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Conflict Resolution Education:
Compare Approaches
Are you "shopping" for a conflict resolution program for your schools? First, you
might consider which approach to conflict resolution you will take. In this story, learn
about different approaches used in conflict resolution programs. Find out how each
actually transforms schools. Included: Resources for learning more about approaches
to conflict resolution education.
Five of the six New York City high schools participating in Project S.M.A.R.T.
(School Mediator Alternative Resolution Team) had a 45 to 70 percent reduction in
suspensions for fighting during the program's first year of operation.
The Clark County Social Service School Mediation Program in Nevada, during the
1992-1993 school year, reduced conflict among students in two participating
elementary schools and helped prevent fights among students. After the program, the
number of teachers who spent less than 20 percent of their time on discipline
increased by 18 percent. Similar results were reported for the 1993-1994 school year.
Evaluations of the impact of the Resolving Conflict Creatively Program (RCCP) in
four multiracial, multiethnic school districts in New York City showed that 84 percent
of teachers who responded to a survey reported positive changes in classroom climate,
71 percent reported moderate or significant decreases in physical violence in the
classroom, and 66 percent observed less name-calling and few verbal insults. More
than 98 percent of respondents said that mediation gave children a significant tool for
handling conflicts.
'CONFLICT RESOLUTION EDUCATION'
The report offers negotiation, mediation, and consensus of decision making as the three
essential processes of conflict resolution. It goes on to define several basic approaches to
conflict resolution education, including:
The approaches often overlap in actual schools or other institutions. Here's a look at how
some of the approaches work.
community building,
understanding conflict,
perception (understanding different viewpoints),
anger management, and
rules for fighting fair.
PEF's curriculum also includes mediation in grades 4 through 12. It provides instructions
for training peer mediators and overseeing a school-based mediation program.
PEACEABLE CLASSROOM APPROACH
In peaceable classrooms, teachers use the cooperative learning and academic controversy
methods developed by David Johnson and Roger Johnson. Students work in small groups
to achieve shared learning goals. Academic controversy methods are used when two
students disagree. Deliberate discourse -- the discussion of the advantages and
disadvantages of proposed actions -- is how controversies are resolved.
ESR defines the term peaceable as meaning a "safe, caring, respectful, and productive
learning environment." A major premise of ESR is that teachers learn to model the
behavior they teach through direct instruction, and schools assume the values they seek to
nurture among young people in all facets of their program. As an example of how ESR
operates, it recommends that students and teachers make decisions together about
classroom norms at the beginning of the school year and that teachers give early
instruction in problem solving and decision making so the skills can be used and
reinforced throughout the year.
The Resolving Conflict Creatively Program (RCCP), an initiative of ESR, involves five
components:
Teachers who want to implement RCCP in their classrooms take a 25-hour introductory
course, giving them the opportunity to receive feedback on their lessons and see skilled
practitioners give demonstration lessons in the classroom.
Teachers are encouraged to devote 30 to 45 minutes at least once a week for a specific
workshop in conflict resolution prepared from the curriculum guide. Teachers also
include conflict resolution lessons, strategies, and skills into the regular academic
program.
Schools agree to implement the RCCP curriculum for at least a year before beginning
peer mediation, which will reinforce the problem-solving skills already being developed
in classrooms. Other key elements in RCCP are administrator training and parent
training. Parents participate in a 12-hour workshop on the skills and concepts of conflict
resolution and intergroup relations in order to make their homes more peaceful. That
way, parents can help their children become more skilled in the conflict resolution they
are learning in school.
Said a ninth-grade student from Vista, California, "I've seen changes in some of the kids
at school since we started this program. They look at things differently now. They don't
act the same; they try to be more peaceful now. I think we are really changing the gangs
on this campus. There used to be a lot of gangs before, writing in the bathrooms and all
that, but it's sort of stopped. It's more peaceful now."
https://www.educationworld.com/a_curr/curr171.shtml
Bridging the Gap: Engaging a New Generation in the Southern Philippines in Inter-
Ethnic Dialogue and Conflict Resolution.
This project is run by the Center for Southeast Asian Studies (CSEAS) and the
International Training Office (ITO) of Northern Illinois University (NIU). It has been a
three year project so far that has trained over 75 youth and 25 adult activists in Mindanao.
Each spring, the project hosts a four-week institute at NIU for 30 Muslim and non-
Muslim Filipino students and adult leaders from the Autonomous Region of Muslim
Mindanao (ARMM).
The goal of the institute is to transmit knowledge and build strategies among participants
about ways to foster interethnic cooperation and a variety of forms of conflict resolution.
By drawing on the example of civic society and diversity in the United States and by
understanding the larger regional context in which contemporary conflicts in Mindanao
exist, participants acquire new perspectives to support future grassroots efforts to build
closer cooperation and understanding among the different cultural, religious, and political
groups in the southern Philippines.
This project is undertaken in partnership with Capitol University in Cagayan de Oro City
and with the International Visitors Program-Philippines, and builds on the Philippine
expertise of the major project supervisors.
The project is funded by the Youth Exchange Division, Bureau of Educational and
Cultural Affairs, U.S. Department of State. It is directed by Dr. Susan Russell,
Anthropology, and Dr. Lina Davide-Ong, International Training Office. The in-country
project coordinators are Dr. Nagasura Madale, Vice President for Research and
Extension, and Dr. Noemi Medina, Director of the Mindanao Peace Building Institute of
Capital University in Cagayan de Oro City.
The participants each year comprise 25 students, aged 15-17 years, and 5 adult leaders
who are selected from all geographic parts of the ARMM and nearby areas in an open,
merit-based, recruitment strategy.
