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PUBLISHERS Contents
Kathy I. Regan 1
publisher@ourberkshiretimes.com 4 art, culture & entertainment
FUN THINGS TO DO
Kevin J. Regan
kevin@ourberkshiretimes.com TONY DITERLIZZI
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8 love & romance special
EDITORIAL
IS LOVE REALLY ALL YOU NEED?
Kathy I. Regan
editor@ourberkshiretimes.com BUSINESS SPOTLIGHTS
WINTER GIFT GUIDE
Proofreader
Rodelinde Albrecht
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12 food & drink
A WINTER SALAD
DESIGN
Magazine Design/Layout 14 animal talk
Kathy I. Regan RABBITS WILL CHEW
Brianna I. Regan
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Account Representatives INDOOR SUCCULENTS
Kevin J. Regan DRONES ARE HERE TO STAY
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20 health & wellness
Debra Johnson
debra@ourberkshiretimes.com MERCURY AMALGAM FILLINGS
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COVER ILLUSTRATION SEW MUCH FUN!
“Never Abandon Imagination,” 2017, BUSINESS SPOTLIGHTS
by Tony DiTerlizzi, www.diterlizzi.com
30 have you heard?
New York Times 31 featured advertisers
bestselling author
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ON THE COVER - “Never Abandon Imagination,” 2017, by Tony DiTerlizzi.
books for nearly
Colored pencil and acryla gouache on plate Bristol. Illustration for
two decades. From
Norman Rockwell Museum exhibition. ©Tony DiTerlizzi.
his fanciful picture
books such as The Our BerkshireTimes magazine has been proudly created without Wi-Fi since it
Spider and The Fly was first published in 2009. This publication is printed with soy ink on Forest
(Caldecott Honor), Stewardship Council® certified paper. We distribute bimonthly (six issues per
to chapter books like Kenny & The Dragon, year) and most of our editorial content is contributed by our community members.
DiTerlizzi imbues his stories with rich
imagination. With Holly Black, he created The All content in Our BerkshireTimes™ is accepted in good faith. We do not necessarily
Spiderwick Chronicles, which has sold millions advocate and cannot be held responsible for opinions expressed or facts supplied by
our authors, illustrators, and advertisers. We reserve the right to refuse advertising for any
of copies worldwide and has been adapted into reason. For printing errors of the publisher’s responsibility, liability is limited to the cost of the
a successful feature film. www.diterlizzi.com, ad space in which it first appeared. Unless otherwise noted, we use a Creative Commons
email: studio@diterlizzi.com License in place of a standard copyright.
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“Never Abandon Imagination: from a friend, or buy it at Guido’s at 10 percent off). We’ll also have
some key ingredients from the book at 10 percent off for the month.
The Fantastical Art of Tony DiTerlizzi”
Try out a few recipes, and pick a favorite to bring to the potluck. Let us
When: Now through Monday, May 28, 2018 know what it is! Enjoy a feast with all the cookbook club members. We’ll
Where: Norman Rockwell Museum, 9 Glendale Road/ Route 183, announce the next month’s book, and raffle off a copy. Send an email to
Stockbridge, MA achernila@guidosfreshmarketplace.com so we know you’re participating.
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Visit the Norman Rockwell Museum in Stockbridge, MA, to view an
exhibition of works by Our BerkshireTimes magazine’s current cover artist, The Constitution and the Presidency
New York Times #1 bestselling author and illustrator Tony DiTerlizzi. Best When: Saturday, January 20, 2018, 1pm
known for cowriting and illustrating The Spiderwick Chronicles, the hugely Where: Berkshire Athenaeum, One Wendell Avenue, Pittsfield, MA
popular series of books, Tony DiTerlizzi has built a career centered around Cost: Free
imagination. From his first job illustrating for the fantasy role-playing game
Dungeons & Dragons in 1992 through his current project, The Broken Local author and BCC professor James Arpante will discuss “The
Ornament, DiTerlizzi infuses his work with a sense of wonder and innocence Constitution and the Presidency.” This program is approved for Forum
that has affected millions of readers. Join us for engaging lectures, fascinating Credit for Berkshire Community College Students. Free and no registration
programs, drop-in art classes, family days, special exhibition tours, and required. Sponsored by the Friends of the Berkshire Athenaeum. (413)
gaming at the museum with “Roleplay! Dungeons & Dragons,” based on 499-9480. www.pittsfieldlibrary.org
this exhibition of Tony DiTerlizzi’s fantastical art. www.nrm.org
Beekeeping and Organic Solutions
Guido’s Fresh Marketplace When: Saturday, January 27, 2018, 10am-2pm
Cookbook Club Potluck Where: Berkshire Botanical Garden, 5 West Stockbridge Road,
Stockbridge, MA
When: The last Tuesday of each month in the Great Barrington store,
Cost: $5 - $10
and the last Thursday of each month in the Pittsfield store.
