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In the weeks before your baby is born,
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and baby equipment for those first days
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babies. While the views of other parents and
Practical
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because we consider every aspect of a product. How
easy is this car seat to fit? Is that pushchair a nightmare
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New parent directory
As the birth of your baby gets closer, you’ll find
yourself stocking up on essential baby equipment Info
Best and information on life as a parent you can
Buy trust
nct information
18 Your guide to pregnancy and birth
Which? advice Practical
parenting
4 Baby essentials 20 Getting support when pregnant information
and support
5 Buying a child car seat 21 Working through it when pregnant www.nct.org.uk
14 Buying a cot
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Baby essentials
This checklist will help sort the basics you’ll want
from day one from the ‘nice-to-have’ equipment 7 Towel
Look for a soft towel just for your baby’s use.
Advice
you can
trust
8 Detergent for washing clothes
You'll need to choose a washing detergent
suitable for your baby’s sensitive skin.
Useful
9 Changing mat
Nappy changing mats are padded, with
slightly raised sides to prevent your baby
equipment
worth
considering
wriggling off. A changing table lets you change • baby monitor – see
a nappy comfortably at waist height, but the floor our guide to buying
monitors
is good, too.
• changing bag
• small nail
10 Cotton wool
Cotton wool is useful for cleaning your
baby while they’re using nappies.
clippers
• reclined cradle
• baby bath or
bath supports
Baby equipment basics from day one 11 Muslin cloths and bibs
These can protect your baby’s clothes
(but a washing-up
bowl in the sink or the
1 4
Child car seat Clothing from spillages and accidents. A muslin over the main bath will do fine)
A Group 0+ car seat if you’re travelling with Be prepared from day one with: four to six shoulder will also protect your clothes if you're
your baby in any car, including coming home from sleepsuits and bodysuits; two cardigans; two hats; winding your baby after feeding.
hospital if you give birth there. See our guide to and four pairs of socks. Take a look at our advice
buying a child car seat for more advice. on additional clothes for more information.
12 Scratch mittens
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Buying a child car seat
As a first-time parent, the amount of ‘stuff’ you need to buy is daunting. And Advice
you may find you buy items that aren’t quite right for your newborn. One thing you can
I wasn’t prepared to leave to trial and error, though, was a car seat – I wanted trust
to know which one would keep my little lad safest. The internet’s full of user
reviews of child seats – and these offer some handy info – but other parents
don’t tend to know what the seat’s like in a crash.
That’s where Which? comes in. We’re the only UK body to put child seats
through head-to-head crash tests. We measure safety in a frontal and side- For more
on crash (a much tougher test than manufacturers have to pass by law), and information
assess how easy seats are to fit and use. on buying child
car seats see
Richard’s video
Richard Headland, buying guide
Editor, Which? magazine
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Buying a child car seat
seats, though some seats are certified across
two groups, for example Group 2/3.
Advice
It’s safest to buy specific child car seats to suit
you can
your child’s weight as they grow, rather than
trust
one that covers the whole weight range. Try
to keep your child in the lower-group child
car seat for as long as you can, but make sure
you don’t leave it until your child is over the
car seat’s weight limit before changing. This Child car
means you should use a Group 0+ baby car seat reviews
seat as long as possible – up to at least 10kg, On Which.co.uk,
preferably as close to 13kg as possible – then we’ve got reviews
consider changing to a Group 1 child car seat, of over 100 child car
which your child will use until they are at least seats, including over
15kg, and ideally until they weigh 18kg. At 15kg 20 Best Buys, and
(about 3 to 4 years old), think about changing over 5 Don’t Buy
to a Group 2/3 seat, which will suit the child all seats. The Don’t Buys
the way up to age 12, when they should use the Child car seats and heights If you know which child car seats you’re failed our stringent
adult seatbelt. In most cases, the child will reach the weight limit interested in, try them in your car with tests.
