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Daisy Sjolseth
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AP English Literature
12 May 2017
Emotions are hard to define due to their complex nature. Although everyone has
experienced an emotion in their lifetime and is able to understand the general concept, it is
almost impossible to know each emotion, how you react to that emotion, and what you will do in
response. The novel, Americanah, by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, highlights the causes and
consequences of a variety of emotions by following the lives of Ifemelu and Obinze, two native
Nigerians in love. Ifemelu moves to America where she first recognizes what it means to be
Black, and Obinze moves to England illegally where he is forced to experience the hardships of
being undocumented. Through their story, we see the complex relationship between actions and
feelings, and are able to understand why we react to emotions the way we do. Because emotions
are so subjective and personal, the same situations or experiences can cause people to have very
different reactions. In this essay, I will explore some of these factors, specifically morals and
race, that elicit different responses. Then, I will discuss how these emotional reactions can be
used by others to manipulate the decisions that we make, and the way that we see different
Although we can all agree that emotions exist, a lot of people have different opinions on how we
should approach having feelings. If you look at modern parenting books, there are plenty of
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different approaches to raising children. Some believe that you should acknowledge and soothe
all of the emotions that your children are feeling, while others think that coddling will prevent
the child from being on their own in the future. The same difference in opinion applies to
On the extreme end of the scale, there are Stoics. Stoic beliefs include, among many
things, that emotions like fear or envy (or impassioned sexual attachments, or passionate love of
anything whatsoever) either were, or arose from, false judgements and that the sagea person
who had attained moral and intellectual perfectionwould not undergo them (Stanford
Encyclopedia of Philosophy). Basically, they hold that any sort of emotions prevent a person
from making informed and rational decisions. While one could see where they are coming from,
this is an unpopular belief due to the fact that having emotions is so natural. But in the novel
Americanah, we see the main character Ifemelu adhering to this same school of thought. While
looking for work in America, she discovers that it is very hard to be employed without the proper
documentation and citizenship. Because of this, she is forced to accept a job from a tennis coach
who touches her inappropriately, which traumatizes her and causes her to reject all emotions
toward Obinze, the man that she loves, because of her depression. Just as the Stoics, Ifemelu
believes that she would be better off if she didnt feel anything about what just occurred. She
continues to sink deeper into depression and doesnt feel like her emotions have any value,
because she hasnt allowed herself to give them any. Even though she may have thought that this
was a good idea to start with, I believe that it gets to the point where she realizes that emotions
are necessary and healthy in a persons life, and that there is no reason to try to block them out.
Many would say that this is evidence against stoicism, because trying to dismiss emotions can
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lead to even harsher and negative feelings, so they offer a limited method of controlling
emotions.
that emotions are healthy and natural, but should be controlled (Adler 419). This philosophy
follows the beliefs that the Bible seems to encourage as well. By stating Jesus wept in John
11:35, it demonstrates that even the most perfect and heavenly person still has emotions,
showing followers that feelings are extremely normal and acceptable (New International
Version, John. 11.35). The Bible seems to crack down on the negative emotions such as jealousy
or anger. One of the Ten Commandments states that you must not want to take anything that
belongs to another person (Easy-to-Read Version, Exod. 20.17). This is the only Commandment
that isnt focusing on an action, but instead an emotion. It dictates that envy and jealousy are
sins, and because the two are the only emotions mentioned in the Commandments, many might
believe that these are the worst two emotional sins. The other emotion often addressed is anger.
