Professional Documents
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Two of the topics frequently requested by people who take our survey are "Balancing
Life and Work" and "Stress Management." This month we offer some tools to assess
how balanced your life is and tips for avoiding job burnout. This material is adapted
from a recent Victim Advocate training institute held by the MADD Orange County and
MADD Los Angeles chapters and used with permission. In addition, we offer a guest
article with tips on organizing your desk to exert some control over office chaos that
contributes to daily work overload.
Life Inventory
There are four areas to this life inventory: healthy work, family, play and self.
Put the number that best fits you in the blank beside each statement. At the end of each
area you will get your total score by adding the eight numbers in each area and putting
the sum in the blank at the end of the area.
Area 2: Family
Area 3: Play
Area 4: Self
1. _____ I plan time each day just for me to do whatever I want to do.
2. _____ For fun I have a hobby or recreation that I enjoy.
3. _____ I take time out each week for my spiritual development through activities
such as worship, inspirational readings, meditation or a 12-step program.
4. _____ I eat nutritional, well-balanced meals.
5. _____ I make sure I get adequate rest.
6. _____ I engage in daily physical exercise.
7. _____ I send myself positive mental messages and try to look for the best in
myself.
8. _____ I make sure I get my personal needs met.
Scoring:
1. Using the Balance Wheel of Life that follows, put an 'X' on the number in each
area that corresponds with your total score.
2. Draw a line from that number to the center of the wheel.
3. Then darken the entire area of the circle from your total score back to the number
"8".
4. Repeat these steps for all four areas of the wheel.
5. The part of the wheel that has the biggest shaded area is the area in which you are
most balanced.
6. The part that is less complete is the area of your life that may need attention.
Are You in Danger of Burning Out?
Your Job
1. _____ Are you overloaded with work?
2. _____ Are you denied time off -breaks, lunch time, sick leave, vacations?
3. _____ Are you required to work long shifts or frequent overtimes?
4. _____ Are you provided with too little training in interpersonal skills?
5. _____ Do you lack clear guidelines for your job?
6. _____ Does your job entail so many different tasks that you feel fragmented and
overwhelmed?
7. _____ Is your pay too low?
8. _____ Are you lacking enough funds to accomplish agency goals?
9. _____ Do you lack access to a social/professional support group?
10. _____ Do you spend considerable time with fellow staff after hours?
Your Attitude:
1. _____ Does excessive paperwork seem to keep you from doing a good job?
2. _____ Does it seem like you have to make all the decisions around the office?
3. _____ Do your boss's skills seem to be totally inadequate for that position?
4. _____ Are you sometimes confused about whether you should be helping people
or controlling them?
5. _____ Does it seems that people in distress are usually too upset to make
important decisions?
6. _____ Are you emotional needs met almost entirely by your job and interactions
with colleagues?
7. _____ Do you feel you have to do everything you are asked on the job?
8. _____ Do you feel there is a rule for every situation and every situation fits a
rule?
9. _____ Does it seem hopeless to try to change the system?
10. _____ Do you feel you must respond to all requests of your clients and your
administration?
Your Behavior:
1. _____ Is it difficult for you to empathize with clients about their problems?
2. _____ Do you seem to categorize clients rather than listen to their individual
needs?
3. _____ Do you consistently use labels when discussing your clients?
4. _____ Do you enjoy "sick" humor about clients with other staff.
5. _____ Do you try to avoid clients and co-workers?
6. _____ Do you apply the rules more rigidly than you used to?
7. _____ Do you generally seem to express negative attitudes?
8. _____ Have you been increasing your use of tobacco, drugs and/or alcohol?
9. _____ Do you miss work frequently?
10. _____ Are you always watching the clock?
Scoring:
Is it happening to you? Worn out, exhausted, tired, not wanting to get up in the morning,
drained, unable to see relief in sight? If this sounds like you, you may be falling victim to
burnout
"In today's high pressure world, burnout is often referred to as 'the disease of our times',
but few people are able to recognize it and even fewer understand its causes and the
preventative measures that can be taken to avoid or lessen its impact," says clinical social
worker Jackie Price.
"Individuals suffering from burnout frequently tell themselves, 'I must be all things to all
people,' or 'To be a worthwhile employee I must work long hours and take work home.'
Given these beliefs, they enter into a vicious cycle. It often goes something like this: 'I
am too tired to do what I should be doing so I will slack off and let some rest.' Followed
by, 'I am not doing what I expect of myself and need to work harder.' Followed by, 'I am
pushing myself too hard and need to slow down.' On and on it goes in a downward
spiral. Because it is difficult to stop this downward spiral, prevention is the best cure,"
says Price.
Several personality types that are highly susceptible to burnout include the worker who
tends to take on too much, for too long, too intensely; the worker whose needs become
secondary to his work, using work as a substitute for real life; and the worker who is so in
need of control that he never feels anyone else can do anything, as well as he can. These
individuals are often placing themselves under high levels of stress, performing
unpleasant tasks, unable to see success in their work, isolated, and unwilling, to ask for
help.
During periods of high demand they excel, but as the demand keeps up, they begin to
show sips of wear. "Learning to cope with the stress associated with work and home is
also beneficial. It is also important to remember that the world has changed. The
standards and attitudes instilled by your parents may need modification in today's world.
Working in a demanding and changing environment takes energy and stamina," says
Price. If you are burned out, you won't survive long. You will find yourself becoming
disillusioned with your work and your life. The following actions can reduce your stress
level in the workplace and in many other aspects of your life:
• Distinguish between what you can change and what you can't; accept the givens.
• Establish a priority list of job tasks and learn to delegate.
• Mix up stress and non-stress projects.
• Set limits.
• Build a support system of co-workers and friends.
• View yourself as having alternatives and choices.
• Take things less personally.
• Re-examine your values - clarify what is important in the roles you play.
• Recognize internal (shoulds, oughts) sources of stress.
• Provide your own reinforcements.
• Acknowledge at the end of the day, each week, what you did that was good.
Some of these questions are directed specifically toward counselors, those who help
others or who are in support roles. This includes most supervisors, managers and
executives, who must frequently deal with the stress of co-workers or employees.
Change the words to fit your own situation.
Research and experience shows that when people with anger problems change their self-
talk, their anger DE-ESCALATES and they regain control. When you feel yourself
starting to get angry, take a TIME OUT and read these statements to yourself.