of a child car seat before becoming too tall for it. your child before you buy. If your child isn’t You’ll also find a
However, your child will have outgrown the child born yet, try the seat in your car anyway. Don’t video of our crash
car seat if his or her eyes are level with the top of wait until the baby is born; if you’re travelling testing, which
the seat. If they’re below the thresholds suggested home by car, most hospitals won’t discharge will show you the
above, seek advice from a qualified child car you unless you have a child car seat. huge difference in
seat expert (contact your local authority’s road Take advice from a qualified adviser. protection between
safety office to find out who this is in your area). In Most trained child-car-seat retailers have a Best Buy and a
extreme cases they may advise you to seek advice advisers on hand to help – a good one will Don’t Buy.
from a doctor or paediatrician. find seats that suit the car or cars you’ll be
using it in, and show you how to install it
Tips on choosing a child car seat properly. Some local authorities (including
Make a list of the cars you might use the child Bromley and Essex), have special centres
car seat in, for example, friends’ or grandparents’, where you can seek advice and try out seats.
Your child will have outgrown as well as your own. Never buy a second-hand child car seat –
the child car seat if his or her Find out whether the child car seat will it could have been in a crash, which will have Actions
eyes are level with the top of fit in the cars you’ll be using – you can check weakened it.
the seat with the seat manufacturer and the carmaker Once you’ve chosen a child car seat, check Print
for compatibility. out our advice on how to fit it.
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Buying a child car seat
Car carrycots for infants placed in a travel system. A travel system pushchair Which? puts seats through Advice
Which? doesn’t generally recommend carrycots can be used with a compatible car seat and/or
and lie-flat child car seats as tests show that, carrycot that’s designed to attach to the pushchair.
rigorous tests, and members you can
with few exceptions, they don’t protect children Travel system child car seats let you transfer your can see how safe each seat is. trust
adequately. baby between car, pushchair and home easily,
If you already own one, we suggest you buy an which is great if you spend a lot of time on the
alternative Group 0+ child car seat for use in the move. But be aware that babies should not spend
car. Some of the best cost as little as £75. long periods of time in child car seats.
If you have a carrycot for your baby and there’s Travel systems appear to be a bargain because
nothing else you can use, however, it’s better than they’re flexible, but the travel system pushchairs
nothing at all. Place it across the back seat, as close are often large and heavy and you
to the middle as you can. This may use up more need space to store the parts you're
space, but it means the baby is less vulnerable in a not using. Babies will also outgrow
crash. Place the baby’s head as the child car seat in around 12–15
far from the door as possible to try to avoid months, but you can still use the
contact with the door in a crash. travel system as a pushchair.
You should keep travel times to a minimum
for all newborns. Multiple and booster seats
All child car seats are categorised
Travel system car seats
Some child car seats – particularly Group 0 and
according to the child's weight
(see page five), with some seats Best
Group 0+ – can be removed from the car and spanning different groups. At 15kg
(3 to 4 years old), for example, Buy
you can change to a Group 2/3 seat, which should
suit the child up to age 12. Generally, however, car
seats designed to span more than two groups are a
compromise in at least one weight group and, in
our reviews of 48 different models, Which? found
only one Group 1/2/3 seat worth recommending.
Backless booster seats raise the child’s body to
a height suitable for use with the adult seatbelt,
and satisfy the legal requirement for children up
DON’T
to 4ft 6in. They’re also cheap (about £20–£30).
However, booster cushions are not as safe as Group
Buy
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3 child seats with a full length back and ‘wings’,
which provide extra protection for the head and
chest in a side-impact crash.
