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TABLE OF CONTENTS
ICCFA news
57 Fall Management Conference ber of cemeteries across the country, bothered by gamers who roam
Gain skills in business management and their grounds, oblivious to people there to pay their respects to loved
network with other business managers and ones. But Fairfax Memorial Park has found a way to accommodate
owners September 26-28, 2018 gamers and turn Pokémon Go into another way the cemetery can con-
58 Thank you to our Fall sponsors! nect with the community. by Chad Aylestock
58 Membership Outreach Corner: Report 40 TECHNOLOGY/SALES
from Florida by Julie A.B. Bly, MPS Online funeral planning a hit for customers, owners
59 2018 PLPA College program announced, More and more consumers want to shop—and buy—online. What
August 22-24, 2018 is your funeral home doing to accommodate them? Ed Sagel and Al
Bloomfield, who own a traditional funeral home, opened up a low-
60 August is certification awareness month
deadline for fall consideration: cost, all-online funeral planning site. by Ed Sagel and Al Bloomfield
August 24, 2018 44 MARKETING & TECHNOLOGY
60 ICCFA Cremation Arranger & What the mobile revolution means for your crematory, funeral
Crematory Operator Program home or cemetery Smartphones have made it easier for funeral home,
cemetery and crematory owners to keep on top of their businesses at
all hours, no matter where they are. So it should come as no surprise
The ICCFA would
to them that death-care professionals need to adjust their marketing to
also like to thank deal with the explosive growth of mobile technology. by Welton Hong
these 2018
48 FINANCES
Annual Convention sponsors: Cemetery Impossible: Finding a bank to finance building a new mau-
• Christie Toson Hentges, CCE soleum A cemetery is a different kind of business, so it’s not surprising
• Funeral Home Gifts that when it comes to getting their projects financed, cemeterians need to
understand that and find the right sort of banker. by Dan Isard, MSFS
• Wilbert Funeral Services Inc.
50 PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT
The keys to service: The eternal question of ‘Why?’ These days,
To support the ICCFA’s goal when the question “Why?” comes up during a funeral or cemetery family
of raising money to fight interview, it’s usually not a simple request for information.
lung cancer, today’s #1
51 The keys to service: Conclusion by Todd W. Van Beck, CFuE
killer of women, go to
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Washington Report
by ICCFA General Counsel
Challenge to anti-combo law fails
I
Robert M. Fells, Esq.
robertfells@
n late June, the Supreme Court of benefits of prearrangements and how that helps
iccfa.com Wisconsin handed down a long-awaited consumers avoid the vulnerabilities that making
1.800.645.7700, decision in Porter v. State of Wisconsin. at-need arrangements can create where grief
ext. 1212 The plaintiffs, E. Glen Porter III and and shock may affect the judgment of family
direct line: Highland Memorial Park Inc., challenged members.
703.391.8401 the constitutionality of a law first enacted in For example, if concern with emotionally
➤Fells is ICCFA 1939 that prohibits the common ownership vulnerable consumers making at-need
general counsel, of a mortuary and a cemetery. This “anti- arrangements were really a factor in upholding
responsible for combo” statute was defended by the state the law, the court might have reshaped the law
maintaining and of Wisconsin, including named defendants to restrict combos to arranging only pre-need
improving relationships with federal Laura Gutierrez and the Wisconsin Funeral transactions, leaving at-need situations to stand-
and state government agencies, the Directors Examining Board. alone funeral homes. Some Wisconsin funeral
news media and consumer organi-
Plaintiffs asserted that the law is unconstitu- directors claimed in news media reports that
zations.
tional on two grounds: 1.) the prohibition combos would have an unfair advantage over
➤ Fells has worked on behalf of violates the due process clause and 2.) the funeral homes because cemetery acreage is
the cemetery and funeral service prohibition violates the equal protection clause. exempt from property taxes. This brings up the
profession on legal and legislative
The lower court had granted the defendants question of whether the anti-combo law could be
issues since 1975 and joined the
their motion for summary judgment (dismissal) reshaped by requiring that cemetery land used
ICCFA staff in 1983. He is retired
from his position as the association’s without a trial on the merits, and plaintiffs for a funeral home would lose its tax exemption
executive director, which he held for appealed to the Wisconsin Supreme Court. and the combo would have to pay property taxes
six years. The high court sided with the lower court in on its funeral home acreage like all stand-alone
finding the state’s argument that the anti-combo funeral homes do.
➤ He has
published a law was constitutional for three reasons: the Unfortunately, the court used a club instead
number of law promoted legitimate government interests of a scalpel to examine the issues and thereby
books. His latest, by (1) preserving competition in the death-care short-circuited any findings of fact that a trial
“The Curse services industry; (2) protecting consumers from on the merits might have established. Far from
of the Tomb,” higher prices and poor services; and (3) reducing preserving competition in the funeral services
brings back the potential for abuses from commingling market, the state supreme court was satisfied
Maj. Alexander of cemetery and funeral revenues. The court to keep the status quo, meaning that funeral
Armstrong, who reviewed, then disregarded, the arguments consumers in Wisconsin will continue to have
featured in two made by plaintiffs, though two of the state fewer choices of providers, which inhibits price
previous novels. The discoveries of
Supreme Court justices wrote a dissent siding competition, leading to higher prices than if
the royal tomb of King Tutankhamen
with plaintiffs. With this decision, the case has there were more robust competition. This is
creates a huge black market in
forgeries of antiquities where the reached its final adjudication. the situation in the 39 states that have no anti-
stakes include murder, and the British In this writer’s opinion, the majority opinion combo prohibitions, but the court pointedly
government seeks assistance from engaged in a great many conclusory statements chose to ignore these case studies.
the Americans. lacking any factual support that a trial on the Finally, it is tempting to wonder if the actual
merits might have provided. For example, motivation in preserving the Wisconsin anti-
the high court ruled that the anti-combination competitive, anti-combo statute was revealed
statute is “rationally related to the legitimate some years ago in another jurisdiction. This
government interests of protecting the welfare occurred when an Oklahoma federal court
of particularly vulnerable consumers and upheld that state’s law restricting casket sales
limiting or minimizing the manipulation of funds to funeral homes. Paraphrasing the decision,
required to be held in trust by funeral directors the Oklahoma court announced that one of
and cemetery operators.” Yet there was no the privileges of state governments is to dole
evidence provided to buttress these points. out special treatment and protection from
Despite the 20-page length of the majority competition to favored industries.
opinion, there was little effort to document the In the meantime, Americans will continue to
“vulnerable consumers” or “the manipulation explore options that are unrelated to traditional
of funds” cited to justify the statute. The funerals and that will return us to a time when
dissenting opinion, at 33 pages, offered much families performed their own funeral services
more substance in explaining why the majority and burials. The few states that continue to
is wrong, and this dissent may be useful in uphold anti-combo laws on their books may find
future challenges to anticompetitive laws in that the true effect will be to give beneficiaries
the funeral profession. Also, there was little a monopoly on something that few want any
acknowledgement by the majority of the longer. r
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Vail, CO
The Arrabelle at Vail Square
February 25-27
Naples, FL
Ritz-Carlton Naples
March 11-13
kknopke@ L E G A L & L E G I S L AT I V E U P D AT E
curlewhills.com
➤Keenan Knopke, The ICCFA Government and Legal Affairs Committee
CCFE, is co-chair of
the ICCFA Government
is under new leadership but facing a lot of the same issues as well
and Legal Affairs Com- as some new ones, including the upcoming Funeral Rule review,
mittee.
➤Knopke is president
evolving law concerning transgender employees and the continued
and CEO of Curlew Hills proliferation of for-profit companies handling body donation.
Memory Gardens, Palm
Harbor, Florida. He
previously served as a regional president
for Stewart Enterprises and as president
of Garden of Memories. He received his
associate’s degree in funeral service and
mortuary science from Miami Dade Col-
lege, Florida.
➤He served as president of the Florida
Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Associa-
tion, 2010-2011.
513.407.8114
poul@lemasters
consulting.com
➤Poul Lemasters,
Esq., is principal of
Lemasters Consulting,
Cincinnati, Ohio.
www.lemasters
consulting.com
➤He is the ICCFA’s Jerry Ruskowski, legislative aide to Sen. Debbie Stabenow, D-MI, talks to, from left,
cremation program Keenan Knopke, CCE; Greer Redden; Chad Aylestock; Mary Beth McGowan from
coordinator and special the ICCFA’s lobbying firm Dykema; Jim Price, CCFE, CCrE; Caressa Hughes; and
cremation counsel, and co-chairs the CANA Executive Director Barbara Kemmis, who again joined ICCFA representa-
ICCFA Government and Legal Affairs Com- tives for their annual visit to Capitol Hill.
mittee.