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The U.S.-based Professsional Development Program (PDP) -- May 31 – June 22, 2006
The PDP will provide a rich and varied, but at the same time coherent and carefully
structured agenda to provide the participants
(1) substantial knowledge and enhanced understanding of how religion, education,
community, and political leaders interact in the U.S.,
(2) an enriched appreciation for cultural and religious diversity, understanding and
cooperation, and
(3) core skills and tools in peace leadership, community activism, human rights and
justice, civic participation, and building linkages.
Associated links
http://www.niu.edu/cseas/outreach/PhilAccess/accessfs.htm
http://www.niu.edu/cseas/armm/armm.htm
http://www.researchsea.com/html/article.php/aid/880/cid/6/research/people/northe
rn_illinois_university/conflict_resolution_projects_in_the_philippines.html
Facebook and Twitter became the site of heated, middle-class opinions. Bigotry’s ugly
head began to rear, demonstrating that--whatever tolerance reasonable Filipinos had for
their Muslim brethren--it was little match for vocal online ignorance. Mindanao was,
once again, misunderstood.
The confusion came in part from the long-ignored history of injustice that Filipinos in
Mindanao have had to endure—almost in silence. Years of neglect and the lack of
effective reconciliatory processes have allowed histories of massacre and broken
promises to fester into growing suspicion—among the Mindanao tri-peoples (Christians,
Muslims and lumad), and between rebel groups and the state. Indeed, recent events have
underlined the need for greater inclusivity among agents of peace in a process that has
been ongoing for years.
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Previously, there has been a heavy reliance on representation by influential figureheads to
move these processes forward. But current events have demonstrated the urgent need for
a multiplicity of voices. Today, civil society and non-government organizations (NGOs)
based in Mindanao continue to highlight the polyphony of tri-peoples in the region.
The conflict in Mindanao is complex indeed. A common error has been to attribute
problems to religious differences. The tendency for one to blame the “Other” on the basis
of their faith obscures the historical injustices and great disparities in material living
conditions between Christian and Muslim populations. Religion often becomes the lens--
or in some cases, the excuse--for these problems. Post-9/11, seeing Islam in terms of
fundamentalism and jihad—holy war—has been the global trend. Muslim groups have
had to continually explain that the practice of Islam does not necessarily propagate terror.
The activities of groups like Abu Sayyaf have led to a sharp bias against Muslims in
general, with stereotypes about their being terrorists, kidnappers and thieves. The wearing
of the hijab—deemed oppressive towards women—and the growing of beards among
Muslim males has further deepened these stereotypes.
Post-Mamasapano, cyberspace has been abuzz with confusion. For a brief moment, it
seemed as if there was little hope of convincing people that religion was not the root of
all conflict in Mindanao.
But it also became apparent that technology gave seldom-heard voices from the South a
powerful forum. Suddenly, following a solon’s ill-informed remarks, young Muslims
posted long editorials on Facebook that were shared across the Internet and responded to
by others.
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Indeed, communications technology takes center stage in the work of one of the more
proactive and creative NGOs advocating peace education in the country. “PeaceTech”—
targeting schools in regions that experience conflict—uses video conferencing and social
media to bridge groups across large distances. To date, they have partnered with
corporations like PLDT, TELUS, and development agencies such as Hope International,
Australian AID, and the US Embassy.
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PeaceTech founder, Robyn Pettyfer with students from Cotabato City National High
School. PeaceTech File Photo
Trusting the classroom as a safe space in which to let ideas, questions, and knowledge
flourish, the group sets up virtual interaction sessions between classes in Manila and
select areas in Mindanao, like Cotabato and Zamboanga. The idea is simple: use a
relatively inexpensive tool like Skype (provided there is internet access) to bridge
students who are unlikely to be able to speak with one another, were it not for this
technology.
For around an hour—roughly the time it takes to cover a subject in school—students are
allowed to interact with their peers through the facilitation of trained teachers. PeaceTech
aims to foster greater understanding among students, especially those who practice
different religions.
It banks on the dynamism and curiosity of young people to bridge generations. “Aha!”
classroom moments, for instance,may send some students home to their parents with a
message expressing hope that perhaps these people who practice other religions—
normally seen as “Other”—are actually no different from the rest of us.
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Global Classroom Program in Ramon Magsaysay National High School connected via
Skype to North Cotabato National High School. HDPRC File Photo
The NGO has been in the country since 2006. It has two flagship programs:the first, the
“Global Classroom Program,”is aimed at high school students spread across Metro
Manila, Visayas, and Mindanao.It integrates videoconferencing into the Social Studies
and Values Education curriculum of the Department of Education (DepEd) to improve
learning and build tolerance between different religious and ethnic communities.
The second program, dubbed: “Reducing Conflict,” is for young adults from regions
divided by conflict. Using Information Communication Technology and social media, the
program aims to foster improved relationships between communities presently
characterized by mutual distrust. Conflict-management and peace-building training is
also conducted through these video conferences.
But PeaceTech’s program also raises some fundamental questions about how we teach
peace in the Philippine context. Recalling the days of Mamasapano, technology did make
public opinion—no matter how well- or ill-informed—ultimately shareable. The end
result was a society awash with emotion.
Current events in the legislature do show a growing lassitude surrounding the passage of
the Bangsamoro Basic Law. This seems to suggest that, while technology has enabled us
to express ourselves better, it’s unclear if it has achieved much in terms of actually
reducing conflict. Do we fight less online and build more bridges? Or do we merely
“yell” at each other from hi-tech pulpits, enabled by “likes” and peer-encouragement?
In PeaceTech’s case, similar questions surface: can we properly define complex conflict
if it is only seen through the narrow lens of religion? How can we counter religious
prejudices if we do not also account for the history of conflict, and work towards
providing the material and political basis for alleviating chronic poverty? Building
tolerance through values formation is a laudable goal, but what of the question of
historical justice, which is often all-too-fraught?
