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Hi, I'm Caitlin!

Here in your hot little hands is The Mindset Mastery Guide.

In this guide, you're going to learn how to overcome the potentially crippling

fear of failure and train your mind to help you succeed in anything and

everything you do in life — even if it's not proofreading. Are you ready? Buckle

up and hang on!

To your success,

Caitlin Pyle
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DISCLAIMER

The Mindset Mastery Guide is not intended to be a substitute for real business

coaching or training.

COPYRIGHT NOTICE

All Rights Reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by

any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording,

emailing, uploading, or using any information retrieval system, without prior

permission in writing from the author, Caitlin Pyle.



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WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

1. How to Get Over the Fear of Finding Clients as a Freelancer (pages 4-18)

2. The 3 Pillars of Success in Life (pages 9–28)

3. You’re 100% Responsible (pages 29–37)

4. Know Thyself... and Be Cool with Who That Is (pages 38–48)

5. You Need to Stop Complaining (pages 49-58)

6. Dealing with the Way Our Past Affects Our Present (pages 59–69)

7. Identifying and Curing Impostor Syndrome (pages 70–73)

What’s Next? (pages 74-75)



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When you take my 7-day proofreading intro course, you have the

opportunity to email me your thoughts and questions. Most participants take

advantage of this invitation, which is wonderful not only for them but also for

me. I truly love meeting other super-nerds like myself!

One of the key questions that I pose within the course is "What’s standing in

your way of making it happen and creating the freelance life you want for

yourself?" Nine times out of ten, the responses are something like this:

● “I’m afraid to spend the money on a course and then not get any clients.”
● “I’m afraid I won’t get any clients.”
● “What if I can’t get any clients?”
● “What if I can’t find work at the end? Do you help?”

I explain that getting clients is 100% a result of your own actions, and not just

those within the realm of marketing. Within the courses, the actions you take in

the modules that come way before marketing is even mentioned deal with

doing the work: things like correct word use, punctuation, and how to use

specific software to proofread properly. These lessons must come first before

you can expect to be bringing in clients.

“Fear” is the new F-word. It pops up very predictably, and quickly clouds our

perspective. It keeps us from seeing what we’re capable of; it makes us think
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that someone or something else is responsible for our success. Know this: You

are not only capable of success, but you are also 100% responsible for your own

success (or lack thereof).

BONUS READING: Why Other People’s Success Doesn’t Determine YOUR

Success

BEATING FEAR IS A JOURNEY!

In speaking with students from my various programs, I encounter the F-word all

the time, even when the word itself isn’t actually used.

For example, I asked Rhonda (a student in my transcript proofreading course)

about how her feelings and emotions had changed in the process of becoming

a freelancer, and this was her response:

“Yes, it’s intimidating for me, trying to convince myself that I can go out on my own,
do what I know I’m good at (although I know I need to learn more) and succeed. It’s
hard going from a traditional job to something nebulous in a way. Can I do this? Will
I be successful? It’s not so much CAN I do this, it’s more, can *I* do this? Am *I*
going to be successful? I worked at my previous job for 13 years. This, this is
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completely different. I’m ready to make the change in my head, but my heart, that’s
where I need to gain more confidence.”

Rhonda hit the nail square on the head.

Most people are not fearful of whether or not it’s possible to find clients and

make money freelancing — as a proofreader or otherwise. They know it’s

possible. They see plenty of other people doing it.

Usually what they’re fearful of is whether or not it’s possible for them. It’s an

internal battle, a self-doubt that gets in the way of success over and over and

over again.

Another student, Dee, responded to the same question with this affirmation: 


“We manifest our own realities with our internal thoughts and feelings. If we dive in
and believe anything is possible, then anything is possible.”

I just can’t get over that statement — because it’s absolutely true.

We can face that feeling of insecurity and change our thinking. Keep in mind,

though, it definitely takes some effort! What you have to do is identify your

habitual negative thoughts and commit to changing them. You consciously

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reprogram those negative thoughts by transmuting them into positive ones.

The more you’re able to do this, the more your subconscious will work with you

toward your goal, and it will give you subtle but powerful momentum in your

client search, or anything else upon which you choose to set your focus.

This is called mindset mastery.

The reverse is true, too. If we set our minds to believing that we’re not going to

attract any clients, then guess what? Our subconscious will not allow us to

attract clients. It’s a dangerous trap — and one that many of us fall into. Lisa, a

PA student and lifelong entrepreneur extraordinaire, shares this regarding

success:

“Success comes from perspective. If you believe you will be successful, you will be.
If you believe in what you do and how you do it, you can offer that service to
ANYONE.”

That is so true! It’s also why mastery of your chosen craft is vital. You need to

know what you’re doing — and know it well — in order to be confident. Mastery

doesn’t happen overnight: It takes time and practice.

The people who are scared of not finding clients are jumping ahead before

they even know what they’re doing. They have not yet realized that their fear will
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dramatically dissipate as soon as they master their skill. Mastery cannot help

but generate confidence. 


This brings us to the obvious question of how to master your craft.

The answer? You learn and you practice! You take classes, find mentors, do

research. And you do it over and over again until you can do it in your sleep.

Then, and only then, can your focus land on finding clients. Once that happens

(and it will), you’ll know for certain (if you didn’t already) that you’ve totally and

completely got this.

My point here is to show you that the antidote to fear is mastery. Once you get

there, you’ll have all the confidence in the world to go out and find your clients.

If you’ve been focused on the end-stage hurdles when you’re still in the

beginning or middle of training, put your head back down and keep studying.

Do the work and trust the process. When you get to the end, you’ll be ready.

BONUS READING: How to Get Results Faster by Ignoring Pretty Much

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IT’S SCARY TO START A NEW CHAPTER

Starting something new in life can sometimes mean you will begin to identify

yourself differently. When I first became a freelancer, I experienced an unsettled

and anxious feeling that cried out, “Whoa! Who am I??”

This is the feeling you get when you’re not merely about to try something new —

something big — but when you’re about to become something new. If you’re a

newcomer to the freelancing world and learning about the various ways you

can make it work, you may think it’s just as simple as studying up and doing it…

but that’s not always the case.

Sometimes these tricky human emotions pop up, things we’ve spent years

repressing, and they can make us quit before we even start! Fear is one of

those emotions. Fear attacks our confidence and holds us back. Fear is not a

friend. Don’t give it a place at your table.