➤He is an attorney and funeral direc-
tor, having graduated from the Cincinnati
New co-chairs get comfortable as
College of Mortuary Science in 1996 and
from Northern Kentucky University, Chase
review of Funeral Rule approaches
College of Law, in 2003. He is licensed as The torch has been passed from Irwin recommendation because everyone trusted
a funeral director and embalmer in Ohio Shipper, now the chairman emeritus of our him. That’s a tradition we need to follow.
and West Virginia and admitted to practice Government and Legal Affairs Committee,
law in Ohio and Kentucky. Have you been surprised by anything in
to you, Keenan and Poul. Do you have any your transitioning from longtime members
More about this subject goals or expectations as the new co-chairs of the committee to its co-chairs?
➤The Government & Legal Affairs of this committee?
Knopke: Everyone knows that it’s one
Breakfast will be part of the Knopke: Irwin taught us a very important thing to watch a play from the audience and
ICCFA Fall Management Conference, lesson in chairing the Government and
September 26-28, at Manalapan, Florida. another to get up on the stage to perform
Legal Affairs Committee. That lesson is it. This is how I feel in going from being
For more information about the conference
transparency. Irwin had the trust of every one of 20 or 25 members of the committee
program, see page 57 or go to
www.iccfa.com member of the committee because he acted to actually running the meeting. There’s a
in the association members’ best interests. whole different set of dynamics involved.
This is a legacy that will be continued, and Lemasters: Well, I’m used to giving
that’s our immediate goal. classes on cremation training and other
Lemasters: I agree. In my years as subjects, so in that sense I have experience
a committee member, I marveled at the in running a meeting. But with teaching,
way Irwin would gently say “Let’s do I’m providing information that might result
this” or “Let’s not do that,” and there was in questions from the students, but not
almost always a consensus to follow his disagreements.
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Above, at the Federal Trade Commis-
sion office to talk to FTC staffers, from
left, Larry Anspach, CCE; Bob Fells;
Mary Beth McGowan of Dykema; Bar-
bara Kemmis of CANA: Jim Price, CCFE,
CCrE; Chad Aylestock; John Resich,
CCE; Keenan Knopke, CCE; Caressa
Hughes; Steve Schacht, CCE; Greer
Redden; and Ed Horn, CCE.
From Left, Andy Buczak from Dykema; John Resich, CCE; Steve Schacht, CCE; Larry
Anspach, CCE; Rep. Dina Titus (D-NV); Bob Fells, Ed Horn, CCE; and Tom Daly, CCE.
I quickly learned that leading a If it’s possible to reason with the IRS, levels. I’d say that things move slower—
discussion on a legal and legislative issue then we may receive guidance that will much slower—at the federal level than at
with the committee can quickly result in resolve our concerns, but some say only the state level. Maybe it’s because the state
contrary viewpoints. I knew I wasn’t in a Congress can help us by amending the tax legislators aren’t in session all year long,
classroom any more. laws. The IRS may feel the same way. so if they are going to move any legislation
Is there one issue at the top of the list of Lemasters: In my practice, I represent along they need to just do it.
immediate concern to ICCFA members? a number of clients from all different In Washington, it seems that there’s
segments of our profession, so I agree always next week or next month, or, more
Knopke: Depending on what segment of
with what Keenan is saying. I can’t play often, next year. To quote an overused
our business you’re in, an issue that might
favorites, since I have to be concerned with expression, Congress is very good about
get your attention at any moment will vary.
the issues facing a diverse clientele, so in “kicking the can down the road” until the
I run a cemetery-mortuary combo, a pet
that sense it’s not any different than chairing next session or the next Congress. I don’t
cemetery and, of course, cremation is a big
the committee. see that as much at the state level.
part of the services Curlew Hills offers. So,
Keenan, you were part of the ICCFA Other than that, there are many similari-
there isn’t much in our industry that won’t
“Capitol Hill Gang” in May that called on ties, such as the perpetual concern with
interest me.
many key people in Congress. What are running for re-election, including generating
At this time, I’d say that the conse-
your impressions of the politicians and favorable sound bites for future uses.
quences of the new tax reform law are
causing concern with the timing of income their staffs? Poul, one of your specialties as a lawyer is
recognition of pre-need burial rights, and Knopke: I spend a fair amount of time in cremation liability issues, but you are also
there’s also an issue with being able to Tallahassee, my state capital, dealing with well-versed on body-donation issues. Do
deduct trust expenses paid for investment state issues, so I can’t help but compare you regard this movement as a competitor
advice. how things work at the state and national or an ally to traditional funeral service?
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Larry Anspach, CCE; and John Resich, CCE. Above right, in the much nicer Senate café, Chad Aylestock and Greer Redden.
Lemasters: The traditional organ and tissue such business in Colorado recently. pending since last year that only just begins
transplant donation process is becoming This is making news, of course, but it the process of regulating the body-broker
well integrated into funeral service, but a seems to be flying under the radar of the industry, but I think it’s fair to say that it’s
relatively new concern is the non-transplant mainstream news media, so I think it’s fair not going anywhere. However, we have also
market that is run for profit. to say that the general public is not aware been discussing this issue with FTC staff,
This involves third-party companies, of this. That also means that legislators are and we even sent them the Reuters reports
which have been called “body brokers,” also not aware of the growing industry in on the subject.
who solicit a donation of human remains body parts. Did the FTC staff show any interest in the
then sell various parts, including the head I’d call it a “sleeping giant” that will issue?
and hands, for a considerable amount of burst on the national scene eventually, and
money. Knopke: Interest yes, action no. The staff
we’ll see an incredible over-reaction by
Many things are not typically told us frankly that with the number of
lawmakers to rush through some new laws
communicated to the donor or the donor’s issues and projects on their plate, they don’t
without much thought. Of course, that could
family, including the profit angle, and have the resources to explore this particular
hurt our members if a broad-brush approach
many families assume this activity is all issue.
is used.
charitable, similar to organ and tissue That didn’t surprise any of us, because
transplants. Keenan, was the body broker issue Congress has just cut the FTC’s budget by
Earlier this year, the Reuters news discussed on the recent Capitol Hill visits? $5 million this year. And if you look at the
agency published a seven-part video Knopke: Yes, our group brought it up with FTC’s annual consumer complaint report,
investigative report on body brokers, and every Congressional member and staffer you’ll see lots of big issues there.
it’s an eye opener. The FBI even raided one with whom we met. There is a related bill What do you think it will take for the body
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referred to in the rule itself. Funeral Rule as though funeral homes are I hope attention will be given to
In a much larger sense, I hope considera the only source for this information. this issue, among others, so our people
tion is given to the fact that funeral Lemasters: I’d suggest that another are not cited for violations of the rule
homes no longer control access to price area of inquiry is direct cremation and the merely because they are trying to provide
information as they did when the rule was price disclosures for that topic. When the consumers options that they really want.
first enacted. Prices for funeral services rule was originally written, cremation was Since the FTC tends to rely on statistics
and merchandise now can be easily found a blip on the map of our profession; now such as surveys to make changes to its
all over the internet, so I’d say that the cremation is the norm. trade rules, what do recent funeral surveys
very purpose of the rule, distributing price The rule allows for one single type of (FCA online price survey; FTC consumer
information, needs to be examined. direct cremation, but this is not in the best complaint survey) suggest in terms of FTC
In a sense, we may have evolved into a interest of the profession or the consumer. potential action?
situation where the FTC is still regulating Greater leeway should be granted so Lemasters: Recent consumer complaint
telegrams, so to speak, in this age of that providers can offer packages that reports by the FTC, and consumer surveys
iPhones. I think it would be shortsighted consumers want, not just a oneoff option by the Funeral Consumer Alliance, strongly
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Prices for funeral services and merchandise can now be easily found all over the internet, so I’d say
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—Keenan Knopke, CCFE, co-chair of the ICCFA Government & Legal Affairs Committee
eradicating employment discrimination
against transgender persons under Title VII
of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 outweighs
business owners’ theological convictions.