One thing we learn online is that no one generally disagrees with motherhood statements.
Sane Filipinos seldom disagree with the need for lasting and sustainable peace in
Mindanao, in the same way that values like kindness, tolerance, and peace itself, are
generally “liked.” But these are abstract terms. How does one teach these values without
a context? Should we not instead be teaching a more inclusive history that reflects a
multiplicity of cultural voices? This is where the limitation of peace education programs
like PeaceTech’s come in: for as long as the curriculum is tied to that of DepEd’s—one
that has a predominantly Catholic and Manila perspective—discussion of historical
events and contexts will retain that bias. Peace education cannot be done sans historical
context,precisely because values are a reflection of our lived experiences and the lessons
we choose to learn from them.
There is no doubt that using communications technology in schools can be a critical tool
in undoing deeply-rooted prejudices and misunderstandings between the Muslim
minority and the Christian majority, not to mention those pertaining to the lumad. It
remains to be seen, however, how the content of such communications will encourage not
just tolerance, but a real understanding of the roots of such conflicts and the search for
actual justice. To this end, PeaceTech’s pioneering efforts seem to be a valuable and
necessary first step.
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(Reposted from: Teach Peace Build Peace Movement. May 16, 2018)
By Fort Phil
“Fallen soldier’s kid marches with dad’s commander on graduation day”, came the
headline of a Rappler story about a soldier of an Army engineer unit, involved in the
construction of a peace center in the village of Tukanalipao, Mamasapano, Maguindanao,
who was shot in cold blood on Tuesday morning, April 4, allegedly by a member of a
radical armed group. Reading the news report evoked much harrowing emotion
considering that the casualty was part of a community project dedicated to promoting
peace and development in the area. Sad, but reality on the ground is painfully tragic.
Lives are undeniably lost each day, properties are destroyed, opportunities are wasted and
these cannot go on. Just yesterday, April 10, there was a deadly clash between
government forces and Abu Sayyaf extremists in Basilan. Ways of doing things must
definitely change for the better and this requires a more proactive stance from all
stakeholders. A new way of thinking is necessary and must be constructively pushed; but
in our earnest desire for a paradigm shift, we must not disregard cultural sensitivity. It is
everyone’s duty to closely examine the underlying causes that force people to resort to
violence.
The threat to peace stems from a multitude of causes including poverty, environmental
deterioration and social injustice. There are a variety of factors including economic,
political, social, cultural and environmental grounds from which these causes are
founded. Sadly, the technological progress that has brought our world closer together has
not been fittingly matched by mutual respect and understanding of other cultures and
beliefs. The absence of certainty and security makes it difficult to promote peace, and
local peace workers are confronted daily with these variables in the field.
The roots of conflict originate from a wide number of cases in different areas. While its
nature is complicated, it is universally accepted that violence can be prevented and
reduced through the practice of dialogue and negotiations – skills which can be taught
through an active program of peace education and consistent promotion of social ethics
for peace. Notably, to complement government efforts, many non-government
organizations (NGOs) and private individuals have quietly, but effectively, worked in
promoting the culture of peace and similar programs. In the Philippines, local NGOs,
such as Teach Peace Build Peace Movement, and different well-meaning people’s
organizations (POs) contribute significantly to the overall peace effort of the national
government.
History have long proven that war has been a threat, and a scourge, to mankind since the
dawn of civilization. This threat ranges from everyday violence of small-scale conflicts,
to regional wars and to the vast devastation caused by two world wars. As President
Duterte puts it, “No matter the spoils, war is never worth it.”
A violent deed cannot be remedied by another brutal action regardless of whether the act
of violence and war is justified by religious, political, economic, social and cultural
disputes, it is time to adopt a renewed mindset that promotes peace. The usual method
protagonists employ to deal with conflict is through oppressive and martial measures but
control and extreme actions are not enough, they merely delay future unimaginable
violence. A preventive and pragmatic approach becomes imperative – through peace
education and sustainable promotion of a culture for peace and non-violence.
Given that violence and war is a product of culture, through the modification of basic
cultural mindsets, everyone can work towards creating a culture of peace. We must
therefore strive to build a culture which consists of values, attitudes and behaviors that
reject violence, one that attempts to prevent conflict by rightfully addressing its root
causes with a new view of solving problems through dialogue and negotiations.
Remarkably, President Duterte even emphasized “principled position that disputes should
be settled in a peaceful manner” in his speech last Sunday, April 9, during the Araw ng
Kagitingan commemoration in Bataan. Unjustified violence against any person, or group,
has no place in a civilized society.
This writer is a witness to the power of peace education programs, and similar activities,
in transforming communities. Building public school classrooms and peace hubs through
Bayanihan is one example of a “collective” peace education activity that immensely help
local communities a step towards attainment of meaningful peace and development.
Peace through the promotion of quality public education encompasses economic,
political, social, cultural, moral and ethical issues thereby making it vital in transforming
people’s attitudes towards dealing with conflicts. This approach may appear to be
complicated to some, or may also be simplistic to a few, but it has worked well in local
communities particularly in geographically-remote public schools.
Establishing a culture of peace requires the involvement of all sectors that together shape
the country’s culture – institutions such as the government, public officials, NGOs,
CSOs, media and especially parents and teachers. Although peace education program is
often based in schools and other learning institutions, it should involve the entire
community as peace education is not only a necessity in areas where there are conflicts
but in all societies. Parents’ role is crucial in teaching and promoting strong family values
that foster a culture of peace. After all, it is in the homes that peace is first learned,
practiced and nurtured.
