FOREPLAY TECHNIQUES AND TIPS

4 VITAL INGREDIENTS OF OUR

FOREPLAY TECHNIQUES AND
TIPS.
This article is for men.

Undoubtedly, there are foreplay techniques and tips that

women can apply with their husbands, but lets face it: men
often need more help!

Having said that, we do have to mention that these

suggestions work for men and women alike!

TIPS

T is for TIME

The greatest, most enjoyable things in life are often slow in

coming! Taking time is without question the simplest, yet
most overlooked ingredient to foreplay techniques and tips!

No doubt youve heard the expression,Women are like

Slow-Cookers, Men are Like Microwaves. That pretty well
says it all!
 Men, begin byslowlyundressing your wife while you
again,slowlycaress her cheeks, arms, and
shoulders.
Very slowlykiss her on her lips, cheeks, neck, and
face.
Keep a clock in viewand dont you dare stop or speed
up, until at least 20 minutes have gone by!! SLOWLY
I is for Increased Awareness

The next installment of ourtips for foreplayis also a no-

brainer for someone attempting to bolster sexual success.
Simple, yet powerful:

Increase your awareness of your partner! Sexual, emotional,

intellectual, and spiritual Intimacy will never improve if you
are self-absorbed, or selfish in your outlook. Rather,
increase your awareness of your wife.

Foreplay is not about gettingyousexually gratifiedits all

about preparingyour wifefor the enjoyments of sexual
intimacy. Your ultimate goal is your wifes satisfaction!!

What is she enjoying right now? Ask her to verbalize

what feels good to her.
Take notice of her breathing; carefully watch how her
body responds to your touch. This will indicate whether
foreplay needs to be prolonged past the mandatory 20
minutes :-).
P is for Pleasure

Whats important to remember here, is that itsyour wifes

pleasurewere talking about! Never mind your pleasure
things will work out great for you later
 Gentle kissing, eventually leading to greater passion, is
always a favourite among our foreplay techniques and
tips. Read the related articles about kissing:
1. Kissing Skills
2. How to French Kiss
3. Good Kissing Tips
4. Good Kissing Techniques
Talk to your wife, asking what you might do to help her
feel good!
Question her whether you need to repeat the touch, the
kiss, or the caress again
Gently talk and get the feedback you need to know you
are giving her pleasure. Do what she asks fornot
necessarily what turns you on.
1. Does she want a massage?
2. Perhaps she gets a lot of pleasure from a hand or foot
rub.
3. Does she like spending time cuddling and kissing?
4. Compliment her and express your love verbally.
S is for Stimulate

This fourth component of foreplay techniques and tips is

critical.

Discover what parts of your wifes body are sensitive to

touch and will stimulate her sexually. Areas might include:

lips, neck, breasts, nipples, tummy, back, buttocks, and

thighs.

Obviously, some of these areas will be pleasurable during

foreplay-others wont be, so ask!
When your wife is sufficiently stimulated (after 20 minutes of
foreplay!), begin gentle stimulation of the clitoris. Every
woman is different to some degree, so ask her how it feels
and make sure stimulation remains pleasurable for her. Use
a side-to-side motion with the three middle fingers of your
hand to rub the clitoris; ensure there is plenty of lubrication,
and that there is just the right amount of pressure on the
clitoris.

Time
Increased Awareness
Pleasure
Stimulate

1. KISSING SKILLS HELP SPICE UP

YOUR MARRIAGE
Good kissing skills help pave the way to passionate sexual
intimacy. Biologists and physicians will explain to couples
how thousands of nerve endings in our lips are responsible
for the remarkable, heightened sensations. We may not
understand all the science related to it, but can all vouch for
the amazing things that happen when lovers improve what
comes naturally!

We need to become better at every aspect of our

relationships as husbands and wives. Believe me when I
say that even a casual exploration of good kissing
techniques reveals all the information anyone needs to get
better-all we need is practice!

