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What is This?
Sarah Lamb
This paper explores widowhood in rural West Bengal from the perspective of age. Although
widowhood in India has grabbed the attention of scholars and social reformers for a good
century now, 1the focus of this attention has been (usually without explicitly acknowledg-
ing it) on women widowed at a relatively young age. Debates over widow remarriage,
the perceived dangers of a widow’s sexuality, a young widow’s anomalous childlessness
etc., all—it turns out—have to do largely with the social and economic concerns surround-
ing young widows. For the many women widowed in late life, the social expectations and
dilemmas faced are significantly different. Scrutinising such differences not only helps us
understand widowhood in India better, but sheds valuable light on local constructions of
gender, sexuality and age.
2 Over the past several decades, theories of gender have evidenced a persistent underly-
ing focus on sexual reproduction, motherhood and the household as a means to define and
analyse women. This focus has been problematic in that it tends to produce fixed, universal-
ising assumptions surrounding women, as domestic, nurturing, bodily and/or defined by an
(often dangerous or problematic) sexuality (cf. di Leonardo 1991: 26-27; Moore 1994: 8-27;
Nicholson 1994; Ortner 1996: 137). The surge of ethnographic work on gender in South
Asia over the past few decades has also been hampered by an almost exclusive concentration
on women in youth—in adolescence and reproductive prime. Notable exceptions, however,
include Marriott (1998); Menon and Shweder (1998); Roy (1992); and Vatuk (1975, 1987,
1992, 1995), each of whom provides an explicit life-course perspective in their analyses of
female gender.
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eat, few were wealthy (only eleven households owned ten or more acres
of land), and many families had to struggle to get by. In this paper, I focus
on the Hindu widows of Mangaldihi who have not remarried, of which
there were sixty-nine in 1990, compared to thirteen widowed men who
have not remarried.
I
’
Widowed in youth
Controlling sexuality
When a man died in Mangaldihi, his wife was taken by other widows of
her household or neighbourhood to a pond where she would perform the
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relatively rare.5
3
For a more thorough account of the widow’s ritual in a different region of Bengal, see
Fruzzetti (1982: 105-106).
4
This problem could potentially be solved through levirate, the marriage of a widow to
oneof her husband’s brothers. However, although levirate is practised elsewhere in India
(Kolenda 1982, 1987), it is not a common practice in this region of West Bengal (cf. Fruzzetti
1982: 103).
5 I should make a brief note here of the historical context of widow remarriage in India.
Although the British implemented the Widow Remarriage Act in 1856, making widow
remarriage officially legal, it is important to note that this bill had the (presumably unin-
tended) countereffect of reducing widows’ rights among the lower castes. This is because
the lower castes had always condoned widow remarriage; but the new Act brought with it
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and opened through marriage but was now no longer controlled or fulfilled
by a husband. Several villagers commented that women who are widowed
when sexually active have the most sexual desire of all. Many, therefore,
felt that there was a constant threat that young widows especially would
become promiscuous, making them, their families and caste identities
vulnerable to slander and sexual marking.
In Mangaldihi, Brahman families in particular pressed widows to per-
form a restrictive set of widow’s observances (bidhobar palan), one of
the main aims of which was to reduce and control the widow’s sexual
desires. Widows had to avoid ’hot’, non-vegetarian foods (meat, fish,
eggs, onions, garlic and certain kinds of ddl); limit the consumption of
the favourite Bengali food of boiled rice (bhdt) to only once a day, sub-
stituting at other times, ’dry’, sukna, foods such as muri (puffed rice) or
flat bread; fast on the eleventh day of each lunar month (ekddasi~; wear
white; forsake all jewellery; and (if particularly strict or traditional) shave
the head every few weeks (in Mangaldihi, only a few of the most senior
Brahman widows regularly performed tonsure).
There was considerable variation among the non-Brahman castes in
Mangaldihi as to how many, if any, of these restrictions their widows
observed. Almost all the non-Brahmans said that their widows did not
have to observe the widow’s dietary and dress restrictions. However, many
of the widows of what were perceived to be the middle- or higher-ranking
legal restrictions regarding the disposal of the widow’s property and children: these were to
remain within her deceased husband’s patrilineage upon her remarriage. Thus, many wid-
owed women who might have previously sought remarriage, refrained from doing so from
reluctance to give up claims to their children and property. In this way, the economic stake
that the high castes had in not allowing widows to remarry was firmly protected by the Act,
and even homogenised across caste lines at the legal level (Carrol 1983; Chattopadhyaya
1983: 54; Chowdhry 1989: 321, 1994: 101-2; Sangari and Vaid 1989: 16-17).
