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Rogationist Pedagogy
Fr. Viktor Emmanuel Aurellana, RCJ
3/5/010
I learned that…
Our life as human person has full of experiences. Each one of us for sure has its own
experience of the happiest and sadness moment in life. However like any other people my life is
composed of different kind of experience from the happiest to the most sadness. If I’m going to
write all those experiences that I have perhaps one day is not enough to recall and write it one
by one. Often time’s common people are always saying that life is a journey. And for me
however it’s very true. As long as we live in this world our task is to journey and search for the
meaning of it. I can’t imagine from 1989 to 2010, 20 years have gone so fast. I didn’t notice the
time I’m 20 years old already. It’s just like you sleep one night then when you woke up your
already 20 years old in the world. But this is the reality in man’s life. Time is so fast.
However with this question I found myself recalling my past experiences. Recalling the past I
found myself very different already. I grown up already I said to myself. Yes I know I grown up
physically and I see it as face the mirror. But the question hanging for myself is that did I mature
I’m in the seminary for almost four years and I have lot experiences of happiness and
sadness. I find seminary as my second home. However like in the family we are all brothers.
There are also parents but not our biological parents. Seminary is a place for those who desire
It is very different from the house where I grown up. But when I was already inside the
formation house I asked myself again, “where did I first form?” Then I realized that I was
formed by the Lord before my family. However it was my family who formed well from the
moment I learn to speak, walk, and study. I can consider our home as the first formation house
in my life before the seminary. In our home my parents are my first formators. They were the
I remember my childhood days with my beloved parents they keep always reminding
me that whenever I ask for favor or talk to a person older than me I should always use the word
“po and opo” as sign of respect. Even at this time I still carry this attitude. How nice to have a
parents like them. I’m so thankful to the Lord. Indeed it’s a great help for me. However I say to
myself that if would be become a parent someday I would also teach the things that they
Moreover of fifteen years of schooling from kinder to elementary, and from high school
to college I encountered different kinds of teacher with different style of teaching. I can’t even
remember or recall some of their names because it’s been a long time already. However each
of them became significant in my life because each of them have its own contribution in my
educational journey.
I can’t count the times I was scolded by my teacher because of being naughty in class.
Every time I remember those moments that I was scolded by my teacher because of
naughtiness it reminds me of my previous mistakes. But that moment became so significant to
My father constantly reminding me that should not be a “pasaway” and be a good boy
with others and don’t repeat the same mistake that I’ve committed. This constant reminder by
I love reading books, magazines and news paper. But before I found my fashion in
reading I have an experience of having an irritation in reading. I remember the time my father
told me that I should love reading books because it’s a nice hobby and it enhance your skill in
reading and pronouncing words than to play along the street together with other children.
When I was in elementary I use to watch cartoon every time I arrive from school.
However my father noticed that it became my hobby and I seldom open my books.
What my father did is that he keeps the television inside their room so I can’t watch my favorite
cartoon series. What I did too is that in order to watch my favorite cartoon series is I go to the
scolded me. From that time my father told me that before five in the afternoon I should be at
home and instead of watching television I should read book and I cannot go out of the house
until he has not given me permission. It was the rule of my father in our home. As his son my
obligation is to obey. I feel angry and I almost cry at that time because I will miss a lot of
Every time I arrived from school my father is giving me something to be read like
magazine and news paper. I still remember the magazine that he gave to me and it is entitled
“Philippine Journal”, it’s a burden for me to read that magazine. In fact it was the first magazine
I’ve finish to read from cover to cover. My mother then was a loyal subscriber of that magazine
and almost every month we had a new edition. I have no other choice but to read magazine.
That magazine contains different stories about Filipino values. My father thought to abstain
from watching television specially from watching cartoon series. However as grow up it became
my hobby until I step on high school. I remember my friends in high school they get irritated to
me because every time we enter the library I used read news paper brows magazines.
Even her in the seminary I brought that hobby. Our Bro. assistant used to put the news
paper on the Salas at second floor. Every time I passed along the Salas I can’t control myself to
read news paper. Often times it consumes my siesta in reading. However I realized that my
father is correct because I have seen the result from me. This learning from my father is really a
treasure that I will keep wherever I go. I can really say to myself that it was a big development
In the seminary like the stories of other seminarians a also experienced being scolded by
priest and my Bro. assistant. On the first time that I was scolded is when I was just a freshman. I
almost want to go out of the seminary. Because at home I was not used to be scolded by my
parents. In our home I’m not really cleaning the C.R. it’s always our maid. However, I was
forced how to clean C.R. On my first time I feel itchy in touching the water inside the toilet bowl
because it’s dirty. That time I skip to clean the toilet bowls. I thought it will not be noticed by
my Bro. assistant. But it was still seen by Bro. I’m scolded and he demonstrates to me the
proper way of cleaning. Actually I really feel anxious that time but I can do nothing because it’s
my fault. That experience is a lesson. Now every time I saw the toilet Bow not clean I always
Indeed mistake is good teacher. In our life our mistakes will teach us how to correct it. It
helps to develop our failure in life. However as I continue my journey here in the seminary I
realized that I always learned from my mistakes. It is in my mistakes were I realized my failures
in life. That’s why whenever I am scolded I never get anxious again because I now that it will
lead me to the proper way. Fear not to commit mistakes because it would take us to the right
path. We should always remember that failures and mistakes in life are great teachers.
