I am still getting to know about your interests, skills,
depositions and abilities. Today I noticed that that you were becoming a little bit frustrated about the other boys not giving you a turn to kick the ball, this lead to you seeking my help. I talked with you about making sure that you tell them you were wanting to play too. Again you attempted to join in the play, but soon came back over to me saying “they are just too fast for me!” they are very fast aren't they! I asked if you could choose another friend to play to play ball with you, but you re- ally wanted to join in the group and you became increasingly upset that they were faster. I sug- gested we practice running together “that’s how the other boys got very fast” so we ran and run, up & down, up & down! “I’m I fast enough now?” you asked. We talked together about everyone is very good at something, the other boys are very fast runners, but you are the best bike rider, you are fast and have great control dodging obstacles and watching out for other children. You agreed that you are fastest on the bikes and beamed at the idea that you too are fast and have a special skill. You quickly jumped up ran over to a bike jumped on and zoomed past me, yelling out “I’m fast” Empowerment – Whakamana, understand their own individual ways of learning and being creative. Mohammad, I love that you are persistent in your at- tempt to join in, I love that you are recognising your own and others skills and abilities, and that you rec- ognise you have to practice to improve, you under- stand that you are learning and that you can achieve . I love that you view teachers as a resource to help you when you have big emotions. I love that you took pride in yourself and were able to accept a compli- ment. I love that you showed understanding of the concept that everyone has their own special skills & abilities and you could accept that you might not be the best at everything, that is a very positive attitude to have and will serve you well in your learning fu- ture. I will continue to work with you, in ensuring that you can join in the group play and that there is equitable opportunity for you to participate. I will be encourag- ing you to practice skills you have not yet accom- plished and take ownership of just of special you are. “children have an understanding of what they can and cannot yet do.” (Te Whariki, 1996) Contribution goal 2 (Te Whariki, 2017) “Children experience an environment where they are affirmed as individuals, Awareness of their own special strengths and confidence that these are recognised and valued. “
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