KICK FEAR TO THE CURB

We humans have a high tolerance for fear and a low tolerance for change. We

like to know what we’re dealing with, and change means we don’t know what’s
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coming. It’s unfamiliar. And our subconscious automatically translates that as

dangerous.

Fear will do whatever it takes to stop you from heading into that “dangerous”

territory, even if doing so is actually the best thing you could do for yourself.

Fear isn’t logical — it’s reactive and irrational. Like a toddler. 


Do you really want a toddler calling the shots in your life?

If you’re reading this guide, then I already know that your answer to that

question is a resounding “No.” The good news is that you’re in the right place.

The even better news is that you can take charge of your life and kick your fear

to the curb.

You already know that it takes effort to overcome your fears and create the life

you want. Fighting our instincts isn’t natural. But it’s possible. And sometimes

necessary.


Get ready to put on your grown-up pants!

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FEAR IS EVERYWHERE

If you’re stuck in fear, you’re not alone.

Here are some more thoughts from students on the various uprisings of

nervousness and fear that they’ve faced, both before and after deciding to

pursue life as a proofreader:

Kimmie says:

“I think most of my fear comes from past experiences. I’ve started and stopped
several home businesses before. I’m just not a pushy salesperson, and I take the
rejection personally. This I am working on because it isn’t personal most of the
time.”

Megan contributes:

“I think for me, this proofreading deal makes the ugly perfectionism come out in me.
That causes fear and trepidation.”

Alicia adds:

“Although I want my life to change, it can be really scary to think about moving from
a safe (albeit boring) career to something much less structured.”
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Alicia makes a good point. We may want our lives to change soooo badly, but

the fear can come out and bite us HARD… to the point that we retreat to our

safe little corner and never find out what might have been. The fear of the

unknown is massive, and it will rule your life if you let it.

So don’t let it. 


HOW TO KILL THAT FEAR

If fear of getting clients is the top issue plaguing would-be proofreaders, then

at this point you should know the #1 thing you can do to quash it is to master

the art.

Put in the work.

Do the time.

Don’t just be good at what you do; be excellent at what you do.

And remember, there are no shortcuts to mastery.

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WHAT DOES TRUE MASTERY REQUIRE?

It requires hard work! Some people are intimidated by hard work and prefer the

easy route. There are a lot of scams out there that have duped people into

believing it’s simple to start a new income stream and break free from the

corporate world. All you have to do is find a few friends to sign up first, right?

Nope.


The reality is harsh for some. Creating a new and steady income stream is NOT

easy, and proofreading — or any type of freelancing — is no different. The hard

work that this path demands of those who walk it can diminish one’s

determination and bring about a fear of failure.

Maybe you’ve expressed your fear to me at some point — of whether you can

do it, of finding clients, or of whatever else might be standing in your way. And I

understand. The funny thing is, however, that many of the folks who’ve admitted

to their fear have also shared that they have all kinds of degrees from various

higher education programs. My first thought is, “So you’re worried about not

getting clients after investing in my course, but you already dropped $100,000

on a master’s degree… and you weren’t worried then about being able to find a

job afterward?”
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Too often people don’t consider that proofreading is an art that needs to be

mastered before clients even become part of the picture; they just don’t want

to “waste money” on a course if they can’t “get clients.” Naturally that makes

sense, but you don’t take a course just to learn how to “get clients” — you take a

course to master a skill that those clients need and want.

My courses teach you both sides — mastering the art and getting clients — but

I am always very forthcoming about which is more important. (Hint: It rhymes

with “plastering the start.”)

I know it may turn prospective students off to learn that you actually have to

know how to do something before you can get clients to pay you for it but, if I

weren’t up front about it, I’d get incessant emails from people begging me to

help them find work… work they don’t even know how to do yet.

A note about degrees: The problem with many degree programs is that people

shell out tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars to find that they only

receive the skills to do the work -- sometimes not even all the skills -- but in

almost all cases, no one learns how to market those skills and get work. 


I believe there should be a mandatory course for every college student on both

social media marketing and personal marketing. That is the missing puzzle
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piece in most degree programs today, which is why I take so much care in

building my courses to include the full gamut: doing the work and getting the

work… because it won’t matter how good you are if you can’t market it.

BONUS READING: Why a College Degree Doesn’t Create Income

But BEWARE — I’m sure you’re sensing a theme here at this point — the reverse

is also true! Who cares how many clients you get if you haven’t mastered the

art? Shouldn’t we focus on becoming excellent at what we’re offering said

clients before we worry about “getting” them? Here’s the truth: Getting clients is

one thing, but keeping them is a different story. This is where excellence —

mastering the art — is key.

WHAT IF YOU DON’T MASTER THE ART BEFORE GOING

OUT TO GET CLIENTS?

There’s a very real reason that I teach students everything they need to know

about how to do the work before I teach them how to get clients. But there are

still those who may be too excited about the potential income that they won’t

pay enough mind to excelling at the service they’re providing.

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In this case, it really doesn’t matter how many clients they can get. If their

service stinks because they skipped or breezed through the client

communication module, or they didn’t carefully comb through the practice jobs

because maybe they think they’ll “know it when they see it” — they’re setting

themselves up for failure. And this turns in upon itself because failure is what we

fear in the first place, which is why we are aiming for excellence.

You can’t hide a lack of mastery forever. If someone races through the training

just to learn how to get clients because they THINK they already know it all, sure,

they may be able to rack up a few clients and make some money. But for the

long term? It’s not gonna work. They’ll get a bad reputation fast, and a

reputation is hard to recover.

KEYS TO MASTERING THE ART OF PROOFREADING

Theresa, student and 18+ year veteran in general proofreading, has some

excellent advice for those of us looking to master the skill of proofreading.

She offers:
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“So how do you go from ‘I suck at this,’ to ‘Hmm, I’m getting good at this,’ to other
people saying ‘He/she is a great proofreader’?”
First, you need to care enough to improve. This cannot be overstated.
Second, you need to invest time every day to bolstering your weak spots.
Third, make constructive criticism and feedback your best friend.”

This will mean forgetting about your number of pages per hour, or how many

articles you can proofread in a day — anything that resembles an unrealistic

benchmark for a newbie. Give yourself some grace and focus on quality over

quantity; the speed will come with practice.