547
woman.
The movements and interactions of young, upper-caste widows were
also controlled by keeping them confined to the home in a state of parda
or ’curtaining’. Kayera Bou, or the Brahman ’wife from Kayera’, who
6 Uma Chakravarti
(1995a, 1995b) interestingly discusses how under the Peshwa rule
in 18th-century Maharashtra, the lower castes were not permitted to emulate high-caste
practices such as the ban on widow remarriage, so that Brahmanas could maintain the
uniqueness of their high status.
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Clothes, food, mixing with others, laughter, all of that ends. If I just
laugh with someone? Then others say, ’Look! She’s laughing with
him. And her husband is dead. Chi! Chi!’ And they begin to talk. My
husband’s relatives would say all those kinds of things. They would
reproach me. They would say, ’None of that will happen in our house.
You’ve come to our house. You won’t talk to any man.’.’
together slut, widow and prostitute (cf. Das 1979: 97-98; Harlan 1995:
218; Mintum 1993: 235-36). One Brahman widow commented wryly,
’It’s better to die than do all that.’ Keyera Bou deplored:
Everything for us is forbidden. Our food goes, our clothing goes, every-
thing. Decorations, powder, all that. But if I put on a little powder, what
will happen? Let them say what they will. They can’t reproach me. I
didn’t do anything unjust (anyde). Then why can’t I fulfil a little fancy
like that? And what if I want to wear a good, coloured sari? But I can’t
wear one; it won’t happen.
destitute widows, was married at age 7 ’while still drinking [her] mother’s
milk’, and widowed seven years later at 14. She stayed as a widow at her
marital home for only a few years, and then her father’s older brother came
to get her. ’I didn’t receive one thing from my svasur bäri,’ she said, ’not
one piece of jewellery, not one paisa. My uncle brought me back to my
father’s house completely empty-handed.’
She went on: ’It’s better not to get married at all than to be a widow. It’s
better not to get married at all.’ ’Why?’ I asked. ’Then you won’t become
a widow. If you’re a widow with no children, then who will look after
you? Who will feed you? You have no one.’ ’And if you never marry?’ I
queried. ’Then also you have no children. But at least you have the people
from your bdper ghar [father’s house].’.’
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Poison brides
Women widowed within a short time after marriage were further periph-
eralised by their perceived inauspiciousness. A virtuous, devoted wife
should possess the power to nurture and sustain her husband, local rea-
soning went, meaning that something must be wrong or deficient in the
nurturance provided by any woman whose husband died (cf. Marglin
1985a: 53-55; Samanta 1992: 73; Chakravarti 1995a: 2250). Especially
if a man dies within a few years of marriage or prematurely, his wife
can be labelled inauspicious (asubha), ill-omened (apdya), or a poison
bride (biskanya). Widows frequently told me that they felt it was their
fault that their husbands had died-either because of their deficiency as
wives, or because of some horrendous wrong performed in a previous
life, or simply because of their own personal ill fate (kapäl, adrsta). A
senior Kayastha widow, Mita’s Ma, whose husband and then son-in-law
had died early, told me deploringly that she saw herself as a rakshasf, a
mythological female creature who devours everything, including people.
She said mournfully that she had ’eaten’ these men, and was fearful of
causing another such disaster (cf. Bardhan 1990: 150,110-27). Rumours
were spread that Pratima, the young Bagdi widow who had become a
prostitute, had poisoned her husband. Another widow, Rani (of the Kora
caste), told of how her husband had died ’from diarrhoea’ when they
were both still very young. Shortly after, in just one day, her 2-year-old
son died. ’After that,’ she said, ’my parents-in-law began pestering me.
They didn’t want to see any more of me. They called me a poison-bride
(biskanya).’ Her brothers came to get her and she never went back..
