Creating Your Preferred Reality
J.M. Setlodi
J. M. Setlodi (Justice) is a hands-on
metaphysical student. He is a
meditator and author by day and a
reader by night.
Justice started meditating in 2005,
with the aim of reducing stress and
living a more joyous life. Little did he
know that this will lead to a spiritual
journey of discovery and creativity. He
is constantly working on his ability to
strengthen his connection to universal
knowledge. He is able to connect to
his higher self and retrieve information
that he uses for writing books and
online courses. To date, he has written
three books: How to Use Mind Power
to Lose Weight and Stay Young; The
Ultimate Guide to Manifesting, and
Believing Is Seeing all available on
Amazon.com. The Ultimate Guide to
Manifesting has just recently been
translated to Mandarin Chinese and is
available on Amazon.com (China) as
well as Douban and JingDong.
He also manages his own blog, which
is a good source of information
covering topics in the metaphysical
space.
His aim is to awaken and inspire every
person he interacts with.
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Creating preferred reality abstract: This article touches
on the fundamental steps required to achieve every-
thing you want. You will have an opportunity to learn
how to visualize and create your personal vision, which
includes all the important components of your life and
careerwho you want to be, what you want to do, how
you want to feel, what you want to own, with whom you
want to associate, and so forth. This article will also ex-
plain how you create your reality 100 percent, whether
it is a wanted or an unwanted reality. How you can use
your excitement as a leverage toward creating the life
that you prefer and use it as a tool to align you to your
purpose.
Keywords: affirmation, anything is possible, blessing in
disguise, consciousness, create, desire, empowerment,
excitement, future, inspiration, knowledge, law of
attraction, life, LOA, manifest, metaphysics, mind,
motivation, paradigm shift, personal development,
positive, prefer, reality, self-help, self-improvement,
success, success principles, vision, wealth
Your Personal Vision
Your personal vision is a picture of your true self in the
future. This, as is usual, includes all the important com-
ponents of your life and career; who you want to be,
what you want to do, how you want to feel, what you
want to own, and with whom you want to associate. Ba-
sically, your personal vision is a snapshot of the things
that excite you the most. Your vision guides your life and
provides the direction necessary to chart the course of
your days and the choices you make about your life.
A vision is like a compass that guides and directs you
toward your reality. Many people go through life with-
out a definite vision and often wonder why their reality
is not as they want it to be. When clarifying your vision,
you begin to determine the reality that you prefer. Your
current reality didnt happen by default. It is through
your conscious or unconscious mind that you created
your reality. In that event, how do you create a reality
that you prefer?
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Creating your own reality according to
preference involves a slight shift in percep-
tion. You already create your own reality
unconsciously and now all you need to do
is take responsibility for creating your re-
ality according to your preference. In the
past, you have been creating your reality
in auto-pilot mode, being unaware of your
thoughts and feelings.
From this point forward, you must base
the creation of your reality on the things
that excite you the most. Remember, your
excitement is who you choose to be in this
life. This applies to the ultimate exciting
thing that you feel you may ever do and it
also applies to available things at any given
moment using that vibration. That excite-
ment is there to determine what is repre-
sentative of you so that you can act upon
that option with integrity. Acting with in-
tegrity means acting as though you are in-
tegrated with all things.
Align yourself with the ultimate exciting
thing that directly affects what occurs in the
moment. This allows what happens at any
given moment to be a stepping stone toward
your ultimate exciting thing. If you want to
create your reality consciously according to
what you prefer, you must acknowledge the
thing that gives you the ultimate excitement.
You must clearly define your intention or
the vision which represents the purposes or
general themes in your life.
Through your alignment with the thing
that gives you the ultimate excitement, your
moment-to-moment reality begins to reflect
this alignment. When you decide to establish
your specific vision, each moment has some-
thing directly to do with that vision. What
excites you at any given moment will now
change, for those things that excite you will
now be representative of the path of least re-
sistance toward that most exciting thing. Use
this as a compass for directing you to where
these moments will ultimately lead.
Exercise 1.1
Answer the following question. Please
allow your mind to furnish you with
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whatever comes up without any judgment
or analysis.
Close your eyes.
Allow your imagination to answer the
following question in whatever form it
comes. Just note what comes up for you.
