I had a problem with my laptop and it took me more
than 3 days to fix it. By His grace I was able to and I am very grateful. This week’s blog is about my favorite saint, St. Therese of Lisieux (a.k.a. The Little Flower, and St. Therese of the Child Jesus). I was familiar with her name, but I only got to know her more when I read the wonderful book written by Fr. Jacques Philippe—The Way of Trust and Love. God sent the book to me during those times when the storms in my life seem to be insufferable and I do not know what to make of them. St. Therese through Fr. Jacques made me see my sufferings as something that I can use to strengthen my faith in God, and that I can trust in God’s Divine Providence. Before anything else, allow me to share St. Therese’ brief background. Her name is Therese Martin. She was born on January 2, 1873 to Louis and Zelie Martin, and she grew up at Alencon and then Lisieux, in northern France. She was the youngest of nine children and it was said that she suffered a lot during her childhood. Her mother died of breast cancer at the age of four, then at the age of ten, she had a serious sickness which was cured by the smile of the Virgin Mary. When she was 14, on Christmas night 1886, she had a conversion that enabled her to enter the Carmelite convent at the age of 15. At the age of 24, she died on September 30,1897 of tuberculosis. I do not know everything about St. Therese, but I will be discussing a few points about what I know about her teachings. Basically, these principles made me choose her as my Patron Saint: 1. The call for holiness is for everyone. This is the “little way” St. Therese is particularly known for. She believed that “holiness is not an exceptional path, but a call to all Christians, from which nobody can be excluded. Even the weakest and most wretched of men can answer the call to holiness”. She also said that, “God could not inspire us with desires that were unrealizable”. Perhaps, to many holiness seems unattainable if not impossible. But she urges us to put up with our imperfections. She further emphasized that it is Jesus’ arms that will lift us up to Heaven. That we do not need to grow up, on the contrary, we need to stay little, to become more and more little. 2. To stay little is to stay humble. Humility is “receiving everything from God in trust, prayer and simplicity”. It is “consenting to receive everything necessary from God’s hand, day by day, without worrying about either the past or the future”. It also means “recognizing everything good and beautiful in my life (my qualities, the good I can do, and so on), as a gift from God”. Finally, it is “to accept ourselves as we are, to love ourselves as we are”. 3. The path of littleness is the path of trust. Total trust in God’s goodness and faithfulness is at the center of holiness. St. Therese said that, “What offends Jesus, what wounds his heart, is lack of trust.” 4. We nourish our trust in God by prayer and studying God’s word. “We have to make time for a heart-to-heart conversation with God. God does not ask us to pray ‘well’ but he does invite us to pray without getting tired of it or becoming discouraged.” St. Therese also emphasized about the Gospel, that it is “always new, a new light. We get shut up inside our habits, routines, mistrustfulness, mediocre aims, and lukewarmness; in the face of all of that, the Gospel is always a new word.” 5. We should never doubt God’s forgiveness. We should not only ask for forgiveness, but also receive it and believe in it. We should do all we can to avoid sin, and when aware of having sinned, we should tell God we are sorry and ask him to forgive us. To do that, it is good to go to confession regularly, at least once a month if possible. We should always do this with boundless trust in God’s mercy. There are no limits to God’s forgiveness. 6. We should live one day at a time. A necessary expression of trust is self-abandonment in the present moment. Abandonment is “not to go endlessly over the past, but leave it entirely to God and his mercy. Not to torment ourselves about tomorrow, but entrust it to his Providence”. St. Therese urges us to “live today as we should, according to the paths of the Kingdom, in trust and simplicity, seeking God and abandoning ourselves to him”. And God will take care of the rest. 7. Gratitude should be our way of life. “The more trust we have, the more we thank God for the way our lives are going, even if plenty of things aren’t exactly as we would like, the more we will advance in holiness. If we give thanks for what we have already received, we will receive a lot more, and in the end we’ll see our hearts being filled to overflowing.” 8. Every trial is a trial of faith, hope, and love. We are invited to respond by deciding to have faith: “I believe! I continue to trust God! Even though I can’t see, even though I don’t feel anything, even though appearances are against it, I decide to believe. I will believe that God is faithful, that he will not let me fall, that he can draw something positive out of everything that is happening to me.” Every trial is also a trial of hope. It can become a path of life, for Christ has risen from the dead and is present everywhere, sowing the seeds of new life in every situation. Even in those that seem most negative and most desperate, God is present. The answer we’re invited to give is: “I’m counting on the Lord, I’m expecting help from him. That doesn’t mean I’m not going to apply all the human resources available, but at the deepest level I abandon myself into God’s hands, and it is in him that I hope”. Every trial is a trial of love: “In every trial there is also a certain purification of love: love for God, love for ourselves, or love for our neighbor. It’s not to destroy love, but so that love becomes deeper, truer, more evangelical and, basically, happier”. Most of the thoughts I gathered were from the book of Fr. Jacques. I believe that the eight points summarize the main points of the book and the teaching of St. Therese. By the way, as I was writing this blog entry, I have come to read that St. Therese also consecrated herself to the Blessed Virgin. In a way, I felt that everything in my life is always leading to the Mama Mary. All these leadings of course only lead me closest to Christ, her Son. I hope this article inspired you to trust in God like a child. Do not ever forget that you are His child, and you have God as your Father. Lastly, before I end, I hope you have your Patron Saint by now. If you still haven’t, pray about it, I am sure you have one of your own, a companion that Jesus gave you as you go along you journey home.
“I wish to spend my Heaven in doing good on earth.”
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