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TO SINGLENESS
Yomi Oshin
BOOKS
Spiritual Dimension to Singleness
Copyright © 2007 by Isaac Abayomi Oshin
ISBN 978-060-504-5
Foreword .....................................................6
Chapter One................................................9
IT IS SPIRITUAL......................................9
Chapter Two..............................................13
THE SPIRIT HUSBAND/WIFE ..............13
Chapter Three ...........................................25
MARITAL LOCKS AND KEYS ..............25
Chapter Four.............................................37
SOUL TIES ............................................37
Chapter Five .............................................49
SATANIC VEIL.......................................49
Chapter Six ...............................................53
SPIRIT OF DESOLATION .....................53
Chapter Seven ..........................................59
SPIRIT OF WHOREDOM ......................59
Chapter Eight............................................65
FAMILIAR SPIRIT..................................65
Chapter Nine .............................................71
SPIRITUAL DIMENSION TO BEAUTY
AND ATTRACTION ...............................71
Chapter Ten ..............................................77
THE WAY OUT.......................................77
Spirit husband/wife.....................................86
Marital Lock and Keys .................................88
Soul Ties ..................................................90
Satanic Veil ...............................................95
Spirit Of Desolation ....................................96
Spirit Of Whoredom ....................................97
Familiar Spirit ............................................98
Spiritual Dimension To Beauty And Attraction .101
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DEDICATION
Acknowledgements
Foreword
To many people, marriage is merely a social
institution. Many others consider sexuality
basically an institution for biological expressions
and relationship. This wrong assumption has
obviously misled many people into treating their
sexuality as part of the natural process of the animal
kingdom.
Chapter One
IT IS SPIRITUAL
For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but
against principalities, against powers, against the
rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual
hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places Eph.
6:12
Chapter Two
THE SPIRIT
HUSBAND/WIFE
That the sons of God saw the daughters of men, that
they were beautiful; and they took wives for
themselves of all whom they chose. Gen. 6:2
Evil dedication
This is the pledging of one's life to an
ungodly cause, institution or personality.
There are few occasions when people so
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Satanic protection
Similar to evil dedication is satanic
protection. This involves seeking
protection from Satanists who parade
themselves as herbalists, Alfas or even
prophets. It involves rituals that call a
demon or more into the life of the victim.
This class of demons are often referred to as
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Masturbation
Masturbation is an escape route for
loneliness and sexual urge. I use to think that
it is only men that masturbate until I met a
lady who owned up to me that she was
masturbating. She was a Christian and a
virgin at the time. She admitted that she
satisfies herself sexually by masturbating.
Physically speaking masturbation is not
more harmful than normal sex except the
frequency is usually higher because you do
not need a physical person to carry it out. As
such there is the risk of exhaustion resulting
from over indulgence. However,
psychologically, it has been proven that
people who indulge themselves in
masturbation often don't miss their partners
in marriage, in actual fact, they are often less
interested in sex.
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Sexual Perversion
Sex is often taken to be physical but a careful
study of the subject has shown that it is
highly spiritual. I observe that it is one
action that could have the most enduring
consequences. It is the only action that
threatens spiritual power whether in
occultism or Christianity. Sex defiles and
drains energy, even spiritual energy.
Unfortunately people engage in sex freely
today without considering the spiritual
implications. In Exodus 19:15 Moses said
to the people, "Be ready for the third day;
do not come near your wives.". When I
read this passage, I came to the conclusion
that sex in itself is powerful whether in or
out of marriage. If it is then performed
outside of marriage it is suicidal..
Chapter Three
MARITAL LOCKS
AND KEYS
The key of the house of David I will lay on his
shoulder; So he shall open, and no one shall shut;
And he shall shut, and no one shall open. Isaiah
22:22
Causes
Direct action of the enemy
Someone's marriage may be shut up by
direct action of the enemy. In our society,
the concept of satanic padlock is not strange.
There are instances when people feel injured
and they consciously take the step to shut up
marriage against their victim. They contact
the Satanists who perform the satanic rituals
and lock up the marriage of the victims with
padlock. No matter how close the person
may be to marriage, once the marriage is
locked up, it never happens. Men and
women who feel jilted by their partners are
the most common of this class of people.
But it also includes other enemies such as
step mothers, relatives or even neighbours
who are just wicked.
Evil counsellors
There are also the evil counsellors, who
because they have either lost their marriage
or are single, out of frustration, they advise
young ones against marriage. These people
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Parents
Parents can also shut the door of marriage
against their children whether consciously
or otherwise. There are parents who involve
their daughters in unclean businesses such
as beer parlour attendance. Some send their
daughters to big men in position of power to
get contract. Along the line, these innocent
ladies may be blacklisted by the young men
and every one dates her for the sake of
sleeping with her. There are also such
parents who are over protective and
diabolical. They seek satanic help to keep
men away from their daughters while
growing up. Sometimes, the parents
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Covenants
A covenant is a mutual agreement between
two or more people to do or refrain from
doing certain acts. It is a formal agreement
or promise of legal validity. Let me illustrate
it briefly here. Someone may say to his or
her partner while they are still young and far
from marriage that it is you or no one else. If
circumstances prevent them from getting
married, the covenant may work against that
person's marriage. A promise was made and
the heaven has recorded it. There are many
careless statements that people make to
impress or convince other people but which
may have enduring consequences. Take the
statement above for example, it was a one-
way commitment. The other person may
get married to another woman or man but the
one that made the careless statement pays
for it.