Following the idea that emotions are inevitable, the Bible mentions that in your anger [you
should] not sin, conceding that we will experience the emotion, but the key is to not commit any
actions with that anger in mind. Also, in the same verse, it commands us to not let the sun go
down while you are still angry, and [to] not give the devil a foothold (New International
Version, Ephesians, 4.26-27). Lastly, adding onto this belief, anger is also referenced in the Book
of James, when it says that we should be slow to become angry (James 1.19). In these couple
of verses, it shows the philosophy of the authors: Anger is inescapable, so the real task is to learn
how to control it and know when to let it go. From this message, followers can see that it isnt
the emotions themselves that are harmful, but instead the negative effects of them, such as insults
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or hatred. However, anger might not be able to disappear as easy as the Bible might allow you to
think, which causes people to turn to some possibly controversial methods to help them cope
Medication and therapy are some popular methods that people use to control their
emotions, but some of these methods are constantly questioned by medical professionals,
religious leaders, etc. Some believe that our morals directly contradict the medical methods to
control emotions, but this is constantly disputed because everyone has a different set of morals,
so it can be difficult to come to a consensus. Adler mentions in his chapter on emotion that:
Because they can be ordered when they get out of order, the emotions raise
problems for both medicine and morals. Whether or not there is a fundamental
opposition between the medical and moral approaches to the problem, whether
itself partly responsible for the disorders which psychotherapy must cure, the
emotional disorders call for diagnosis and therapy. Morally, they call for
Basically, Adler is saying that with one method, you may eventually end up needing the other
because they are so closely linked, but the actions that each call for are completely different. This
is seen in the aforementioned novel, Americanah, when Ifemelus nephew, Dike, attempts
suicide. Dikes mother, who is the symbol of Americanization in the novel, believes that the
suicide attempt is due to Dikes depression, which she is attributing to biology and a medical
condition. On the other hand, Ifemelu is sure that the cause of his actions is because he doesnt
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feel like he belongs in his school, community, or America. Aunty Uju wants Dike to go to
therapy and get medicine, taking on the medical approach to controlling emotions. But, Ifemelu
takes the moral approach, saying that the other method is ignoring the cause of the issue. She
thinks that before Aunty Uju turns to medication, she needs to just sit down to talk with Dike and
help him sort out his feelings in order that they can correct what is making him feel so out of
place and depressed, which she believes is his racial differences in America.
Race has a strong influence on the emotions that we feel because it is such a big part of our
identity. Racism is all about emotions. For the oppressor, it is about hate, superiority or prejudice
about the other race. For the oppressed, it is about feeling persecuted, disliked and
misunderstood. This can also lead to anger, fear, and/or indignation. But, race and emotions
dont always have to be negative. Someone can feel proud about their race, they can love a
person that isnt the same color as them, or they can feel a sense of community with people of
their same race. Emotions and race are so closely linked that when one is considering emotion,
they always have to look at the race of the person because it can cause differences in the way that
they react.
In the case of Dike, we can see that he doesnt feel like he belongs in his community
because he is one of the only Black boys in his neighborhood and school. This takes an
incredible toll on his self esteem because he is always feeling like the other in his friend group
and school. He mentions to his aunt that he was accused of hacking the principals computer,
even though he doesnt know the first thing about how to do that. His friends also joke that he is
a drug dealer, when again there is no evidence of him partaking in those activities. He knows that
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this is all occuring because he is Black and because of the stereotypes that accompany his race.
This isnt an uncommon thing, many Black boys (and girls) are accused of crimes that they
didnt commit, or joked about as a criminal because of the color of their skin. But, in Dikes
situation, his mother wont acknowledge that he is a Black man in America. This is troublesome
for Dike because he doesnt identify with his peers which can be detrimental to a young adult
trying to find himself. He doesnt feel like he has a place in any group (Blacks, Whites, nor
Africans), causing him to disassociate with the world (which leads him to his decision to attempt
suicide). This can occur with anyone, and like Dike, have potentially life-threatening effects.