So, I’d say that the take-away here is
that funeral homes, particularly those in
states covered by the Sixth Judicial Circuit
(Michigan, Ohio, Kentucky and Tennessee),
should be careful that they are not making
decisions based in whole or in part on
transgender status. This court ruling makes
it clear that a funeral home’s fear that
customers would be distracted or upset by
encountering a transgender person is not a
valid consideration.
Funeral homes in other states may be
subject to state or local laws prohibiting
discrimination based on sexual orientation
or transgender status.
One thing is certain: We haven’t
Staunch Democrat Ed Horn, CCE, shows the ICCFA lobbyists’ nonpartisan ap- heard the last about this issue. The most
proach to their jobs, asking to have his photo taken behind the desk of Republican noteworthy aspect of the decision is that
Sen. John Barrasso of Wyoming. of all the businesses that could have been
providers having to post their general price funeral homes to post online. involved, the first one was a funeral home.
lists online. The first question we would Our profession tends not to be on the While our Government and Legal
have is whether the posting is optional or cutting edge of many important court Committee members were on Capitol Hill
mandatory under any revised Funeral Rule. decisions, but recently there was a federal in May, we understand you gave a boost to
If mandatory, then does this mean that court ruling involving a transgendered veterans burial benefits. (BRAVE Act HR
funeral providers who don’t have a website funeral director. Poul, can you tell us 1212/S 1596)
must establish one, and what about third- about that? Knopke: Private-sector cemeteries have
party sellers, who are not currently required Lemasters: In March, there was an appar- an interesting relationship with national
to make any disclosures? ent “case of first impression” involving a cemeteries because, let’s be honest, there
Also, what information would be transgendered employee who was fired for exists a certain amount of competition
required? Would it be the entire GPL, or being transgendered. The United States between them. After all, it’s difficult to
could it be limited to specific services? And Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit effectively compete against somebody who
could disclosure of prices be limited to just issued an opinion in Stephens v. R.G. and doesn’t charge for the goods and services it
those who allow sales to take place online? G.R. Harris Funeral Homes Inc., where a provides. This is where private cemeteries
There are many questions, but again it’s transgender funeral director was terminated find themselves when a national veterans
reflective of the changes in technology since shortly after she disclosed her intention to cemetery operates in their market area.
the time the rule was originally written. transition from male to female and dress as On the positive side, most veterans and
Knopke: I agree. As far as we know, no a woman while at work. their families opt for interment in private
other industry or profession is subject to a The federal district court that originally or religious cemeteries, mainly because of
federal law requiring them to post prices handled the case ruled in favor of the heritage. That is, because family members
online. We know that many funeral homes funeral home and dismissed the case, but are interred in the particular cemetery and
do post online, but that’s an independent the Sixth Circuit reversed the dismissal and the person wants to be buried near them.
decision each business makes on its own. allowed the case to continue. The appeals That said, the ICCFA is not opposed
Another question brought up by this court rejected the funeral home owner’s to national cemeteries, and has lobbied
issue is whether posting the proper price argument that his decision to terminate in favor of increasing burial and funeral
disclosures online will exempt the business the employee should have been protected benefits to veterans and their families.
from the “secret shopper” in-person visits because it was motivated by his religious The BRAVE Act, H.R. 1212, and its
that are made to test compliance with the beliefs. companion bill, S. 1596, would increase
rule. I think creating an optional carve-out The Court of Appeals reasoned that funeral and burial allowances for veterans
would be a major incentive in persuading the compelling governmental interest in with nonservice-connected deaths or
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I
funeral and cemetery
business owners and managers face when
n the United States, employment laws truly based on a candidate’s skills and
dealing with employee issues.
seem to change as frequently as most experience. The states and cities and one
➤Ramsey has managed both small staffs people change their socks. This is territory that currently have banned or will
and ones with more than 200 employees because laws and regulations that relate soon ban salary history inquiries during
and more than 25 supervisors directly re-
to employees are enacted not only at the the interview process are: California,
porting to her. She also has run an 800-call
regional combination business. She has
federal level but also at the state, county Massachusetts, Delaware, Oregon, New
written many employee handbooks and and city levels. York City, Philadelphia, New Orleans,
other job-specific documents for clients News reports about proposed or imple- Pittsburgh and Puerto Rico.
nationwide. mented employment laws can help funeral
home, cemetery and crematory owners LBGTQ non-discrimination
More from this author and managers anticipate the impact their laws
➤Ramsey writes a quarterly blog businesses may face, but such news Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964
on HR matters that can be viewed at tends to focus on major changes such as prohibits many forms of discrimination,
www.theforesightcompanies.com
increases in the minimum wage or very including on the basis of sex. Over the
controversial laws. But many employment years there have been various rulings
laws don’t make the headlines and are only by the Federal Equal Employment
found through diligent research. Those can Opportunity Commission (EEOC),
catch many funeral business owners and which oversees the enforcement of
managers off guard. Title VII, extending the prohibition on
Let us take a look at some of the sex discrimination to include sexual
trending employment laws that may have orientation and gender identity.
slipped under the radar for many of us in It must be noted, though, that EEOC
the funeral and cemetery industry. rulings are not binding on private employ-
ers and various federal courts have ruled
Salary histories inconsistently on cases specifically involving
One of the newest laws that seems to be sexual orientation and gender identity. This
gaining some ground is one which bans has been an issue over which the LBGTQ
employers from asking job candidates community and their many supporters have
about their previous salary history. been crying foul for many years.
The perception appears to be that such The funeral industry recently saw The
questions can potentially lead to job U.S. Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit
applicants being lowballed in terms of rule in favor of a terminated employee
compensation rather than paid fairly for stating that the funeral home owner had
their skills, experience and education. unlawfully discriminated against the
Additionally, there is some debate employee. In this specific case, the court’s
as to whether asking for salary histories ruling appears to affirm that transgender
promotes the large compensation disparity individuals are protected by federal sex
between men and women in the same discrimination laws. Another court may
positions. This is a sensitive issue which not see the case in the same exact way.
draws negative attention to employers and Regardless, funeral business owners
impacts employee morale and retention. and managers should be aware that many
Given the increasing number of women states have now passed laws that make
entering the funeral industry, this is an it clear that their state sex discrimination
important issue to consider. Proponents laws do include protection for sexual
of such laws say they will encourage orientation and gender identity situations.
employers to make job offers that are Currently the following states, in addition
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H R L E G I S L AT I O N
Not surprisingly, the specifics of these law vary state by state, but they do have
a commonality. They all focus on the concept that a pregnant worker with a medical need
for accommodation should not be forced to leave work when she can be reasonably
accommodated without imposing an undue hardship on the employer.
to Puerto Rico, Guam and the District of employers, while others apply the laws to These laws vary from state to state,
Columbia, have such laws: employers with a designated number of so business owners and managers must
California, Colorado, Connecticut, employees. In addition, some laws only carefully review the laws in their state.
Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, Iowa, Maine, focus on accommodations for pregnant Some of these laws have incorporated
Maryland, Massachusetts, Minnesota, employees and others include nursing language requiring employers to consider,
Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, mothers. It is important for business when making hiring decisions, how
New Mexico, New York, Oregon, Rhode owners and managers to know what the a conviction might be related to the
Island, Utah, Vermont and Washington. requirements are in their state to make sure job being filled, how much time has
While this topic is still controversial, they don’t run afoul of the law. passed since the conviction and special
it behooves funeral home and cemetery These are the states with current circumstances or rehabilitation the
owners and managers to know where their pregnancy and nursing mother accommo- applicant has undergone.
states stand on these issues to avoid a dation laws: Alaska, California, Colorado, States that currently do not have any
very messy and public lawsuit that could Connecticut, Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, Ban the Box laws: Alabama, Alaska,
damage their community relations. Lack of Louisiana, Maryland, Massachusetts, Arkansas, Florida, Idaho, Iowa, Kansas,
knowledge and understanding can be very Minnesota, Nebraska, Nevada, New Maine, Michigan, Mississippi, Montana,
costly in this situation. Jersey, New York, North Dakota, Rhode New Hampshire, North Carolina, North
Island, Texas, Utah and Vermont. Dakota, South Carolina, South Dakota,
Accommodating pregnant Texas, West Virginia and Wyoming.
and nursing employees Ban the Box
In 1978, the Pregnancy Discrimination What started as a small, grass-roots In conclusion
Act amended Title VII of the Civil Rights movement in 2004 to overcome employ- Staying well-informed about existing
Act of 1964 to specifically prohibit discri- ment discrimination against formerly and potential laws and regulations can
mination of women (whether an employee incarcerated people, Ban the Box (also be challenging. Funeral and cemetery
or an applicant) for pregnancy, childbirth known as Fair Chance Laws) is one of the business owners and managers are
or pregnancy-related health issues. strongest trending employment laws in the focused on serving their communities and
Discrimination is prohibited for any United States. families—as they should be. Researching
aspect of employment, including hiring, Initially the focus of the campaign was what potential employment laws soon may
firing, compensation, job assignment, on government agencies and public hiring be impacting their businesses may not
promotion, layoff, training, fringe benefits practices. The intent was to make sure appear to be a valuable use of their time.
