Vibe

A. Once you reached the certain hook point, there's a certain change in the interaction here. You don't
have to keep doing and doing, it turns into a more balanced interaction. Here she starts talking back and
builds up / escalates the interaction and you both start reacting to each other.

i) Start slowing things down, humanize yourself. Let her talk back and start self - amusing.

B) Now you stop setting the rhythm and let her pump the interaction. Too much of something is bad, if you
keep doing after the sexual hook point, your going to come off as insecure or very reactive aka not
sexworthy.

i) Its harder to do than it sounds cuz your mind is gonna keep wanting to do it cuz it likes attracting. So your
gonna have to go against your emotional urges.

C) The Drug Dealer Analogy - The drug dealer is gonna keep giving drugs until she's hooked on it but not too
much or she'll overdose. After that they're gonna hit her every once in a while until she stays hooked and it's
more sustainable. The same analogy applies here. Your gonna keep setting the rhythm till you reach the
sexual hook point, after that your gonna do it more seldomly and evenly so its more sustainable.

i) You must keep spiking her at intervals until she starts chasing. You must keep her chasing her for a long
time. ( she needs to keep chasing remember the download bar theory, they need time to get turned on and
ready ) she'll keep getting turned on and the longer she gets turned on the more body temperature will rise
and she will eventually be addicted to you. You'll recognize this pattern a lot after you opened a lot. Open,
set the rhythm till the hook point is reached, then withdraw, tone down and self - amuse.

D) What you have to realise about vibing is that it's not about having a logical conversation. There is no
purpose to it other than creating a great vibe / experience to share with you both. There's no agenda, no
impressing the girl verbally.

E) After reaching the sexual hook point, just self amuse and let time do it for you. Just spike in intervals
afterwards to sustain it.
F) Shouldn't worry about what to do or say in the next step. Focus on keeping her in that investing state for a
longer period of time. Remember the volume knob theory, they need time to get ready. Time will do it for
you.

G) The frame of mind you should come from when you vibe is " What better place to be ". Your having fun
and about to score a hot one, why are you rushing this. Why are you so scared. No, assume it's gonna happen,
it's good let's enjoy this. ( Here you've a girl listening and giving a fuck about you. How many else in the world
would really care dont get needy tho )

H) Be careful what you say after the 2nd hook point. Cuz they will take those words to heart. Know that you'll
feel under the spotlight as the girl starts paying attention to you. But instead of getting anxious embrace it
be happy that someone is giving a fuck.

i) Assume banging is just gonna happen, its just a bonus. Enjoy building the interaction with her, enjoy her
reacting to you and you to her. Step out of the agenda - based mindset. That's the general mindset you
should vibe with.

I) But your still gonna be doing some specific things throughout this phase of the interaction. Such as

1. Building comfort. A lot of people mistakenly think you've to tell about yourself to build comfort. No, you
don't have to tell her about your past, life etc. And them necessarily talking back to you isn't also building
comfort. ( like you asking bout her dress and she is telling you about it. This doesnt create emotion. Your
focusing on the superficial verbal layer, don't do that ).

2. Instead of viewing comfort as a resume exchange, think of it as creating togetherness. Reinforcing the
idea the two of you together as opposed to being separate entities.

3. You can create togetherness/ comfort by

i) Isolating the girl. Move her away from them cuz she will always feel self - conscious. ( This is why you dont
waste time talking to the friends. Just make them like you and bounce back to the girl. ) A girl's reality is what
she sees. Also when you take her away to a room where she doesn't know anyone but you and since she's
only with you and knows you only it'll re - inforce togetherness. You could give a reason, excuse or just take
her hand and move away.

ii) You wanna move them thru many environments ( move to many places such as bars, the outside area ),
experiences as humanly possible. Basically reinforcing you two are the only constants, and been thru a lot
aka creating togetherness. Move thru many convo topics ( push and pull ) hence going thru a lot of emotions
( sadness, happiness, fun, shock ) but you guys remain the constant aka togetherness. You can also fuck them
(spiking emotions ) by lying verbally but making them feel safe emotionally. Ex - (

You: Your from toronto im also from toronto.