These emotions of isolation and otherness are also shown in the movie, Dear White People,
directed by Justin Simien. As one of the main characters, Lionel, is trying to find himself (just as
Dike did), he is told by many of his classmates that he is either only technically Black or that
he talks white (Dear White People, 1:07:36). Now, although this may seem harmless because its
not really an insult, it can have a lot of negative effects on the character. Just like Dike, he
doesnt feel like he belongs in any group, because he believes that he is too White for Black
people, and too Black for White people. This can also be seen when someone says to a
non-Spanish speaking Latinos that they arent Latinos because they cant speak the language. As
the non-Spanish speaking, Latina blogger, Lisa Quinones-Fontanez, puts it, [she has] struggled
with cultural identity for years and [...] always felt like [she has] never had a place. Dancing
between two worlds in cultural limbo (atypicalfamilia.com). This kind of dilemma can do a lot
of harm for anyone because people can feel as though they are different than everyone else, and
that something is wrong with them. When people find themselves in these situations, some might
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want to succumb to those emotions, but it is healthy and beneficial to be a part of a group where
We all want to feel included, accepted, and wanted; its part of our emotional need of
belonging. This is why we create friend groups, clubs, etc. On a larger scale, this can be seen in
some colleges and universities. There are Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs)
and Hispanic-Serving Institutions (HSIs) that were formed when schools were segregated and
minorities werent allowed into normal colleges. But, now that legal segregation is over, one
may ask, why are these universities still majority Black or Hispanic? This comes from the same
reason that someone might create a club for people who like surfing, they want to be with people
who understand them and wont judge them for this aspect of their life. But, not every Black or
Hispanic attends these universities, so what do they do when they want to feel like they are part
of a community? There are organizations and clubs such as the Black Student Union, Filipino
Student Association, NAACP, and various others that are based on racial partnership and
community. There are also different housing opportunities (an example being the fictional
historically black Armstrong-Parker dorm in Dear White People) that minority students can live
in to be surrounded by people that look like them. This creates that sense of community that so
many desire. When people are surrounded by peers that we know wont make fun of us for the
color of their skin, especially when that is something that they experience on the daily, it is easier
process situations and emotions differently, and usually more positively. This sense of
community is also important because it allows us to connect with people who can understand the
While empathy isnt an emotion in and of itself, it is the ability to understand what
someone else is going through and react with the appropriate emotional response. In our world,
with the extreme diversity of people, it can be difficult, if not impossible, to find someone who
will know exactly what you are going through, but race is a good place to start. Ifemelu from
Americanah has a blog in which she discusses her interactions with race, specifically the subtle
racisms that she has experienced in America. She does this, not only to be a cathartic activity,
like it started, but to be a source of showing people that they have someone who understands
them and to communicate that they are not alone in their struggles. Similarly, in Dear White
People, the main character, Sam, has a radio show titled, Dear White People, where she
discusses the issues of race at the university. She becomes a way for Black students to discuss
their frustrations with their negative experiences and again, to show other students that they are
not alone. Also, in the article, Black twitter? Racial hashtags, networks and contagion, the
author discusses how Baratunde Thurston has highlighted that Blacktags [which are hashtags
that primarily have to do with Black culture or are trending in the Black Twitter community]
'Playing the dozens,' one of the more popular African American language
games, is also a strategic survival tool ... These games are part of the humor that
continues to fulfil the need for a sense of power in the midst of misery, the need
for both a morale booster and amusement in Black culture .... (Sharma 62).
I think that the blog, radio show, and Black Twitter, like stated in the quote, are all ways for
people in the Black community to share their experiences in a safe environment where they can
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relate to others without being judged as they would in person. As Ifemelu, Sam, and Black
Twitter users discuss controversial topics or experiences that they have had due to the color of
their skin, they allow for that community to feel comfortable, safe, and not alone in the
oppression or negative things that they have experienced, which shows to be extremely
important. These differences in our emotional reactions are very important because they can have
Decisions are made in a step by step process that starts off with an emotional trigger. Jason King
in his article, Feelings and Decision Making, outlines the philosophies of Thomas Aquinas and
Bernard Lonergan, how they interact with one another, and relates that to our everyday life. He
says that decisions derive from feelings in a series of four steps. In his words, feelings: a)
frame ones experience in b) an eudaimonistic way and, in doing so, c) propose a script, a
possible course of action, that is then d) evaluated by a judgment of value (King 40-41). In
other words, he states that feelings cause you experience things or events in a specific way,
which then is evaluated to see if that experience will cause happiness, then a series of actions are
proposed, and are decided on according to the values of the individual. He also mentions that
people may differ in their emotional responses to broccoli or chocolate or meat and an
individual may at one time enjoy meat, chocolate, and broccoli and in another state or time be
repulsed by themfeelings arise in response to the object in that persons mind (44). We can
all relate to this; sometimes we may love something and a just a little bit later, it may repulse us.
Martha Nussbaum, an American philosopher, states that feelings are not independent, but instead
gain or lose value depending on the object and/or situation (44). In Americanah, Ifemelu has this
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change in opinions with Obinze. During her time in Africa at the beginning of the book, she is in
love with Obinze and feels comfort around him. But, this changes after she visits the tennis
coach who causes her to feel dirty and disloyal. So, at this point, Ifem shuts off all
communication with him because she feels guilty and sad whenever she thinks of him. This
change in feelings comes from her change in situations, those being before and after she had
relations with the coach, altering her opinions on the person according to the way that she now
feels when she thinks of him. This decision process isnt unknown to advertisers and marketers,
which can allow them to take advantage of our lack of knowledge on our own emotions.