(such as leave and health insurance) and the job applications they used did not ask However, failure to comply with some of
any other term or condition of employment. questions about criminal convictions. these laws can be costly not only in terms
This law and its ramifications for Supporters of this endeavor believed of dollars but also in public relations.
funeral owners is fairly well known. removing these types of questions would Ignorance is not an accepted defense
Recently, 22 states, the District of give formerly incarcerated individuals a once the Department of Labor or EEOC
Columbia as well as various municipalities better chance of obtaining an interview determines you have violated the law. Do
have passed laws granting pregnant based on their skills and experience rather what you can to protect yourself.
employees the right to have reasonable than being excluded from consideration One way is to read industry publications
accommodations at work. because of a conviction for a crime which or subscribe to a human resource-related
Not surprisingly, the specifics of these may have no relevancy to the position for website that send emails to update
laws vary state by state, but they do have which they are applying. subscribers.
a commonality. They all focus on the Over time, this movement has grown to Or, perhaps a trusted employee who is
concept that a pregnant worker with a include private employers, as well. While responsible for addressing employee issues
medical need for accommodation should it may have started slowly, as of 2017, the within the firm can be sent to various HR
not be forced to leave work when she can District of Columbia, 31 states and more seminars.
be reasonably accommodated without than 150 cities and counties have enacted Lastly, you can seek a professional
imposing an undue hardship on the legislation which mandates employers consultant to help you identify your
employer. The laws tend to confirm that not inquire about the conviction history compliance with federal, state and local
no employee should be forced to choose of applicants and also delay background laws.
between the health of her pregnancy and checks until later in the hiring process. This is certainly a case of “what you
her paycheck. The movement is expected to continue to don’t know you don’t know may harm
Some states apply the laws to all expand across the United States. you.” r
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know is that I know her and she’s ready to OSHA and the EEOC have definitions rooms. More than one female manager
send your ass back to jail.” for abuse and discrimination in the assumed promotions and other business
That edge only sharpened in December workplace: were discussed in the weight room. Female
2014, after Plaintiff Two filed an EEOC 1. Workplace bullying ranges from employees wanting to stay fit had to go to
complaint against the owner. The funeral isolating to verbally threatening fellow the gym after work, where they paid annual
boss asked Plaintiff Two to write a letter workers. Bullies can cause anxiety, memberships out of pocket.
to the EEOC saying she “had not seen depression, fear and post-traumatic disorder 3. Harassment consists of actions or
any sexual harassment.” She refused. The symptoms in their victims. comments a worker finds offensive. The
owner slashed her work hours to zero. A person who threatens a coworker worker doesn’t have to be the harasser’s
Plaintiff Three filed her own EEOC with physical harm is considered a bully. target; he can be a third party who hears
complaint regarding discrimination after However, the supervisor who regularly or witnesses the behavior. According to
quitting. The owner badmouthed her to demeans an employee or threatens to fire the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity
other area funeral homes, and she couldn’t him also is a bully. Bullies sometimes Commission, harassment becomes unlawful
get another job. ignore their victims to make them feel when it’s so severe it creates a hostile work-
All three women took their complaints nonexistent. Bullies also use other tactics to place for an employee or the employee has
to the EEOC. The commission found humiliate their victims, such as gossiping to put up with the misconduct to keep her
“reasonable cause” for all three instances and spreading lies about them or sabotaging job.
of harassment and discrimination. Three their work. Marsha had been an employee for four
separate “letters of determination” were Mack treated his secretary Beth like dirt, years. Because she was divorced with one
mailed from the government agency to ordered her around like a slave and blamed son in college, Marsha also taught as an
the owner, alerting him of the outcome of her for all his mistakes, tardy reports and adjunct at the local university and was
the investigations. The commission says it forgetfulness. On more than one occasion, working toward her PhD.
invited the owner to “join the commission the middle-aged receptionist with a warm Her boss had a high school education,
in informal methods of conciliation to smile for everyone left the office to cry in was short and dumpy and displayed a list
endeavor to eliminate the discriminatory the bathroom. of complexes a mile long. One of his issues
practices and provide appropriate relief.” After one particularly stressful week, was feeling easily threatened, and the
But the commission couldn’t hash out an Beth went home, complaining of a severe women in his department decided he also
agreement with the funeral home owner, so headache, and was rushed to the ER. She had issues with women.
the lawsuit was filed, alleging that he had died hours later of a brain hemorrhage. Each time he called Marsha into his
violated the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and Mack later basked in HR’s observation: office, he would demand she close the door
the Civil Rights Act of 1991. He ran through admins like water through and then berate her for small, picky items,
(The Civil Rights Act of 1964 outlawed a sieve. including not wearing stockings with a
discrimination based on race, color, 2. Discriminatory behavior treats pantsuit. He obviously berated her to other
religion, sex, or national origin. The Civil workers unfairly based on race, vice presidents within the corporation, and
Rights Act of 1991 provided the right to ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, on several occasions threatened to fire her.
trial by jury on discrimination claims, religion, disability, age or genetic 4. Workplace violence is defined as an
introduced the possibility of emotional information. Discrimination is prohibited act or threat of physical harm against
distress damages and limited the amount a by federal and state laws. Unfair actions another person at the work site. Abusers
jury can award.) include harassment, retaliation, denying might physically assault their victims or use
In May 2016, the court fined the funeral employment opportunities and making verbal abuse to intimidate them.
home owner $85,000, to be distributed decisions that adversely affect people in Workplace violence can lead to
among the harassment and retaliation these categories. Antidiscrimination laws homicide, which is the fourth leading
victims. The owner also agreed to retain an cover all areas of employment, from hiring cause of occupational injuries according to
independent equal employment opportunity and firing to pay, disability leave, training OSHA. The agency also reports violence
consultant to receive and investigate and layoffs. leading to homicide takes the lives of
complaints of sex discrimination. The The effects of discrimination can be women in the workplace more than any
funeral home owner also agreed to create emotional, physical and social. Depression, other cause.
a policy to address the sexual harassment a loss of self-confidence, anxiety and When the new owner appointed a
at issue in this lawsuit. Also, the funeral feelings of helplessness are emotional relative to manage the funeral home, the
home’s owner and employees were to effects. High blood pressure, headaches, new manager waited until the employees
receive training on anti-discrimination laws, ulcers, weight loss and sleeplessness are had left and then went to see the previous
specifically sexual harassment. physical effects. Socially, discrimination manage, a woman. Leaning into her
leads to lower productivity, poor space, his face only inches from hers, he
What constitutes performance, withdrawal from fellow announced some changes were going to
discrimination? Harassment? workers and occasionally violence. be made. His tone was threatening. When
All the illustrative vignettes are from real The large corporation was all about the woman asked about what changes,
life; details and names are disguised to wellness—at least for males, and provided specifically, he wanted to make, his voice
protect the guilty. them with a gym, shower and dressing rose and his tone became harsh. “You’ll
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DANNY JEFFERSON
PIERCE-JEFFERSON FUNERAL SERVICE
I had no family in the business or employee ready They did exactly what they said, and I’m forever
to tackle ownership. There was no one prepared indebted to them. I get emotional thinking about
to succeed me, and protecting my employees and how they embraced me. The business has grown
continuing to care for my community was extremely dramatically, and my employees and my community
important. Other potential partners presented welcomed the change. When looking ahead, ask
options, but I felt like they didn’t want me - they yourself, “Is my potential partner going to do what
wanted the business. At Foundation Partners Group, they promised years down the road?” At Foundation
they valued me, and the business. Partners, the answer is a resounding yes!
In one case, two women applied for open positions as lawn mowers at a cemetery.
Both had extensive lawn care experience. When they met the owner,
he laughed and said, “We don’t hire women to mow. You are wasting your breath.”
have to wait and see,” he said, taking
off his coat and beginning to roll up his A to-do list to protect your employees and organization
sleeves as if he were readying for a fist
fight, “and you can’t do a thing about it.