A few thoughts for your consideration:

Kissing is the gateway to romance and passion; a

tender pathway from one heart to another.
Why stop at the lips? Have some fun and experiment!
French or deep kissing involves using your tongue to
lick, suck and caress your lovers lips, mouth, and
tongue. Again, as mentioned in other places, use your
imagination!
Husbands, lovemaking must be about pleasuring your
wifenot just you! Soft, gentle, and slow are the key
words to remember.
It is important that you clearly state your likes, dislikes,
comfort level, and desires with your spouse concerning
every aspect of lovemaking.

2. HOW TO FRENCH KISS

Learning how to french kiss provides an intimate,

passionate kiss where partners use their tongues, lips, and
mouths. Since God designed both the lips and tongue to be
highly sensitive and packed with nerve endings, a couple
learning how to French kiss will enjoy an exciting, sensual
experience!

Wikipedia defines a French Kiss in the following way: A

passionate romantic or sexual kiss in which one participants
tongue touches the others tongue (or lips) and usually
enters his/her mouth.
HOW TO FRENCH KISS
1. Prepare.
Always make sure you have fresh breath, clean teeth,
and have focused on personal hygiene.
2. Moisten Lips.
Rubbing your tongue over your lips is enoughbut
dont do it just before you kiss! Using lip balm would be
helpful.
3. Tilt Your Head Slightly.
As you approach one another for the actual kiss, avoid
a nose-to-nose collision by slightly tilting your head to
one side.
4. Begin With a Gentle Closed-Mouth Kiss.
Slow and gentle are the operative words here! Dont
rush, lunge, or attack! Using variations of soft, brief
kisses. Withdrawing slightly and engaging again
somewhat tentatively. Closing your eyes as you begin
kissing prevents you partner from having to look cross
eyed at you!
5. Begin Touching With Your Tongue.
While kissing, open your lips slightly, and gently touch
your partners lips with your tongue, or tentatively slip
the end of your tongue through your partners lips. If
your partner does not respond in similar fashion, or if
they pull away slightly, you must save your French
kissing for another time when your partner is more
prepared.
6. Tongue Exploration.
With the assurance that your spouse is enjoying French
kissing, try opening your mouth wider and moving your
tongue a little more into their mouth. The key is mutual
explorationwhat does your partner enjoy? Too much,
too far, too fast, too wetall are turn-offs that can make
 this type of open mouth kissing unpleasant.Because
this open mouth kissing produces a lot of saliva,
remember to swallow occasionally.
7. Variation.
Using a variety of kissing techniques, and being aware
of your partners responses are paramount. Its about
having fun, and developing intimacy with your husband
or wifeso there is no right or wrong! Whats important
is your partners enjoyment.
8. The Purpose.
Mutual pleasure and the development of intimacy are
the consequencesbut the purpose is to bring
pleasure to your partner. It is to demonstrate to your
wife or husband that you cherish and honour them.

3. GOOD KISSING TIPS (KISSING

201)
Tips on kissing!? Why should couples in love even bother
learning about good kissing tips? Why not simply
experiment and learn by trial-and-error? The answer is
straightforward: it is such an extremely intimate physical and
emotional expression of affection. Good kissing tips can
help us gain some confidence, so we can better focus on
our partners experience, rather than our own self-
consciousness.

#1. Setting the Stage

Tips on Kissing #1: Hygiene is Critical!

1. It is critical for you to have good teeth, fresh breath,

a fragrant scent and attention to personal hygiene!
Is this too obvious for you? If so, please
understand it speaks to a larger, more important
issue: honouring your partner! This motivation
cultivates an attitude that makes you highly
attractive! However, tips are futile unless theyre
accompanied by an attractive, winsome attitude
that says, How can I cherish you?
#2. Focus on Your Partner

Tips on Kissing #2: This Isnt Just For You!

1. Obviously, kissing is one of the most enjoyable,

intimate pastimes a couple can experience. Think
about your partner, and not just about what feels
good to you! Go slowly; dont hurry or rush. Relax
(as much as you can!), and be aware of how your
partner is feeling. Women often appreciate kissing
more because of the emotional bond, and not just
the adrenaline rush and eager anticipation of more
to come.
#3. Use Body Language Effectively

Tips on Kissing #3: Let Your Body Language Speak!