Further, the promotion of social ethics in peace education program in schools is an apt
strategy in firmly establishing a culture of peace in local communities. Ethics is an
important attribute like the basic skills of reading, writing and arithmetic; and it should
become a core part of every peace program. Remarkably, the Department of education
(DepEd) has established Peace Education Bureau in 2006 to help support the full
integration of peace education in all of the curriculum, as well as the activities of all
primary and secondary institutions.
Why is Bayanihan the right vehicle for peace education in local communities?
Essentially, the practice of Bayanihan in constructing public school buildings and peace
centers is a peace curriculum in itself. The whole exercise is basically a practical
application of all the principles in attaining peace and harmony through shared
experience and in having a common goal – to collectively build a quality school building
for the students. What is more significant than putting into action the philosophy of peace
education?
Likewise, is there a more valuable affirmation a peace worker can gain than from the
statement of appreciation from stakeholders, beneficiary and volunteers involved in the
project itself? As Nanay Clarita, a parent-volunteer in one Bayanihan project in Central
Luzon, would put it, “Kahit matanda na ako, feeling ko lumalakas ako sa paggawa kapag
nakikita ko ang aming mga kasamahan at mga sundalo na nakangiti habang nagtatrabaho
sa ilalim ng sikat ng araw. Taga-bomba ako sa mga nag-iigib at minsan ay cook nila sa
hapon. Pagod pero enjoy.”
As peace-loving citizens and advocates, what can we contribute to local peace efforts?
Given the current global security situation, finding peace and stability become a major
challenge for mankind. But in many cases and when properly utilized, the energy
stemming from conflict can be directed towards achieving positive change. Communities
need to be taught of alternatives in resolving conflict other than military or violent means.
Peace education is one way of achieving this end because it directly raises awareness of
the roots and causes of conflict. It also provides people with the necessary skills and
knowledge how to appropriately respond to disputes. Peace projects, such as the one
where the late Army Corporal Tamano Macadatar was involved, should be properly and
vigorously supported, protected and sustained by no less than the direct stakeholders and
the community itself.
Embracing the positive values of openness and equality must be a societal goal. An open
and dynamic society tolerates differing perspectives which helps in coming up with
rational consensus. Government and civil society must remain open to change in order to
adroitly adapt to our increasingly highly-connected and fast-paced world. It is to the good
of everyone to focus on the long-term standpoints; and credible education is one.
Importantly, the promotion of culture of peace should inspire people to work for a better
tomorrow through shared experiences and goals which stimulate familial love and
revitalize communal spirit.
The creation, much more sustainability, of local peace is a long and tedious process that
can take years to achieve, but at least the next generations will have the chance to enjoy
its benefits. Its attainment must become our united goal as peace-loving citizens, as
human beings. Everyone must be politely reminded that anyone who acts with pure
intention and right direction can make a profound difference and can influence events
that are contributory to a more peaceful future, and our best shot is having a sound and
sustainable peace education program both in schools and communities. The government,
in close partnership with different stakeholders, needs to focus on proactive and
constructive measures that encourage the development of a culture of peace. Being in
authority, it is ideal that the government take the lead.
Indeed, winning the peace is never easy and we must not stop from trying. May each one
of us always share the importance of peace education program, and similar activities, in
bringing about a community in which people willingly cooperate for the benefit of all,
acting in altruism and selflessness, recognizing the values of non-violence and respect for
human rights.
https://www.peace-ed-campaign.org/the-value-of-peace-education-in-local-communities-
philippines/
https://reliefweb.int/sites/reliefweb.int/files/resources/enhancing-educational-outcomes-
conflict-affected-muslim-mindanao-learned-20170911.pdf
The Philippines has experienced internal conflict for over four decades. This includes
violence related to two main causes: a communist-inspired insurgency and a separatist
struggle in the southern Bangsamoro region.
Discontent arising from the repression of dissent and foreign interference in the
Philippines led to the formation of the Communist Party of the Philippines after World
War II. It aimed to overthrow the government, and remains active; peace talks between it
and the government have so far been unsuccessful.
The second conflict has primarily taken place in the southern Philippines.The failure of
campaigns in the 1960s to recognise local people’s rights led to the development of
nationalist movements, and various armed groups have since fought the government for
greater autonomy.
In March 2014 a peace deal was signed between the government and the largest of these
groups, the Moro Islamic Liberation Front. However, not all of the rebel groups in
Mindanao and Sulu archipelago have signed the deal, and clashes in early 2015 highlight
the challenges associated with this long and protracted conflict.
It is difficult to know the total number of people who have been affected by the conflicts
in the Philippines, but it is often estimated at 150,000. Natural disasters have contributed
to the displacement of many more.
https://www.peaceinsight.org/conflicts/philippines/
https://www.peaceinsight.org/conflicts/philippines/
https://www.peaceinsight.org/conflicts/philippines/
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Loreta Navarro-Castro
Towards a Holistic Approach to Peace Education:
a Philippine Perspective
Abstract:
Th e article asserts that educating people towards becoming peace
agents is central to the task of peacebuilding. Peace education is
viewed as both a signifi cant peacebuilding strategy in the case of
post-confl ict situations and an eff ective way of preventing violent
confl ict. Th e article seeks to provide a holistic view of what the
fi eld is about and to explain a schema that has been developed
through many years of practice. It ends with ideas on the peace
educator’s role as well as the need for a whole school approach
and for a vision for the future.