I’m the boss now.”
I f your funeral home, cemetery or
crematory doesn’t have a written policy
of zero tolerance for harassment and
same as being a party to it.
Remember that women are not
the only victims. Men or women can
Bullying, discrimination and violence instructions regarding how to document victimize other men or other women, and
often are categorized as workplace harass- and report a complaint of bullying, abuse, you don’t have to be a supervisor or a
ment. Victims of harassment suffer the same sexual harassment, violence, discrimina- manager to be a bully or harasser.
emotional, physical and social effects as the tion or retaliation, get one, and then Take every harassment complaint
victims of other forms of workplace abuse. review it with every employee. Have each seriously until it is thoroughly investi-
The U.S. Supreme Court has held that employee sign a document saying they gated.
employers may defend themselves in hostile have reviewed and understand the policy. Periodically review your policy
work environment cases brought against them Remind employees that witnessing of “zero tolerance” with employees,
for actions of a supervisor or managerial-level bullying, sexual harassment, violence, including the specific punishment for
employee by arguing they took reasonable discrimination, abuse or retaliation harassment. Be sure to review the policy
steps to prevent sexual harassment and without stopping it or reporting it is the when onboarding new employees. r
made efforts to correct harassing behavior.
Employers may also argue that they are not supervisor in another area, a co-worker, or a Both had extensive lawn care experience.
liable if an employee did not take advantage non-employee. When they met the owner, he laughed and
of available reporting or remedial measures • The victim and harasser may be a said, “We don’t hire women to mow. You
to complain about incidents of sexual woman or a man. The victim does not have to are wasting your breath.”
harassment. be of the opposite sex. He said he was required to hire two—
There are two types or classifications of and only two—women, and he already
sexual harassment: Sexual harassment is Types of harassment: had two women working in the office. He
considered to be a form of sex discrimin- Quid pro quo and definitely was not going to hire women to
ation under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act hostile work environment work on the landscaping crew. He refused
of 1964, which applies to all U.S. employers There are two types of sexual harassment to even accept their applications.
with 15 or more employees (some state laws claims, though the manner in which a court The women returned a few days later,
may provide additional worker protections). will distinguish between the two for the carrying a concealed tape recorder, and
Anyone affected by the offensive conduct purposes of deciding whether harassment has asked again about getting mowing work at
in question, not just the person to whom it is occurred has become blurred in recent years: the cemetery. The owner repeated exactly
directed, is considered a victim. The EEOC • Quid pro quo: Sexual harassment what he had already told them, but this time
defines the offense as follows: that occurs when a supervisor or one in an it was all on tape. Complaints were filed
“Unwelcome sexual advances, requests authority position requests sex, or a sexual by both women to the Iowa Civil Rights
for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical relationship, in exchange for not firing or Commission and were quickly resolved.
conduct of a sexual nature constitutes otherwise punishing the employee, or in Because funeral service was, for decades,
sexual harassment when submission to exchange for favors, such as promotions or a male-dominated profession, the “old boy
or rejection of this conduct explicitly or raises. network” was long entrenched. This meant
implicitly affects an individual’s employment, • Hostile work environment: Sexual female employees could be harassed and
unreasonably interferes with an individual’s harassment that occurs through the presence otherwise mistreated with impunity, obliged
work performance or creates an intimidating, of demeaning or sexual photographs, jokes to keep quiet because the “old boys” could
hostile or offensive work environment.” or threats. The inappropriate behavior or end their careers in a heartbeat.
conduct must be so pervasive as to, as the In one case, a corporate vice-president
The EEOC offers additional guidance name implies, create an intimidating and regularly held staff meetings. However,
on what constitutes sexual harassment, offensive work environment. none of the department’s female employees,
including the following: including two female managers, both single
• The conduct of the offender must be More examples moms, were notified of the meetings. This
offensive and unwelcomed by the victim. Although both men and women can both be same vice-president and his male underlings
• Harassment may still occur when there targeted for discrimination, women seem to collected monthly expenses they claimed on
is no economic injury to or discharge of the be discriminated against more often due to their expense reports. The female managers
victim. their gender. were only allowed to submit expense
• The harasser can be the victim’s In one case, two women applied for open reports if they traveled out of town on
supervisor, an agent of the employer, a positions as lawn mowers at a cemetery. company business.
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LEGAL/HR ISSUES
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In another department, female managers
were alleged to have been captive audiences
at event planning meetings with a senior
vice-president who fondled himself
throughout the meetings. All the women
could do was try to keep these meetings
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Nevertheless, female executives aren’t
immune to harassment, and if they do
experience it may decline to report it
because they worry about retaliation from
peers, the impact on their reputation and
difficulty finding a new job if word of their
complaint gets around.
In discussing her consulting career,
one female executive spoke of a man BUCKET
grabbing her leg and another who persisted LIST
in suggestively coming up behind her
and massaging her shoulders. At work
dinners, she endured male colleagues
cracking off-color jokes and discussing new
employees’ physical attributes or women
in the corporation they’d like to take to
their so-called “rape room.” Never once did
“Jane” ask them to stop, nor did she report
anything to management or HR.
“It’s made into such a big deal, there
is no good response: Either you ruin your
career or you do nothing,” Jane explained.
“But what you really want is that it
doesn’t happen again.” Her choice—doing
Because As An Owner,
nothing—is a common one, research shows.
Employers, judges and juries often use DYING IN YOUR FUNERAL HOME
women’s failure to report harassment as
evidence that it was not a problem or that
plaintiffs had other motives. Only a quarter
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or discrimination at work report it to a
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a formal complaint, according to studies
at the University of Michigan and the
University of British Columbia. Why?
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in 1957 as Calvary Memorial Park
by Cornelius H. Doherty Sr. His son
purchased the adjoining Fairfax Memory ave you seen people at your cemetery sides of the coin—you get the idea. On the
Gardens in 1976 and combined the two or funeral home inexplicably pausing one hand, what cemetery owner/manager
cemeteries into the present-day, 128- at the same spots over and over isn’t thrilled with the idea of getting hundreds
acre Fairfax Memorial Park. Michael H. again? They’re likely playing Pokémon of people on the property without having to
Doherty, the founder’s grandson, worked GO. Whether you love them or hate them, spend a dime of advertising money?
with his father to found Fairfax Memorial
Pokémon Go and other “augmented reality” The answer, on the other hand, is the
Funeral Home on the cemetery grounds
(AR) games are the next generation of owner/manager who is forced to move
in 2003. He is president and CEO of the
cemetery and funeral home. gaming, and they are drawing a multi- groups of gamers out of the way of funeral
generational crowd. In other words, it’s not processions—especially if the gamers are less
just the kids playing anymore. than accommodating.
Believe it or not, our local gamers That actually happened here at our
association tells me the vast majority of cemetery, along with several other unfor-
Pokémon GO players are 35+ years of age. tunate situations: cemetery employees getting
Furthermore, this same group boasts that their cursed out after asking gamers to leave
ranks include “surgeons, military officers, the property after dark, the police catching
small business owners, federal agents, a people here at 2 and 3 a.m. and, possibly the
local radio personality and many … [other] most annoying, drivers haphazardly coasting
professionals.” through the cemetery staring at their phones,
People of all ages and societal standing not watching where they are going.
have taken on the challenge to “Catch ’em In short, Pokémon GO had become a
all” and “become the highest-ranking trainer.” problem for us.
So the question becomes, when they show In an attempt to get game-play under
up at your cemetery or funeral home, do you control, I began researching the situation.
roll out the red carpet and serve watermelon What I found was interesting, helpful and
and lemonade, or chase them off the property, restored my faith in the positives of allowing
explaining that your cemetery is a dignified the gamers on our property, Fairfax Memorial
place of remembrance? Park in Fairfax, Virginia, a suburb of
I have to admit, I fall somewhere in the Washington, D.C. Here’s what I learned.
middle on this one. I’m on the fence, see both
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A group of Poké-
mon GO players in
Northern Virginia
gather for a picture.
Area gamers worked
with a representative
of the cemetery and
the game’s owners
to come up with
ways to accommo-
date gamers without
bothering people
visiting the park
for more somber
purposes or creating
traffic bottlenecks
for the cemetery.
here instead of aimlessly coasting around to write them off. As a matter of fact, I releasing Harry Potter GO in the future.”
the cemetery. would suggest that to do so would not be Pokémon GO is just the beginning.