1. Your partner may very well respond to your lead:

are you relaxed? Begin your kiss with suitable
physical contact: drawing close and hugging,
snuggling, enjoying the build up of physical and
emotional intimacy by close proximity. Before you
kiss, smile broadly to communicate to your partner
 the joy and value youre experiencing because of
them. Gently hold your partners face in your hands
(dont cover their ears, some people find that
annoying!), or gently place your hands on your
partners back or sides. Tilt your head slightly, so
as your heads approach each other contact is
made with lips and not noses!

#4. How You Start Matters!

Tips on Kissing #4: Gentle and Slow to Start

1. Briefly touch (not attack) the lips, gentle, brief, as

you begin, before you start longer kisses. Closing
eyes at this point allows you to focus on the
sensations of your lips meeting; remember, gentle
and simple, lips to lips. Dont be in a hurry! Most
men experience a rush of adrenaline that makes
them want to accelerate towards sex. Women, on
the other hand, need a much longer time to
prepare for sex than men.
#5. Talk, Talk, Talk!

Tips on Kissing #5: Its About Communication!

1. Some types of communication are definitely more

enjoyable than others! Yes, you are communicating
while you kiss! The non-verbal type is taking place
as you kiss, hug, snuggle, and touch each other.
Dont forget the verbal type as well: talk to each
other! Expressing love and verbalizing those
romantic feelings enhances intimacy on numerous
levels: physically, emotionally, intellectually and
also spiritually.
#6. An International Flavour

Tips on Kissing #6: French Kissing

1. So far, kisses have been with closed lips. By

focusing on your partner, you will know how her
experience has been to this point based on how
she has responded to you. Proceed by tentatively
parting your lips, and softly sliding the tip of your
tongue along your partners lips. Then, gently push
the tip of your tongue against your partners lips.
Do not force your tongue into her mouth: wait,
withdraw, and determine your partners response.
For more details on French Kissing, seeKissing 301.

Whether you are in a new relationship or been married

many years, using these good kissing tips may help
you and your partner experience a deeper level of
intimacy. Remember, kissing is also an important part of
foreplay, so using good kissing tips will also improve
you and your spouses sexual intimacy.

4.GOOD KISSING TECHNIQUES

GOOD KISSING TECHNIQUES ARE FUN TO LEARN!

And, between husband and wife, there is no wrong way to

kiss. Everyone is different, and enjoys different things; what
is important is that you and your partner are pleasing each
other. Good kissing techniques involve using variation: begin
with a small kiss, and work gradually into a French kiss;
perhaps gently suck on your partners upper and then lower
lips, and then back to the other types. Men seem to enjoy
kissing their wives with eyes open: the meeting of eyes is so
exciting!

1. Fresh Breath.
This is vital; nothing kills a romantic kiss more than bad
breath.
2. Moist Lips.
Your lips need to be moist when you kiss, so they will
move easily over your partners. Keep lips healthy with
a moisturizer!
3. Eyes Open.
Many couples close their eyes as they kiss; however,
you may find it very exciting to look into each others
eyes, enjoying the intimacy of the moment.
4. Closed or Open Lips.
Kissing mom or dad is definitely a closed lips, pucker-
up type of kiss! For your lover, placing your slightly
opened lips over theirs is a great way to begin a
romantic session of kissing.
5. French Kissing.
French or deep kissing involves touching tongues and
using your tongue to enter your partners mouth. This
type of kiss requires your lips to be open a bit more,
allowing you to move your tongue to gently push
through your partners lips and touch their tongue. Dart
your tongue in and out, circling your partners, or simply
touch or tease; have fun! Be careful not to push your
tongue too far into your partners mouth. It is important
to go very slowly, and wait for your partner to respond.
Slow and gentle is always the way to proceed with
kissing!
 6. Suck or Nip Kissing.
Instead of French kissing with open mouth, a gentle
sucking or biting of your partners lips can be very
exciting. The key words are gentle and not for long, and
go back to another type of kissing.
7. Gentleness.
The fact is that men are usually too forceful, and too
fast. Gentleness! Patience!
A Final Suggestion.To help your partner improve in their
kissing techniques, take control and kiss the way you would
love to be kissed!