Economic survival
The largest problem facing many young widows in Mangaldihi was that of
economic survival. Here, a brief discussion of widows’ inheritance rights
is relevant. In north India, according to both traditional Hindu codes and
modern civil law, a widow (as long as she does not remarry) is legally
entitled to inherit a proportion of her husband’s property, to be divided
among herself, her husband’s sons and any unmarried daughters. (Under
the north Indian system of patrilineal inheritance, women as daughters are
entitled to a share of their fathers’ property until they marry.)~
According
to the traditional laws of most castes, however, a widowed woman’s rights
are limited to use rather than ownership: she can use the land while she is
alive, but she does not have the right to sell it or give it away. In practice, in
Mangaldihi, few widows-especially among the upper castes, who stood
to have the most property at stake-actually maintained either owner-
ship or use rights over land. Most commonly, a widow either formally or
informally passed down control of property to her sons, if the sons were
grown, or left it in the hands of her father-in-law or husband’s brothers, if
the widow and her children were young. A few widows who would have
liked to have kept land in their own names told me that, although they
knew it was their legal right, who would go to the courts to fight?g
Because of the greater restrictions of pardd that Brahmans observed,
young Brahman widows in this region were very rarely given the posi-
tion of household head. Brahman families generally aimed to mediate
a woman’s transactions with the outside political and economic world
through men. If a Brahman widow had young children, she would either
return to her natal home or, especially if she had sons, would remain in
her marital home to be supported there by senior male kin. Most Brahman
families in this region owned at least a little land, which would be passed
down from father to son and managed by a senior male in the father’s line
until the son came of age. In these ways, a young Brahman widow could
expect that she and her children would be at least minimally provided for,
in either her natal or marital home, although she would not have much
’
8
See Agarwal (1994: 206 ff.) and Chowdhry (1995) for discussions of Hindu widows’
inheritance rights )
dayabhaga in historical context. Chen and Dreze (1992: 15-17) and
(
Vlassoff (1990: 8ff.) discuss the ways contemporary widows in various regions of rural
north India manage Indian inheritance laws, finding (as I have) that, in practice, widows’
inheritance rights are quite limited.
9
Pratima, the young childless Bagdi widow who became a prostitute in Mangaldihi, had
only a poor, widowed mother and a young brother as close natal kin. Presumably this is why
her remarriage was not swiftly arranged.
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II
Widowhood and age .
For rural Bengali women, becoming a widow in late life is not nearly as
traumatic, difficult and radical a transition as it is for those widowed in
their youth. This should not be surprising. It is nonetheless striking that
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this point has not been taken up in the literature on widowhood in India.
Such a lacuna presumably derives from the fact that most of the work on
gender in South Asia has focused on women during their girlhood and
young adulthood years, largely bypassing questions of aging. Looking
more carefully here at aging and widowhood not only provides us with
a finer understanding of widowhood, but is illuminating regarding local
whose husband is away, the widow of the dead husband is the object of
real moral panic. While the sexuality of these other categories can be
held in abeyance, the sexuality of the widow cannot: she must therefore
be completely unsexed.
Bennett (1983: 243-44) adds similarly: ’[A] widow’s sexuality-like that
of an unmarried pubescent girl-is a social anomaly. Since she is no longer
under the control of her husband, she presents a potential problem to both
her affinal and her consanguineal kin.’
However, it is crucial to note that such statements about the widow’s
dangerous sexuality apply largely only to young widows. In Mangaldihi,
older widows were not regarded as sexually dangerous, because older
women were regarded as ’naturally’ asexual. Not only the rigors and
rituals of widowhood brought about an asexual and post-reproductive life
phase for women, but so did what were regarded as the natural social and
physiological changes of age.
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stops. And then when your husband dies, eating all hot food stops as
well. 10 This is so that the body will dry out and not be hot (jdte sarir
sukiye jtibe, garam habe na).
Bhogi, an older Bagdi widow, also spoke of the cooling and drying of
her body after menopause. She enjoyed sitting in the narrow dusty lane
in front of her house talking about sex, using crass language and teasing
the young people who visited her about their sexual practices. So I asked
her one day if she still had sexual desire. She answered quickly:
No, of course not! After the blood stopped, my body dried out (rakta
bandha htioytir par, §artr sukiye geche). Even if I wanted to [have sex],
I wouldn’t be able to. I had four kids, then my blood dried up, and then
my body dried up. Now I only have desire (lobh) for food.
