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Teenage Bargain
Parenting your Teenage Kid
Suzette Z. Parel
Table of
Contents
Chapter 1
Introduction................1
Chapter 2
Generations................5
Chapter 3
Parenting Styles.........9
Chapter 4
Teenage
Standpoint...................13
Chapter 5
Open
Communication..........17
Chapter 6
Embracing
Transition....................21
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Chapter 7
In the Middle
of Conflict...................25
Appendix
References..................29
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Chapter 1
Introduction
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Introduction
most likely influence their behavior patterns.
Nevertheless, people definitely go through
the same stages of life—from childhood to
adulthood--regardless of what generation
they come from.
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Introduction
surely have some resemblance of your
face, hair color, and skin color. But it is near
impossible that your genetic make-up will
likewise influence what his or her decisions
as to color preference, hobbies, or anything
that needs his or her independent judgement
especially when he or she reaches the age
of adult development—most likely 15 and
above.
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Introduction
of or (b) he or she doesn’t want you to see.
Do these instances ring a bell? Don’t worry,
we’ll talk about this in a little while.
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Chapter 2
Generations
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Generations
born between 1960’s to late 1970’s. Their
experience of activism brought by the cold
war between Europe and the United States,
political crisis, and industrial catastrophe
made them develop a perception of making
things done through their own sheer
efforts—that they have to work hard and
strive hard to live. Because of this, their value
for education is extremely high and sees it
as having a competitive advantage over life.
Likewise, their sense of independence is so
apparent and their ability to move along on
their own made them develop a sense of
extreme carefulness in their decisions.
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Generations
urban-city traffic. The slow movement of
traffic is something external from you and
you can’t control it. Hence, if you just can’t
take it anymore, there’s a high chance that
you’ll be affected by it internally and have
an anxiety attack while sitting in your car.
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Generations
case competitions, or video games, their
fierceness and passion in the things that
they do develops their self-confidence in
every aspect possible.
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Chapter 3
Parenting Styles
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Parenting Styles
positive or the extreme negative side of the
spectrum.
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Parenting Styles
commander-general of the house. More
often than not, punishment is the answer for
every request—or should I say order—that
will not be followed accordingly.
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Parenting Styles
harmonious relationship between you and
your kid amdist the latter being engulfed
with the realities of near adulthood.
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Chapter 4
Teenage
Standpoint
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Teenage Standpoint
decisions from, but reality is: it’s not feasible.
Here’s why:
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Teenage Standpoint
take this on later.
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Teenage Standpoint
or her, like giving him or her a cup of coffee
after knowing that it’s his or her major
examinations week.
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Chapter 5
Open
Communication
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Open Communication
there’s a high possibility of that immense
hunger for rest after a long day, and you
don’t want to take that away from them.
Neither do you want to take the starting
time nor the end time of their day.
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Open Communication
was wondering about the project that you
did the other day.”
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Open Communication
And when he or she feels that you’re
there, then that’s when he or she will be
more comfortable in voicing out what his or
her thoughts are or what went through his
or her day. It’s about compensating him or
her positively and showing that you’re there
to support him or her in whatever he or she
does and notwithstanding the outcome.
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Chapter 6
Embracing
Transition
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Embracing Transition
actions and expressions mean a lot, so
being extra sensitive on these will surely
help. Remember: it’s a young adult that
you’re dealing with. He or she is not ignorant
of what that raised eyebrows or grumpy
accent mean.
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Embracing Transition
you who will be in charge of how you are
going to make it work. Advices are great to
build and experiment on perspectives and
philosophies, but that’s it; that should only
be the sole purpose of others’ advices.
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Embracing Transition
when not to be strict.
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Chapter 7
In the Middle of
Conflict
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In the Middle of Conflict
premise, in this case, will be “I can live by
myself”—independence in its very essence.
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In the Middle of Conflict
So, you put it out with water—be cool
and stay calm. Listen to what he or she has
to say first and remember to keep tactful
when it’s your turn to talk. Even before
the start of the argument, accept the fact
that you have to compromise in a way or
another. Therefore, while on the process
of listening to him or her, think of ways by
which you can arrive at a conclusion where
he or she will benefit from without having to
sacrifice discipline and authority.
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In the Middle of Conflict
solutions; you hear the coachee out and
let him or her figure his or her way out of
the sticky situation that he or she is in. In
that way, you’ll help him or her develop the
things the he or she needs to know and to
grasp until he or she officially reaches the
realities of the adult life.
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Appendix
References
https://www.ibcomagazine.
com/2018/03/14/what-in-generation-a-
timeline-from-courageous-baby-boomers-
to-internet-driven-generation-z/
http://www.wmfc.org/uploads/
GenerationalDifferencesChart.pdf
http://isha.sadhguru.org/blog/lifestyle/
relationships/parenting-teens-5-tips-for-
raising-teenagers/
https://www.psychologytoday.com/
us/blog/domestic-intelligence/200901/
teens-and-parents-in-conflict
https://www.webmd.com/parenting/
features/10-parenting-tips-for-raising-
teenagers#1
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References
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-
lifestyle/tween-and-teen-health/in-depth/
parenting-tips-for-teens/art-20044693
https://www.perfect-english-grammar.
com/indirect-questions.html
http://time.com/65324/7-powerful-
tips-for-great-parent-child-communication/
https://www.fatherly.com/health-
science/millennial-parent-do-generations-
exist/
https://academic.oup.com/
innovateage/article/1/3/igx026/4643095
https://my.vanderbilt.edu/
developmentalpsychologyblog/2013/12/
types-of-parenting-styles-and-how-to-
identify-yours/
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