She : Oh wow !!

You : Do you still like me ?

She : Uhh, yeah.

You : Great cuz i lied im not from Toronto )

Here even tho u lied, you guys went thru a lot of stuff so there is a lot of togetherness. This way you can bring
them home knowing nothing about you.

4. Things i like to do when vibing -

i) Create conspiracy theories - Here you create inside jokes that involve only you two and only you two know
but others dont so u can play joke on them. Ex -( You walk up to someone say your siblings but you kiss her
infront of them. And they're gonna react to (seemingly) incest. But you two are gonna know u arent and your
gonna enjoy their reactions. ) These team activities brings a lot of togetherness. Basically like You and her
against the world.

ii) Play a game called Fuck, Marry, Kill. Basically where you two pick and judge people, choosing people
whether you like to fuck or Marry or Kill them and explaining why. This brings about togetherness.

iii) Role Playing. Where you guys act as boyfriend and girlfriend, daddy and kid, brother and sister for fun.
This brings the attention on you two not on other people ( when playing conspiracy theories ) so this creates
even more togetherness and these roles lets her act how she wants without her feeling slutty. You can also
spike her emotions or make her invest during these roles.
iii) Future projections. Your gonna talk about what you guys are gonna do together in the forseeable future.
This gets her thinking about you guys together in the future. Can combine this with conspiracy theories and
role playing.

iv) Hypothetical Scenarios - Ask her questions things like ( " what would you do if " or " would you ever ". )
without taking responsibility for it, whilst having those question have an impact on the girl. Ex - ( " Would
you date a guy who's straight during the day but gay during the night " ).

J) You've to qualify her. Basically in an interaction there is a balance between value and qualification. It has
to be both. Too much value and qualification is bad and vice versa.

1. All the things you've been doing here hasn't been enough for a close. You've to let her know why she's so
special. She would be thinking why would a sexworthy guy like you be interested in her. And so you've to let
her know aka qualify. If you don't

i) She'll think ur after her looks then will feel slutty / uncomfortable and she'll blow you away or

ii) She'll start thinking something is off and will start doubting your sexworthiness.

2. So slow things down from fun. Be real with her, cement it in her mind that ur a real person not some crazy
and fun emotion. Doing this will eliminate last minute resistance.

3. You can qualify by -

i) Use the emotionally unexplained. Don't freak out, you dont have to find / worry for a complex reason. Just
tell her something like " You know what I like you, it's weird and i dunno why " or " You know what I like you
and i get this deep nostalgic feeling when im with you ". Simple as that you convey to her she stands out and
that you like her.

ii) Use commonalities. Dont make the mistake of thinking or trying to come up with a complex or deep
commonality. Just take anything in common and just overblow it. Like where she's from, or what she likes,
favours. You can also link these back to your previous interactions to reinforce the togetherness bubble. You
can also combine commonality with the emotionally unexplained such as " Oh so you like them too huh.
That's really cool uk i really like you it's weird ".

iii) Use future projections. This time do it in a chill, down to earth kind of way. Like ( " we should meet during
the day, or meet up for coffee sometime. " ). By doing this you can cement in her mind as a real person
instead of just some fun emotion she had in the night.

iv) Showing vulnerabilities. Sharing something personal or an insecurity with the girl. This can also be used to
cement in her mind as a real person. Tell her she's so special you can be real with her and tell her... Make it
something that humanizes you.

v) When qualifying, the frame you should have is that she's winning you over. Understand none of them
would ever value a guy given to them. They would like to " win the wild guy over ". In her mind if you are
really sexworthy she would have to win you over. You've to give her the impression you're hooked.

vi) Now don't over do this. Don't over qualify the girl. Remember there's a balance to value and qualification.
Or you'll be a provider.

vii) So you should first show value strongly and as she starts chasing, reward with glimpses of qualification
from time to time. Give her the impression of gradually winning you over. That is how you should frame
your interactions.

viii) It's every one of their dream to win the sexworthy guy over and make him a provider.