Because older, post-menopausal women with married children were con-
sidered to be basically asexual anyway, most in Mangaldihi said that older
widows did not have to observe the widow’s restrictive code if they did not
wish to. Most did end up observing the bulk of these practices anyway, they
said, out of ’habit’ or aversion to being slandered by others. Some older
Brahman widows were also very finicky, and saw widow’s practices as a
way of maintaining a faithfulness to their husbands or a spiritual purity.
But the change to wearing a pure white widow’s sari, for instance, was
not regarded as a radical transition when a woman had been wearing pre-
dominantly white already. Further, senior widows did not have to restrict
their movements. In fact, widowhood even freed them relatively-from
obligations and a marital status tying them to the home-meaning that
they could wander about the village and beyond, to friends’ and married
daughters’ homes, on pilgrimages, to the cool platforms of temples, to
roadsides watching people come and go, with even their legs and breasts
exposed on hot days, freer than at any other time of their lives.
becomes a social entity only when as a wife she is united with her husband,
the death of her husband represents the cessation of her social existence
and the end of her personhood.’ Such ’social obliteration’ (Chakravarti
1995a: 2251 ) does not occur, however, when the widow is a mother, espe-
cially of grown sons. Women who are mothers of sons-widowed or
not-throughout India come to be known and addressed as their eldest
son’s Ma, such as in Mangaldihi, ’Billo’s Ma’ or ’Babu’s Ma’. True,
as Chakravarti argues, within dominant Hindu patrilineal ideologies, a
woman must be tied to a male family line to be a valued social entity.
body perceived to be naturally cool, dry, asexual and free from restric-
tions. If widowhood occurred when a woman was already in a ’senior’
or ’grown’ (buro, briddha) phase of life, then the conversion to being
a widow was not so radical-for older women ordinarily experienced
III
On purity and impurity, sudha and asauc:
The ambiguities of widowhood
anyway. In addition, some regularly shaved their heads. One cannot say
that being a widow was precisely the same as being an old woman.
In this section, I take a closer look at the ambiguities underlying the
condition of widowhood. Widows, especially older widows, are ’pure’
and respected in certain respects; and yet-at any age-are unavoidably
’impure’ and ostracised in others. I look here more closely at these ambiva-
lent, competing attributions of widowhood, as a means of shedding new
light on such anthropological and Indological staples as purity (suddhatd)
and death impurity (asauc), as well on the ways women are conceptualised
as wives and as widows.
Let me begin by examining widows and death impurity (asauc). A
key to understanding the significant differences between widowhood and
ordinary aging for Bengalis lies in the kinds of connections women are
believed to share with their husbands. A woman’s bonds with her husband
are so strong and complete that they cannot be severed. Although several
older widows I knew said that they were even unable to remember or
envision well their husbands’ faces, they nonetheless proclaimed that they
would remain in crucial respects joined to their husbands for the duration
of their lives. This makes the widow, it seems, as if married to a corpse,
herself half dead. A widow in this way, I suggest, remains perpetually in a
state similar to the death impurity (or aiauc) that other surviving relatives
experience only temporarily.
I first began to compare the condition of widows with that of other
persons suffering death impurity because of their many similarities. 12 Sev-
eral of these practices were ones that older people practised, too, but there
were even more similarities between the codes for conduct of widows and
12
Portions of the following discussion, including Table 3, are taken from Lamb 1997a.
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Table 3
Practices of Widows, Older and Death-impure Persons (X = Present; - =
Absent)
* Performed by chief mourner only (usually the eldest son of the deceased).
**Traditionally prescribed practices not commonly performed now.
***Performed at the end of the period of death impurity and by males only. ,
survivors, the practices of impurity ended with the final funeral rites after
ten to thirty days (cf. Mines 1990).
But the incapacity and inauspicious (asubha) condition of the widow
was permanent, due, it appears, to her having become, through her
throughout north India, especially among upper castes. Both the husband
and wife become ’whole’ through this complementary union, but it is
effected by an asymmetrical merger in which the woman becomes part
13 The Sanskrit terms
aśucitam and aśucih used here are related to the Bengali aśauc,
meaning literally ’impure’, from a (negative prefix) and śuci (’pure’). This form of impurity
refers specifically to the impurity ) aśauc stemming from death and childbirth only. AsI
(
will discuss further below, aśauc is not the same as the more everyday condition of being
impure )aśuddha due to contact with menstruation, saliva, sexual fluids, lower castes, etc.