• Avoiding playing at our location on in your best interest. So, get your trainer and Pokeballs,
special days of remembrance (e.g., Easter, Instead, work with Niantic to find a catch that Dragonite and have a big time! I
Memorial Day, Mother’s Day, Father’s solution. They have a host of options they would wager there may be an opportunity
Day, etc.). can use to tailor the game to work both for here to connect a new generation to the
This group has been a fantastic force their gamers and for the different locations value of cemeteries and memorialization—
to guide the gameplay in our park. They where they play the game, including your and to reconnect members of older
have been respectful of the cemetery and beautiful cemetery. generations.
effective at disseminating information to The fact is, Pokémon GO is just These gamers span the generations, and
their members. scratching the surface of what’s coming they are visiting your property right now.
In conclusion, if you’re having trouble through AR technology. One of my sources What an opportunity! r
with Pokémon GO gamers, there’s no need tells me that, “allegedly, Niantic will be
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As every funeral professional knows, staff time is our biggest expense in the funeral business.
Any time we can reduce that, we can pass the savings on to the customer. Since its launch, Value
Choice’s “brick-and-click” model for funeral planning and arrangements has grown dramatically, in line
with the increased consumer preference for simpler cremation, funeral and death-care options.
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If Google finds that your website doesn’t look good and operate well
on a smartphone or tablet, your ranking will sink. It no longer cares
so much whether your site looks and works amazingly well on a
desktop computer. If it’s a dud on mobile devices, you’re in big trouble.
from a large object that sits on your desk for any type of service, anytime, anywhere.
into a tiny, incredibly powerful device that So that’s exactly what’s happening.
rests in the palm of your hand. Per a Statista study, in the final quarter
We continue to call it a “phone,” and of 2016, mobile searches finally overtook
it’s certainly still used as a telephone, but desktop ones, accounting for 51 percent
for many Americans, making voice calls of organic search engine visits. That
is just one of many things they do with percentage remained fairly consistent
these devices. Particularly among younger (within a couple of percentage points) over
generations—but increasingly for older 2017, but in the first quarter of 2018, it
ones as well—it’s really their computer. leaped to 64 percent.
According to a late 2017 study by The writing’s on the wall: Online search
Asurion, Americans check their phone is a predominantly mobile endeavor now,
on average once every 12 minutes. The and its dominance will only magnify going
average person, per the study, rarely goes forward.
more than 10 minutes without checking his But do people search for death-care
or her phone. services, in particular, on mobile devices?
When respondents were asked whether Absolutely. In the third quarter of 2017,
making a call was the main purpose of a more than half (56 percent) of funeral and
phone, almost half (49 percent) said no. bereavement searches came from mobile
You might think such behavior is devices. Searches for burials and cremations
The mobile versions of the websites limited to teenagers or young adults— grew 13 percent in the third quarter of 2017
for Habegger (above) and Island (below) hardly key demographics in this compared to the same quarter in 2016.
funeral services are easy to read on a business—but that simply isn’t true. One reason should be fairly obvious:
smartphone and make their “click to Per a January 2018 Pew Research If a family member unexpectedly dies
call” functions obvious. Center study, 92 percent of millennials and there’s no preplanning in place,
own and regularly use a smartphone. most people will search for a death-care
That’s not too surprising, nor is the fact provider immediately.
that 85 percent of Gen Xers (ages 38 to 53) The easiest way to do that, especially
do so, as well. if you’re not at home (e.g., at a hospital)
However, as was the case with the is on your smartphone. You have a 24/7
funeral director I chatted with, more than connection to the internet right there
two-thirds (67 percent) of baby boomers in your hand, pocket or bag. You need
(ages 54 to 72) also own and regularly information on local burial or cremation
use a smartphone, per the Pew study. And services right now.
while adoption among the silent generation That’s a primary reason why focusing
(ages 73 to 90) is unsurprisingly much on a mobile presence is imperative to
lower, it’s still a significant 30 percent. generating more at-need cases. The
While smartphones have become firms that have great organic rankings
essentially ubiquitous, consumers have (and appear in Google’s “three-pack” of
rapidly taken to tablet computers, which featured businesses) for that location will
are also defined as mobile devices, as capture those calls.
well. Close to two-thirds (64 percent) of And because smartphones take
Gen Xers own a tablet, as do more than 52 advantage of “call-to-click” technology, a
percent of both millennials and boomers. family member can be on the phone with a
Also worth considering: A majority (57 provider with just a single touch.
percent) of boomers use social media.
Mobile marketing
Searching for death-care starts with your website
services on mobile devices Several highly effective, cost-effective
Mobile devices, and in particular, smart- tools are available to generate calls from
phones, make it incredibly easy to search mobile users, but none of them matter if
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MARKETING & TECHNOLOGY
Your website must be designed so that a potential client can call you with a single tap on the phone.
The same is true for mobile advertising. A grieving family member doesn’t want to go through a
complex process to reach you immediately following a loved one’s passing.
your website isn’t up to snuff. Two funeral home sites you can look potential client can call you with a single
Quite simply, the mobile version of up on your mobile devise to see what good tap on the phone.
your website is now more important than ones look like are: The same is true for mobile advertising.
the desktop version. As I noted, mobile www.theislandfuneralhome.com/ A grieving family member doesn’t want
searches are more prevalent than desktop www.habeggerfuneralservices.com/ to go through a complex process to reach
searches, so it makes sense to prioritize you immediately following a loved one’s
mobile. But you also need to focus on Cool tools for mobile passing. Click-to-call makes it incredibly
mobile searches because that’s what marketing easy.
Google does now. Yes, mobile marketing can be cool. Savvy
Just this year, Google fully adopted a developers have come up with some Mobile isn’t just the future
“mobile-first index,” which is exactly what fascinating ways to take advantage of the —it’s the present
it sounds like: When determining how mobile revolution, several of which can I realize it’s not easy to adjust to the mobile
to rank your website in organic searches work wonders for death-care firms. These revolution. Many death-care professionals
and the “three-pack” for local searches, include: are still just warming up to online marketing
it’s going to start with your site’s mobile Geotargeting: Every smartphone in general, and now they’re being told the
version, not the desktop version. comes with location technology, constantly desktop experience is on the way out, so it’s
In other words, if Google finds that your updating where that phone is in the world. time to focus on mobile devices.
website doesn’t look good and operate well With geotargeting, you can create a Regardless, it’s imperative that they
on a smartphone or tablet, your ranking will campaign that reaches out selectively immediately start putting mobile first.
sink. It no longer cares so much whether to individuals in a specific area. Given That’s what potential clients are doing.
your site looks and works amazingly well that at-need clientele almost always seek That’s what Google is doing.
on a desktop computer. If it’s a dud on a nearby provider, you can target these It’s a mobile world now, one being
mobile devices, you’re in big trouble. people based on their proximity to you. adopted by baby boomers almost as much
Keep in mind that Google massively Targeted ads: Another option is to as by those in younger demographics.
dominates market share in organic search: create paid advertisements on search Mobile marketing isn’t a passing fad
Over 86 percent of U.S. internet searches engines (such as Google) to target very or something to consider for the future.
are on Google, compared to runner-up specific locations. When someone in Consider that in 2004, according to Statista,
Bing (less than 8 percent) and third-place the defined area searches for “funeral over 92 percent of households had a
Yahoo (less than 4 percent). services,” “cremation,” “cemetery” or landline. Today, it’s fewer than 44 percent.
Even today, I still come across lots of similar terms, your ad will be positioned to Just as mobile phones are making
independent cemetery and funeral home immediately catch the searcher’s eye. landlines irrelevant, smartphones are doing
websites that do not display or operate Click-to-call: I mentioned this earlier, the same to desktop computers. The time
well on mobile devices. Every site must be but it’s important enough to reiterate. to act is now. r
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FINANCES
lenders, especially local banks, fit into this a foreclosure or judgment on the mausoleum. the cemetery and its predictable cash. This
classification. However, the premise of It cannot be sold off, except through the will allow you to be comfortable with the
cemetery lending has changed. efforts of the cemetery. While I have seen amount of the loan you take out and the cash
In the past, many banks valued a this, it is the wrong way to do it. You can flow need to make the loan payments.
mausoleum as a building. This is a ridiculous have a guarantee backed by the cemetery Next, look at the sales pro forma for
presumption! A mausoleum is inventory, not organization; if a default occurs, the lender the new inventory going online. What are
a building. In the past, the bank would make a would have to repossess the entire cemetery. you selling in advance of construction,
loan on the mausoleum building and the loan during construction and once construction is
would be paid off from your cash flow, and How to obtain a loan completed? How will your pricing change at
no one was the wiser. So, what can you do? Well, first you need to each level and timing?