Where: Guido’s Fresh Marketplace, 760 South Main Street, Great The honeybee faces many affronts to its immune system in these days of
Barrington, MA, and 1020 South Street, Pittsfield, MA Varroa mites and climate destabilization. The so-called colony collapse
Cost: Free disorder now facing beekeepers makes it all the more imperative that
local beekeepers, farmers, gardeners, and homeowners learn healthy
Do you have a stack of cookbooks on your nightstand? Do your ears ways to assist the honeybee and other pollinators. Following this class,
perk up at words like labneh, spätzle, and soufflé? It sounds like you participants are welcome to stay to meet and discuss beekeeping
should join the Guido’s Cookbook Club! Here’s how it works: Get your with others. Light refreshments will be provided. (413) 298-3926,
hands on a copy of the book of the month (from the library, borrow www.berkshirebotanical.org
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Join us for a craft and cooking project! In this workshop, we’ll be melting
delicious Equal Exchange chocolate that will be transformed into
beautiful, edible mandalas. We will use seeds, dried berries, and cereal
to create these tasty works of art. Finished chocolates can be taken
home or gifted to your valentine! While the chocolates are cooling, we
will be making a sweetheart soda using fizzy water, fruit, and fruit juice.
Please note, this will be a nut-free workshop. For more information, call
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Tony DiTerlizzi
OUR BERKSHIRETIMES MAGAZINE'S
WINTER 2018 COVER ARTIST
I
loved stories as a kid, both
having them read to me and
enjoying them on my own. All
these stories inspired my imagination, and
that’s what I have always aimed at doing
for my readers: igniting their imagination.
~ Tony DiTerlizzi
Dust jacket for Kenny & the Dragon, Simon & Schuster, 2008.
Colored pencil and acryla gouache on Bristol board.
New York Times bestselling author and illustrator Tony DiTerlizzi book and his collaboration with acclaimed author Mo Willems
(pronounced dee-tur-leet-zee) was born in Los Angeles, created the bestselling The Story of Diva and Flea. The beginning of
California, on September 6, 1969. The oldest of three siblings, Tony’s storied career is showcased in Realms: The Roleplaying Game
he spent the majority of his youth in Jupiter, Florida, enjoying Art of Tony DiTerlizzi. He has been featured in Time magazine,
nature and outdoor activities such as bike riding, hiking, and USA Today, CNN, PBS, the BBC, and The Today Show.
taking photographs – especially macrophotography of insects.
After high school, DiTerlizzi enrolled in several colleges including You can currently see an exhibition of DiTerlizzi’s work, Never
a brief stint at Florida School of the Arts, and received his degree Abandon Imagination: The Fantastical Art of Tony DiTerlizzi, at the
in graphic design at The Art Institute of Ft. Lauderdale in 1992. Norman Rockwell Museum in Stockbridge, MA, through May
28, 2018. See www.nrm.org. DiTerlizzi’s books are available at
An avid bookworm, Tony grew up reading books like The Mouse fine bookstores everywhere. www.diterlizzi.com
and the Motorcycle by Beverly Cleary, Why Mosquitoes Buzz in People’s
Ears by Leo and Dianne Dillon, and Watership Down by Richard
Adams. Over the years he has collected a lot of early edition
children’s books and classic literature, as well as old toys, games,
and knickknacks from his childhood. As a movie lover, Tony
especially enjoys seeing how stories are adapted into film.
What’s Green Drinks? It’s a free monthly social event for people interested
in everything from environmental education to local agriculture, the arts,
activism, green business and design, and the ways all of these intersect. So
grab a friend or two and bring them down to share what you’re working
on (green or not) and meet others in the community. We’ve been meeting
monthly since March 2006! www.greendrinks.org, www.facebook.com/
GBGreenDrinks
It doesn’t take much looking around to see that we benighted I’d like to leave you with just a single thought:
human beings have gotten ourselves into quite a pickle. I’ve
read that it’s estimated that there have been only 230 years of “What’s love got to do with it? ”
peace throughout the civilized world over the last 3,500 years.