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As a business coach and freelancing instructor, I receive emails ALL the time

asking several variations of the following:

● “Can you guarantee my success?”

● “How can I be sure I’ll succeed?”

● “What if I lose faith and give up?”

The truth: I can’t guarantee anyone’s success. What I can do, however, is teach

you the traits (I like to call them “pillars”) that are practiced by, quite literally,

every single student who’s been successful following their training.

You are 100% in control of your success. You oversee the building of your

foundation (e.g. training) and the pillars we’re about to go over for achieving

and maintaining the success you want.

I heard this quote recently:

“Success is not owned; success is leased, and you have to pay rent every single
day.”

This can be scary; some people have lost the notion that success isn’t a

guaranteed part of life. Many of us seem to think we’re entitled to a good life
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just because we’re human. I’ll go into more of this later, but just know for now

that these people are mistaken.

From working with all kinds of students and going deeper with the many who

have succeeded, I’ve been able to determine that those who succeed (and

continue to do so) possess three specific traits.

All three. Never just one. Never only two. ALWAYS ALL THREE.

Why all three? Because these traits act as pillars. They’re what’s holding up your

success as if it were a building. If you only have two pillars, you’ll be shaky at

best. And if you only have one pillar? Good luck managing that balancing act.

You must have all three of these pillars to find true and lasting success, no

matter what you do in life. This goes for freelance proofreading, and everything

else.

What are these pillars? Confidence. Optimism. Persistence. And they all rest

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THE FOUNDATION: EXCELLENCE

Excellence — the mastery we’ve discussed — is the root of all lasting success. If

you stink at proofreading, then you can’t catch errors… and you’ll also exhibit

poor customer service. In short, you’re attempting to build your success on

shifting sands. 


How do you cultivate Excellence? Can you buy it? Yes and no. Partly yes

because achieving Excellence may require an investment in your education.

Partly no because — depending on the skills you need to succeed — getting an

education may or may not be your thing. In the case of proofreading, some
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people just aren’t cut out for it. Some people are, but they need to invest in

some education first in order to expand their skill set beyond a basic ability to

spot errors.

True Excellence means knowing the ins and outs of your work as a proofreader.

You’re not just winging it, hoping that being an English teacher will get you by.

You’re committed to being the best you can possibly be — all day, every day.

From Excellence, Confidence can take root.



PILLAR #1: CONFIDENCE



You will have a hard time convincing clients to work with you if you don’t show

them that you know what you’re doing. Think about it: If you are looking to hire

someone and they act uncertain and a bit too humble, it doesn’t matter how

good their reviews are… you won’t feel sure that you’re in good hands.


So know that you’re a rock star. Know that you’ve got this. It’s OKAY to believe in

yourself. And when you’re confident in your skills, your clients will be, too.
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PILLAR #2: OPTIMISM

You have to expect a positive outcome. Maybe it’s kind of hokey, but the whole

self-fulfilling prophecy thing really does hold some water. As we covered earlier,

when you believe you won’t get any clients… you set yourself up to not get any

clients.

Sorry, but it’s true. Going into “this proofreading thing” thinking someone else is

going to do the work for you or that simply paying your tuition fee will magically

turn you into a fantastic proofreader is not the best form of Optimism.

The right sort of Optimism is achieved through recognizing and shedding old

belief systems that may be holding you back. Those old systems may sound

like a broken record of “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never be able to do this.”

Once you acknowledge these negative thought patterns, you can work to

consciously shift them into “I am absolutely good enough” and “I can be a

master at this!” Actively replace the lies with new truths, and your whole world

starts to change.


What Optimism gives you is the ever-present belief that you are limitless. That

you can literally do anything you set out to do. Combine Optimism with the
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solid foundation of Excellence and the pillar of Confidence, and not only are you

unstoppable… but you know you’re unstoppable.

Optimism and Confidence are both strengthened by Excellence. The better you

are at something, the more confident and optimistic you feel about your

abilities.

But these together are still not enough. You’ve got to take action.

PILLAR #3: PERSISTENCE

What if you were the best freaking proofreader the world has ever seen

(Excellence), you felt amazing about it (Confidence), and you knew you were

going to kick some serious business butt (Optimism)? 


What if you had the first two pillars in the bag… but you never took any action?

Or you took action, but you didn’t follow up. You didn’t keep going. You made a

few contacts, sent out a few business cards… and then you gave up in

frustration when you didn’t instantly get results.

Nothing’s gonna happen, right?

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Now think about this: You’re the best proofreader to hit the scene in decades,

you feel amazing about your skills and abilities, your positive expectations are

through the roof, and you use Excellence, Confidence, and Optimism to fuel

yourself every single day as you build your business… Well, add in the third pillar

of Persistence, and suddenly you’ve got a powerful trifecta for success!

All three pillars on their foundation will work together to propel you forward.

Embodying Persistence means you know that building a business doesn’t

happen overnight. It means you know that timing plays a role in expanding your

clientele. It means you know that taking action isn’t just a one-time thing — it’s

an every-single-day thing.

The pillar of Persistence goes far beyond simply taking action. Anyone can “try.”

You must DO… and then you must never give up.

TYING IT ALL TOGETHER

These pillars can’t hold up your success alone, or even in pairs. They must all be

present together.

You must believe in yourself. No matter how Persistent and Optimistic you are, if

you don’t feel like you can do the job, then your clients will pick up on that. They
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will sense your uncertainty and move on to someone else who makes them feel

more secure in their investment.

You must keep a positive mindset. Confidence and Persistence will get you

nowhere if nowhere is what you’re expecting. Remember that your expectations

play a key role in shaping your reality.

You must never give up. Confidence and Optimism are useless if you don’t take

action… and keep taking it. Are your clients on vacation, slowing down your cash

flow? So what? You’ve got the ability, the tools, and the support to go get more

work to fill in the gaps. Don’t wait for opportunity to knock when you could be

going door-to-door yourself.


And above all, you must master your skill. Sure, you might be able to get clients

if you’re Confident, Optimistic, and Persistent. But over time? Clients won’t

appreciate your poor quality, and they won’t hire you again. You may get poor

reviews. Your business will suffer.

My goal will always be to provide the highest quality training that proofreaders

need: how to do the work and how to find the work. But we don’t stop there! We

also teach you how to harness and cultivate these three pillars of Confidence,

Optimism, and Persistence — supported by the foundation of Excellence — so

that you can achieve lasting success.