4. By being sexworthy alpha in general with glimpses of being a provider after sex you can take the
interaction pretty much whichever direction you want. If you want to keep her as a fuckbuddy, you didnt
mismanage the expectations cuz your a sexworthy alpha overall. If you want her as a partner it's expected
you planted those seeds, you were vulnerable to her.

K) During the vibing phrase it's important that you reinforce she is the one chasing you. You do this by
1. Self amusing. Pump yourself up by your own actions not hers. She is naturally gonna start asking the
question, start doing hence chasing.

2. This has to happen and you can amplify the chasing by the steps

i) Give her room to chase. Give her pauses. Stop talking look her in the eye expectantly. ( Preferably with
that whatcha got frame ).

ii) Can accentuate that change in pace by - Playfull Takeaways. Ask her a question and no matter the
response turn your back on her. Wait for her to react / chase. When she does say like " Its okay im just
kidding ". if she doesnt react flip it on her like say " Why dont you fight for me, dont you give a fuck. Are you
srsly not gonna fight for me wtf ? ". This will accentuate the change in pace.

iii) Strip their validation ( playfully ) and stack it. Keep stripping her of validation. Dont let her make the
comeback. You can change the topic, exaggerate and flip it back on her when she tries to strip validation
again. This way you can build the sexual tension, make her chase. As you keep doing this eventually she'll
keep getting turned on. Now to successfully do this you've to be sexworthy before and you've to have her
hooked. And you can't end with with her getting back the validation or she'll bounce off. Instead you stack
more upto extreme levels and then end up blaming her ( still pushing ) vebally telling her your emotionally
overwhelmed, " what're you doing to me " etc.

3. Its important to make the girl chase is because the more she chases the more you invest in the
interaction.

L) .. You've to keep this in mind throughout the interaction. The more a girl invests in an interaction the
more she'll want back. Their level of compliance is proportionate to their level of investment. Generally they
all eventually pass a point by which they've invested soo much that they're gonna do anything to get back
that investment.

1. Ways to make her invest -

i) Emotional investment. What we've been covering, here she emotionally invests aka starts pumping the
convo trying to hook you.
ii) Time investment. She doesn't have to necessarily acknowledge you, she just has to spend the time with
you. She can backwards rationalise with this. So dont try and rush when you game her, realize that time is
your ally for the more time is more investment hence they'll compromise to get back that investment / make
it worth the while.

iii) Forced investment. Make her repeat stuff like call me, love me.

iv) Creating windows of investment - Give her opportunities to invest. Ex -

You : Oh so you're here with your frnds. I dont wanna hold you back here. You can go back.( creating
opportunities )

Her : Oh no it's okay. They're having fun. ( investment ). )

v) Investment Hoops - Create hoops for her to jump through when you have something she wants or needs.
Ex - (

You : ( pull during a kiss ) Oh, so you wanna kiss me. Call me God emperor.

Her : Fuck no. Im not gonna call you that

You : Do it

Her : Fine blah blah

You : Again )

M) When vibing or interacting place yourself on a level of authority. Lead and control the flow of the
interaction. Dont leave control of the interaction to her cuz if you do it wont lead to banging.

1. You can lead the interaction / accentuate your authority by

i) Speaking in breaking - rapport tonality.

ii) Cut the convo threads. Change the topic whenever the current topic is bringing down the conversation.

iii) Taking on the " teacher " frame. Lecture her on something she brings up. A good way to control the convo.
Dont over do it tho.

iv) Tell her what she's feeling. Ex - (

Pull back during a kiss and tell her that she loves / like you.

When she does something adventurous tell her that. And use that statement in the future to make her live
up to your expectations. )

v) Being physical during interactions. These actions will emphasise she's reacting to you.

vi) Keep moving. You gonna wanna go thru different environments together. So comfort will build and it
shows that your in control. This builds compliance and is important af.

N) So this is how you vibe - Your both reacting off each other. Its balanced your not just doing and doing.
Then drug hit in intervals to keep up the attraction make her chase and keep it sustainable. Build comfort
reinforce togetherness. Qualify her letting her know why she deserves a sexworthy guy like you, wha you like
about her. Get her to chase push and pull, strip and stack validation, make her invest. And overall always
positioning yourself in a position of authority.