That’s less than seven percent of that time span. The reasons for Everything.
war are innumerable, but they seem to boil down to greed and
hatred, two all-too-prevalent faults of human beings. Are there ~ Rodelinde Albrecht “knows something about love.” For more than thirty
any antidotes to these failings? Yes: there’s wisdom, education, years, she’s helped people find each other through Concerned Singles, the
civilized behavior, thoughtfulness. And, above all, there’s love, in introduction service for intelligent, thoughtful, involved singles who care
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creates each and every piece with the magic of fire, glass, and brilliant
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1 T neutral high-heat oil 3 red radishes or 1 watermelon or purple daikon radish,
2 large Yukon gold potatoes, peeled if desired, very thinly sliced
cut into 1 cm cubes Freshly ground pepper
¼ tsp kosher salt
¼ cup Parmesan cheese Dressing
1 head radicchio or 2 heads endive, leaves separated and ½ cup extra virgin olive oil
roughly chopped 1 T balsamic vinegar
2 T red wine vinegar
1½ tsp maple syrup
1½ tsp Dijon mustard
¼ tsp kosher salt
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water than usual, allowing them to survive longer in dry conditions.
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best to keep the pincushion cactus almost completely dry.
Indoor Succulents
CONTINUED FROM PAGE 17 / By Barbara Herring
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labyrinth is a curved, intricately designed, knew my being there was a blessing. As my eyes adjusted to the
singular path leading to a center and out again. ethereal light of the interior, I saw the labyrinth and the other
Unlike a maze, which is built to confound with pilgrims who had come from all over the world. I made my
its multiple entrances, exits, and dead ends, way to one of the chairs in the front row and sat in quiet awe
a labyrinth’s function is to guide you on a clear, direct path to at the immense beauty of the cathedral, the labyrinth, and the
Divine Source. Resembling the left and right lobes of the brain, open-hearted wonder of all who were gathered there. I silently
and used to facilitate walking meditation, it offers a way to thanked God for my being there and I asked to be open to receive
consciously move from the concerns of the outer world to the whatever guidance and messages I had come for.
depths of the inner world of one’s soul.
Then I stood up, took a deep breath, and entered the labyrinth.
Considered a sacred pathway to communion with the Divine, There is almost no way to describe the sensation of stepping
labyrinths have been used by a wide variety of spiritual seekers onto a path that countless numbers of seekers have trod upon
for more than 4,000 years. They are built indoors, as well as for nearly one thousand years. As I began my journey, I became
outdoors as part of a garden for private use or on community aware of the mind chatter that ceaselessly tries to run my life.
land that can be accessed by the general public. In the Middle Instead of doing what I usually do – fight it – I simply opened
Ages, the Catholic Church began inlaying them within its my heart and allowed it to be.
cathedrals. Today, the most prominent church labyrinths include
the twelfth-century cathedral of Chartres, France, and two in the As I did so, I felt a strong wave of beautiful energy wash over
San Francisco based Episcopal church, Grace Cathedral. me and music started to play. And not just any church music.
Here, in a cathedral in a small French town fifty miles outside of
Chartres Cathedral is huge and its history and beauty span a Paris, the tune that I heard was being played on bagpipes! (This
millennium. Most of its legendary 176 stained glass windows was the only music that played during the entire time I was in the
are original and rival the beauty of the stained glass windows cathedral.) I was then given a message that confirmed my soul
in Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris. The windows tell the story connection to Scotland. I thanked all that is sacred as tears of joy
of Christ and the development of Christianity. There’s even a and gratitude rolled down my cheeks.
window with all of the symbols and signs of the zodiac!