I see this is an inventory loan. You, find a cash-flow lender. This cash-flow lender Your banker’s previous brethren didn’t
as a cemeterian, are a dealer in your own should have experience with the cemetery understand the cemetery business. That didn’t
inventory. Constructing that mausoleum is profession. Such experience in dealing matter if you didn’t default.
the same thing as buying land for conversion with cemeteries is critical in case there is a Now, due to the previous defaults of
to grave sites, except that you are creating problem with mortality rates, competition Loewen and other operators, all bankers
crypts rather than graves. You are selling or other issue we in the profession know to and their attorneys understand what to do to
crypts. Whether the loan payoff comes from expect and know how to deal with. secure their loans. That makes many of these
crypt sales specifically or from the free cash A knowledgeable lender doesn’t move lenders unwilling to make loans in cases like
flow of the cemetery in general is a detail to to foreclose too soon. You can’t afford to be yours. Other bankers were motivated to have
underwriting, not the limit on newly-created using limited cash flow to run the cemetery their lawyers investigate perfecting their loans
inventory. and create sales while also paying legal fees in the event of a default by a cemetery, which
In reality, if a default occurs, the bank to keep a lender at bay. led to the lawyers advising the bankers to get
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➤He is one of the most sought-after very funeral professional and was once a word employed in the innocent
speakers and educators in funeral service. cemeterian on the globe has heard this: search for information (which probably most
www.guptoncollege.edu “Why? Why do we have to do that/ telephone shoppers indeed are—innocent).
➤Van Beck is dean of ICCFA University’s pay for that?” The word “why” signified the investi-
College of Funeral Home Management Things have certainly changed since gation of cause or reason. When employed in
and received the ICCFA Educational the days when the funeral director actually this manner, it is appropriate, and I know of
Foundation’s first ever Lasting Impact “directed” and people simply did what they no other word to take its place. Unfortunately,
Award in 2014. were directed to do. Of course, this still this is generally not the way it is used today
happens sometimes, but as most people in in funeral and cemetery service.
f
“Like” Todd Van Beck
our profession will readily attest, the public’s Today, the word “why” too often con-
on Facebook today!
comfort level with being told what to do by notes not a simple request for information but
just about anyone has changed considerably. disapproval and displeasure. Thus when used
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You know the routine: “Well, why do by the funeral/cemetery professional or, vice
➤In Van Beck’s new we need a vault?” “Why does the airline versa, by the client family, it communicates
book, “Exploring the require that?” “Why can’t we bury Dad in that something or somebody has done
Heart of Funeral Ser-
his back yard?” “Why do you have all these “wrong” or has behaved “badly.”
vice,” he explores topics
pertinent to funeral com
forms?” “Why do we have to go in that Even when that is not the meaning inten-
munications and funeral room?” “Why don’t you have coffee?” Why, ded by the funeral/cemetery professional, that
service counseling. why, why, why? There have always been is generally how the word will be understood
www.amazon.com people addicted to the word “why,” but I by the family, and vice versa.
would suggest their numbers are increasing The effect upon the client family will
exponentially. be predictably negative, for they will most
➤Van Beck’s book The single word that best symbolizes probably have grown up in an environment
“Reverence for the Dead: inquiry, suspicion, cynicism and mistrust in which “why” implied blame and condem-
The Unavoidable Link,” more than any other and is most frequently nation. Naturally enough, they will react to
addresses in detail the employed in asking hard, direct questions is the word in the funeral/cemetery experience
ethical standards of car- that little tiny word, “why.” the way they have learned to react to it over
ing for the dead and the At the outset of this article I want to the years, even though it might have been
ethical consequences of
confess that I have an aversion to the way used in the sense of genuine inquiry.
not doing so.
the word is generally used, if not to the word Thus whenever the client family hears
www.amazon.com
itself, and it appears that this little word is the word “why,” they may feel the need to
➤Van Beck’s book “The being bantered around in the funeral service/ defend themselves, to withdraw and avoid the
Story of Cremation,” cemetery profession more today than at any situation or to attack.
walks the reader through other time in our long and eventful history. In their early years, children use the word
the history of cremation, For example, the case could easily be frequently – often to the utter frustration and
its historical uses to its made and much could be said in support distraction of adults. “Why? Why? Why?
use today. It concludes of the idea that the little word “why” is the Why?” For children, that questions is a key
with a discussion of the genesis and motivation for all the telephone with which to unlock the secrets of the world;
downsides of cremation. shopping calls we routinely receive these it enables them to explore and discover. They
www.amazon.com days. ask for information without implying moral
A legitimate basis for the use of the “why” judgment, approval or disapproval. They
word in our language undoubtedly exists, learn from asking “Why?”
but I maintain that “why” has so often been In time, however they learn that adults
misused in general communication that its use the word differently. The child learns that
original meaning has become distorted. It adults use the “why” word to put them on the
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PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT
Today, the word “why” too often connotes not a simple request for information but disapproval
and displeasure. Thus when used by the funeral/cemetery professional or, vice versa, by the client family,
it communicates that something or somebody has done “wrong” or has behaved “badly.”
Even when that is not the meaning intended by the funeral/cemetery professional,
that is generally how the word will be understood by the family, and vice versa.
spot, to show them they are behaving in an extent possible. But what about when the point I want to make. If the client family
unacceptable manner. client family uses it? perceives that our attitude is unthreatening, if
Slowly but surely, children stop using the As mentioned before, our profession we have established trust and respect, and if
word for the purpose of inquiry and begin to has heard the word “why” more in the last we then use “why” simply to obtain factual
employ it against others the very same way it quarter of a century that in the previous 500 information the family possesses and we feel
has been used against them. years. Client families use “why” a great deal. we need, then our use of the word should not
The child’s ears ring with the questions “Why do we need that?” “Why should we cause undue damage.
from accusatory adults: “Why did you muddy buy that?” “Why is this so much money?” Perhaps I am saying this to make us feel
my clean floor?” “Why are you barefoot?” “Why can’t we just …?” “Why can’t I bury better because most of us are still using the
“Why don’t you use your knife and fork Mom on top of Mount Rushmore? It’s a free word, but I hope it’s true.
properly?” “Why did you break that dish?” country, isn’t it?” When we do use “why,” we should do so
etc., etc. The word “why” has become a permanent to get at facts rather than feelings, at thoughts
Children learn to imitate their elders. Soon part of the process of the funeral/cemetery rather than emotions. For example, no one in
enough, they will say to their friend, “Why interview for us all, whether in sales or our profession would ever ask, “Why do you
did you take my bike?” “Why did you play service. feel that way?”
with my stuff?” to show that they disapprove Should the word “why,” then, never That question, my friends, is an absolute
of the act—not because they are interested in be used? I know I wish I would employ it guarantee of unwanted and unnecessary
obtaining a bit of useful information. less, for in spite of all my reservations and trouble. In our culture, facts and thoughts
The child will say to the mother, “Why objections to its use, it keeps cropping up. I are more readily accessible, more easily
must I go to the store?” not because they want try to avoid it and am glad when I succeed, disclosed, than feelings and emotions.
a reason but because they don’t wish to go. but often enough there it is to be dealt with As funeral/cemetery professionals, we
This is why the funeral/cemetery again. have a responsibility to furnish answers—
professional should be wary of using the That one little word, however, does have a good, solid ones at that—to all the “whys”
word “why,” should avoid doing so to the justifiable place, and this is the one additional that come our way. r
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CONFERENCE
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kills in business management evolve continuously as time Government & Legal Affairs Committee. This traditional event
goes on. Competition grows, technology improves and will deliver you important news you can use about issues that
customers change. These are all things that business manag- affect your business such as taxes, labor, law and litigation.
ers and owners should pay attention to as they go about their daily Also on Friday, Lynn Elliot, founder of Media Demograph-
business. The ICCFA Fall Management Conference on Septem- ics, a full-service research and marketing company that provides
ber 26-28, 2018, at the Eau Palm Beach Resort in Manalapan, marketing communication and design services to customers
Florida, is the conference to attend for new insights on business including funeral homes, presents “Website Marketing.”