(
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of the man’s body and not vice versa (cf. Fruzzetti 1982: 103-4; Inden
and Nicholas 1977: 41-50). During the marriage ritual, the bride repeat-
edly absorbs substances originating from the groom’s body and house-
hold, changes her last name and lineage (bamsa) affiliation to match her
husband, and moves to his place of residence. These actions create an irre-
versible, ineradicable entity made of the husband plus wife: the woman
would be part of her husband’s body for life. This union was especially
marked among Brahmans in Mangaldihi, whose widows observed the
strictest asauc-like code for conduct. Recall, though, that even lower-
caste widows could not go through a second ordinary wedding (biye),
and were regarded as inauspicious and coupled with death.
The asymmetry generally thus assumed in the marital relation was
extreme, for the husband was not considered to be the wife’s half-body,
and unlike her, was not said to be diminished by his partner’s death. If
she died first, his person remained whole and free to remarry, his tem-
porary incapacity of death impurity lasting no more than that of other
close survivors. There was, in fact, no commonly-used term to describe
a widowed man in Mangaldihi, suggesting that male widowhood was not
a highly-marked category
Consistent with this logic, several people told me that even if the woman
dies first, her spirit remains bound to her husband and wanders around
near him. This would mean, of course, that the surviving husband was
not entirely free after all, because he might have to contend with her
spirit. It was not uncommon for a man’s second wife to keep a photo of
his deceased first wife in the family shrine, for instance, and to anoint
it with vermilion every day. This was done to placate the first wife’s
spirit and for the well-being (mangal) of the husband and household. In
most respects, though, the widowed man seemed to be quite unhindered.
One way to represent these enduring connections of a widow with her
deceased husband-in contrast to the relative freedom of the widowed
man-is sketched in Figure 1.
A woman’s very personhood-her bodily substance and identity-was
thus defined fundamentally in terms of her husband. This made the widow,
of any age, as if married to a corpse, permanently inauspicious and tainted
by death.
14
There is a Bengali word for widower, bipatnīk (’without a wife’); but this learned term
was notin common usage in the Mangaldihi region, and in fact most people I asked professed
no knowledge of it.
/563
Figure 1
The Widow and the Widowed Man
persons at both death and birth (and lasting in some ways perpetually for
a surviving widow), is distinct from everyday ’impurities’ (such as from
.
IV
Concluding remarks
Women in Mangaldihi were defined, then, critically in terms of their rela-
tions with their husbands. As scholars have long noted, within dominant
although she cannot entirely lose her ties to her husband even when
widowed-an cultivate other dimensions of her identity and experience:
such as ’the mother of sons’; acquiring an asexual purity, a ’male-like’
or ’god-like’ status; and enjoying a kind of unique independence and
freedom of activity, rare for women in this region during other phases of
their lives.
In scrutinising these transitions in the lives of Bengali widows, my
arguments speak to an important theoretical point in the social scientific
study of gender. Studies of gender-in South Asia and beyond-have
been dominated by a static focus on young women, which has resulted
not only in voids in our knowledge but in skewed theoretical models of
gendered identity as essential and fixed. Attributions that women as wid-
ows are sexually dangerous, ’hot’ or ’open’ only hold true, for instance,
for women in Mangaldihi during one (admittedly central) phase of their
lives, during their post-pubertal and pre-menopausal years. The same can
be said for claims that a Hindu woman’s identity and social value derives
almost solely from her relationship with her husband. Such claims, which
have been central to studies of Hindu widowhood, indeed form important
dimensions of north Indian constructions of gender and women, but they
do not make up the whole picture. Mangaldihi widows’ experiences of
their bodies and sexuality, of expected forms of discipline and control,
of their positioning within families and society, shifted in profound ways
over the life course. Looking at age provides a crucial multidimension-
ality and specificity to our analyses of gender, training our gaze on the
complexities and ambiguities of what it is to be a woman (or a man) in,
most likely, any socio-historical setting.
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