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Fitting a child car seat
Examine the child car seat and read the instructions thoroughly
before taking it to your car. Always follow the manufacturer’s Which? has an online guide Advice
instructions and keep them with the seat for future reference. to fitting a car seat properly. you can
trust
Even a Which? Best Buy child car seat might not buying a new car, make sure it comes with Isofix
fit safely in your car, so have at least one go at mountings – sometimes they’re a ‘no-cost’ option.
installing the child car seat, preferably with the
help of an expert from the shop, before you buy. Trying out the seat
When you first take the child car seat to your
car, check that it fits neatly with the shape of the
interior. For some seats, you may need to remove
Isofix car the car’s head restraint. If you're using it in more
seats can be than one car, check it with each of them.
secured without In the front seat, some cars let you to disable the
seatbelts airbag – it won’t deploy so it’s safe to install a rear-
facing child car seat. Never fit a rear-facing child
car seat in front of an active airbag. If it goes off, the Go to our
force could kill your child. Ensure you activate the Which?
airbag again for an adult passenger. Some car seat installation
Isofix car seat fittings makers say you should never place forward-facing guide to find
If you have a relatively new car (generally since child car seats on a front seat with an active front
2002), it’s likely to have Isofix mounting points. airbag; others say it’s safe. We’re not aware of any
out about
This is the standard system for new cars and seat evidence to suggest it really is dangerous. common
makers, designed to make installing your child However, we advise that generally the back Using a seatbelt with a car seat problems in
seat easy. Many parents worry about fitting their seat is safest for children so, if Check the seatbelt is long enough to secure the fitting child
car seat correctly, but with Isofix you just ‘plug possible, fit a child car seat in car seat and ensure you can feed the belt through
in’ a compatible seat to mounting points in the the rear of your car. the slits in the car seat without any obstructions.
car seats.
car – rather than fiddling with seatbelts. Isofix is If you prefer to have the It should be easy to adjust and secure the seat’s
also more secure than the seatbelt method, so child in the front, always harness, and the seat should leave enough space
your child should be better protected in a crash. keep the passenger seat for your child to stretch their legs.
Most cars have two fixing points, but some now as far back as you can. The child car seat should hardly move forwards
have three, where the third (top) tether attaches Most importantly, never or sideways if you push it. When you open the
to a mount behind the rear seat to stop it tipping modify the child car seat buckle of the adult belt, the car seat should spring
forwards in an accident. The three-point fixing in any way. upwards slightly. Actions
should work even better than a two-point fixing, Which? members Only the seatbelt webbing, not the buckle,
because it holds the child car seat more securely. can read reviews of should touch the car seat’s frame. Otherwise, Print
However, the two-point fixing is still generally more than 100 child pressure on the buckle could make it open. Check
much better than using seatbelts. So, if you're car seats. the car seat’s fitting booklet for help. which.co.uk
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Buying a pushchair
There are people who spend hundreds of pounds on a pushchair that turns Advice
out to be too big for their car boot. Then there are people who buy a Phil & Ted’s you can
tandem (one child in front, one in a seat that tucks under at the back), who find trust
the entire bus sighs when they get on, as chaos will no doubt ensue. I know,
because I was that person.
Happily, the way Which? tests pushchairs covers all these bases and more. Baby shower
Whether you have a small car or use the bus a lot, our reviews tell you if a pushchair gift service
is going to suit. We check how easy they are to manoeuvre, and store. We check Some high street stores
they’re safe, and we get parents’ views on them, too. We even check the size of and websites, including
John Lewis, operate a
the shopping basket (crucial). baby shower gift list
service along the same
Liz Edwards, lines as a wedding
Head of Content Development, Which? list, so presents aren’t
duplicated.
When it comes to pushchairs, small to use the pushchair for lengthy daytime naps or
whole afternoons in the park, consider one with a
babies have different needs from carrycot and mattress.
older babies and toddlers. Here’s our Travel systems Travel systems including a
shopping checklist. Group 0 child car seat are appealing as you can www.nct.org.uk
Find your local
transfer your baby from pushchair to car without
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Fully reclining New babies need the back waking them up, but babies shouldn’t be confined and buy or sell everything
support that only fully reclining pushchairs can to their child car seat for long periods of time. from prams and toys to
give. Check the pushchair’s back reclines to more Reversible seat Many parents prefer to have changing mats and clothes.
than 150°. their baby facing them, rather than facing away (as
Sitting-up Babies shouldn’t be in a pushchair they would in a basic buggy), because they like to
that doesn’t recline fully until they’re six months maintain eye contact.
or so (i.e. until they can sit up).
