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Happy Advisor
Michael
Sakraida
Founder of the Financial Advisor Network (FAN)
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Copyright 2019 ©by Michael Sakraida
For “Saint Diane”, “DrenMan”, Dave B.,
and the many people who gave me
encouragement and happiness
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Contents
Introduction 1
“If you're not making someone else's life better,
then you're wasting your time. Your live will
become better by making other lives better.”
Will Smith
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Client Happiness
“Advertising is based on one thing — happiness.”
Don Draper, Mad Men
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Happiness Benefits
“Happiness is not a matter of intensity but
of balance, order, rhythm and harmony”
Thomas Merton
Contents
Chapter Three
Advisor Impediments
“Acceptance of what has happened is the first step
to overcoming the consequences of any misfortune”
William James
Chapter Four
Chapter Five
Client Meetings
“People will forget what you said, people will forget
what you did, but people will never forget how you
made them feel”
Maya Angelou
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Chapter Six
Outside Partners
“Talent wins games, but teamwork and
intelligence win championships”
Michael Jordan
Chapter Seven
Referral Activities
“Every person is defined by the
communities she belongs to”
Orson Scott Card
Chapter Eight
Going Firm-Deep
“We’re all working together; that’s the secret”
Sam Walton
Notes
Index
Introduction
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While the actions for our and our clients’ benefit start
simultaneously, the happy advisor only can come from
having happy clients. Like with the development of any
skill, the circular benefit for advisors and clients increases
with time.
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assets, and they will make it their life’s mission to get new
clients for you.
Elements of Happiness
If client happiness is so important for our advisory
sales and service efforts, it is natural for us to want to
know about its key elements. Countless philosophers,
scientists, and advisors have tried to understand the key
elements behind happiness. In The Republic, Plato
asserted that those who are moral are the only ones who
may be truly happy. It seems that, with Plato, the
happiness is a by-product of being moral. Albert Einstein
had his own theory of happiness, "A calm and modest life
brings more happiness than the pursuit of success
combined with constant restlessness."
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isn’t what you have or who you are or where you are or
what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It
is what you think about it.” These quotes set the stage for
a review of the key elements of happiness, for our clients,
and us.
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1. Self-Worth
Self-worth is about how one values their inherent
worth as a person versus valuing themselves by what
they do. Think viewing oneself as a good parent, a good
friend, a good boss, even a good citizen of the planet, vs.
viewing oneself as being wealthy. The important
happiness factor here is that when determining our self-
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1. Healthy Lifestyle
A healthy lifestyle isn’t just about eating right,
exercising, getting enough sleep, avoiding tobacco,
reducing stress, and drinking in moderation. It also is
about happiness and intellectual stimulation – staying
positive and curious, playing games that keep the mind
sharp, and having the belief that there is something to
learn each day.
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Exercises
Yes, in the Introduction I was serious about having
exercises at the end of each chapter. You did read the
Introduction, didn’t you? For this chapter the questions
for you to answer about happiness will be about you. The
best way for us to help our clients is for us to better
understand ourselves with each element of our help.
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Money:
Relationships:
Self-Worth:
Healthy Lifestyle:
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