Zusammenfassung:
Der Artikel stellt heraus, dass die Erziehung von Menschen zu
Friedensakteuren eine zentrale Bedeutung für Friedensprozesse
hat. Friedenp.dagogik ist in diesem Kontext sowohl eine bedeutsame
Strategie zur Friedenssicherung in Postkonfl iktsituationen
als auch eine eff ektive Art der Pr.vention vor dem Ausbruch
gewaltvoller Konfl ikte. Dabei wird ein ganzheitlicher Ansatz der
Friedensp.dagogik vertreten und ein diesbezügliches Schema
vorgestellt, das über viele Jahre friedensp.dagogischer Praxis entwickelt
wurde. Der Beitrag schlie.t mit Anregungen zur Rolle
von Friedensp.dagogen mit der Begründung für einen friedensp.dagogischen
Ansatz, der die ganze Schule in allen ihren
Facetten einschlie.t und mit einer Vision für die Zukunft.
Preliminary remarks
Educating for a culture of peace is a huge challenge, but it is
also a cause that is very important and one that needs to be
pursued with commitment. Th is writer is convinced that peace
education is a crucial key towards opening up possibilities for
a positively transformed future, for both humanity and our
planet.
Th e greatest resource for building a culture of peace are
the people themselves, for it is through them that peaceful relationships
and structures are created. Hence, educating people
toward becoming peace agents is central to the task of peacebuilding.
Peacebuilding refers generally to the long-term project
of building peaceful communities. One can readily see how
peace education is therefore both a signifi cant peacebuilding
strategy (as in the case of a post-confl ict situation) and an effective
way of preventing violent confl ict.
In a peacebuilding framework developed in the Philippines,
peace constituency-building is indicated as an important
element (cf. Ferrer 2005, p. 15). Th e latter includes education
aimed at promoting a peace culture and agenda.
What Is Peace Education?
Peace education is essentially transformative. It cultivates the
knowledge base, skills, attitudes and values that seek to transform
people’ s mindsets, attitudes and behaviors that, in the fi rst place,
have either created or exacerbated violent confl icts. It seeks this
transformation by building awareness and understanding, developing
concern and challenging personal and social action that
will enable people to create conditions and systems that actualize
nonviolence, justice, environmental care and other peace values.
Sadly, social injustice, war and other forms of violence
have long been features of our human condition. Th ey have
caused death, destruction and horrifi c suff ering but humanity has
not yet been able to wage a successful collective eff ort to transform
this condition. With universal peace education there is some
hope that we may be able to move toward having a critical mass
that will demand and work for the needed changes. As Cora
Weiss, president and initiator of the Hague Appeal for Peace, has
aptly said:
Th ere are many campaigns that are working on a variety
of issues which must be addressed if this new century is not to
carry forward the legacy of the twentieth century, the most violent
and war-fi lled in history. All these campaigns are needed if we are
to sow seeds for peace and the abolition of war, but none can
succeed without education… Th e Hague Appeal for Peace has
decided that to sustain a long-term change in the thought and
action of future generations… our best contribution would be to
work on peace education (cf. Weiss, in Cabezudo and Reardon
2002, p. 4).
In the Philippines, the Center for Peace Education in Miriam
College and other groups have expressed that educating for
peace is both a practical alternative and an ethical imperative.
Peace Education as Practical Alternative
Educating for peace will give us in the long run the practical
benefi ts that we seek. As stated earlier it is expected to build a
critical mass of people who will demand for and address the
needed personal and structural changes that will transform the
many problems that relate to peace into nonviolent, humane
and ecological alternatives and solutions.
To illustrate, we know that war has been a core institution
of the global security system then and now. It has adversely
aff ected countless generations, considering its human costs
as well as its material and environmental costs. It has also led
to the rationalization of violence in so many aspects of life. It
has given birth to horrendous phenomena such as war-time
rape and sex-slavery, ethnic cleansing and genocide. And yet,
there is widespread belief that war is inevitable.
War is accepted as a legitimate means
to pursue the so-called national interests.
War carries with it a host of other elements:
amassing armaments, increasing military
forces, inventing more and more sophisticated
and destructive weapons, developing
espionage skills and technology, and subordinating
human rights and the use of torture
on enemies, etc.
Peace education challenges the longheld
belief that wars cannot be avoided.
Often this belief is based on an underlying
view that violence is inherent in human
nature. Peace education challenges this
view and encourages people to seek alternatives
to violence and seek ways by which
violent confl ict can be prevented. Political
advocacy of nonviolent resolution of confl
ict is a key element of peace education and
you can just imagine the benefi ts that will
be reaped when this becomes the dominant
mindset and value in our country and in the
world! Th e Philippines still suff er from armed
confl icts and this makes peace all the
more important in our context.
On the micro-level, education on
nonviolent confl ict resolution approaches
(an important aspect of peace education),
such as collaborative problem solving and
mediation, can improve the quality of human
relationships and bring about solutions
that are constructive, fair and helpful
to all parties concerned.
Peace Education is an Ethical Imperative
Educating for peace is an ethical imperative considering the
negation of life and well-being caused by all forms of violence.
Th e ethical systems of the major world faith traditions, humanitarian
ethics and even primal and indigenous spirituality have
articulated principles that inspire the striving for peace. Th ese
ethical principles include the unity and value of life, not only
of human life but also of other life forms in nature; respect for
human dignity; nonviolence; justice; and love as a social ethic.
Th ey are principles that are highly encouraged for actualization
because they are expected to bring us to the common good.
It is for this reason that peace education includes the
study of the shared values of diverse faiths and spiritual traditions,
to show that despite our diversity, we share the same
humanity and the same fundamental aspirations for respect
and acceptance, and for fair treatment.
Schema of Knowledge, Skills and
Attitudes/Values
Th e following schema is an attempt to list the key knowledge
areas, skills, attitudes and values that are integral to peace education.
Th e list is based on a survey of peace education literature
and of key informants/peace educators that was done by the
Center for Peace Education of Miriam College. Th e list is not
exhaustive and is expected to evolve, as peace education practice
and experiences as well as corresponding refl ections and insights
on these experiences increase. Th e diagram is followed
by a brief explanation of each item found in the schema.
