Success

Life ain’t about what you have, but what you are, what you do with that you have or what happen to
you. You a billionaire? Great! Who do you trust? I guess nobody (if I may).

Do you feel accomplished after having piled all that money? The Response is yours.
Why in the world do you ask me all these questions you’ll riposte? Because I think people confuse
money with success or accomplishment. They think that when you get money you’ve reached the
pinnacle of happiness of life and all is now well. You can get whatever you want, anything or even
anyone. Happiness/success is Like Love we all seek it but I think we don’t even know what it is (we’ll
get to those in Next Chapters).

Success is unachievable for me because for many of us success is when you achieve all your dreams
which is impossible (don’t ask me why that’s the nature of us humans) because we always seek
something else and in my opinion we can’t do nothing about that.
What is Success? Who is Successful?
Is successful, the man who achieve goals that suit his need (mood) of the moment.
The Single man wants a house, a wife, then kids, then a united family and then and then and most of
us think that we only achieve that by piling a load of money.
Don’t get me wrong money is important I won’t say otherwise (that’ll sound weird), money is
necessary but nowadays the way we see money is completely wrong but again we’ll get to that later.
Success is the process of doing what you love and find someone to pay you doing it (Difficult I know
but not impossible) that’s my definition of success (we all have one). Believe me earning money in a
job you hate is killing yourself minute by minute because you’re financially “free” but mentally ill and
ultimately you end up ill, sad, unhappy feeling resentment with yourself and of course with others.

Success is to choose to be happy in spite of life challenges because GOD gave you the tools you need
to succeed. So you’ll ask yourself how can I be happy. Here’s how I think you can but what apply to
me isn’t necessary what will apply to you and that is up to you to find out your KICK.
First and foremost you have to believe in yourself by saying that good things are supposed to happen
to you too. Change your negativity and harness yourself because life is difficult but as would say Zig
Ziglar: “life is tough but if you work harder on yourself, life will be infinitely easier”

Look for yourself first, work on yourself before looking to earn money and always be there for others
(never forget that you only succeed with others, by others, for others and yourself). That’s the
biggest mistake many of us make, choosing money or others instead of choosing money with others,
whatever money you have without others you’ll always be miserable (that’s a fact and believe me I
don’t know many facts but that I know and that you don’t want to find out).
The main thing to consider when you want to succeed is love and there’s no other way out (another
fact I know). There’s literally no other way out, love yourself and hope/expect for only that you
would hope for yourself.

The successful person is the one that is full of love, joy, who know to attract people and the one who
is missed by the latter in his absence and as Said ZIG ZIGLAR: “you’ll succeed if you help others
succeed”. Be genuine with people because a mask always drop and the true nature always show
sooner or later. Be love and you’ll get love.