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LEARNING HOW WE MEET, GREET AND EAT WITH PEOPLE WHO SPEAK DIFFERENT LANGUAGES, WHO
COME FROM DIFFERENT COUNTRIES THAT HAVE DIFFERNT CULTURES FROM OUR OWN.
taking place. Many young people now
MEETING AND GREETING IN DIFFERENT CULTURES
address more than one person as
In all cultures (including your own!) there is a protocol involved in both STUDENT COPYMASTER ONE
‘yous’. While adults seem to cringe
meeting someone for the first time and greeting friends, acquaintances,
when they hear this, it is an example of a language changing as it has always
family, elders and strangers. Different cultures have a range of tolerance of
done and always will. The word ‘yous’ is simply filling the gap created by
physical closeness and contact which can be puzzling and even awkward
the word ‘thou’ that has gone from our language and was once used for
for the beginner to master. In French and Spanish-speaking countries
greeting more than one person.
friends will generally greet by kissing each other on both cheeks. Called
‘la bise’ in French, it is complicated by the fact that in different regions of
France the number of kisses varies. Which cheek to begin with can also HOW DIFFERENT CULTURES DIVIDE UP THE DAY
vary. When greeting formally the handshake is more common in these two Every culture sees the world in different ways and this includes how they
cultures than in Anglo-Saxon countries. Arriving at work in the morning it see the time of the day. Chinese, German and Japanese see morning, after-
is not uncommon to find oneself involved in a daily ritual of shaking hands noon, and evening in a similar way to New Zealanders and tend to keep
or doing ‘la bise’ with everyone. Meeting and greeting in Germany more the same hours. The French and particularly in Spanish-speaking countries
closely resembles New Zealand habits. It’s common to shake hands when people see this rather differently to us. In Spain the morning (mañana)
meeting for the first time but not expected as part of the daily ritual. Hugging goes on until 2.00pm. This is considered to be mediodia (noon) and
as a form of greeting is growing more widespread, especially among young the evening (tarde) goes on until it gets dark, so it varies from season to
people. It’s not rare in France these days to see young men exchanging season depending on the length of the day. Evening and night share the
‘bises’ although this is more widespread when greeting the opposite sex. same word in Spanish: ‘noche’ ‘tarde’ (afternoon also means ‘late’). This
A word of warning for visitors to France: it is considered very impolite not can cause problems for people from other cultures who don’t understand
to greet the assistant when entering or leaving a shop. An exchange of any this concept of time. We usually expect to start dinner between 6-7pm
sort should also be prefaced with a greeting. but if you are in Spain or South America you won’t see any sign of dinner
People from Asian cultures are less inclined to make physical contact before 9pm. French and Spanish speaking countries usually have lunch
when they greet. The Chinese shake hands initiated by the person of between 2.00 and 3.30pm and then, they may take a nap called a siesta.
higher rank, but only a light touch if any contact, is made between men Shops usually close at 1.30 or 2.00 pm and they open again after 5.00
and women. The Japanese bow rather than shake hands, but this is quite pm, normally until 7.00 or 8.00 pm. So in small cities or villages, life stops
an art and entails lowering ones gaze as a sign of humility. How low one at around 2.00 pm for a couple of hours. In France it is also common in
should bow is dependent on the role of each person. rural areas for shops to close for two hours in the middle of the day. Even
As a rule of thumb, keep your eyes open and ‘When in Rome, do as in schools in France, it is usual to have a two hour break for lunch which
the Romans do’ provided it doesn’t make you feel uncomfortable. While is a regular sit-down, three course meal eaten in the school canteen. No
intercultural competence involves acknowledging that the behaviours of pies and Coke for the French. People in France and Spain tend to go to
other cultures are as normal and valid as your own, it doesn’t entail losing bed much later as a result.
your own cultural identity.
IMPORTANCE OF PUNCTUALITY IN OTHER CULTURES
In China it is considered important, but lateness is also commonly accepted
because of traffic or other urgent issues. In Japan, if it is a business ap-
pointment, then you are expected to arrive five minutes ahead of time. Even
among friends, if you are consistently late, you are considered to be lazy.
In Germany, punctuality is very important. In France it is normal to be punc-
tual for appointments but a more flexible approach is taken in social
situations. It would be unusual to ‘arrive on the dot’ for a dinner party.
Spanish speaking cultures are renowned for their relaxed attitude to
punctuality and their penchant for procrastination. This is represented by
the expression ‘mañana’ (which also means tomorrow) but is this reputa-
tion justified? Stereotyping cultural behaviour in any culture is a pitfall to
be avoided. Lateness can be as irritating to Spanish speakers as it is in
other cultures.
In English we have one word for ‘you’ which covers singular and plural EATING
form and is used in formal and informal language. It is important to learn Discovering different foods, their preparation and when and with whom
that other languages have different words for these and formal and informal they are eaten is one of the most exciting discoveries we can make when
ways of addressing people. It is difficult to learn these forms so when studying other cultures. Our five cultures we are studying all have breakfast,
addressing people in other languages it is best to stick to the formal way lunch and dinner, and apart from the Spanish speaking countries, these
– especially when addressing adults and use the informal form with young meals are eaten at approximately the same time as in New Zealand, although
people, friends and family. specific times for meals in all cultures seems to be becoming less rigid
Did you know that in New Zealand a language change seems to be than it was.