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OF THE DYING
JAY E. ADAMS
learning the truth usually fail to recognize the bad effects of not
divulging it.2
Secondly, every man is entitled to know that he is likely to die
soon. Why should everyone else but the dying one know? Who
is the principal person involved in the illness? Christ took time
on the Mount of Transfiguration and in the Garden of Geth-
semane to prepare for his death. In these two places he dis-
cussed the coming death with others and with God. True, his
death had implications greater than all of the deaths of all of
the men of all time lumped together. Though in no way
approximating his, a weak, fearful sinner's own death is the most
formidable encounter of his life. If Jesus needed to prepare for
his death and to discuss it with God and with others, so too do
we.
Now also super-impose upon this discussion the patriarchial
scene of Genesis 49. The dying Jacob gathers his children
round about him and speaks to each about his future. Contrast
that with the most common modern mode of dying, in which the
father and husband disappears from the scene as a deceived,
doped, deluded, and despairing person — dying alone in a stupor
without a parting word on his lips for anyone. Everyone is
separated and alone; no one can reach through to touch or hold.
There is little to carry away but regrets, unresolved problems,
and a gnawing sense of guilt over the grand deception. Which
is more Christian?
Christian pastors must begin to instruct members of their
congregations to insist upon changes. Medical personnel often
have claimed rights and prerogatives at this point that do not
belong to them. Christian families must begin to stand up and
be counted concerning such matters as the insatiable prolonging
of life under vegetative and totally artificial conditions when
its maintenance is merely mechanical. They also must begin to
require physicians and hospitals to tell the truth to the patient.
They should insist upon the use of medication that will permit
the patient to function with mental clarity so long as he desires
in order to speak with God, his wife, family, minister, and
friends.3 Physicians must be told that pain is not the only evil,
2
Cf. Samuel Standard and Helmuth Nathan, Should the Patient Know
the Truth? (Springer Pub. Co.: N.Y., 1955), pp. 40, 42, 65, 72, 77f.
8
It is true that there may come a time when the words of Proverbs
31:6, 7 become pertinent. But Christ's rejection of such an anesthetic
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and that it must not always become the principal target for
attack, taking precedence over all else. Moreover, medication
exists today that, in most cases, will relieve a patient of pain
without surrendering consciousness.
The pastor also must consider what to do when faced with
choices between family, medical, and scriptural viewpoints.
Picture a (not unusual) situation in which a husband has
cancer which has been declared "terminal," the likelihood being
that he will not live another six months. The physicians have
told the family, but together they have decided to deceive the
sick man. "Your problem is curable," they have informed him,
"but conditions may become worse before they get any better."
Joe, the patient, is a believing member of your congregation.
The family tells you about his condition and what they have
done about it. They assume that you will go along. What will
you do?4 As a faithful minister of the gospel, you must do
something like the following:
1. Tell them that this lie is a sin against God, against Joe,
against his wife and family, and against the church (which is
hampered thereby in exercising its proper ministry toward him).
An attempt should be made to persuade them to tell the truth
(many of the reasons mentioned above might be cited — the
benefits of the last weeks' planning and growing together, the
ability to grieve with one another rather than in the bitterness
of isolation, his right to know and his need to prepare himself,
his affairs, and his family — but none of these should take
precedence over the fact that to lie to Joe is a sin, perhaps the
greatest deceit that ever could be committed against another
human being). The pastor may even offer to be the one to
break the news to Joe (Joe may already know or strongly
suspect — as in so many cases). To do so takes boldness to be
lovingly frank. The pastor who does so must ask God for
tender courage. But to do so is also to have the privilege of
δ
Every minister should be ready and able to give help and direction
to dying members (or others) who seek advice on willing a portion of
their estate to the church, theological seminaries, or other Christian
organizations. Such information often can be obtained readily from
officers of the organization itself. Mr. Robert den Dulk, of Westminster
Theological Seminary, who is an expert in such matters, has expressed
his willingness to give help to pastors who would like to learn how best
to handle the many problems connected with this matter. He may be con
tacted at the seminary: Westminster Theological Seminary, Chestnut
Hill, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, 19118.
6
The general question should have been discussed and settled with
the other elders in the church long before this particular instance arose.
Their commitment to back up the pastor in such situations at times could
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