In the commercial world of today, we have to learn to be aware of what we are feeling so
that our emotions wont get the best of us. There are so many goods and services available for us
to buy, that we have to be smart with the money that we spend, and only buy the things that we
can afford and/or that we need. But we dont always adhere by these rules. You may wonder
why you bought that new bedspread when you had a perfectly good one before, or why you
splurged on that hamburger when you werent even hungry. This is mostly due to the way that
advertisers have manipulated your feelings so that you would do what they want, purchase what
By analyzing the way that the majority of the population will react to an advertisement,
companies are able to choose specific and special marketing methods that will benefit them. In
Predictably Irrational, the author, Dan Ariely, brings up the example that even though people
may not buy the most expensive item on the menu, they might buy the second. This helps
companies because the second most expensive item on the menu might be set up to give a larger
profit for the company (Ariely 4). This was most likely done because they probably know most
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people dont like to spend the most of money that they can, but people still like to dine well.
Therefore, by making the most profitable item the second most expensive item, it causes people
to think that they are still eating an enjoyable, high quality meal for less expensive than the
alternative. In other words, the person responsible for this tactic knows that we like to feel happy
and indulge, but at the same time, we dont want to come across as spoiled or spend too much
money. They use this knowledge of the common emotional response to their advantage, having
us buy their most profitable food. One way that we as consumers might be able to avoid these
tricks would be to gain some emotional intelligence. This refers to being able to recognize,
understand, and process the emotions of yourself and others, understand what caused them, and
how those interact with the actions that we take (Emotional Intelligence). If we are able to see
why our emotions cause us to act the way that we do, it will help us to see which actions are
justified and which ones are engineered by others to make us act that way. Emotional
intelligence wont just help with understanding what we should purchase or not purchase, but it
will also help us to understand why we see an issue or piece of history the way that we do.
Many times, media and other sources of information will mention or omit certain facts or
perspectives so that you feel a specific way about a situation or topic. In a lot of circumstances,
they will do something known as victim blaming where they make the person who suffered
seem like the bad guy or imply that it was the victims fault. This occurs in a lot of rape cases.
Many will say that the assualted was asking for it because they were drunk or because they
wore provocative clothing. By mentioning these small facts (or opinions), the source is able to
skew the viewers perception on the situation. The viewer might not sympathize as much with
the victim because they usually trust the news source or testimony, which can worsen any case
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that the victim might be pursuing against the rapist, and can cause them to also feel shameful
with themselves. This isnt just prevalent in rape cases, but can be seen in the stories of police
shooting victims as well. Usually when there is a controversial shooting, you will see news
sources mention that the victim was either a drug dealer or that they had been caught up in crime
before. This is helps the case of the police officer because it lessens the innocence of the victim,
therefore also lessening the sympathy that the victim receives. By lessening our emotional stake
in the issue, it increases the chances of the shooter getting off clean because we might blame
them less. By manipulating our emotions, these sources of information are able to change the
way that we react to a certain situation, which can be used in their favor, such as helping the
CONCLUSION
We, as consumers and humans, have to be aware of our emotions and how they influence our
actions. If we are able to do this, we will be less susceptible to any manipulation that could either
influence us or others negatively. In order for this, we have to understand where our emotions
come from and what could have shaped them to be what they are. Racial perspectives, in
particular, can cause us to see situations from a different lens. Additionally, our moral beliefs and
philosophies can cause also us to frame the situation in a variety of ways. Because of these
factors and elements, our reactions to situations and circumstances can differ greatly due to their
unique meanings to all of us, as seen through the novels, movie, and other sources mentioned.
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Dear White People. Directed by Justin Simien, performances by Tyler James Williams, Tessa
Thompson, Kyle Gallner, Teyonah Parris, and Brandon P Bell, Lionsgate, 2014.
2017.
King, Jason. "Feelings and Decision Making." New Blackfriars, vol. 97, no. 1067, Jan. 2016, pp.
39-51.
Lisa [Lisa Quinones-Fontanez]. What You May Not Know About Non-Spanish Speaking
Sharma, Sanjay. "Black twitter? Racial hashtags, networks and contagion." New Formations,
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