Three-wheel pushchairs You shouldn’t use Buying pushchairs to suit your lifestyle
a three-wheeler pushchair over rough ground You’re unlikely to find a pushchair that meets all
until your baby is about six months old – babies’ your needs perfectly. But thinking carefully about Actions
necks aren’t strong enough to take the strain of a your lifestyle and future plans can help you buy a
bouncing head. pushchair that serves you well. Print
Sleeping in a pushchair Babies should sleep Those who walk a lot need pushchairs that are
on a firm horizontal base so, if you’re expecting easy to push on a wide variety of surfaces and can which.co.uk
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Buying Tips on buying pushchairs
Manufacturers regularly change
a pushchair
patterns, designs and materials.
Last season’s designs are often
available at lower prices.
Check what accessories are
Advice
negotiate kerbs and stairs with ease. Protection included – for instance, a rain
you can
from wind, rain and sun is important, and plenty cover is optional on some models.
trust
of storage space can accommodate changing You can often find deals online
and shopping bags. at sites such as Kiddicare.com,
Public transport users should choose or at NCT’s Nearly New Sales.
lightweight and easy-folding pushchairs that
can be used from birth, with a one-handed fold Road
mechanism. test it
Motorists will need to check the folded Try borrowing your
pushchair and its accessories will fit in their boot, friends’ pushchairs
and might want to consider a pushchair that can to give them a try
be fitted with a child car seat. and see how you like
You're unlikely to fold the pushchair every time them. Check how easy
you use it. Consider the pushchair's unfolded size you find it to move
taking up space in your hallway. Pushchairs that in a tight space, do a
stand upright independently when folded complete about-turn,
or are easy to lock folded are easier to store. tip backwards to mount
Even though manufacturers recommend kerbs and abruptly
removing your child from a pushchair on stairs, change direction.
this is often not practical. Some of the larger Hard plastic grips can be Which? members can
pushchairs can be very heavy, especially when uncomfortable after a find out how our experts
loaded with a child and shopping so, if your local time; look for pushchairs and parent panel rated
terrain or daily routine features lots of stairs pushchairs, buggies
and kerbs, consider buying a lighter-weight with softer rubber or
and travel systems for
pushchair. Lifting some pushchairs from the foam grips and handles safety, usability and
car boot can also be a challenge. with soft, rounded edges convenience.
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Buying a pushchair
We’ll help you At Which? we test hundreds of pushchairs. We’ve
tested more than 25 brands of pushchair for our
choose the right reviews, including models from Bugaboo, Chicco,
Graco, Maclaren, Quinny and Silver Cross.
Advice
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to your door. pushchair is suitable from birth and what’s included in
the price. We’ll tell you how it fares on public transport,
kerbs and stairs, plus whether it will fit in your boot. We
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Buying a high chair
Your high chair will be needed to withstand an onslaught of food and
a good bashing – our tips help you find the right one for you Advice
you can
trust
Different types of high chair Size matters
Before you head to the shop, consider whether Many larger high street stores have high chairs
you need a full-size high chair or a portable on display, so take a look. Some high chairs are Try the
chair. Choosing the best chair for your needs bulky, so you'll get a better idea of how much buckle
will depend on the space in your home, how space they take up if you see them side by side Try adjusting the tray
much you want to spend, and what you’re before you buy. and undoing the buckle
planning to use the chair for. on the harness. You’re
More padding – more work? likely to do these more
than once a day and
Full-size high chairs Multi-functional chairs often have a lot of
with a squirming child
Full-size high chairs tend to come in four types: padding – it’s comfy for baby, but it can make in the seat, so pick one
convertible, combination, light-weight folding, more work for you when it comes to cleaning. you can
and multi-functional – all with different features. If your heart is set on a multi-functional chair, work
save yourself as much scrubbing time as easily.