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Just remember: YOU are the ONLY key to your success. 


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The way I see it, my job is to give you the tools to succeed, and your job is to

pick them up and do the work. No one is going to do it for you (nor should

they). You are 100% responsible for what you do with the tools you receive.

I mentioned before that everybody seems to think that they deserve an

awesome life just for the simple act of being. We somehow get it into our heads

that other people are in charge of making us happy, giving us a great job,

building an awesome family for us, and making relationships worthwhile… just

because we exist.

But the truth is, the only person responsible for the quality of the life you live is

you. If you want to be successful, you have to be the one to step up and say,

"I'm responsible for what I experience in my life."

That means you’re responsible for mastering your craft, taking charge of your

mind, and putting in the effort… in work, in life, and everything in between.

And the results you get — how good your relationships are, how fit you are, how

much money you make, how much debt you're in, how you feel every day — all

of it is your responsibility, 100%.

That can be a hard pill to swallow.

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NO MORE BLAME GAMES

We've grown up in the habit of blaming other people and all kinds of things

outside of us for what we don't like about our life. Our parents made us this way,

we had a crummy boss, our friends are jerks, the weather is bad, the economy

tanked, the president did it, we’re a Sagittarius...

No matter what, we'll find somewhere else to pin the blame. We never seem to

want to look in the mirror, but the mirror is usually where the real problem is.

Instead of blaming everyone and everything around you, look inside yourself for

the reasons why you haven't created the life or produced the results that you

want.

Said another way, YOU are the only person who can create the life you want to

lead. If you really want to be successful in life, if you want to make things

happen that are super important to you, then you have to take 100%

responsibility to do whatever it takes to get there.

And you have to give up all of the excuses that keep you from doing so.
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No more waiting on the promotion to come through, or the spouse’s attitude to

change, or the weather to warm up. No more waiting on the external, period.

Waiting is for people who never go anywhere. You’re better than that.

GET RID OF YOUR EXCUSES AND TAKE YOUR POWER

BACK

There’s always a story for why something isn’t the way you want. But any stories

you tell that make you the victim, any reasons you give as to why you can't do

or haven't done X, Y, and Z so far in life, and any blame you place on other

people or things… they’re all crap.

Throw away every last one of those stories and excuses. They’re only holding

you back.

Just like Glinda told Dorothy: You have always had the power. It’s true! You have

always had the ability and the strength to create the life you want, to do the

right thing, to get the results you crave. Your ability to choose is your pair of

ruby slippers. And what you choose decides where they take you… home or

otherwise.

When you realize this, you also have to admit that, while you had that power all
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along, you chose not to use it for some reason… whether it was out of

ignorance, fear, laziness, or something else. You might not even know why. 


But that doesn't matter. The point is this: You chose not to use the power you

had to get the results you wanted.

Hold on! Don’t let that get you down! Don’t turn this realization into another

reason you don’t get what you want. Because once you admit it — once you

admit you’ve had the power all along — you suddenly take your power back.

Now you can make a new choice. You can decide that, from this point forward,

you ARE going to exercise the very real power that you have over your own life,

and you ARE going to make it what you want.

Then when something negative happens, you don't blame other people.

Instead, you'll ask yourself, "Well, what did I do to end up here? What was I

believing about myself? What did I not say? What could I have done

differently? What made the person in front of me react that way? How can I get

the result I want next time?" This is where your power lies!!
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YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE YOUR RESPONSE

Part of this whole responsibility thing is that we also have the power to change

our responses to the outcomes we get in life. See, when we respond to one

outcome, we set another outcome in motion. It’s a cycle.

What you might not realize is that everything that happens today happens as a

result of a choice you made yesterday, or last week, or the year before.

Let's look at an example of that.

Say you win $1,000 on a lottery ticket. Congrats! That's an outcome that

happened as a result of the lottery ticket you bought two days ago. Now you

have a couple different things that you could do with the winnings.

Maybe you respond by going out and spending it all on clothes at the mall. The

outcome of that decision is that you end up with no money left. Then maybe

you complain that you're broke again, that things are too expensive, and that

retirement's so far away. But at least you have some nice clothes.

Now let's try another option. If you take that $1,000 and invest it in the stock

market, or in building a business, or in training to get to the next level, then your
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outcome will be totally different. You won't be broke. You won't be upset that

you don't have any money. Your response to the winning ticket was smarter, so

the outcome turns out better. By this time next year your net worth will be up, or

you’ll have a new skill to leverage for more money at work. Either way, you’ve

invested that money instead of squandering it.

Your response to the initial outcome of the winning lottery ticket was well

thought out, so naturally the subsequent outcome is a positive one.


CONTROL WHAT YOU CAN

They say you have control over only three things in life: the thoughts you think,

the images and expectations that you conjure up in your mind, and the actions

you take (your behavior). How you choose to control these three things

determines everything you experience in life.

Maybe you’re interested in learning new skills so you can change your life for

the better. Maybe you want to fire your boss, make more money in less time, or

you just don’t want to set an alarm ever again. It doesn’t matter why.

Instead of sitting around and complaining about your job, you decide to take
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action and do something different. You’ve changed your response, taking it

from a negative one (hating life and wallowing in misery) to a positive one

(being proactive about creating a new life for yourself).

The key is to transmute that negativity. Find a way to take your negative

thoughts and turn them into positive ones. If you daydream about frustrating

things, or you worry too much, it’s time to change your habits. Change the

books you read. Change who you hang out with. Change how you talk to

yourself in the mirror in the morning. And, ultimately, change the thoughts you

think.

I'm sure you’ve also heard the old adage, "If you always do what you've always

done, then you’ll always get what you've always gotten." Likewise, it’s said that

the definition of insanity is continuing to do the same thing and expecting

different results. How is this playing out in your own life?

If you keep saying you're going to save money, or you keep saying you're going

to go back to school, or you keep saying you're going to lose weight… but you

don't change anything about your behavior, you don’t sign up for classes, you

don't start exercising more, you don’t eat any differently, you don’t seek out new

skills... then your life isn’t going to change. You're not going to see those results,

because you keep saying it — but not doing it.

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The day you decide to change the things you've always done — and move

from saying to doing — is the day you're going to see your life start to get

better.