In almost every section of the labyrinth, so much happened, so
I’ve benefited from walking many labyrinths, including the ones many messages of love were given to me, that by the time I got
at Grace Cathedral. It wasn’t until my recent trip to Chartres to the center of the labyrinth, and I was told to remove my shoes
Cathedral, though, that I truly underwent a profound soul and walk the rest of it barefoot, my mind had ceased its chatter
awakening as I gave myself over to one of the most beautiful and joined my heart. If walking the labyrinth shod was intense,
spiritual experiences of my life. walking it barefoot was a whole other level of traveling. With my
shoes on, I could feel that God was in my heart; barefoot, I could
Upon entering this huge, timelessly beautiful space, I immediately feel that I was in God’s heart.
felt the energy of centuries of faith, devotion, and prayer and I
I want everyone to experience this joy, this level of communion
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Ask Vicki
Send Your Questions to vicki@vickibaird.com
By Vicki Baird
F ifteen years ago, I quit my corporate job to discover my own path. Today, I help people just like you develop your gifts,
harness them, and take them out to the world. Welcome to Ask Vicki where I use my Intuitive Life Coach and Belief Re-
patterning™ experience to answer your questions. If you have a concern (career path, relationships, or mind and spirit
related issues) email me at vicki@vickibaird.com.
Hi Vicki! suggest you look at why it is that you would, one, move in with
My friend and I were talking about how sometimes it feels like someone so early into a relationship (and yes, nine months is early
we seek out new relationships with different people to fill voids even in these times of speed), and two, where you need to improve
in our current romantic relationship. If, for example, after years your relationship with yourself so that you can discover how to
of marriage, housework, kids, and crazy work schedules you don’t value yourself so much you will be able to more clearly see other’s
get out or laugh together as much as you used to . . . is it normal intentions. I do believe there is someone who aligns with each of
and/or healthy to seek that experience with a different person? It’s us, when we do the work first. ~ Many blessings, Vicki
tricky because it could almost feel dangerous, but sometimes you
just want to go out with someone who still enjoys a good beer and Dear Vicki,
can stay up past 10pm on a weekend. ~ Robin, Ashley Falls, MA OK, please answer this question for me; do we have soul mates
and have I missed mine? ~ George, Reading, MA
Robin,
It’s a great question and one I agree is healthy to address. I feel George,
that in this scenario as long as the relationship is platonic, then oh I’d like to a get right to the point! I do believe we have soul
my goodness, yes. My husband and I had these friends. He would mates, but I don’t believe that we should be asking for them as
go on whale watches with one of his female friends because they a life partner. It has been my experience that soul mates are here
bored me to tears, and I would never ask him to go to a musical to help accelerate our growth process here on earth, and it isn’t
unless it was a doo-wop show. It is important that the trust is there, always through hugs and sweetness. Typically a soul mate is one
of course, and that each person realizes it is about being individuals we have strife and frustrations with, and while we can learn a lot
who may enjoy different friendships. If either party feels insecure about ourselves in a relationship like this, it can be exhausting. We
about it, that would need to be addressed as it is an indication of can have a soul mate relationship with anyone – a parent, a boss,
deeper issues. I think making new connections can actually add to even a pet, as well as with intimate partners. We have hundreds of
an intimate relationship because we aren’t asking our partners to be potential partners in each lifetime. I would rather that you don’t
something they aren’t. Of course, keeping a strong connection to fixate on the idea of finding the one, but rather how to calmly find
your partner is the most important element to success. We evolve, ways to love yourself more and allow someone into your life who
and relationships change and hopefully grow. ~Vicki wants to do the same. Have fun with it. ~ Huge heart hugs, Vicki
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betrayal was really difficult on me and my children. My question
is: Am I destined to live my life as a single woman? I seem to be
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attracted to men who end up breaking my heart. Could there be
Imagine what could happen . . .
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if you believed in you!
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Making Deposits
IN OUR RELATIONSHIP BANK ACCOUNTS
By K. Meagan Ledendecker
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n accidental bump as someone walks by. A look she’s done. These little acts end up draining our relationship bank
from across the room. A forgotten request. account, like little withdrawals, until there is little to no cushion
of goodwill between us. If that’s the case, when I scowl and
No big deal, right? mumble, “morning,” she reacts with anger and frustration, fed
up with my attitude and ready to retaliate.
That is, unless we are feeling particularly annoyed or frustrated by
something that happened previously. Then we mutter about how In simple terms, our relationship bank account is like a cup that
we can’t believe so-and-so did that again, or how could they look gets filled or emptied.
at us like that, or how dare they, and on and on. Our response tells
a lot about how we are feeling about the other person involved. I sometimes draw a cup when working with young people and we
graphically fill up the cup as we imagine different acts of goodwill
Often when I find myself facilitating a conversation between or empty it with little thoughtless or unkind acts. We brainstorm
two young people, especially one in which there seems to be a different kinds of deposits we can make, different ways to fill the
long progression of misunderstandings and misinterpretations, I cup between us.
bring up the idea of a relationship bank account.
