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don’t work.
about parents, saying "I won’t" or "you can’t make me," etc.
them in the listeners own words in a way that lets them know
A few brief exchanges of this sort for each child every day are
necessary.
"You seem to only break the rules when your are in a group"
etc.
activity.
they did not say, "no." It puts the struggle and control back
method becomes.
right direction. For instance, if you are trying to teach the skill
are doing, stand up, look a the visitor, walk over to them,
make eye contact, smile, say "hello," extend their right hand
to shake, say "my name is…," etc. To ask for all of that from
new cam in. After a few times they would need to stop what
learned.
every youth.
12. Consequenting – Consequences may be used to
the specific youth and should always support each other in the
reduce anxiety.
ourselves.
than to deal with them after they occur. A very effective tool
way you could handle it. How do you think he would respond
to that?" "Is that the response you want from him?" "How else
might you phrase that idea?", etc. If they have trouble coming
be ideas such as, "You cannot hit your roommate when you
are angry, but you can go for a brisk walk, write in your
journal, talk about how you feel, etc." The goal is to replace
acceptable and still meets the same need. The message should
always be, "your needs and feelings are normal and okay and
we are here to help you express them in ways that will allow
future.