Costly SUV Upgrade” Write an email as if you were writing to Mr. Chan about his unfortunate experience with a large SUV rented from Budget at the Calgary airport. Make sure you follow the Writing Plan Page 138 Please entitle your document NAME 7.3 150 When finished, send this email to mariakasuncion@gmail.com Chapter 10 – Communicating in Person
Starting from page 218
Defining professional behaviour: ¡ Civility: being respectful to others ¡ Polish: having manners ¡ Business and dining etiquette: proper business wear ¡ Social intelligence: ability to get along with others ¡ Soft skills: personal qualities, habits, attitudes (e.g., optimism and friendliness), communication skills, and social graces Ethics (p. 220)
Ethics: the study of right and wrong behaviour, from
both a theoretical point of view (normative ethics) and a practical point of view (applied ethics) There are also specific types of ethic theories: ¡ Duty-based: do what’s right in ALL cases
¡ Consequentialist-based: do what will make most
happy ¡ Social contract-based: do what’s right because you live in a community and part of this means taking other people’s needs into consideration Empathy & Professionalism (p. 221)
Professionalism: a type of ethics (it’s applied ethics
specifically because the respectful, pro-social behaviours are happening in a real-world setting; i.e., the workplace) Professionalism includes the importance of appearance, sounding appropriate at work, and treating people with respect and consideration The 6 dimensions of professional behaviour: (p. 221) 1. Courtesy and respect
2. Collegiality (friendliness) and sharing
3. Reliability and diligence 4. Appearance and appeal
5. Tolerance and tact
6. Honesty and ethics Successful Face-to-Face Communication (p. 222)
Employment advertisements frequently mention
team, communication, and people skills It’s important to note that one-dimensional communication technologies cannot replace the richness or effectiveness of face-to-face communication Like an actor, you can change your voice to make it a more powerful communication tool Proper pronunciation means saying words correctly and clearly with accepted sounds and accented syllables Successful Face-to-Face Communication (p. 222)
Tone is also important; it determines your
personality and your mood Someone’s tone or voice might sound friendly, or it might sound angry or patronizing Pitch is the sound vibration frequency, or lowness or highness of a sound; successful speakers use a relaxed, controlled, well-pitched voice to attract listeners If someone’s pitch is flat and monotone, that’s boring Voices are most attractive when they rise and fall in conversational tones (show reactive emotions) Successful Face-to-Face Communication (p. 222)
Lastly for pitch, speaking in a moderately low-
pitched voice at about 125 words a minute makes you sound pleasing and professional Volume and rate are also important to consider Volume: degree of loudness or intensity of sound When speaking face-to-face, it’s easy to tell how loud you should be Usually you can adjust your voice to the other person or people you’re speaking with, by matching theirs Rate: pace of your speech (too slow or too fast) Successful Face-to-Face Communication (p. 222)
Lastly, emphasis (or stressing certain words) can
change the meaning of what you’re expressing For example, let’s read these sentences with emphasis on the italicized words ¡ Matt said the hard drive failed again. (Matt knows what happened.) ¡ Matt said the hard drive failed again. (But he may be wrong.) ¡ Matt said the hard drive failed again? (Did he really sat that?) Recall “uptalk” which is when sentences sound like questions, makes speakers seem weak and tentative Making Workplace Conversation Matter (p. 223)
Use correct names and titles
Choose appropriate topics
Avoid negative remarks
Listen to learn
Give sincere and specific praise
Responding Professionally to Workplace Criticism (p. 225)
Listen without interrupting
Determine the speaker’s intent
Acknowledge what you are hearing
Paraphrase what was said Ask for more information if necessary
Agree—if the comments are accurate
Disagree respectfully and constructively—if you feel the comments are unfair Look for a middle position (compromise) Offering Constructive Criticism at Work (p. 225)
Mentally outline your conversation
Generally, use face-to-face communication Focus on improvement Offer to help Be specific Avoid broad generalizations Discuss the behaviour, not the person Use the word we rather than you Encourage two-way communication Avoid anger, sarcasm, and a raised voice Keep it private Phone & Voice Mail Etiquette (p. 226)
Make Professional Phone Calls
¡ Plan a mini-agenda ¡ Use a 3-point introduction ¡ Be brisk if you are rushed ¡ Be cheerful and accurate ¡ Bring it to a close ¡ Avoid phone tag ¡ Leave complete voice mail messages Phone & Voice Mail Etiquette (p. 226)
Receiving Phone Calls Professionally