Portable high chairs possible by opting for one with as few seams,
There are three different types of portable creases and crevices in the upholstery and on
chairs – chair boosters, fabric chair restraints the frame of the chair as possible.
and table seats; each has different features. If you’re considering buying your high chair
Portable chairs are best suited to those who online, take a look in a few high street stores
want a small chair or restraint when out and first, especially when you could be paying over
There are full-size chairs
about at restaurants and friends’ houses. £100 for one. Also, check delivery charges: and different types of portable
some sites offer free delivery on goods over a chairs, including the chair
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Buying a second-hand high chair from prams and toys to
Our guide on where to buy second-hand baby on the plastic tray, that could pinch your baby. changing mats and clothes.
equipment details some of the best places to If the seat or any other part of the chair is
search online and locally. Here’s how to ensure padded, ensure that no foam is exposed, as this
you buy a safe second-hand high chair. can be a potential choking hazard.
Is it stable, sturdy and not missing any screws Check that there is no flaking paint or Actions
or bolts? splinters that your baby could swallow.
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Buying a cot
It’s one of the priciest bits of nursery kit, and is the centrepiece of
the room. Your cot needs to work well for you and your baby Advice
Choosing the right-sized cot Cot beds
you can
Cot sizes vary. Cots designed to fit ‘standard- A cot bed is a cot with removable sides and end
trust
sized’ mattresses are a few centimetres panel so it can be converted into a toddler-sized
narrower than cots designed for ‘continental- bed. These are increasingly popular and seem
sized’ mattresses, although they’re often a a logical way of lengthening the life of a cot as Chomping on
similar length. Cots will vary in size within well as helping to make the move from a cot to
these categories too, but measurements a bed as smooth as possible. the edge of a
should be clearly displayed on the cot label. Cot beds are larger than cots but are not cot is a habit
The advantage of a larger cot is that your necessarily much more expensive. Remember many babies
baby will have more room and, if your baby that you’ll need to buy a cot-bed-sized mattress be lowered – can be useful because you can seem to relish.
and you are happy to continue to use a cot rather than one designed for a cot. operate them with one hand. Other cots have
until he or she is well into the toddling years, a trigger mechanism, a foot pedal or a couple
To avoid damage,
it may be more practical. However, small cots Safety of catches to undo. choose a cot
are perfectly adequate for a growing baby. Cots should carry the British Standards with a teething
Also see p24 for information on sleeping. Institution (BSI) number BS EN 716:2008, Bedside cots rail – a protective
which indicates they comply with required Cots with a removable side so you can position covering lining
safety standards. the cot right next to your bed. The base can be
adjusted so your baby’s mattress is lined up
the side-edges
Cot features to look for with yours, making night-time feeding easier. of the cot.
Height-adjustable base
The base height of most cots can be adjusted Teething rail
as your baby grows. You can choose the Chomping on the edge of a cot is a habit many
highest level for the first few months, so you babies seem to relish. Choose a cot with a
can lift your baby in and out easily, then teething rail – a protective covering lining the www.nct.org.uk
move to a lower level when your baby starts side-edges of the cot – if you want to avoid the Find your local
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positions are fine for most people’s needs. Casters changing mats and clothes.
Handy if you want to move the cot to a different
Fixed- or drop-sides? room. It also makes for easier cleaning under
Most cots available have drop-sides. One or and around the cot.