When we think about the little acts of kindness between us as
Sean Covey introduces the relationship bank account (RBA) in his being a way to build up our relationship bank account, sometimes
book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens. The essence of RBA we are more able to shift gears in how we relate.
is that we have different connections with the people in our lives.
And between each of us we have an unseen measure of how we Ultimately, we can become more mindful of the actions between
are connecting. We can visualize that measure as a bank account. us. We can be careful not to bump into each other. We can look
Just like with a bank account, we can make deposits or withdrawals. across the room with warmth. We can acknowledge a mistake and
work to make amends.
When I greet a coworker in the morning with a smile and a
compliment, I’m making a deposit. Over time, with lots of When we make deposits, we connect
deposits, a large cushion of goodwill is created in our relationship and cultivate goodwill. This season, let’s
bank account. When a large cushion is there, my coworker is mindfully make more deposits.
likely to be understanding when one morning I have a scowl on
my face and barely mumble, “morning.” She might wonder if I’m ~ K. Meagan Ledendecker regularly takes
okay and want to do something to help me feel better. stock of her relationship bank accounts both
with her three children and with her husband,
But let’s imagine, that instead of making regular deposits into our as well as with the many children and families
relationship bank account, I’ve either not taken the time for a kind involved with The Montessori School of the
greeting, or perhaps have been complaining about something Berkshires. www.berkshiremontessori.org
M
aybe it’s because I love my sewing machine so embellishments from prosaic zippers and snaps and seam binding
much (it’s a vintage Singer I affectionately call to decorative buttons and woven borders and sparkly beads and
Nana) that I’ve always assumed that Isaac Merritt sequins and intricate lace and fanciful fringes and.... golly, doesn’t
Singer invented the sewing machine. But I thought I’d better check the thought of all that possibility make you want to run right out
on that before writing this article. Here’s some of what I learned. and get whatever you need to make something extraordinary?
It turns out that what Singer did was improve upon the design But maybe you never learned to sew. Nowadays, with clothing
of the first practical sewing machine, which was patented by so affordable and so readily available, who needs to know how
Elias Howe in 1846. But even Elias didn’t come up with the to sew? And yet there’s clearly been a resurgence of interest in
idea himself. The first person to mechanize the typical motions the way people used to do things when no other options were
of hand sewing was a French tailor by the name of Barthelemy available. And I don’t think that it’s just nostalgia. As more and
Thimonnier. (He planned to mass-produce uniforms for more things are done for us, made for us, many of us experience
French soldiers.) This was in 1830. But going back even a need to do things ourselves, to make things ourselves. It’s one
further, a London cabinetmaker, Thomas Saint, successfully small way of reclaiming a measure of autonomy, the satisfaction
patented a rudimentary sewing machine in 1790. His machine of the act of creation, even a way of giving a present that involves
was never built, but the plans for it were discovered in the more than the mere spending of money.
1800s. The design needed to be modified before the machine
would actually work, but this was an important step on the If you want to acquire a new and rewarding skill, there are any
road to the modern sewing machine. Isn’t the evolution of number of ways you can learn. There’s YouTube, of course
technology fascinating? (just Google “sewing lessons youtube”). Stores such as JoAnn
Fabrics in Pittsfield, MA, offer classes at all levels, even for
Hand sewing, of course, was invented much, much earlier; children. If you’d like to learn quilting, Pumpkin Patch in Lee,
thousands of years ago in fact. Perhaps for the sake of modesty MA, can help. Or if you have a friend
but certainly for protection from the elements, our caveman who sews and is willing to teach you,
(caveperson?) ancestors fashioned crude garments by joining what a great way to spend time enjoying
hides and furs, using needles handmade from bone, and animal each other’s company while creating
sinew or strips of hide for thread. something beautiful.
~ Rodelinde Albrecht loves to make things.
Just imagine if you had to go out and catch the source of your Even her organization, Concerned Singles,
fabric and thread and prepare it yourself! How easy, by contrast, creates something: the opportunity for people of
we have it today. We can walk into a store and choose from like mind to find one another. Find out more at
a dizzying array of textiles and thread, not to mention all the www.concernedsingles.com. See ad page 9.
enjoy writing . . .
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