If what you're doing in your life right now was what it took to make your life

better or to get you what you want, then those things would have already

manifested themselves, right? But if they haven’t manifested themselves yet,

then what you’re doing in your life right now is not what it takes to get to where

you want to be. That means change is necessary to get there. If you want

something different than what you already have, then you have to do

something different to get it.

Remember: It was you who made the choice, did the thing, thought the thought,

and/or acted upon the emotion that got you to where you are right now.

Nobody else. Just you.

You’re the one who created your reality… and you are absolutely 100% capable

of creating a new one.

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We’re about to go even deeper, y’all, so heads up. Going through this stuff may

hurt a little for some people.

It hurt a LOT for me. But what hurt me initially ended up changing my life

drastically in the long run. It was like getting a dislocated joint repaired — hurts

like the dickens, but it’s necessary, right?

In that case, and this one, it truly is a no-pain-no-gain situation.

LET ME REITERATE. “KNOW THYSELF… AND BE COOL

WITH WHO THAT IS.”

Most of us live our life thinking we know ourselves pretty well. Then, especially as

we get older (and hopefully wiser!!), things change. You start to wonder, “How’d

I get like that?!”

I, for example, used to be the family “daredevil.” I loved all kinds of roller coasters

and thrill rides — anything that looked insane, I had to try it. Now? Well… I hate

even flying in an airplane. I’m cool once we’re in the air, but the takeoff and

landing always make me an anxious mess! This has only developed in the last

few years and, honestly, I’m not even sure how it happened.
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The point is this: Things can change within us without our knowing or

understanding it, and it can happen on both large and small scales.

I also have to confess that, even though I’m a huge action-taker now and have

built a business helping people make money, I’m not that much of a people

person.

This always surprises new friends because I’m very energetic and “out there”

when I’m at a party. For years I considered myself an extrovert because of this.

But later in

life I started noticing how drained I’d feel after a party or gathering.

It’s quite possible that I used to be a true extrovert, but I have evolved to greatly

relish my time alone on the couch with a glass of wine and a book, and even

get excited when my husband (who also works from home) tells me he’s going

out for the evening.

Time alone is important! If you love it, don’t feel bad for wanting it. For some

people, like me, it is necessary in order to reboot and recharge.

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OUR OLD WAYS MAY ACTUALLY BE LIMITING BELIEFS

Our “old ways” often hold us back without our awareness — just like how quick I

was to dismiss my husband’s idea that I should start marketing my skills as a

business coach.

Let’s look at some of the excuses I made and their translations:

“It’s too much work” really meant “I can’t do it.”

“I just want a simple life” really meant “I’m lazy.”

“No one would hire me!” really meant “I don’t believe in myself, and neither does

anyone else.”

Do you say some of these things to yourself, too?

Months went by before I was able to translate these thoughts and realize what I

was really saying to myself, and that the things I told myself weren’t actually

facts — they were limiting beliefs.

WHAT ARE LIMITING BELIEFS?

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They’re deeply rooted, false thought systems we establish in our minds, usually

for long periods of time, that constrain us in some way. These beliefs keep us

from doing, saying, or even thinking certain things. 


You can have a limiting belief about anything: your personal rights, your duties/

role at work or at home, your abilities, the acceptability of doing the things you

want to do — anything. Believing these things impoverishes us. It cheapens our

quality of life.

These false beliefs hold us back from what we are truly capable of

accomplishing.

WHEN LIMITING BELIEFS MASQUERADE AS FACTS

Although I don’t like to do so, I can imagine what my life would look like if I’d

continued along the path I was on before building my blog,

ProofreadAnywhere.com and, later, my courses and workshops.

I used to be a person who, deep down, truly believed that no one liked me, that

no one valued what I had to say, and that, if I tried to do what I actually wanted,

someone else would just come along and squash me.

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In the beginning, I wasn’t aware that these were limiting beliefs — I considered

them facts of life. So often we find ourselves with these falsehoods in our heads,

posing as truths. They’re things that we’ve believed for a long time, and we are

convinced that everyone else thinks the same way. The brain registers them as

facts, even though it’s just beliefs.

A SIMPLE CHANGE CAN MEAN POWERFUL RESULTS

Looking back now, more than two years later, it’s mind-blowing how far I was

able to come by simply making a few changes in my mindset and beliefs.

The cool part is that I never made any conscious decision to stop believing

those limiting beliefs. In fact, it wasn’t until my blog and the original

proofreading course started taking off that I even realized I had limiting beliefs

at all.

Changing those beliefs was basically like repainting the walls of my mind.

When you want things in life to change, you focus on taking steps in the

direction of achieving that goal. What do you do when you want to repaint the
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walls in your house? Do you waste time chipping off all the old paint first, or do

you just buy a new can of paint and paint over the old stuff?

Exactly.

You don’t spend time focusing on undoing what you think is wrong with you.

Just grab a new can of paint and take action. Figure it out along the way. Zig

Ziglar once said, “If you wait until all the lights are green before you leave home,

you'll never leave your driveway.”

Life is too short to be perfect at everything before you start.

Keep in mind, however, that there is still a ton of value in the memory of the “old”

you — your old identity and the way things used to be can serve as a reminder

of where you started. That way you get to say, further down the road, “Hey! Look

how far I’ve come!”

Limiting beliefs can prevent you from enacting positive change and keep you

from being who you want to be.

But know this:

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YOU HAVE THE POWER TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIMITING

BELIEFS
How? How do we choose a new color and paint over those shabby walls?

By identifying these limiting beliefs, rewriting the script, and taking action toward

what we actually want in life.

That’s the theme of this entire guide. Whether your goal is to build your

proofreading business or something else entirely, taking action will get you

there.

You’re 100% responsible for your success, remember?

You’re also 100% responsible for how you behave along the way.

HOW TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS

If you’re held back by limiting beliefs — and all of us are, at one point or another

— the first thing you need to do to overcome them is identify them.

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Start paying attention to what’s going on every time you talk yourself out of

doing something. Whether it’s simple procrastination or a big fat “You don’t

have what it takes” internal monologue, just start noticing. What’s going on in

your mind? What are the stories you constantly tell yourself about the world,

your abilities within it, or even your inherent worth or deservingness?