The base height of most both sides of the cot will have a mechanism Actions
designed to let you lower the side so you can Second-hand or hand-me-down cots
cots can be adjusted as lift your baby in and out with ease. Many second-hand cots are fine, but check Print
your baby grows. ‘Nudge and lift’ mechanisms – when you push whether they meet current safety standards first
the side of the cot into a position where it can by using our guide. You’ll need a new mattress. which.co.uk
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For your peace of mind
Stair gates Advice
Baby monitors Measure up
you can
trust
Before you buy, always measure the width
Baby monitors between the walls at both the top and bottom.
provide peace of Skirting boards may make this gap smaller.
mind, rather than Fittings
Ask shop assistants
actual safety, but Decide in advance if you want a temporary or to show you how to
they allow you to permanent fitting. set your gate and,
listen to your child if that isn’t possible,
Material
and help you know Make sure you can drill into walls, skirting
read the instructions
whether they are boards, banisters or door frames. Most gates carefully before you
sleeping soundly. only come with wood screws, so you may buy to make sure
need to buy masonry screws. you know what
Number
you’re getting.
Take into account rooms without doors, such
as the kitchen, as well as the top and bottom
of stairs.
Which type is right for me? you when on battery power – some come with www.nct.org.uk
Mains-powered monitors a belt clip so you don’t need to hold it. The more Price Find your local
Mains-powered monitors are the cheapest and expensive models have rechargeable batteries. Stair gates can cost anything up to £65. So if you NCT Nearly New Sale
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simplest option. These can be plugged into a Pros: Useful for parents who will be busying have to buy three or four, the costs can really
from prams and toys to
socket in any room, but cannot be used with themselves about the house or garden while start to mount up. Luckily, some of the best are changing mats and clothes.
batteries. the baby is asleep; rechargeable models save around £25.
Pros: The least expensive option, ideal for worrying about batteries running out.
parents who won’t be moving around the Cons: More expensive than Colour and finish
house much while the monitor is on, or if mains-powered The choices are usually white metal, wood
they are only likely to be used at night. models, especially or black plastic – you should try and envisage
Cons: Less versatile; can’t be used away if you regularly run which would look best in your home, but
from a socket. a non-rechargeable obviously not at the expense of safety. Actions
model on batteries.
Portable dual-powered monitors Which? members Try before you buy Print
These run on either the mains or batteries, can read reviews of One of the key problems with some stair gates
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so the parent unit can be carried around with those we tested. is that they can be difficult to set up.
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Are you a new Saving for children
parent or Child trust funds
parent-to-be?
CIn 2005, Child Trust Funds
(CTFs) were introduced to Advice
encourage tax-free longterm you can
saving. However, the trust
government contribution
was reduced in August 2010,
and stopped altogether on 31
December 2010. Babies born on
Becoming a parent is a wonderful experience, but it is or after this date are not eligible.
Parents with children who hold
also one of the biggest challenges we ever face and CTFs can still contribute to these (up to £3,600 per year). Good ways
that is where NCT comes in. We are the UK’s largest And, although you can’t withdraw money from a CTF until to save
your child is 18, it is still possible to switch CTF provider or Which? searches the
parenting charity, offering people reliable information move funds from one type of CTF account to another. market to discover the
best children’s savings
and a local community of parents for support. Junior ISAs accounts. You can find
Junior Isas are the replacement for CTFs for children born the results and the
after 1 January 2011. They can also be opened on behalf of latest Best Rate deals,
Local support network older children, born before September 2002, who missed
out on CTFs. There is no government contribution, but
as well as alternative
ways to save, online.
parents and relatives can pay in up to £3,600 each year.
You can put your money in either a cash or a stocks and
National Helplines shares Junior Isa, or split your money between one of
each. You can switch provider in the same way as CTFs,
but it is not possible to move money from a CTF to a
Parenting courses Junior Isa.
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Your guide What foods should I avoid?
You are more vulnerable to food-
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Breastfeeding
Is breastfeeding easy?
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Peace of mind, Sweet dreams
Babies need a lot of sleep because
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There are gentle ways of encouraging your baby to learn
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placing your baby awake in their cot at bedtime with a
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introducing a regular bedtime routine such as a bath,
bedtime clothes, singing or reading a book together
in young babies, some parents find that additional feeds
during the evening can help babies sleep for longer
try to avoid putting lights on and nappy changing when
your baby wakes at night.
Co-sleeping
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