those changes that you select in your meeting with the person
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• Respect:
Respect because the other individual is a person
• Fairness:
1- Am I using win-win approach (Me & You, not
me or you)
2- Would I be willing to be the recipient of my
action?
• Honesty:
Honest people consistently do three things:
1- Refuse to make misleading information,
don't lie
2- they don't withhold important
information
3- Are genuine, they don't seem to be other than who
they really are
Always Remember
• To build good relations you should acquire 3 abilities:
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Special thanks :
• Mohamed Sobhy Al‐Shony
• Shrief Ali
• Mohamed Abdelhamd
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