It can be helpful to keep track of your thought patterns and recurring mental

scripts. I recommend writing them down in a journal or notebook, especially if

you’re serious about doing this life-changing work. Try jotting down your

thoughts (especially the negative ones) every 30–60 minutes every day for a

week. Any time you don’t want to do something — whether it’s washing the

dishes, going to work, or doing this exercise — write down why, and how you’re

feeling about yourself in that moment. 


This might be tedious, but it will give you valuable insight. Once you start

noticing trends in your thought patterns, you can begin to identify your limiting

beliefs. And once you’ve done that, you can start rewriting them.

Here are two questions you can ask about any limiting belief you might come

up against, which will help you reframe it in a more realistic light:

● Is this belief really, actually, completely true?

● What would be the opposite of this belief?

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For example, if your limiting belief is something like “I’ll never be a proofreader

because I’m too lazy to do the coursework,” then take that underlying belief of

“I’m lazy” and examine it more closely.

Are you really, actually, truly lazy? What other areas in your life would validate

the idea that you’re lazy? (Chances are, there aren’t many.)

Now flip it around on its head; take the thought that you’re lazy and turn it into

something empowering. Instead of “I’m lazy,” try “I’m diligent” or “I’m completely

capable of getting things done” or even “I am productive when I choose to be.”

How does that new “opposite” belief make you feel?

An important thing to note here: Keep all of your words positive and

empowering. Avoid the word “not” because our minds don’t recognize it. For

example, saying “I’m not lazy” won’t have as potent an effect as “I’m a hard

worker” would. The mind focuses on the descriptive words so it latches on to

“lazy,” even with the “not” in front of it. 


Now every time you feel that limiting belief crop up, you can combat it with your

new empowering one and begin to make some real progress.

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It takes effort and a solid sense of personal responsibility to make this kind of

change… no one else is going to do it for you. This work is yours, but so are the

rewards.
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The more you start paying attention to these tendencies, the more you’ll realize

that every thought you think and every word that comes out of your mouth has

a direct effect on your life. It’s these tiny little statements that you make, day in

and day out, that shape the big picture of who you are and who you become.

Don’t believe me? Try this little experiment: Stop complaining for just three days

and see what happens. (Hint: Your Optimism pillar is probably going to get a

little sturdier.)

Complaints do nothing to serve you. In fact, complaining will work against you

more often than not. You need to eliminate this behavior if you’re going to break

through your barriers.

Complaining is rooted in the assumption that there’s something better out there

than what you currently have. If that weren’t the case, why would you be

complaining in the first place? There must be some kind of reference point,

something that we prefer over what we have.

But here’s the real kicker: By complaining, you acknowledge that there’s

something better out there and that you want it, but you’re also acknowledging

that you're not willing to take responsibility for creating it.

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Some people complain about money. Others complain about health. Trappings

of life, behavior of your spouse, crummy job… all of those things are common

grounds for complaining.

See… if we didn’t believe there was something better out there, we’d hardly

notice that other thing’s existence. But we create this image in our minds of

something better, knowing we’d prefer that to what we already have, and still

we find ourselves unwilling to take the risks that are required to attain those

things… so we whine and gripe instead.

What a vicious circle, eh?

YOU CAN STOP THE CYCLE

The point here is, if you (like me!) are guilty of running on this silly hamster

wheel of complaining, we have to admit that it isn’t very effective for getting

what we want. Clearly. Life is too short to waste time complaining, running

ourselves around and around when we could actually be getting somewhere

cool. We’re people, not hamsters! 


The funny thing is, people always seem to complain about things they could
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theoretically do something about. We don't complain about things we don't

have any control over, like gravity. But why don't people complain about

gravity? If it weren't for gravity, nobody would fall down the stairs, planes would

never crash, dishes would never break. But nobody complains about gravity.

And it's because gravity simply exists. Nobody can do anything about its

existence, so we just accept it.

We know that complaining won't change it, so we don't bother.

Instead, we use gravity to our advantage. We build things like slides on

playgrounds so we can have fun. We use drains in our showers to take away

waste water. Every sport we play uses gravity (skiing, high jump, discus

throwing, playing basketball, golf… all of them take full advantage of gravity).

Anything that we complain about is a situation that we can change, but we’ve

chosen not to.

We could get a better job, find a better partner, make more money, move to a

new city, live in a better house, eat healthier food. But all of these things would

require change, and we like feeling comfortable.

Nothing is stopping us from learning how to cook healthier food, refusing to be

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pressured by someone else, quitting the crappy job, trusting our gut, going back

to school, attending that seminar, taking better care of ourselves, asking for

help, or selling all the stuff we don't need. So why don't we just do these things?

ONE SIMPLE THING IS STOPPING YOU

Change involves risk. Risk is scary, and these are some big, life-altering

changes on the roster. It invites that old friend Fear over for lunch, and suddenly

you’re completely stuck with some undesirable company. Company that likes to

talk and talk and talk some more about all the things that could go wrong.


There's a risk of being unemployed, of being alone, of being made fun of by

other people. There's a risk of failure, of being wrong. Maybe your mom, dad,

neighbors, or your spouse will disapprove of your choices.

Taking these risks might require effort, money, or time that you don't want to

spend. It almost certainly would be difficult and uncomfortable on some level. 


Nobody wants to be uncomfortable. 


To avoid all of those uncomfortable feelings and experiences, we just avoid

making any changes. But if you want to get from where you are to where you
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actually want to be, you're going to have to take the risk.

Step One is to eliminate complaining. Get off the hamster wheel. Make the

decision to stop complaining, stop hanging out with people who complain, and

start making moves toward creating the life you actually want. Get that

negativity-on-repeat out of your life.


COMPLAINING IS A WASTE OF TIME

In case you need an extra kick to get going, here’s the other element of

complaining that makes it a complete waste of time: We usually complain to

someone who can't do anything about what we're complaining about…

because it’s safe. Because it ensures the survival of our comfort zone. So even if

there were a chance that complaining might bring about change, we make

sure to prevent that by complaining to the wrong people.

We go to work, and we complain about our spouse. Then we come home, and

we complain about our coworkers. When you complain to someone who can’t

do anything about it, nothing is going to change… and subconsciously, that’s

what you want. By avoiding change, you avoid risk, remember?

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It takes guts to tell your husband that you're not happy with the way things are

at home. But it doesn't take that same courage to tell your coworkers. It takes

guts to tell your coworker that they’re patronizing or they’re sloppy. It’s far easier

to tell your husband.

