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SUNDAY!
CHILD DEDICATIONS
New Members!
Sarah and Jeremy Garner Stefanie and Blake Carter David and Ginger Wedemeyer
Not pictured: Daughter Hennen with Sutton and Eleanor with Caroline
October 22, 2017 October 22, 2017 October 15, 2017
Woodmont Christian Church 615.297.8563 www.woodmontchristian.org 3601 Hillsboro Pike Nashville, Tennessee 37215
Walk Thru Bethlehem Special Needs OUR MIS SION:
Have you ever wanted to have your own business or market? Would you Growing disciples of Christ by seeking God,
like to be a part of something special, wondrous and inspiring? If so, then sharing love, and serving others
please consider helping us out with taking ownership of a Bethlehem
market place shop. The shops are listed below that we need help with.
Shops may be done by an individual or a group of people. Be sure and
see the responsibilities of a shop keeper below. Contact Paul Hardin for OUR CORE VA LUES:
more information at gpaulhardinjr@gmail.com or Welcoming
(615) 641-2287 (leave message if no answer). Outstanding Worship
Census Takers Outreach
Different Traditions
Food Service/Tasting Mission & Ministry
(Ronda Hirst has moved to Atlanta and will come to town to decorate/ On The Move
set up this shop one last time to be able to help someone learn about Nurturing
this shop)
Transforming
Olive Press
Pottery Shop WOODMONTS MINISTERIAL STAFF
Dr. Clay Stauffer, Senior Minister
Dr. C. Roy Stauffer Minister of Adult Education & Church Life
Shop Keepers Responsibilities: Rev. Justin Gung Minister of Children & Congregational Care
1) Setup and decorate their shop Rev. Chris Cox Minister of Youth & Their Families
2) Be available immediately after WTB (approx. 7:15 PM) to undecorate Dr. Donovan McAbee Minister of Spiritual Formation
and pack up their shop Farrell Mason Minister of Family Life & Pastoral Care
3) Submit the form for requested items for next year to Pam Hardin
WOODMONTS PROGRAM STAFF
Thom Schuyler Young Adults, Missions & Outreach Director
Katie Sheridan-Gossage Assistant Youth Ministry Director
Abby McLean Childrens Ministry Director
Michael Graham Music Ministry Director
Andra Moran Creative Director, The Bridge
Stephen Daniel King Worship Leader, The Bridge
www.woodmontchristian.org
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Resentment, Gratitude, and Gaining Perspective
by Clay Stauffer .
On Sunday, we focused on spiritual growth and formation and we talked about Five Basic
Spiritual Moves that all of us should try to make. First, from fear to love. Second, from
sorrow to joy. Third, from turmoil to peace. Fourth, from coldness to kindness. And fifth,
from resentment to gratitude. Nouwen describes spiritual formation this way: Spiritual
formation prepares us for a life in which we move away from our fears, compulsions,
resentments, and sorrows, to serve with joy and courage in the world, even when this leads
us to places we would rather not go. He says, Spiritual formation helps us to see the face of
God in the midst of a hardened world and in our own heart. I want to focus on the fifth move,
from resentment to gratitude because all human beings have to deal with resentment and anger.
Resentment makes spiritual formation very difficult. Resentment is closely tied to anger and envy but it usually
revolves around an unhealthy preoccupation with something that has taken place in the past. Henri Nouwen
defines resentment this way: Resentment is a passion, a paralyzing set of complaints that makes us feel angry
and frustrated with the people and institutions on which we have made ourselves dependent. And although
resentment is less frightening and less visible than the violent outbursts of anger, it is no less destructive. Every
single one of us experiences resentment on some level because its a part of being human. There is a lot of pain,
envy, heartache, fear, inequality, and hurt in this world. Its hard to explain why some people suffer more than
their fair share but pain and struggle is directly tied to the human condition. We cannot escape it. According
to Nouwen, there is only one solution to dealing with resentment and that is gratitude, being thankful for the
blessings we do have. In a world where everybody wants more, more, more, gratitude is becoming less common
and very necessary. Nouwen makes these distinctions between resentment and gratitude: Resentment blocks
action; gratitude lets us move forward toward new possibilities. Resentment makes us cling to negative feelings;
gratitude allows us to let go. Resentment makes us prisoners of our passions. Gratitude helps us to transcend our
compulsions to follow our vocation. Resentment exhausts us by complicated jealousies and ambiguities, stirring
up destructive desires for revenge. Gratitude takes our fatigue away and gives us new vitality and enthusiasm.
Resentment entangles us in endless distractions, pulling us down to banal preoccupations. Gratitude anchors
our deepest self beyond this world and allows us to be involved without losing ourselves. (Nouwen Spiritual
Formation) Simply stated, resentment is unhealthy. Resentment eats us up on the inside. Resentment keeps us
from being at peace.
We are now entering the season of thanksgiving which is a time for all of us to intentionally practice gratitude.
Perhaps the greatest downside of our materialistic culture is that we are so focused on what we dont have that
we dont take the time to be grateful for what we do have. We can resent the fact that others have more and
we feel like we deserve more. But perhaps its our perspective that needs to change. A story is told about a
wealthy father who once took his privileged son for a trip to the country to show him how a poorer family lived.
They spent a few days and nights on the farm of a poor family. On the ride home, he asked his son what he had
learned about how poor people lived. The son responded: I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We
have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported
lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the
whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have
servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our
property to protect us, they have friends to protect them. The boys father was speechless. Then the son quickly
added, Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are.
NEXT MONTH
JOHN GEER
Vanderbilt Professor of Public
Policy & Education
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Spiritual Writing Retreat at Woodmont is November 4
Woodmont is hosting a Spiritual Writing Retreat on Saturday, November 4th from
5 to 9 PM, led by one of todays most accomplished spiritual writers, Robert Benson.
Critically acclaimed in publications as diverse as The New York Times, USA Today,
Publishers and Weekly, Benson is recognized for his lyrical, gentle, humorous writing
and his quiet, humble insight into living contemplatively and prayerfully in the
modern world.
Benson has published more than twenty books ranging from books on prayer and
liturgy and spirituality and vocation, to travel and gardening and baseball and the
Rule of St. Benedict. His books include Between the Dreaming and the Coming True,
Living Prayer, In Constant Prayer, That We May Perfectly Love Thee, Dancing on the Head
Author and speaker Robert Benson of a Pen, and his most recent work Punching Holes in the Dark.
Dinner from Panera and childcare will be included. While there is no cost to attend, please register, so we
can have an accurate headcount for dinner and childcare.
If you have questions about any of these groups or are interested in Wednesday, November 1
starting a new small group, please contact me! Id love to help you 6:15 a.m. Mens Small Group, Room 100
get introduced to one of these fantastic groups of women, or help 7:00 a.m. Original Mens Bible Study, Room 105
you get your vision for a new group launched. 7:00 a.m. Younger Mens Bible Study, Boardroom
5:30 p.m. Grace Notes practice, Kids Commons
I can be reached at annemarie@woodmontcc.org or 615-403-4385. 5:45 p.m. Wednesday Fellowship Dinner, D.H.
MAIN ENTREE:
Oven Baked Pork Chops
Mash Potatoes with gravy
Candied Greens
Breads
VEGETARIAN OPTION:
Grilled Rosemary Tofu & Roasted Carrots
KIDS:
Pulled Pork Sliders