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Oh, dear!
Oh, no!
Bother!
Damn!
I can’t believe it!
Why does this always happen!
For goodness sake!
For heaven’s sake!
For pete’s sake!
For pity’s sake!
For God’s sake!
I’m annoyed
I had enough with it
I can’t stand it
I can’t bear it any longer
I’m fed up with it
You made me annoyed
You are such pain in the neck
You made me sick
I’m extremely displeased with…
…is very irritating
I’m extremely unhappy about this
…really makes me mad
I cannot stand…
Why on earth he didn’t…?
After knowing common phrases and vocabularies, it is good to see the example of dialog to
show annoyance and anger
A : You know George didn’t come last Saturday night
B : Really? I saw him with a girl in ABC cafe. I thought they were dating there.
A : But he said that he accompanied his mother to hospital
B : You were lied by him.
A : Yes, I know. I am annoyed. I can’t bear it any longer. It’s over.
Expressing Annoyance
What is “annoyance”?
Annoyance is an unpleasant mental state that is characterized by such effects as irritation and
distraction from one's conscious thinking. It can lead to emotions such as frustration and
anger. The property of being easily annoyed is called irritability.
Expressing annoyance:
Oh, dear!
Oh, no!
Bother!
Damn!*
Expressing Annoyance
Annoyance is an unpleasant mental state that is characterized by such effects as irritation and
distraction from one’s conscious thinking. It can lead toemotions such as frustration and
anger. The property of being easily annoyed is called irritability.
Expressing Annoyance: expressing the feeling of being annoyed.
Example: I was annoyed at his constant interruption.
Sometimes, bad situations can make people feel annoyed. Study the following expressions.
A) Expressing annoyance:
I need a break.
I’m so scared.
I was terrified.
I’m frightened.
Oh, no!
Oh dear!
What a nuisance.
How irritating.
I’m very annoyed.
It annoys me.
It irritates me.
I really hate …
What an idiot.
Relax.
Take it slow.
Take it easy.
Calm down.
Control yourself.
Don’t be such a worrywart.
Don’t be scared.
Don’t be frightened.
A) Mengekspresikan gangguan:
aku takut.
Oh, tidak!
Oh dear!
Apa gangguan.
Bagaimana menjengkelkan.
Apa idiot.
Relax.
Ambil lambat.
Tenang.
Tenang.
Kontrol diri.
Jangan takut.
Jangan takut.
Present
Will is used to emphasise the characteristics of a person rather than describing the person
himself or herself:
A friend will always help you. (this is one of the characteristics of a friend)
Past
USED TO
Used to refers to past habits and states which were true in the past but are not true any more.
It can be used with both action verbs and state verbs:
Used to + infinitive should not be confused with be/get used to + gerund (verb-ing):
She used to live alone in a small apartment. (it was true in the past, but not any more)
She was used to living alone in a small apartment. (she was accustomed to it)
She got used to living alone in a small apartment. (she became accustomed to it)
WOULD
Would describes repeated past actions but not states. It can only be used with action verbs:
From time to time, he would call her to ask if she wanted to meet for lunch.
USED TO or WOULD?
With time expressions such as always, constantly, continually and all the time, the past
continuous can express frequently repeated past actions which annoy(ed) the speaker:
She was always teasing me.
They were constantly arguing about money.
He was continually interrupting the speaker.
I was getting into trouble all the time.
He was always calling me at night to ask me how I was.
These sentences imply that the actions happened very often, but they are not meant literally.
To express the literal meaning, the past simple is used:
He always called me at night to ask me how I was. (He called me every night to ask me how I
was.)
With time expressions such as always, constantly, continually and all the time, the present
continuous can express frequently repeated actions which annoy the speaker:
Adults are always asking little kids what they want to be.
Her mother is constantly checking up on her.
Why are you continually criticising me?
A. Expressing Anger and Annoyance Study these phrases carefully!
When we are getting upset/annoyed to someone whom we are speaking to, we can use the following expressions:
Shut up! Get out of here! Damn it!
Leave me alone! •' I'm sick o' you! That's enough!
Go away! Beat it! It is annoying/disturbinglrritating!
Expressions of Anger Responses
I'm starting to get angry I don't like it either!
