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I am really touched
with your love and compassion. Love is being in harmony with one
self. We will understand love only when we are in communication
with our inner self. Since we all are in love with the concept of
love we have created, love remains far from us. Our distorted
version of love separates us from the cosmos. This love is far from
love, because love is not supposed to turn into pain, insecurities,
fear and hatred. In fact love turns hatred into love. Our love is
mere personal preferential attachment. It may seem perfect in the
beginning but soon turns into conflicts, pain, envy, anger, and
hatred.
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separate us from the world. Love is inclusive not exclusive. With
time it turns into slavery of a different kind; it gets us like a habit
we can’t get enough. Even the thought of losing our partner can
drive us nuts. Any other person coming close to our partner can
burn us in jealousy. We experience intense fear, fear of a lonely
tomorrow. We become doubtful.
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identify our self with our egoistic mind, which is incompetent to
guarantee us blissful life because love comes from our inner
presence. What we experience as love is human emotions rising
from attachment. Love is encompassing.
Bhagavadgita.
Until we access our own being we will never be able to give love.
If we look around consciously we will realize that we have
immense potential to hate the person we claim to love the most.
The moment conflicts begin we start oozing poison, all kinds of
emotional poison, hostility, hatred, deceive, lies, more the
intimacy, more the pain. It takes such an ugly turn one cannot even
imagine once there was love. We seek completeness in our partner,
but he himself is incomplete how can he help us become complete.
He is also seeking love in the wrong place. Soon enough low
empty feeling engulfs both the partners. Which turns into
depression, resentment, anger, fear and indifference.
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We tend to look for this wholeness in children, in parents, in
friends, in business and in possessions. They are just a part of our
life, not the source of our salvation. Subsequently we pass our fear,
hatred and insecurities to our children, friends and also our parents.
We give what we have ….law of nature!
In love, our intensity and love will increase with time. We will not
take our partner for granted; there will be respect and love for what
our partner is doing. We will also respect our partner’s freedom,
desires and give space. We will forgive mistakes because we
know, no one is perfect. Like we forgive our child’s mistake. We
will not judge our partner for being so incompetent and dishonest.
We will have immense acceptance rather than trying to prove our
partner wrong. If we cannot do that we should gracefully move
away, not manipulate. We should be honest to tell the truth no
matter what may be the consequences.
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able to accept what we do not like. Its natural not to like something
but to resist that is a huge leek of energy. Like pain is a natural
process but suffering is self-created. Try it; if you accept your pain
with out resentment, it goes away sooner than you expect it. But
we have the tendency to make it larger than it is by getting hyper,
by saying why only me? We suffer more than we are needed to
suffer because of our resistance. One’s karma needs expression…
let it happen.
“One who sees me every where and everything in me. I watch him
all the time and he also looks at me all the time.”Gita.
Alas! We identify ourselves too much with this body, mind and
intellect .We forget the essence of our being. This mind makes us
dislike such love because mind needs to feel exclusive. He should
only love me, I am extraordinary, and my mother should not love
any other children because she belongs to me. Wife does not allow
husband to love his own mother; mother does not like her son
being loved by his wife. What if God becomes like us. We have
even made God exclusive to ourselves that is why we fight in the
name of God. One touched by god’s grace knows no difference
between the worshipper of stone and devotee of God. For him,
both are fundamentally correct so there is no conflict, no
contradiction and no fight. That is why love has become rare.
Some time we do get glimpses of love, when we do some actions
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without any calculations, without any selfish motive and intention.
When we are in certain situations where there is no time to think
what’s there for me. When there is a silence in the flow of mind.
We feel touched by something and experience tears of bliss. We
experience the joy of our inner bliss. Such sensation of great joy
unexpectedly appears in the most unlikely places. We get so
touched and moved that we experience smile and tears at the same
time. This is love. Why it is so difficult to love? Our potential to
love depends on our connection with our being. Love is
experience. You have to practice love. Love does not need any
justification or explanation. Love is not mean or insecure, love is
generous, love is profound, love is magnanimous, and love gives
freedom to encompass everyone. Love does not punish, Love does
not make one feel guilty. Love is god.
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for a good cause, not necessarily by being monetarily charitable to
some organization. She got a fabulous opportunity of going to
Tharpa Choeling Nunnery in Muktinath, Mustang a part of Nepal
bordering Tibet to teach English to the nuns there. Her sojourn in
that amazingly beautiful place was an overwhelming experience.
As shared by
her, the nuns
aged between
12 to 25 yrs
had not much
exposure to the
outside world;
their world in
which they
happily and
contently lived Yanki with nuns
actually had an
air of
compassion, love and respect for all sentient beings. Their every
little act spoke volumes about their compassion toward their fellow
mates, the people residing in the neighboring village, animals,
insects, and the nature that surrounded the nunnery. It was amazing
to see all these women living together in harmony for others with
no expectations from anyone. By the end of Yanki’s stay in the
nunnery, she had more to take back home than the nuns who
passionately tried learning English.