So Step Two is naturally to take your concerns to where they matter. If you can

learn to take that energy spent complaining and replace it with making

requests of the right people and putting out the effort to get what you want or

need in life, you’ll see better outcomes. You’ll get closer to what you really want

because you took action.

This is what successful people do, and it's what works. If you find yourself in a

situation you don't like, do something to make it more enjoyable, or leave.

Change the situation, or just get the heck out of there.

Don't just sit around and complain. Do something about it. You have 100%

responsibility for your own life. Nobody else is going to change your life and

make you happy… nor should they. You have to do it for yourself.

Remember: The world doesn’t owe you anything. Whatever you want, you have

to create. This means that your actions are what cause something to happen in

your life. You take the action, you get the result.
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YOU CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT

Not others. Not circumstances. Not degrees or spouses or bosses. You.

People who do this effectively are people who look at the facts square in the

face. Even if it's uncomfortable, they'll take steps to create their desired life. They

don't blame anybody or anything else for any problems they have.

This might seem a little too easy. It’s simple, sure, but it’s not easy. It requires

you to be aware of what's happening, what you're thinking, what actions you're

taking or not taking, and why you're taking or not taking those actions. You also

have to be willing to experiment and take risks. It requires you to confront your

fear and choose to make the change (and make progress) anyway.

One key element of making the change is getting feedback. Take a long, hard

look at yourself and see what comes up. Ask your family, friends, coworkers,

teachers, or clients for feedback on how you could be doing things better. See

what resonates. The areas where you feel the most resistance are the areas

that need the most attention.

FEEDBACK: THE MISSING LINK

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A lot of people hesitate to ask for feedback because they're afraid of what the

other person will say, but objective feedback relays the truth. It can burst your

bubble, but you're better off knowing the truth than living in the dark. Only once

you gain awareness of the truth can you then take action on it.

Feedback doesn’t just come from others, though. You'll always get feedback

from your decisions by looking at the outcomes. Slow down, pay attention to

what you're doing, and think about why you're doing it. If you're not getting any

clients, if your kids are mad, if you're not losing weight, if your house is a mess, if

you're just not happy… this is all feedback, and it is telling you that something

isn’t working.

If you find yourself in this situation, ask yourself, "What am I doing or not doing

that's causing this to happen? What is it that I'm doing that's working or not

working, and what should I do more of?”

For business issues: Should you practice more? Market more? Take more

training? Do you need to brush up on your skills?

For personal issues: Should you ask more questions? Is it time for more

feedback from your peers? Should you cut carbs? Start exercising more? Go on

more dates? Stop shopping so much?

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It’s time to quit complaining and start taking action on the things that aren’t

working in your life. Believe it or not, simply paying attention is the easiest and

fastest way to find out where the issues are. You just have to give up your

excuses and justifications for where you are right now, and finally face the

problem head-on.

Sometimes this means changing what you’re doing in the present. Sometimes it

means confronting your past. Quite often… it requires both.

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Starting something new — like a proofreading business — can be terrifying.

All the uncomfortable emotions come pouring in and, before we know it, we’re

overwhelmed by the mere thought of making something happen in our lives.

We’re afraid of what might happen if we fail.

Some of us might quit before we even start — we’re somehow already

convinced we’re not good enough. We might tell ourselves it’s too much work,

it’s too hard, or we won’t be able to deliver when the time comes to prove

ourselves. Some of us might get frustrated when we find out it’s not as easy as

we want it to be.

Others among us might be afraid of what could happen if we succeed. How will

our friends and family react? Will they be supportive? What if they try to stop

us? What if they’re not proud? What if they think we can’t do it?

Do you ever wonder why those emotions and doubts sneak in so readily? How

and where do we even learn to think that we’re going to fail before we even try?
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How did we learn that meeting others’ expectations — real or imagined —

matters more than being true to ourselves? How did we ever learn to believe

we’re not good enough?

For many of us — as is definitely the case for me — it could be a deep-seated

issue stemming from way back in grade school.

Remember how I said I’d uncovered my own limiting beliefs that no one liked

me, that no one valued what I said or did despite them saying otherwise, and

that any time I’d step out to try something, I’d just get squashed by someone

else?

Those beliefs were learned way back in middle school — over 15 years ago.

HERE’S HOW IT HAPPENED

When I was a student at Corner Lake Middle School in Orlando, Florida, it was

my dream to become student council president. I’d been in student council

since 6th grade, and right from the start I’d planned to “run for office” once I

reached 8th grade. I was great friends with the girl who was president when I

was in 7th grade, and we were even on the basketball team together. When she

endorsed me, I thought I was in for sure.

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I worked my butt off the entire summer before 8th grade, planning my

campaign, making posters, and writing my speech. I gave it everything I had,

and I felt ready and prepared when school resumed.

But kids that age are cruel, and as convinced as I was that I was the ideal

candidate, middle school elections are usually nothing more than a popularity

contest — and being the straight-A super-nerd that I was, let’s just say I wasn’t

exactly the most popular girl in school.

Fast-forward to election time. A girl who, up until this point, hadn’t even been

involved in student council at all decided to run against me. Although she was

part of the straight-A super-nerd crowd right along with me, her younger sister

was in 7th grade and part of the “in crowd.”

This popular sister somehow managed to get almost the entire 7th and 8th

grade classes to vote for her campaigning sibling — so I lost.

It was humiliating.

For so long, I was certain I was going to win. I truly was the most qualified

candidate, after all!

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The worst part wasn’t actually losing, though — it was when people (even some

I called “friends”) realized I was going to lose, and that made me a “loser.” Many

of them took it upon themselves to rub it in my face. One girl even had the

nerve to tell me one night at a school event, “No one likes you.” Obviously that’s

not true, and I know that now, but at age twelve those words cut deep.

From then until about the end of 2014 (15 years), I let those feelings impact my

life, and up until a short time ago I wasn’t even aware of it. The underlying

current of shame and frustration was masked by the periods of time when I

was happy, had great friends, and enjoyed my life.

Overall, despite being always popular but never “cool,” I was a pretty resilient

kid.

Throughout the rest of my secondary school and college years, I slowly began

to do things my own way — but other people’s opinions still mattered so much

to me that I constantly worried about what everyone thought of me. That may

have been, at least in part, because I had a friend with a habit of sticking her

nose where it didn’t belong.


