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So you want to give her a good time with your hands but you aren’t
sure what to do or would just like to up your game- not to worry.
Let me help. This part will be covering some basic techniques, interesting
anatomy stuff you probably didn’t know. I cover the G-spot,Deepspot, Aspot,
squirting and what not. Enjoy! For now, let me show you the basics of
fingering a girl (external).
Boys=Girls
In fetal development ‘male’ and ‘female’ genitalia are pretty much identical
until a couple months in. That means that the tissues that later evolve in
either a penis or a vagina (correct term is vulva but who cares right). Thus, the
tissues itself are pretty much corresponding even after its clear it’s a girl or
boy.
Knowing this will give you a head start because it will help you get a better
understanding of how a certain way of
touching/stroking/licking/sucking/biting/etc will feel to her- because it will
feel somewhat similar for you. So what are the corresponding tissues?
Man Women
Balls Labia
Shaft Clitoral shaft
Frenulum Frenulum*
Head of penis Clitoris
*the frenulum is the smooth silky tissue right below her clit but I’m sure you
knew that;)
Now in general, what we as men like, will also feel good to women. Just
knowing this will really help you become gifted at fingering a girl.
Generally speaking this is what sort of stimulation the tissues
enjoy best:
•Labia like pinching/stretching and soft sliding movements.
•Shafts enjoy being stroked.
•Frenulum likes sliding and slight pressure.
•The clit likes suction/licking/and rubbing (but not like an idiot).
Just try it out on yourself. You wouldn’t stroke your ball sack would you? You
wouldn’t pinch the head of your penis either. You need to be aware that
particular tissues like a particular way of stimulation (in general).
I often say ‘in general’ because everyone girl is different obviously. They are
all wired differently, and their area will vary significantly in size, texture and
color so always keep an eye on her subtle signals and adjust accordingly.
The evolutionary reason for these bulbs are to ensure a tight vaginal cuff
when she is being penetrated by a guy. So if she is aroused her entire area will
fill with blood-causing it to look bigger and change in color.
However her vaginal opening will tighten a bit because the bulbs push her
vaginal walls together:
Warming Her Up
Warming her up properly is not only about taking your time- it’s also about
stimulating her ENTIRE area- and that means massaging her vestibular bulbs
too. That alone will be appreciate by a lot of girls though you shouldn’t make
the mistake of taking fucking forever.
After all, how annoying can it be if you are super horny but a girl spends ages
‘warming you up’ instead of doing her ‘thing’. There is definitely a time and
place for slow and lots of buildup obviously- but sometimes the length of
‘warming her up’ is exaggerated so keep that in mind. Warm her up-but don’t
spend all afternoon doing so.
Personally I often like songs of Bob Marley, Maduk and some lounge but hey,
everyone is different. I just hope you don’t do any Justin Bieber shit. Oh, and
Metallica is probably not your best bet either.
1.-Massaging-vestibular-bulbs
3.-Pinching-her-labia
5.-Rubbing-her-labia
7.-Stroking-her-clit-and-shaft
8.-Stimulating-her-clit-via-her-hood
9.-Slide-up-her-clitoral-hood
10. Stroking Her Shaft.
With your index and middle finger stroke her shaft by making sure you ‘trap’
her shaft and clit. Go up and down or in circular motions.
10.-Stroking-her-shaft
There are numerous ways of making a girl feel good with your hands, here
just covered the basics .
Want to know how to give a girl a squirting orgasm? How to make her feel
good with your hands? How to stimulate her G-spot, A-spot and Deep-spot?
No worries- I’ll show you how in this article and video. In case you’re
wondering, I actually get laid- a lot. Unlike most people talking about this
stuff.
Whether you are already pretty damn experienced or just starting out-
knowing how to please a lady with your hands is a great skill to have and there
will be some gems in here for even the more experienced amongst you
reading this. Prevent average sex by taking charge of your sex life- I mean
that.
Important Principles
Before we go into the juicy stuff I want to cover two essential principles first
that you need to keep in mind when fingering a girl ‘internally’ namely: pussy
dynamics and movement vs pressure. Let me explain.
When you are fingering a girl there will always be a ‘dialogue’ between her
pussy and your hand and/or fingers. This ‘dialogue’ as I like to call it, is
basically the direct ‘feedback’ you’ll get when fingering a girl.
•If you are doing something she enjoys- her pussy will let you know.
•If you do something she doesn’t enjoy- nothing will happen.
Being in the moment and able to read those subtle signals is a nice skill to
have I’ve found when it comes to fingering a girl. So what does it mean? It
simply means that instead of jamming your fingers in (I hope this isn’t you)
you slowlyMASSAGE your way into her pussy by massaging her pelvic floor
muscles, her side walls, and the upper wall of the vagina.