Education for Peace: List of Knowledge
Areas, Skills and Attitudes/Values
Knowledge/Content Areas in the
Peace Education Scheme
Some of the knowledge or content areas that are integral to
peace education are:
A Holistic Concept of Peace: It is important that students
understand that peace is not just the absence of direct/physical
violence but also the presence of conditions of wellbeing,
cooperation and just relationships in the human and
ecological spheres. Th is perspective will help them analyze
peace issues in an integrated way.
Confl ict and Violence: Confl icts are a natural part of
person’s social life, but they become problems of violence
depending on the methods of confl ict resolution used.
Students can study the problems of violence in various
levels from the personal to the global and including direct,
structural, socio-cultural and ecological violence. Th ey can
also examine the roots and consequences of violence.
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Fig. 1: Scheme of Knowledge, Skills and Attitudes/Values
Attitude/Values
1. Self-respect
2. Respect for Others
3. Gender Equality
4. Respect for Life/Nonviolence
5. Compassion
6. Global Concern
7. Ecological Concern
8. Cooperation
9. Openness and Tolerance
10. Justice
11. Social Responsibility
12. Positive Vision
Skills
1. Refl ection
2. Critical Th inking and Analysis
3. Decision-Making
4. Imagination
5. Communication
6. Confl ict Resolution
7. Empathy
8. Grouping
Knowledge
1. Holistic Concept of Peace
2. Causes of Confl ict and Violence
3. Some Peaceful Alternatives:
Disarmament
Nonviolence Philosophy and Practice
Confl ict Resolution, Transformation,
Prevention
Human Rights
Human Solidarity
Democratization
Development Based on Justice
Sustainable Development
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Attitudes/Values in the Peace Education Scheme
It is suggested that the following attitudes and values be cultivated:
Self-respect: Having a sense of their own worth and a sense
of pride in their own particular social and cultural background
as well as a sense of their own power and goodness
which will enable them to contribute to positive change.
Respect for Others: Having a sense of the worth and inherent
dignity of other people, including those with social,
religious, cultural and family backgrounds diff erent from
their own.
Respect for Life/Nonviolence: Valuing of human life and
refusal to respond to an adversary or confl ict situation with
violence; preference for nonviolent processes such as collaborative
problem-solving and other positive techniques as
against the use of physical force and weapons.
Gender Equality: Valuing the rights of women to enjoy
equal opportunities with men and to be free from abuse,
exploitation and violence.
Compassion: Sensitivity to the diffi cult conditions and suffering
of other people and acting with deep empathy and
kindness toward those who are marginalized/excluded.
Global Concern: Caring for the whole human community
transcending or going beyond the concern which they have
for their nation or local/ethnic community.
Ecological Concern: Caring for the natural environment,
preference for sustainable living and a simple lifestyle.
Cooperation: Valuing of cooperative processes toward the
pursuit of common goals.
Openness/Tolerance: Openness to the processes of growth
and change as well as willingness to approach and receive
other people’s ideas, beliefs and experiences with a critical
but open mind; respecting the rich diversity of our world’s
spiritual traditions, cultures and forms of expression.
Justice: Acting with a sense of fairness towards others,
upholding the principle of equality (in dignity and rights)
and rejection of all forms of exploitation and oppression.
Social Responsibility: Willingness to take action to contribute
to the shaping of a society characterized by justice,
nonviolence and well-being; sense of responsibility toward
present and future generations.
Positive Vision: Imaging the kind of future they prefer with a
sense of hope and pursuing its realization.
Skills in the Peace Education Scheme
Some of the skills that need to be developed are:
Refl ection: Th e use of refl ective thinking or reasoning,
through which they deepen their understanding of themselves
and their connectedness to others and to the living
earth.
Critical Th inking and Analysis: Ability to approach issues
with an open but critical mind; knowing how to research,
question, evaluate and interpret evidence; ability to recognize
and challenge prejudices and unwarranted claims as
well as change opinions in the face of evidence and rational
arguments.
Decision-making: Ability to analyze problems, develop alternative
solutions, analyze alternative solutions considering
advantages and disadvantages, and having arrived at the
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Some Peaceful Alternatives:
Disarmament – Learners can be introduced to the goal of
abolishing war and reducing global armed forces and armaments.
It is good for them to see the folly of excessive
arms and military expenditures and the logic of re-allocating
resources toward the fulfi llment of people’s basic
needs (e.g. food, housing, health care and education). Th is
a springboard for the exploration of the meaning of true
human security which springs from the fulfi llment of both
basic needs and higher needs of humans (e.g., the exercise
of fundamental freedoms).
Nonviolence – Learners can study the philosophical and
spiritual underpinnings of nonviolence as well as its effi cacy
as a method to eff ect change. Cases of individuals and
groups who have advocated nonviolence as a philosophy
and method can be examined. Some of these are Mahatma
Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Jr., Aung San Suu Kyi, Th ich
Nhat Hanh, Desmond Tutu and Wangari Maathai.
Confl ict Resolution, Transformation and Prevention –
Students can study eff ective ways of resolving confl icts
nonviolently (e.g., collaborative problem-solving) and
how these can be applied into their lives. Th ey can move
on to examine how a confl ict that has been resolved can be
transformed into a situation that is more desirable. Ways to
prevent confl ict can also be explored because as Johan Galtung
has said, like in the medical fi eld it is better to prevent
than “remedy a situation that has gone wrong.”
Human Rights – It is important for learners to have an
integral understanding of human rights and to reject all
forms of repression and discrimination based on beliefs,
race, ethnicity, gender and social class. Th ey should be
encouraged to respect the dignity of all especially the weak
and powerless.