Are you trying to make me angry? Me too.
I'm really/very angry So do I.
You make me angry I know what you mean.
I've never been so insulted in my life. Relax.
I hate it when .... Take it easy.
It bums me up when .... Cairn down. You burn me up.
I can't stand it when ....
I don't like it when ....
It annoys me when ....
Listen and complete the following dialogue. Then answer the questions!
Fenny : 1) ___________________ . Those girls are gossiping us.
Tania : 2) ____________________ . They think we dont hear what they are discussing.
Fenny : It must be Nadya who started it.
Tania : 3)____________________ . I know you really hate her.
Fenny : But, 4) ___________________ . She told anything about me. And she doesn't know the truth.
She lies them.
Tania : Take it easy, Fenny. We are in school.
Fenny : I can't stand it anymore, Tania. I want to go there. Tania : Wait, Fenny!
Fenny : 5) ___________________ , Nadya!
Questions:
1. Why are Fanny and Tania angry?
5. Mention some expressions of anger and annoyance and the responses found in the dialogue!
Read the following dialogue and then practice it in front of the class with your partner! Why
does the
writer use capital letters?
Eddy : SHUT UP! Don't you see? I'm listening the announcement.
Bryan : It's your business. We have a conversation.
Eddy :You may talk, but don't talk loudly.
Bryan : If you mind we are talking too loudly, GEE OUT OF HERE!
Eddy : It's a public place. PUBLIC LIBRARY. It's got allowed the visitors talk too loud here. I think I
must tell about this to the librarian.
Bryan : Go ahead! We don't care.
Eddy : He can force you to get out of here. Maybe the security can also help me.
Bryan : Oh, I'm sick of you. Let's get out of here. He's so annoying.
Eddy : That's a good idea, guys.
Anger - Annoyance
(idioms, page 1 : up in arms → get/take flak)
be up in arms If you are up in arms about something, you are very angry.
The population was up in arms over the demolition of the old theatre.
get off by back! If you tell someone to get off your back, you are annoyed and ask them to stop
finding faults or criticizing you.
Liz, please, get off my back! You've been making comments about my work all
morning!
bear with sore If someone is behaving like a bear with a sore head, they are very irritable and
head bad-tempered.
When his team lost the match, Brad was like a bear with a sore head.
bite head off If you bite someone's head off, you criticize them strongly (and perhaps unfairly).
I worked 10 hours a day all week and my boss bit my head off for not doing my
share of the work!
blow a fuse If you blow a fuse, you suddenly lose y our temper and become very angry.
Charlie blew a fuse yesterday then he discovered that his ipod had been stolen.
blow a gasket When a furious person blows a gasket, they explode with anger.
When the shop was burgled for the third time, the owner blew a gasket.
blow your top If you blow your top, you suddenly become very angry.
When my mother saw the state of the house after the party, she blew
her top!
have a bone to If you have a bone to pick with someone, you are annoyed with them and want to
pick talk to them about it.
Mark wants to see the boss. He says he's got a bone to pick with him.
cheesed off If someone is cheesed off with something, they are annoyed, bored or frustrated.
Jenny is absolutely cheesed off with her job.
come down like If someone comes down on you like a ton of bricks, they criticize you severely
a ton of bricks because you have done something wrong.
If you mix up the order, the boss will come down on you like a ton of bricks!
for crying out This expression is used to show irritation, exasperation or anger.
loud! For crying out loud, turn that television off!
cut it out! If you say 'cut it out' to someone, you are telling them to stop doing something.
I've had enough of your insinuations, so just cut it out!
drive up the If somebody or something drives you up the wall, they do something that greatly
wall annoys or irritates you.
I can't concentrate with all the noise - it's driving me up the wall.
eat someone If you criticize someone severely because you are angry with them, you eat them
alive alive.
(You can also be eaten alive - bitten repeatedly - by insects.)
The boss will eat me alive if the report arrives late.
fit to be tied Someone who is fit to be tied is extremely irritated, upset or angry.
Harry was fit to be tied when his dog dug up the flowers he had planted.
get/take flak If you get or take flak, you receive severe criticism for something you have done.
He got a lot of flak for the way he handled the situation.