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perfectionism:
Narrative conversations with
those suffering from eating issues
by Shona Russell
In this paper, I will discuss some of the narrative practices that have
guided me in work with people suffering the effects of eating disorders.
In preparing this paper, I have chosen to carefully review notes and
transcripts of therapeutic conversations that span several years and which
trace the journey of Katerina in her determination to reclaim her life from
illness. I would like to acknowledge and thank Katerina for her significant
contribution to our work together and for her willingness to share aspects
of her life.
In focussing on those tiny moments of life when TAKING CARE IN THERAPEUTIC CONVERSATIONS
Katerina was responding to practices of Initially, perfectionism was so active in every
perfectionism, other accounts about her life began aspect of Katerina’s life that even our conversations
to emerge. At every opportunity, I would ask were at risk of being sabotaged by it. Over many
Katerina: ‘Well, what might you call that? What years, Katerina’s experience had enabled her to gain
might be some names that describe what you’re a comprehensive understanding of perfectionism
talking about?’ Just as there were very many names and how it worked. I thought Katerina’s
given for the different operations and ways in which understandings could help. I was interested in
perfectionism worked, Katerina also began to consulting Katerina about what she knew about the
identify many names for these alternative operations of perfectionism, and this enabled us to
experiences of life. A theme of ‘playfulness’ speak about ways that perfectionism might infiltrate
emerged out of focusing on these tiny moments of our therapeutic conversations. I was interested in
difference. And, as you can tell, there was a sense ways that therapeutic conversations could be
of fun in this. In this way there was parallel story safeguarded from the workings of perfectionism and
development through our work together. the steps I could take towards this hope. Some of
Some of the emerging stories that were named Katerina’s understandings that became the basis of
as significant by Katerina and more fully developed discussion and influenced what took place in our
over time, include: conversations, included:
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