When you are ‘doing good’ she will let you know (subconsciously) and her
pussy will give some signals that ‘it feels good and you can go in deeper’.
The most important ‘signals’ I’ve found are these:
•You feel a fast twitch or contraction- it generally means: “that feels really
good baby- please continue/go deeper”.
•She makes a sudden movement- it generally means: ”baby please do
something different, this doesn’t feel good (enough)”.
Based on these signals you ‘adjust your approach’. Women as we all know,
need a little ‘buildup’ so take your time and warm her up by MASSAGING
every inch’ so she is good to go.
That’s what’s pussy-dynamics is all about.
G-spot
Will feel like a rough patch of skin about 1-2knockles in on the ‘upper’ side of
her vaginal walls. For most girls it’s located more to the right but some have
the tissue sticking out more to the left.
A-spot
Generally feels silky and smooth. Locate it by sliding your index and middle
finger in (keep in mind: pussy dynamics) and pushing down with one hand
right behind her pubic until you feel this ‘angle’ going downward.
Deep-spot
It feels smooth and silky just like the A-spot. Locate it by sliding your index
and middle finger in pushing down and going all the way in. I have average
sized hands and I can still reach it generally speaking so you should have no
problems ‘getting there’.
A Word On Ass-gasms
It’s the back of the Deep-spot.If you take a girl in the ass you will be
stimulating the BACK of her DEEPSPOT. For some reason people claim this
to be some new magical spot and their ignorance is annoying to say the least.
Because the inner linings and walls between her rectum (butt) and deep-spot
are very thin you will be hitting and stimulating that sensitive hotspot from
the other side. This is the reason girls like anal sex.
And when this spongy tissue fills with blood (aka she gets aroused) her
G-‘spot’ will appear (side view):
gspotswelling
That explains its name: g-SPOT but we now know that it’s not just a ‘spot.
Things I Usually Do
There are a lot of things you can do to stimulate a girls G-spot but to make it
easy for you I’ve made some pictures of what I often do and have great results
(if you wanna call it that) with:
G-spot-vertical-push
G-spot-sliding
#3- Massaging her G-spot.
G-spot-massaging
G-spot-grabbing-her-pubic-bone
Squirting
‘How to make a girl squirt’ is what you often read. Let’s make a distinction
here real quick women can:
•Squirt (think showerhead).
Or they can:
•Gush (think dripping).
In most cases, women won’t SQUIRT- at least not initially. That is because
they really need to PUSH out the fluid and it takes some practice. So in most
cases- she will first gush.
Let me tell you my experience & thoughts on making girls squirt (had a couple
that were big squirters, some gushers, and some that were as dry as the
Mohavi desert).
Often the G-Spot is associated with squirting. And for good reason- a girl who
is in touch with her pussy and comfortable with a guy who knows how to
stimulate her properly might squirt- even if it’s just a little bit of fluid that
comes out (which is usually the case in the beginning)
Squirting is a skill that- just like any other skill- takes some practicing.
Beyond stimulating a girl, making her feel comfortable (with you) and
REALLY warming her up there is not much you can do.
Making her feel comfortable is a big one by the way. If she feels inhibited in
ANY way it won’t happen. You need to create a strong connection with the girl
and make her feel really good if you want to share this experience with her.
Tip From DONG: Hitting Her A-Spot When You Are Inside
When you are fucking her it can be very nice if you push down on
her belly while you slide in really deep because you can hit her A-
spot better. It’s just a little ‘trick’ I found and I actually enjoy doing
it a lot and so do the women so try it out next time you are getting
jiggy.
A-spot-pressure-massaging
#2- Massaging & Applying Pressure.
A-spot-pressure-running-man
Personally it was a big epiphany for me to see how sensitive girls are when
you stimulate the deep-spot. Pretty much every women whom I’m fingered
this way really liked it and some came pretty hard from just stimulating the
deep-spot alone- but not all of them.
As I often says- every girl/woman is different so what ‘works’ for one might
not ‘work’ for the other and that’s cool. Life would be pretty fucking boring if
it would be the same every time.
What I often did was something along the lines of stimulating the A-spot-
because they are basically the same except the deep-spot is BELOW her cervix
(unless she has a tilted uterus but hardly any woman has that so no worries).
#1- Sliding & Applying Pressure.
Deep-spot-pressure-massaging
C’est Tout
So there you have it- a tutorial on how to finger a girl and stimulate her G-
spot, A-spot, and Deep-spot. As I said before this is all based on my
PERSONAL experience so always be critical and see for yourself what works
and what doesn’t. Check the video if you haven’t already- that should clarify a
lot of things.