management as you build and strengthen your organization. Elliott has trained more than 200 account executives in radio,
Bruce Tulgan, founder and CEO of RainmakerThinking Inc., television and print on how to develop an effective reach and fre-
best-selling author and business adviser, kicks off quency advertising campaigns for their clients. She has received
the conference with his session, “Winning the certification as a radio marketing expert. There are only 32 other
Talent Wars,” on Thursday, September 27, at 9 individuals in the United States currently with the same certifica-
a.m. Tulgan is recognized as the leading expert tion. On the heels of this session there will be an industry panel
on young people in the workplace and one of the discussion in which panelists will talk about their experiences
leading experts on leadership and management. with selling pre-need online and how they navigate the online
Employees today are smart enough to know market.
that their future career success is in their hands
Tulgan —not their employer’s. Because the free-agent Aside from the educational sessions, there are several
mindset is on the rise, it’s getting harder than networking events where you will have opportunities to catch
ever to keep the best talent. In “Winning the Talent Wars,” you’ll up with business contacts and friends and to make new ones.
learn that if you want to win today’s talent wars, you will have Receptions will be held on Wednesday and Thursday evenings
to build a winning culture. To do this, Tulgan will teach the five- offering food, drink, entertainment and the opportunity to so-
step process to build a winning culture in your organization— cialize with fellow attendees.
and see your employee attraction and retention skyrocket. This year’s Golf Tournament will be held on September 26
At 2 p.m., Tulgan returns to talk about “Highly Engaged at 12:30 p.m. at The Breakers Rees Jones Course. The course
Leadership.” Can you say that the leaders in your organization features large fairways, challenging water carries, 62 sand-and-
provide reports with sufficient guidance, support and coaching? grass-faced bunkers and a tropical landscape with 10 lakes.
Believe it or not, 90 percent of all leaders and managers do not. The ICCFA has negotiated a hotel rate of $239 per night.
In this session, you will bust the common myths that result in Make your reservation by calling 1.888.306.4894 and referenc-
undermanagement and empower your managers to be strong. ing the ICCFA Fall Management Conference.
Friday morning will begin with the Government & Legal For more information and for the full program schedule,
Breakfast hosted by Poul Lemasters, Esq., co-chair of the ICCFA visit www.iccfa.com/fall
Networking break during the ICCFA Socializing during the ICCFA 2017 Golf ICCFA Board of Directors meeting dur-
2017 Fall Conference. Tournament at the Indian Wells Golf ing the ICCFA 2017 Fall Conference.
Resort Celebrity Course.
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by Julie A.B. Bly, MPS tors Association. The two of them kicked-off the
educational sessions with a very eye-opening talk
s ICCFA’s membership manager, I recently attended the
on cremation pitfalls and how to avoid them.
Florida Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Associa-
Another insightful speaker was Dr. Chip R.
tion (FCCFA) Conference in Bonita Springs, Florida,
for the first time in June. What an honor it was to meet so many Bell, who spoke at ICCFA’s 2017 Fall Manage- Bly
members of the FCCFA and ICCFA. ment Conference in Indian Wells, California.
The ICCFA was proud to sponsor one of the golf tees at the Dr. Bell is a very creative speaker, keeping everyone on their
Vicki Uselton Memorial Golf Tournament, which was held on toes and wondering what he will say next. He shared ideas on
Thursday, June 21, at the Raptor Bay Golf Club. If you are how business owners can engage their audience, how to get their
a resident of Florida and didn’t have a chance to attend, I highly potential “guests” to start asking for more information and how to
encourage you to mark your calendar for next year’s conference stay ahead of the competition.
at the Tampa Marriott Waterside Hotel & Marina on July The FCCFA could not have asked for better weather for their
25–27, 2019. fun-filled “Dive-in Movie” and pool-side welcome reception.
This intimate meeting really caters to the individual FCCFA All in all, with six great speakers and 2 ½ days of education
member. Among the presenters at this year’s FCCFA confer-
and networking with other Florida end-of-life industry profes-
ence was ICCFA’s own Cremation Counsel Poul Lemasters of
sionals, it was amazing to be there.
Lemasters Consulting. He was joined by Mike Nicodemus, vice
president of cremation services for the National Funeral Direc-
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Admission to ICCFA membership normally
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Above left, best-of-Show at the 2017 meet was Mike Riefer’s impeccably restored,
three-way-loading 1934 Henney Arrowline limousine-style hearse from Owensville, Bishop Mortuary
Missouri, originally constructed for the Johnson Saum mortuary of Los Angeles, Lemon Grove, California
California. Post-retirement circa 1948 it was purchased by a professional clown City of Pahokee Port Mayaca Cemetery*
who repainted the body red and yellow like a circus wagon and put a calliope in Pahokee, Florida
the casket compartment with pipes jutting through the roof. Above right, The A.J. Clarke’s Funeral Home
Miller-bodied 1950 Cadillac owned by Lance R. Giberson of Florenceville, New MacGregor, Manitoba
Brunswick. Reversible casket rollers and a removable cot hook allowed small town Desarrollo Urbano de Tepic
morticians to quickly convert these so-called “duplex” coaches into part-time am- Tepic, Mexico
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August 10-11: West Virginia Cemetery Conf. & Golf Tournament, Great Wolf Lodge, Mausoleum
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Cincinnati RiverCenter, September 26: Indiana for Life.” Since 2012, this global movement that celebrates life
Covington, Kentucky. Cemetery Assn. Fall Convention has summoned millions of people around the world to join the
www.iccfa.com & Trade Show, Washington Park different activities organized by the companies in the industry.
August 28: Batesville webinar, East Cemetery, Indianapolis. This promotes the unity of families beyond geographical
“Staying Relevant in an Evolving www.indianacemetery borders, raises awareness of the sensitive issue of loss and the
Marketplace.” association.org work of the professionals of our industry.
www.Batesville.com September 26-28: ICCFA Fall ALPAR is asking UNESCO for a proclamation of an inter-
August 28 & 29: ICCFA Management Conf., Eau Palm national day to institutionalize The World United for Life. r
Cremation Operator & Arranger Beach Resort & Spa, Manala-
Training, Ohio Funeral Directors pan, Florida. www.iccfa.org Assn. Fall Maintenance Day, November 7: Funeral Directors
Association, Columbus. September 29-October 2: Spring Grove Cemetery, Service Assn. of Greater Chica-
www.iccfa.org Wyoming Funeral Directors Cincinnati. www.ohiocemetery go Trade Show, White Eagle
September 12-13: Illinois Assn. Annual Convention & association.com Banquets & Restaurant, Niles,
Cemetery & Funeral Home Trade Show, Casper. October 2-3: Florida Cemetery, Illinois. www.fdsachicago.com
Assn. 90th Annual Fall www.wyomingfda.org Cremation and Funeral Assn. December 11-12: ICCFA
Convention, Harrah’s Joliet September 29-October 3: Leadership Training Seminar, Cremation Operator & Arranger
Casino & Hotel. www.icfha.org New York State Assn. of Daytona Beach. Training, live stream and The
September 18-21: Catholic Ce- Cemeteries 90th Annual Fall www.thefccfa.com Wilbert Group, Broadview,
metery Conference Annual Con- Conf., The Sagamore, Bolton October 4-5: Cemetery Assn. of Illinois. www.iccfa.com
vention & Expo, Hilton Cincinnati Landing. www.nysac.com Oregon Conf., Newport.
Netherlands Plaza, Ohio. www. October 2: Ohio Cemetery www.OregonCemeteries.com 2019
January 23-25: ICCFA Wide
October 10-13: Selected Inde-
World of Sales, Bally’s Las
pendent Funeral Homes Annual
Vegas, Nevada. www.iccfa.com
Mtg., Snowbird Ski & Summer
Resort, Salt Lake City, Utah. February 4-7: Dr. Alan Wolfelt’s
www.selectedfuneralhomes.org training session for funeral
directors, “Creating Meaningful
October 14-17: NFDA Annual
Funeral Ceremonies,” Scottsdale,
Convention & Expo, Salt Palace
Arizona. www.centerforloss.com
Convention Center, Salt Lake
City, Utah. www.nfda.org February 8-10: Monument
October 29-30: Casket & Builders of North America
Funeral Supply Assn. Fall Conf. Industry Show, Marriot St. Lous
& Trade Show, Hilton Columbus Grande & St. Louis Convention
Downtown, Ohio. Center, Missouri.
www.cfsaa.org www.monumentbuilders.org r
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