Perception of love in young adults

Love is a universal phenomenon. Everyone in life

experiences love but their attitudes and experiences of love
differs radically. It is a strong pozitive emotion on affection
and attachement. It is a feeling of intimacy and care for
someone. Everyone wants to feel special and to cared of .
When you find a person how really cares for you, is
honest, sincere and give you happeness then you
automatically get attached to that person. The felling that her
or she give you is special and you don t want it ti fade away
wich in turn keep people thogether in a relationship. Men and
women belong to two different planet, and that s a dobtless
fact.
Perception of love- women vs men
1. Emotional needs
Each on of the two species tends to give what they want to
recive, and not what the other one actually needs. Men like to
feel appreciated, needed and trusted by their partners, they
also require time off. Women, on the other hand, need to be
understood, share feelling with their men and talk their
problems out, feel cared for, supported emotionally and
respected.
2. Self-express skills
In general, women tend to be more expressive than men,
especially when it comes to feelings. Women are better than
men at openly expressing love in romantic relationships.
Women are more interesed in people, feelings and
relationships, while men are more caught up in practicalities
and logic.
3. Actions vs words
Based on the previous point, man have a tendency to show
their love trought affectionate meaningful actions and
initiating fun activities instead of using words. It doesn t mean
that guys are incapable or feeling love. But for a lot guys, love
is a big scary word that they often have a hard time saying out
loud. Actions always speak lauder than words.
4. The brain evolution
Men have the mental ability to detach themselves and
suspend their emphaty as a mechanism to distress and face
everyday challenges, whereas women s brains have developed
much more relational roles. this explains the fact that women
need to connect more, seek support and talk therapy to found
solutions to their problems, while men on the oder side would
rather zone out and avoid sharing their problems. The key is
to chomprehend how your partner s brain reacts to tension and
cope with it.
5. Emotional cycle
Like a stretched rubber band, men experence emotional
cycles . The approaching, distancing themselves then
approaching again defines men cycles of emotional
closeness, their desire and ataction back to their partners are
fuelled by emotional insolation. Unlikely, women seek
sensing security about their relationships and their partner s
feelings, they need to be constantly reminded of their lovers
passion