Human Solidarity – Many commonalities bind together
divergent religious, cultural, local and national groups. All
humans have common basic needs and aspirations and a
shared membership in an interdependent human/ global
community. We have only one home (planet earth) and a
common future. Th e major world religions also have
shared values and principles. Students can look at how to
increase inter-religious, inter-cultural and inter-group
trust, empathy, respect and cooperation, as well as discourage
stereotyping and prejudice.
Development Based on Justice – Learners can be made
critically aware of the realities and tragic consequences of
structural violence and how a philosophy of development
based on justice is a preferred alternative. Th ey need to
understand that development is not economic growth alone
but also the equitable sharing of its fruits.
Democratization – It is important for learners to understand
that democracy provides the environment in which
people’s fundamental rights and interests are respected.
Sustainable Development – Learners need to understand
the interdependent relationship between humans and the
natural environment and understand the changes that are
necessary to ensure the well-being of the earth’s ecosystems
such that it can continue to meet future and present needs.
Th ey need to rediscover the wisdom of our indigenous
peoples who have always respected nature.
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preferred decision, ability to prepare a plan for implementation
of the decision.
Imagination: Creating and imagining new paradigms and
new preferred ways of living and relating.
Communication: Listening attentively and with empathy,
as well as the ability to express ideas and needs clearly and
in a non-aggressive way.
Confl ict Resolution: Ability to analyze confl icts in an objective
and systematic way and to suggest a range of nonviolent
solutions. Confl ict resolution skills include appropriate assertiveness,
dialogue, active listening and collaborative problem-
solving. Communication skills are important foundational
skills in confl ict resolution.
Empathy: Th e ability to see the perspective of another person/
group and to feel what that person/group feels. It is a
skill that helps broadening the learners’ own perspectives
especially in searching fair and constructive alternatives.
Grouping: Working cooperatively with one another in order
to achieve common goals. Cooperation and group-building
are facilitated by mutual affi rmation and encouragement
by the members. Th e assumption is that everyone has
something to contribute and is part of the solution.
The Peace Educator
Th e phrase, “the medium is the message”, used in a school
setting, suggests to us that teachers have the power to aff ect the
lives of children and youth. Students often remember the informal
and “hidden” lessons, not from the overt or stated curriculum,
but from the attitudes, values and actions of the teachers
themselves within and outside of the classroom. We now
know that to be more eff ective, the medium must match the
message.
Indeed, peace educators must serve as models for the
qualities and skills they are helping young people to develop in
the peaceable classroom and school. Th is means, fi rst and foremost,
that there is a need for teachers to take the challenge of
personal transformation so that they can be credible agents of
the peace message. Indeed, we have to transform ourselves before
we can expect the learners to make those changes. For instance,
in order to help young people confront their prejudices,
we have to confront our own and commit to changing our
negative attitudes.
What attributes, capacities and skills must a teacher of
peace develop to enable her/him to be an eff ective medium of
the peace message? Th e following attributes are culled and summarized
from the work of Betty Reardon (2001, pp. 137-148),
a globally renowned peace educator:
Th e teacher of peace is a responsible global citizen, an intentional
agent of a culture of peace, a person of vision,
capable of hope and the imaging of positive change. S/he
understands that education should be a means toward
constructive change.
S/he is motivated by service and is actively involved in the
community. A teacher of peace sees himself/herself as a
person responsible to society.
S/he is a life long learner, one who continues to improve one’s
own learning abilities and to keep abreast of the fi eld.
S/he is both a transmitter and transformer of cultures.
While transmitting one’s traditional culture, the teacher
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also has to be critical and refl ective so s/he can also be an
eff ective agent of social and cultural transformation.
S/he is a seeker of mutually enhancing relationships that
nurture peace and a sense of community. For example,
respect for human dignity and human rights should guide
teacher-student relationships and the learning processes.
S/he is gender sensitive and alert to any possibility of
gender bias in self or students. S/he helps both male and
female learners to form positive identifi cation for themselves
and to develop gender sensitivity and gender responsibility
toward others.
A teacher of peace is constructively critical. S/he off ers
criticism not to wound or harm, but to elicit constructive
change.
A teacher of peace intentionally develops the capacity to
care by knowing the learners in their charge as individuals.
Th is enables the teacher to respond to the diff erences in
students’ learning styles as positively as s/he is expected to
respond to other human diff erences. Th e skill of caring is
integral to the peace education process. Caring and supportive
behavior from teachers lets the students know they
are valued.
S/he is an inquirer. S/he poses instructive questions into
the conditions that impede and those that enhance possibilities
for achieving a culture of peace. To be able to conduct
an inquiry into the many issues and goals of peace
education, a teacher of peace needs the skills of elicitation
to draw from the students their own visions and ideas, to
make them delve deeper into their own knowledge and
imagination, and to seek new knowledge. Th e teacher then
is more a raiser of questions than a giver of answers.
S/he has the skills of refl ective learning through which s/he
applies what is learned from teaching to deepen his/her own
understanding of the students and the learning processes.
Th is includes refl ection on or assessment of one’s own abilities
by posing some fundamental questions such as: How
eff ective are our teaching-learning interactions in achieving
our goals? What indicators do I have that students are fi nding
satisfaction and meaning in their learning?
A teacher of peace has the skills of communication and
confl ict resolution. Th ese are essential skills for building
community and peace-making. (Th ese skills are explained
in an earlier chapter.)
S/he practices cooperative learning by encouraging cooperative
learning tasks and discouraging negative competition or
in-group-out-group behavior (exclusion) among students.
A teacher of peace inspires understanding of alternative
possibilities for the future and for a culture of peace. S/he
helps students to plan and act to achieve such a culture.
Th e core questions s/he asks are: What kind of world do
we want? What changes need to be made to achieve it?