¡ Identify yourself immediately ¡ Be responsive and helpful ¡ Be cautious when answering calls for others ¡ Take messages carefully ¡ Explain what you’re doing when transferring calls Phone & Voice Mail Etiquette (p. 226)
Using Smartphones for Business
¡ Location: turn off or mute your cellphone while driving, having a meeting, interview, working, at a place of worship, etc. Also, taking a call in a crowded room makes it difficult to hear and reflects poorly on you as a professional ¡ Time: make sure to pay attention to when it’s appropriate to take a phone call; e.g., do not pick up the phone when it might interrupt the conversation Using Smartphones for Business (p. 229)
¡ Volume: avoid “cell yell” which annoys a lot of people
Raising your voice is not always needed since more phones have excellent microphones that can pick up even a whisper or the wind passing by you If the connection is bad, louder volume will not improve the sound quality In a face-to-face conversation, a low, modulated (regulated, adjusted) voice sounds professional and projects the proper image Figure 10.2 – professional cellphone use Making the Most of Voice Mail (p. 229)
Don’t overuse voice mail (do not avoid phone calls)
Set the number of rings appropriately (3 times)
Prepare a professional, concise, friendly greeting
Test your message
Change your message
Respond to message promptly
Plan for vacations and other extended absences
Leaving Voice Mail Messages (p. 230)
Be prepared to leave a message
Leave a concise, thorough message
Use a professional and courteous tone
Speak slowly and clearly
Be careful with confidential information
Don’t make assumptions
Adding Values in Professional Teams (p. 230)
The Importance of Teams in the Workplace
¡ Better decisions ¡ Faster response ¡ Increased productivity ¡ Greater buy-in (more people agree and support each other) ¡ Less resistance to change (people who have input into decisions are less hostile, less aggressive and less resistant) ¡ Improved employee morale (people are more satisfied) ¡ Reduced risks (responsibility is spread throughout the group, diffusing [decreasing] blame from only one person) Characteristics of Successful Teams (p. 232)
Be small and diverse (complimentary roles)
Agree on purpose (why is the team formed?)
Agree on procedures (deadlines, roles, tasks, etc.)
Confront conflict but be constructive about it Communicate effectively
Collaborate rather than compete
Share leadership
Acceptance of ethical responsibilities
Six Steps for Dealing with Conflict (p. 233)
1. Listen to ensure you understand the problem
2. Understand the other’s position
3. Show a concern for the relationship
4. Look for areas of mutual agreement
5. Invent new problem-solving options
6. Reach a fair agreement; choose the best option
Ethical Responsibilities of Team Members and Leaders (p. 234) Determine to do your best Decide to behave with the group’s best in mind
Make a commitment to fair play
Expect to give and receive a fair hearing (do not interrupt) Be willing to take on a participant/analyst role (“looking from the outside in”) As a leader, be ready to model appropriate team behaviour (set an example for others) Conducting Professional Business Meetings (p. 234)
Preparing for Meetings:
¡ Determine the purpose of the meeting ¡ Decide how and where to meet ¡ Select participants (Figure 10.6) ¡ Use digital calendars to schedule meetings ¡ Distribute an agenda (by email usually) ÷ Include date and place of meeting ÷ Start time and end time ÷ Brief description of each topic, by importance Conducting Professional Business Meetings (p. 237) Managing the Meeting: ¡ Get started and establish ground rules
÷ Goal and length of the meeting
÷ Background of topics or problems ÷ Possible solutions and constraints ÷ Tentative agenda ÷ Ground rules to be followed ¡ Move the meeting along
÷ Keep the meeting moving by avoiding issues that “sidetrack”
the group (or distract the group from the main tasks) ¡ Handle the conflict
÷ When a conflict develops between the team members, allow
each to make a complete case before the group Conducting Professional Business Meetings (p. 239)
Ending each meeting with a plan and follow up (e.g.,
taking notes and then sending them out to members) Preparing for virtual meetings: ¡ Make sure you know how to use the technology ¡ Respect the needs of dispersed participants
Let’s take a look at Figure 10.10 to see the steps to
setting up a web conference for your team Conducting Professional Business Meetings (p. 240)
Lastly, let’s consider suggestions for when we’re
interacting professionally in virtual meetings ¡ Establish ground rules for virtual meetings ¡ Anticipate the limitations of virtual technology ¡ Manage turn-taking and other meeting procedures Work Time
Please use the remainder of class to complete the
assignments, work on individual writing practice, and/ or group presentation work If you have any questions, feel free to ask me! J