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beggar no matter how much we have in our treasure. You learn the
art of giving, you kill the beggar in you. Always remember a
beggar can never be happy. Choice is yours what you want to be.
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Who glows here will glow there too… please trust me.
Unconsciously living has caused immense danger to humanity and
cosmos. Live while you are alive.
I have been in the construction business for a long while now, with
both parents working on the site, their children are brought to the
construction site and left unattended because of no option. They
often become victims of fatal accidents likely to occur in such an
environment. If they escape from accidents, it’s the unhygienic
surrounding and hunger that leaves them tormented. Since then I
wanted to come up with a facility where such parents could leave
their children without having to worry about their safety, where
their time is utilized in the best possible way.
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which includes breakfast, lunch and a healthy snack before they
head back home. The children in the crèche have been given
proper immunization.
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nothingness. Everything arises out of this nothingness .We ignore
the experiences of dream world and deep sleep worlds or we just
dismiss it as mere rest for the body. If we understand these three
states of our consciousness it will be easier for us to understand the
pure state of consciousness, which gets totally ignored. Due to that,
we do not understand our self and the creator or that emptiness we
all have arisen from.
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fact, she said she wouldn’t call me often, as before because she
knows that I am okay. And I know for sure she will change her
attitude towards life.
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Recently Varsha, age 4,
went for a surgery, which
changed her life
completely. The day Anki
Home took her in she had
a huge tumor on her right
cheek, which sordidly
covered a portion of her Varsha (before surgery)
innocent yet malnourished
face. I decided on
getting it operated though
her parents were not so
keen, also because she is
not a son. Parents were
more than satisfied that
they had a place to leave
their children while they
work.
At Medanta Medicity Varsha with Doctor (after surgery)
Hospital she was diagnosed
with Right cheek Vascular Malformation.She had a history of
swelling in her right cheek since birth that had been increasing
ever since. Her surgery was done by Dr.Rakesh K Khazanchi
MBBS, MS, MCH (plastic surgery), Director plastic, Aesthetic
&reconstructive surgery. The entire surgery which would have cost
us close to 4 lacs, was performed for an amount of Rs.50,000/.
This was made possible by Dr. Rakesh K Khazanchi to whom we
are highly obliged. Varsha now lives a happy childhood without
the baggage of carrying the tumor on her face. She now appears
more energetic and happy.
We have another bundle of joy called Dichen who stays with us.
Apparently her mother eloped with another man, leaving three
children behind and taking with her every penny they had. She is
under nourished; in spite of being slightly more than 2yrs anyone
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would mistake her for a
six month old. When we
first brought her in, she
was traumatized, would
Dichen (maid)
not smile or respond.
Dichen is being medically
treated, an extreme case of
malnutrition, however she
is recovering quicker than
expected, an x ray report
also shows a small
fracture
on her left wrist. For some
reason she was very
scared of men, when we
initially got her. God only knows what this little kid must have
gone through. Now she is being taken care and loved by everyone
and we are slowly breaking the ice. She is steadily beginning to
trust people around her, and has started laughing.
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let’s join hands and take a pledge to make an effort to do what we
can for these little children. And if you want to make a difference
to your self, do it now. Your one noble thought can make a
difference to many lives. Let us be the light, not the source of
darkness for ourselves.
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expression. If we suppress it, it will give rise to some other issue.
Pain is a natural process, suffering is in our hands. We cannot deny
life its expression. This will create more karma. We have to
consciously drop all our tendencies and all physical and mental
identifications in order to see and experience our inner nature,
which is so badly clouded by them. Karmic account is not recorded
somewhere else in some other realm it is in us. Imagine your self
like a walking talking chip of karmic account. Its beyond our
comprehension to imagine the memories knowledge and
information it carries. We carry it in our mind, body and energy. It
is a very different kind of recording, still physical. We have to
learn to dismantle all our mental and physical tendencies and
identifications or else we will keep on coming back to fulfill our
unfulfilled desires. Because of this chip we are bounded by the
limitations of our body, mind and intellect and subject to law of
impermanence and suffering of samsaric mind. Remember all the
recording is longing for expressions. But the truth is we are
eternally free. All the suffering and the bondage and samsaric
nuisance are imaginary as that of a dream. Brought about by the
ignorance of our waking state of illusive mind. Our inner being is
absolute, immaculate, and ever blissful. Human being a supreme
pathological case because we believe all our lies as the truth.
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misunderstand anything before you understand something
properly. Our preconceived notion sometime keeps us away from
beautiful beings and phenomena.
Lets be aware of the cosmos, let us not separate our self from the
cosmos, we are the parts of the cosmos, allied with each other with
the veins of interdependent karmic cycle and the law of
impermanence, sustained by birth and death permanently flowing,
like a river, if we break it, its just a weak hand full of water but
together it’s a river with immense energy power and spirit.
Anki
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