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A Feminist
My Personal Reasons
For Rejecting The
Women’s Rights Movement
By
cishetwhiteoppressor.tumblr.com
Contents PAGES
1. Introduction 3
2. The Definition 4 - 12
3. Reality 5
3. Priorities 14
4. Conclusion 19
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1. Introduction
As an outspoken non-feminist blogger, I am used to people simply
not being able to wrap their heads around the idea of someone,
especially a woman, not being a feminist. And I can not blame them.
Many hold the belief that feminism means “equality”, and that not being
a feminist must mean that you hate women and do not want
the genders to be equal. But it really is not that black and white.
I would like to point out that the intention behind this book was not to
shame anyone for being a feminist. Anyone is free to use whichever
label they want and support any movement they want. But this book
is meant to portray, to anyone who is willing to listen, the reasons people
have for not wanting to associate with feminism.
Since I know that people are not feminists or identify as anti-feminists for
various reasons, I am not trying to be the voice of millions of different
people with different ideas and beliefs. These are simply my opinions
and views. They do not represent anti/non-feminists as a whole.
Nevertheless, I tried my best to shed some light on what feminism
currently looks like in the public eye and why it is getting a worse and
worse reputation.
I am hoping that this might inspire some open-minded feminists to stop
seeing anti- and non-feminists as the enemy, and to start working on
fighting their real enemy - the people who gave them a bad reputation in
the first place.
It is not us who are the problem most of us are not turning our backs on
feminism out of vile reasons.
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2. The Definition
Merriam-Webster
: the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities
Dictionary.com
Oxford Dictionaries
The advocacy of women’s rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.
http://now.org/now-foundation/about-now-foundation/mission-statement/
They sound like they could give us some insight into the
movement. Maybe they can educate us on their goals and
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intentions.
The feminist Organization NOW has:
Like many feminists, they also still haven’t realized that the
“77 cents per dollar” pay-gap has been debunked over and
over again, and are contributing to the spreading of
misinformation in many ways. One of their main goals for
2014 was a “Paycheck Fairness Act”, an attempt to replace
the 1963 Equal Pay Act, based on the assumption that the
gender pay difference exists because of discrimination, and
not like everyone else has already realized, because of
different choices.
Not the best start...
http://now.org/about/conference-resolutions/2014-national-now-conference-resolutions/
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And it obviously doesn’t stop there:
- Andrea Dworkin
More Quotes:
http://thoughtcatalog.com/jake-fillis/2014/05/23-quotes-from-feminists-that-will-make-you-rethink-feminism/
http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Andrea_Dworkin
An astrophysicist who deserves our applause has been pilloried in his moment
of triumph
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/space/11234620/Dr-Matt-Taylors-shirt-made-me-cry-too-with-rage-at-his-abusers.html
Pizzey has been the subject of death threats and boycotts because of
her research into the claim that most domestic violence is reciprocal,
and that women are equally capable of violence as men. Pizzey has
said that the threats were from militant feminists.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin_Pizzey
Feminists prevent a meeting about male suicide, call it “hate speech”.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0
Swedish Left Party Chapter Wants To Make Urinating While Standing Illegal For Men
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/13/sweden-left-party-toilet-stand_n_1590572.html
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Erin Pizzey had to flee the UK because she and her family received death threats,
because feminists didn’t like that she discovered women were equally as violent
as men.
http://www.fathersforlife.org/pizzey/failfamt.htm
Suzanne Steinmetz and her children received death threats and bomb threats she
discovered that the rate at which men were victimized by domestic violence was
similar to the rate for women.
http://www.ifeminists.net/introduction/editorials/2005/0525roberts.html
http://jezebel.com/294383/have-you-ever-beat-up-a-boyfriend-cause-uh-we-have
Feminists fought against laws granting men anonymity until charged with the crime
of rape. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239
“Women should not be sent to prison and should instead serve community
sentences” - the Women's Justice Taskforce. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-13666066
How feminist groups skewed the Obama stimulus plan towards women's jobs.
http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp
of suicide victims
79%* in the U.S.
are male.
Male genital mutilation is legal
in first world countries.
The rape of males is in most countries legally not
even considered rape.
Males
Females
60
7,500
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Men account for 93% of all
workplace deaths in America. 1
57,849 veterans, overwhelmingly 92% male, were
homeless on a single night in January 2013. 2
Homeless men die 22 years younger than homeless
women. 3
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Women win sole-custody battles 5 out of 6 times.
Go to
http://listverse.com/2013/06/25/10-examples-of-men39s-issues-
the-media-loves-to-ignore/
http://time.com/2949435/what-i-learned-as-a-woman-at-a-
mens-rights-conference/
http://www.avoiceformen.com/
I am not a feminist,
because the movement has been doing nothing but attacking and bullying men for
the past few years. Most things feminists “fight for” do not benefit me or other
women, they do nothing to achieve equality of the genders and are downright
counterproductive.
I am not a feminist,
because women’s legal rights have already been achieved. All that is left now is to
make sure that they are preserved and empower women to make their own choices
and live happy lives. Which feminists are simply not doing enough.
I am not a feminist,
because I do not need a movement to represent me and
because I do not want to fix what other feminists have broken.
I am not a feminist,
because I am not a victim and men are not my enemy. They are not privileged
and I am not oppressed. I am aware of the fact that being a woman can be a
privilege in many ways.
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