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WHEN “THEY” THINK YOU CAN’T




In 2007, my junior year of college, I decided I wanted to live abroad in Germany

for a year.

One night before I left, a friend sat me down on her couch to tell me she didn’t

think I should go, that I wasn’t ready.

Her belief was that I couldn’t do it.

I don’t even remember how I responded. But a small part of me resented her

the entire time I was abroad. I still love this particular friend very much, and

while I have forgiven her for saying it, I will never forget that moment and how it

made me feel.

So, side-note lesson: Life is short — when someone wants to follow a dream,

don’t tell them not to. Ever. Even if you know they’re going to make mistakes.

And guess what? I did make mistakes, big ones, and at age 20 living on my

own in a foreign country, I did things that scarred me. But I don’t regret for a

second the decision to follow my heart and live in Germany for a year. That

experience made me who I am.

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When I got back from Germany in July 2008, I held on to the fire of life for a

while.

I met my future husband, Ben, in May 2009.

That summer, I traveled to Australia and Japan for six weeks.

I got my full-time job at the court reporting office in September, graduated

from UCF in December, and started dating Ben around the same time. We got

engaged in August 2010, and we got married in March 2011.

Right before our wedding, my friend Lea from Australia came to visit for two

weeks, and I got to take three unpaid weeks off from my job (which they loved

to rub in my face as a huge privilege for which I should be forever grateful…

MAN, I love working for myself!).

I believe that three-week-long taste of sweet freedom and independence,

along with getting married and our awesome honeymoon, was enough to

remind me that life was

about so much more than sitting in my lame job for 45 hours a week and

hating every minute of it.

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I should have quit right then. But I didn’t.

The thing is, if I HAD just refused to go back to work after the honeymoon, I’d

probably have been just as lost as I was when I got fired five months later (yup,

I got fired).

Those last five months, though, were hell. I hated that place more and more

each day.

I just didn’t know how to get out.

I didn’t know how to do what I wanted to do.

I didn’t know how to live my life on my own terms.

I didn’t know that I had that power.

But I learned.

That is one extra thing I hope you take with you as you read this guide: That you

have the power to live your life on your own terms. Sometimes new knowledge

is the missing piece. Mastery. And self-awareness.

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SCARS CAN BE POWERFUL (IF YOU ALLOW THEM TO

BE)

Maybe something “scarring” has happened to you, too. I used to have my

“Getting Fired” story published on my website, and I’d get emails about it on a

daily basis from people who resonated with the way I felt in that job — just tired

of working for someone else.

Tired of being chained to a desk.

Tired of being a puppet.

Tired of working a job I hated, to support someone else’s dream life.

Perhaps your scarring incident didn’t involve horrible bosses or being harassed

by classmates.

Maybe it was your parents or other family members who made you feel like

crap. Maybe a teacher. It doesn’t matter.

I do find, however, that much of our scarring happens around the middle school

years. I believe it’s true what they say about that being a very impressionable
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age… but when you’re the one in middle school, you don’t consciously think of

yourself as being impressionable because you think you know everything. So

when less-than-fun things happen that make a lasting impression on you, you

may not even realize it.

THE INFERIORITY COMPLEX

Looking back, I feel like my mind has subconsciously blurred the memories of all

three years of middle school. So many weird, awkward, confusing, and even

humiliating moments. I know I’m not alone. If it wasn’t middle school for you,

maybe it was elementary school, or even high school.

But for most people, middle school is a time of life where you are really figuring

yourself out — you’re discovering who you are and realizing that you deserve

respect… but you aren’t sure how to get it.

When people don’t give it to you, for whatever reason, you start to think you

don’t deserve it.

It’s a very personal struggle and can be damaging if you don’t know how to

navigate it (and most of us don’t). For me, I was left with a sense of inferiority,
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like I was never good enough to do what I really wanted to do. And I picked up

a strong paranoia that, if I tried, I’d be quickly found out and shut down.

Those feelings of inferiority and paranoia followed me for more than 15 years

before I finally realized they had a name:

Impostor syndrome.
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I spent 28 years completely in the dark that there was an actual name for the

way I’d felt for so long, until one day a transcript proofreading student emailed

me a YouTube video of Neil Gaiman delivering an inspirational commencement

speech at the University of the Arts class of 2012. She sent this video to me in

response to something I’d shared openly in our Facebook group about my fears

around starting my next project.

That video was the first time I’d ever heard the phrase “impostor syndrome.”

After I watched the video, I had to look it up immediately. The American

Psychological Association explains imposter syndrome (or phenomenon) like

this:

“Impostor phenomenon occurs among high achievers who are unable to

internalize and accept their success. They often attribute their

accomplishments to luck rather than to ability, and fear that others will

eventually unmask them as a fraud.”

Ever feel like that?

If you’re thinking, “Well, I’m not a high achiever, that can’t be me” — you’re not

alone! That is a key trait to impostor syndrome.

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In the face of tons of external evidence to the contrary, you just can’t accept the

fact that you’re a success. The success may be small according to the world’s

standards... or it may be success as measured by something other than your

bank account, such as recognition or professional accolades… but you’re a

success nonetheless. And instead of accepting and reveling in it, you deny it.

It’s automatic.

In fact, my first thought when I started researching impostor syndrome was, “I

don’t actually have that, I’m just looking to use it as an excuse so people won’t

find me out!”

Crazy, right? That’s how bad it was for me. My imposter syndrome was denying

my imposter syndrome! Luckily, simply becoming aware of the existence of

imposter syndrome has helped me immensely in overcoming it.

AWARENESS IS THE ANSWER

Awareness is often curative. If you’re afflicted with impostor syndrome, embrace

it. Recognize it. Know that those feelings are not real. You’re an intelligent human

being with great ability to enact change in your life.

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You’ve got what it takes. You just have to take action. One day at a time, one

step at a time.

Excellence, Confidence, Optimism, and Persistence (remember those?) are

your keys to success in this business and any business you may start in the

future.

“Every time I was called on in class, I was sure that I was about to embarrass
myself. Every time I took a test, I was sure that it had gone badly. And every
time I didn’t embarrass myself — or even excelled — I believed that I had
fooled everyone yet again. One day soon, the jig would be up.” 

- Sheryl Sandberg
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