However, after all those experiences of mine that happened in my life struggle
continues still in my journey. It doesn’t mean that after all those experiences I’m free already
from the challenges of life. As long as we live in this world challenges are always part of man’s
life. Thus we live in the world where almost everywhere and everyday there is a new challenge
waiting for us. In my four years of my stay here in the seminary there were lots of problems
that I have encountered that really change my personality. If I am going to look at myself today
I am already very different compared before, I have gone so far already. Many people are
saying particularly my batch mates in high school that I am not the Ivan they know before.
Indeed I can really say that my four years stay here in the seminary helps me to change. It is in
the seminary where encountered different kinds of problems and I really struggle. I cannot
deny the fact to myself that because of that problem that I had encounter in the seminary really
helps me a lot. In every challenge I learned how to be courageous and stand up on my own
feet.
Moreover, each one of us experienced already problems in life. It is the reality that
cannot deny by each one of us. It is the facticity of life. No person is living in this world without
a problem. Every time a person had a problem he feels not comfortable because there is this
thing bothering his or her mind. However, going back to my experiences, most of the problem
that I had encounter are more on discipline. Because of so many problems that come to my life
Discipline is one of the most important factors that should learn by every person.
accepting and facing those challenges that comes into my life. One thing I want to impart is that
whenever we experienced big waves try not to lose hope. We must learn how to swim and
save our self. Because if we let heavy waves fall on us we are easily carried out by it. Try not to
lose hope; we must learn how to accept our own weaknesses as a person. If we want to be
As human person we need someone that could help us as we continue our journey in
this world. We cannot do everything by ourselves. We always need someone to help us that will
make us true person. Moreover, I’ve been studying since I was seven six years old up to this
time. Now, I realized I cannot rich this level if I didn’t struggle. My times already I fell down but I
need to stand up and continue my journey because if I will not strive many people will be
disappointed particularly my family. If I am going to look at the result today it really bare fruits.
I also realized that while you are getting old in this world problems are becoming more much
challenging. Truly one of our purposes in this world is to learn many things. We are born to
learn.
In the world there were lots of challenges that we need to face. But even though there
lots of challenges life must go on still. Don’t stop because it’s part of our journey. We should
always remember that challenges are meant for us in order for us to learn about the true
meaning of life. I had read the book of Og Mandino entitled “ The Twelfth Angel” in this novel
one of the lesson I learned is that no matter how difficult problems come into our life we need
to be courageous and just remember the eight powerful words which says, “never, never,
never, never, never, never, never give up”. I always remember these eight powerful words. I
was really inspired by this novel because it thought me how to be courageous in facing the
challenges of life.
In my life I always believed that a good person is the one who knows how to listen and
learn. Each of us has a goal in life that we want to attain someday. In this way I always put in my
mind that if I need to risk just to attain that goal then I will risk if that is the way. Because what
you are doing is also for the good of yourself. We should always learn how to helps ourselves
because we are the one to benefit on that someday. As long as we live in this world we should
not stop in learning. Leaning is one of the most essential parts in the development of the
personality of the person. Learning from our mistakes is great factor. If we want to learn we
need patience. If you don’t have patience with you it is really difficult to learn. If were really
willing to learn something we should always put in our mind that no matter how difficult it is
we should always take the risk in learning. If there is need to sacrifice then do it for the good of
yourself.
Moreover, if we are really willing to learn no matter how difficult it is we should always
take the risk. There are no such things easy in this world, all are difficult. All of the things in this
world before we learn a thing are difficult. Indeed life if full of difficulty. One of the most
concrete examples of a good learner is a child who starts learning to walk. Because whenever a
child starts learning to walk many times he or she experienced to fall down. There are
tendencies even that a child gets hurt and got wounds in different parts of the body. But later
remember when I was kid when I was just studying how to ride and drive a bicycle it really took
time before I learned how to balance my body. At the start it is really very difficult for me
because first and foremost my legs is short and I can’t even rich the pedal. How difficult it is
really. I already said to myself that I am quitting already because I got already many wounds on
my toe. That moment every time I saw my cousin riding on a bike I really feel envy with them.
Because of that I force myself to learn. Then after a week I am so happy because at last I
learned. If didn’t try to learn perhaps until now I don’t know really how to ride on a bicycle. In
this experience I realized that learning or mastering one thing really needs patience and time.
Moreover, there were many ways in which we could learn and I think one of the best
is accepting our own mistake and facing the challenge of life. In accepting our own mistake
there were lots of chances we could recover again just doing lose hope because there is always
a second chance to redeem. Life is trial and error. Often times there were things that we tried
to do but there were also times that we failed to do it. At the start it is really difficult to master
a thing. But before you master a thing you should always keep on repeating it many times.
Because really if you keep on repeating it there is a tendency that your effort will bare good
fruit. However we should not be discouraged by your own mistake. Because it is on your own
mistake were you fully develop your whole personality. Lastly realized that because of my
failures in the past I was able to correct my mistakes in life. As I continue my journey in this
world I realized that I should not stop in learning and I will not close my door to the challenges
of life that possible to come. If that challenge will help me then I will face it.