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Embargo
Have you ever been to a function where
handbags are placed on vacant chairs or
other items to reserve the seats? Or have
you heard such a statement as embargo
placed on importation of something?
Embargo means a prohibition impediment
or restriction on an activity. With the
placement of handbags on a chair, people are
restricted from occupying the seat. In the
same way, many singles are placed under
embargo which restricts people from
approaching them for marriage.
Chapter Four
SOUL TIES
The soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David,
and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. 1Sam.
18:1
Chapter Five
SATANIC VEIL
And He will destroy on this mountain The surface of
the covering cast over all people, And the veil that is
spread over all nations. Isaiah 25:7
Chapter Six
SPIRIT OF DESOLATION
Isa. 62:4 You shall no longer be termed Forsaken,
Nor shall your land any more be termed Desolate;
But you shall be called Hephzibah, and your land
Beulah; For the LORD delights in you, And your
land shall be married.
Enemy attack
Spirit of desolation can be a direct attack on
your family. You may just be a victim by the
reason of being a member of such a family.
Sometimes it is aimed at the head of the
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Abominations
Certain things are abomination before God
and man. It is an abomination for a parent to
sleep with their children or siblings to sleep
with one another. The case of Amnon and
Tarmar 2 Sam. 13 points to this. In verse 20
And Absalom her brother said to her, "Has
Amnon your brother been with you? But
now hold your peace, my sister. He is your
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Chapter Seven
SPIRIT OF WHOREDOM
And it came to pass about three months after, that it
was told Judah, saying, Tamar thy daughter in law
hath played the harlot; and also, behold, she is with
child by whoredom Gen. 38:24 (KJV)
Chapter Eight
FAMILIAR SPIRIT
'Give no regard to mediums and familiar spirits; do
not seek after them, to be defiled by them: I am the
LORD your God Lev. 19:31 .
familiar spirit.
Chapter Nine
SPIRITUAL DIMENSION TO
BEAUTY AND ATTRACTION
"Your fame went out among the nations because of
your beauty, for it was perfect through My
splendour which I had bestowed on you," says the
Lord GOD Ezek. 16:14
Beauty
Beauty is the totality of quality or
combination of qualities which delights the
senses or mental faculties; esp. that
combination of shape, color, and proportion
which is pleasing to the eye. This quality
personified is called beauty. Let me say here
that beauty is not limited to the physical
appearance but all other qualities that
attract. What gets you noticed and desirable
is your beauty regardless of your gender. In
my book How to win and marry the man of
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Attraction
It is sometimes thought that attraction is a
function of beauty but it is also said that
beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You see
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Chapter Ten
THE WAY OUT
I will call upon the LORD, who is worthy to be
praised; so shall I be saved from my enemies 2 Sam.
22:4
Be prepared
'Stand therefore' means be prepared for war.
How do you prepare? The preparation for
spiritual warfare starts with truthfulness.
You need to be truthful to your self and
others. This may not be as simple as it
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Spirit husband/wife
Confessions:
Matt.22:30 "For in the resurrection they
neither marry nor are given in marriage,
but are like angels of God in heaven.
Prayer points:
1. It is forbidden for angels to be married.
Every spirit husband/wife in my life, you
have not kept to your domain, so therefore
according to the Word of God be bound in
everlasting chains in Jesus name.
Prayer points:
1. I receive the key of the house of David by
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Soul Ties
Confessions:
Matt. 18:18 "Assuredly, I say to you,
whatever you bind on earth will be bound
in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth
will be loosed in heaven.
Prayer points:
1. I set myself loose from every ungodly
soul tie in my life in Jesus name.
Sexual perversion
Sexual relationship is not as easy to break
but let me remind you that sex not only join
you to your sex partner but also make you to
share of the curses in the life of that person
(read the portion on curse over again). You
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Satanic Veil
Confession:
Isaiah 25:7 And He will destroy on this
mountain The surface of the covering cast
over all people, And the veil that is spread
over all nations.
Prayer points:
1. According to the word of God, every
covering cast over my beauty and glory be
destroyed by the blood of Jesus in Jesus
name.
Spirit Of Desolation
Confession:
Isa. 62:4 You shall no longer be termed
Forsaken, Nor shall your land any more be
termed Desolate; But you shall be called
Hephzibah, and your land Beulah; For the
LORD delights in you, And your land shall
be married.
1. I plead the blood of Jesus for myself and
my family. Every line of confusion as in
Isaiah 34:11 in my family be consumed by
Holy Ghost fire in Jesus name.
2. Every stone of emptiness thrown into my
life and family by the hand of God be thrown
out in Jesus name.
Jesus name.
Spirit Of Whoredom
Confessions:
Gen. 38:24… Tamar thy daughter in law
hath played the harlot; and also, behold,
she is with child by whoredom (KJV)
life.
5. According to Col 2:13 and 14, Jesus has
forgiven my sin and taken away the
consequence. You demon holding my
marriage because of whoredom, lose your
grip on my marriage in Jesus name.
Familiar Spirit
Confessions:
Gen.28:21 "… the LORD shall be my
God”.
Prayer points:
Sing this song: Holy Ghost by fire, fill my
spirit, fill my soul, fill my life 7ce