WHAT TRULY EXCITES YOU THE MOST?
Allow yourself to breathe and provide
any symbol or impression that comes up.
Allow a moment...
Some people answer the question by
saying they do not know what excites them
the most. When you say that you do not
know what excites you most, you withhold
your ability to access what you already
know.
If you havent or couldnt find the an-
swer or you cant imagine anything that
excites you, the reason could be:
1. The judgment of that thing by your
society: You are buying into the judgment
about the exciting thingthat society seems
to frown upon. The societys judgment can-
not have an effect on you until you match
or create your version of their judgment in
the form of self-judgment.
2. Fear that you cant achieve what ex-
cites you: The fact that it excites you,
is an indication of your prerequisite abil-
ity to do that thing. Your excitement tells
you that you have the ability to succeed
in doing this thing. Though it may not be
obvious at the moment how this thing can
come about, your excitement tells you it
absolutely can!
3. The idea that you will not be able to
handle the power that comes with
the achievement or fulfillment of
this thing that excites you the most:
Remember, there is nothing that you can
ever create and not be able to handle it.
Everything that exists has been created
and it belongs.
The message that your excitement
delivers:
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1. It tells you that you CAN do that thing
2. It tells you that when doing that thing
you will have more than enough power
to continue to do that thing and that that
power can never overcome you.
Understand that although you perceive
yourself as physical matter, you are en-
ergy. You are consciousness itself. You are
a frequency of energy. When you establish
your clear vision, you confirm that the
frequency of your reality is aligned to the
frequency of your desire. This is not just
a mental exercise to clarify and establish
your clear intention, it is the first step that
sets up the energy template that your real-
ity grows upon.
Clarifying Your Vision
If you are ready to acknowledge what ex-
cites you, what moves you, you are clar-
ifying your vision. It tunes you to the
preference of what currently exists in your
reality. Your willingness to allow yourself
to be aware of what excites you the most
sets up the vibration that allows your life
to fall into place. This happens through co-
incidence, through the strangest of events
as well as through the obvious cause of
events. You are already doing this in vari-
ous forms and you already reaffirm and re-
assert some intention.
When you say I cannot do the things
that excite me or I cannot achieve the
things that excite me, you are actually
establishing the vision. Perhaps this is
not according to your preference, but
nevertheless, it is a statement by you.
So when you say I cannot achieve the
things that excite me, you are clarifying
a vision that lays down the foundation
for a reality, that results in the effect of
being unable to do what excites you. This
is what you are continually stating as your
belief and sets up corresponding emotions,
thoughts, and actions. You are already
using the vision or intention.
When we think, we create either a
pleasant or unpleasant image. We imagine
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and we start to visualize the image. This
image will cause vibrations in our bodies.
Thereafter the vibrations will cause emo-
tions. If the vibrations are caused by an un-
pleasant image, they will lead to negative
emotions. Conversely, if the vibrations are
caused by a pleasant image, the result will
be positive emotions.
Negative emotions will create a negative,
undesirable, or unwanted reality whereas
positive emotions will result in a desirable
reality.
When you establish clear intentions, you
validate and act according to the new ap-
proach. You automatically distance your-
self from the old approach by not running
from it, but by approaching it with a new
frame of reference. You automatically dis-
tance yourself from the negative or from
the opposite of what you prefer. You should
always try and avoid fixating or obsessing
about your vision, but check in to see if
you can advance your vision in that given
moment. If, at any given moment, you are
aligning things to your vision that dont ex-
cite you, feel free to alter your route and
do something else that excites you. Use this
excitement as a reminder that, in order to
achieve your vision, you need to act on
more than one thing that excites you.
Allow the excitement to become a mech-
anism which you continue to maintain as
a clear vision while acting on the things
that excite you at that moment. Try to
do the things that excite you at a particu-
lar moment, and use this excitement as
a reminder of your clarified vision. This
creates an exciting and ecstatic life that
replaces your old momentum with a
seemingly new preferable momentum.
Creating Your Reality
What does creating your reality mean?
Plenty of people believe they have little say
over their reality. This answer is not 100
percent true, but contains some truth. Cre-
ating your reality means much more than
a little degree of contribution. It means
you create ALL of your reality, preferable
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