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Domestic Violence
Bethany Onopa
Abstract
Domestic Violence is more common than some may imagine. The reasoning for this may be
caused by the absence of awareness about domestic violence. There are many ways that the
people involved in domestic violence in El Paso, UTEP, young adults as well as any other people
inquiring can be made aware of the help that they can receive. Domestic violence affects people
of all ages in various ways and is not something that should be taken lightly. People should be
more aware of things like this that happen in their community so that they can help prevent and
Domestic Violence
“behaviors used by one person in a relationship to control the other.” No matter what type of
relationship it is, as long as you are domestically involved with each other, it is considered
domestic violence if they prevent a partner from contacting family and friends, withholding
money, getting/keeping a job, or stalking, intimidating or threatening and causing physical harm.
As such, many relationships do have their highs and lows, but there should never be any sign of
this kind of behavior because it is not healthy for any individual to experience. Domestic
violence is an issue that does not only affect the victim and the perpetrator, but there is help for
all those affected by it from both the UTEP and El Paso community.
Domestic violence is a problem that can affect anyone in any family position. Being
involved with domestic violence does not always imply directly. One type of family position
group that is affected almost as much by domestic violence as the direct victims are their
children. According to Carter et al. (1999), children are considered to be the “invisible victims”
of domestic violence. The reasoning behind their life being affected so greatly by these actions is
due their parents, who are supposed to be setting a good example for them, are setting a bad
example that could alter their way of thinking permanently by witnessing the events they do (Pg.
4). Another assumption made about domestic violence according to Horner (2002), is that it is
always the man inflicting damage on the woman, and the men who are victims get pushed aside
stereotyping males as always being the offenders, when that is in fact incorrect. To help bring
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awareness to this issue, the European Sentinel Network of Practice is involving primary care
practitioners in more screenings to get help for these men (pg. 44).
The term “young adult” simply refers to a person who is in their teens or early twenties.
As a young adult, one would assume, they should be in high school or college, making new
friends and possibly starting to date or think seriously about their relationship between them and
their significant other. Once this mindset of “getting serious” becomes official, one should
always be wary about their significant other by making sure they not only feel completely
comfortable in their choice on making this person an addition to their family but be also assured
that this person is a healthy person to spend the rest of their life with. According to the El Paso
County Attorney (2018), 1 in 5 teens that have been in a serious relationship report being hit,
slapped or pushed by a partner. Some may think that domestic violence is “rare” or “not a
problem in this community” but statistically speaking that is indeed not the case. To further delve
into the known facts (as there are still unknown cases not included) locally, 551 females and 273
males were housed by the Center Against Family Violence Emergency Shelter and 299 of the
total resident were over the age of 17. In a recent year, 5,512 domestic violence cases were
presented to the El Paso District Attorney’s Office (“Facts and Statistics”). The victims housed
there as well as the victims who spoke out are not an accurate statistic as to how many cases are
currently affecting the people in the entire city, but this is a startling number that could
potentially have exponential growth if victims did not have to be afraid to speak out.
All cultures have different standards on how a relationship with a significant other should
be upheld. El Paso is not only a border city between two states as well as two countries, but it is
also home to Fort Bliss, where soldiers from all over the world can be housed, so the culture
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within this city is quite diverse. According to local statistics, the Center Against Family Violence
Emergency Shelter housed 551 females and 273 males from being domestically violated. This
statistic alone proves that it is not a rare occurrence, and with all the diversity in our city, it is
easy to see that domestic violence happens more often than people may think, and it also
happens to people of all kinds, not just certain ethnic, racial, sexually oriented or any other
Domestic violence is not likely to be something that is on the mind of single college
students looking for a potential partner, or who is just starting a relationship with someone new.
Domestic violence can also be referred to as intimate partner abuse, domestic abuse or
relationship abuse, which broadens the spectrum for the different situations between college
students as they discover themselves and their relationship preferences. The Domestic Abuse
Intervention Project has created a list of signs to be watchful for to help our students here at
UTEP, and anyone else who may be inquiring, make sure that their partner is healthy and safe for
Who Can Help and Where Can People Get Help From
According to Vincent et al. (2000) in an assessment done on women who seek shelter
from domestic violence, the women who are not able to leave have already developed
psychological problems from the abuse. These problems include depression, low self-esteem,
posttraumatic stress disorder, substance abuse, or suicidality but hope should not be lost, and
there is still help for these women (and men) (pg. 79-86). Although it is stereotypical to assume
that women are always the victims and men are always the villains, these assessments can apply
to both men and women on either side of the conflict. According to Vincent et al. (2000) once
more, in an assessment done on how interventions for men who batter can help, they list many
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different methods that they list both the pros and critiques to (because different methods work for
different people) cognitive-behavioral model, current group practice, and couples therapy. These
suggestions are all helpful ways that men (and women) who want to seek out help.
On our own UTEP campus there are ways for the students specifically to get help. At
UTEP there are many ways to get help as both a victim and a perpetrator, the first being The
OCCCR. The OSCCR is an acronym for The Office of Student Conduct and Conflict Resolution,
which was created specifically for handling domestic violence situations on campus at UTEP.
The OSCCR has a website where students can find information on how to contact people to help
them with domestic violence issues they may be dealing with. Simply go to
As for many people who are not students, or students who may simply need help in a
more serious or private situation, when using any web browser, there are plenty of websites
where victims can get shelter and advice as well as places where violators can find places to get
help if they seek it. Someone who seeks immediate help can simply dial 911 on their phone to
receive assistance with an immediate response, and there are other places where anyone can do
research on how to get out of a domestically violent situation. The most commonly used websites
thehotline.org. Thehotline.org is also a very helpful place where violators can get help as well as
new-hope.org, and respectphoneline.org. These are but a few of the enormous amount of
resources online that can be utilized for any situation of domestic violence that someone may be
involved in.
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Conclusion
Domestic violence is a very serious topic that is not only quite common but that people
do not talk about for fear of judgement, their partners or the law. Domestic violence affects many
people of all kinds, and communities should feel obligated to be more informed so that they can
help people involved get the help they need as there are many resources to help them do so.
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Figure 1. “Think of the wheel as a diagram of the tactics an abusive partner uses to keep their
victim in the relationship. While the inside of the wheel is comprised of subtle, continual
behaviors, the outer ring represents physical, visible violence. These are the abusive acts that are
more overt and forceful, and often the intense acts that reinforce the regular use of other more