What are our special responsibilities to carry out the transformational
process?
In the teacher-training workshops that the Center for Peace
Education has conducted over the last several years in the Philippines,
the teacher-participants were asked to identify the attributes
of someone they have considered as a teacher of peace.
Th e qualities that were most frequently mentioned are:
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Passionate for peace
Compassionate, concerned, kind
Caring, encouraging, understanding
Respects other people
Gentle and non-threatening
Fair, impartial
Has faith in God, inspired by his/her spirituality
Facilitators of learning, rather than sources of authority
Tolerant, open, respectful of the ideas of others
Sensitive to diversity in the classroom, accepts learners as
they are
Open to sharing relevant personal stories
Skilled in eliciting thoughts and posing refl ective questions
Motivated, enthusiastic, inspiring
Joyful, not wanting in humor
Bearers of hope rather than despair
Models of behavior and attitudes that they teach
From the foregoing discussion on the attributes of a peace teacher,
we can glean many similarities between those that are given
by Betty Reardon, an expert and experienced peace educator,
and Filipino teachers who are just beginning in their peace
education journey. It indicates that although we may have different
backgrounds, there are principles and values that we hold
in common when conceptualizing the attributes of a peace teacher.
It is notable how Filipino teachers have often referred
to someone “who has faith in God” or “who is inspired by
her/his spiritual tradition” as an attribute of a peace teacher.
Th ere is also a preponderance of personal qualities listed by
Filipino teachers. Th ese features are indicative of the culture
within which the Filipino teachers live. Despite many diffi culties
and challenges, Filipinos generally keep a hopeful disposition
anchored in their trust in God. Th ey also highly value
interpersonal relationships.
Th e attributes that we have included in this essay are
neither exhaustive nor defi nitive. Th e list can and will grow as
other groups delve deeper into their own concepts of peace,
peace education and a peace teacher. Th e important thing for
us to remember is that it is best that we begin our journey as a
peace educator with our own personal or inner transformation.
As we manifest the attributes, capacities and skills that mark a
teacher of peace, we will fi nd that the young people in our care
will also learn the skills and behaviors modeled by us. Surely,
there are other infl uences in their lives and there are times when
perhaps we feel that teacher-modeling does not work, but the
prospect of not doing what we preach is defi nitely not a better
option. Young people are particularly in search of teachers who
have integrity and credibility. On this we can only agree with
Mahatma Gandhi when he said, “Be the change that you wish
to see in the world”.
A Whole School Approach
To be more eff ective in infusing peace ideas, perspectives and
values into the life of the whole school and even beyond, it is
suggested that a whole school approach be adopted. In a whole
school approach, we try to engage all the learning areas, all the
members of the school community (students, faculty, staff ) and
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the wider community. Th e approach also includes other aspects
of school life such as teaching practices and methods, student
activities, administrative policies, school structures and relationships,
as well as social action for and with the larger community.
A whole school approach is important because the consistent
peace messages and values found in the various aspects of
the school and community will facilitate and reinforce the intended
learnings. Th e social, political and economic context within
which the school fi nds itself may not be conducive and supportive
of the school’s vision-mission but it is precisely the challenge
that a peaceable school must address. Th e peaceable school must
be prepared to be a “counterculture” to the dominant paradigm
and be an initiator and facilitator of needed transformation. Surely
this is a long-term and arduous process but it is a challenge
that needs to be pursued.
A Vision for the Future
Our vision is a more peaceful 21st century, a century that is good
for all humans, Mother Earth and the whole cosmos. Although
the challenges that we face our enormous, we have to learn to
read the signs of the times correctly. We cannot read only the
negative signs because that might lead us to despair. It is important
that we also see the signs of hope such as the growth of social
movements that work for the promotion of peace and justice in
various ways and levels. Th is should increase our confi dence and
resolve to make our own contribution towards our positive vision.
We need more purposive focusing on the goals that count,
and invest in these goals our renewed energy and commitment.
We submit that building a culture of peace is among the
essential goals for today and tomorrow. Human and ecological
survival and well-being, now and in the future, depend on this.
Th erefore, it makes good sense for governments, regional and
international institutions, and all people to work together towards
this vision. In turn, one of the necessary steps to build a
culture of peace is to mobilize education which is at the heart of
personal and social development of a people. We need to introduce
peace education in a more intentional and systematic way
in the formal education system and other learning environments.
Let us meet the future with hope, imagination and the willingness
to forego our old thinking and ways which hinder the blossoming
of a new culture that is more peaceable. Let us educate
and act for peace so that our future will hold the promises that
we seek.
References
Cabezudo, A./Reardon, B. (2002): Learning to abolish war: Teaching toward a
culture of peace. New York.
Coronel-Ferrer, M. (2005): Framework and synthesis of lessons learned in civilsociety
peacebuilding. Quezon City.
Reardon, B. (2001): Education for a culture of peace in gender perspective. Paris.
Loreta Navarro-Castro
born in 1948, is Executive Director of the Center for Peace Education and a Professor
at Miriam College, Quezon City, Philippines. She coordinates a local Peace Education
Network. Her work includes training formal and community educators as well as the
youth towards peace and interfaith understanding. She cooperates with government
and other civil society organizations in support of local peace processes and
mainstreaming
of peace education nationally and globally. She serves as a member in the
following: the Advisory Committee of the Global Campaign for Peace Education and
Pax Christi International and the Peace Education Working Group of the Global
Partnership for the Prevention of Armed Confl ict.
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In animals[edit]
Conflict resolution has also been studied in non-humans, including
dogs, cats, monkeys, snakes, elephants,
and primates.[25] Aggression is more common among relatives and
within a group than between groups. Instead of creating distance
between the individuals, primates tend to be more intimate in the
period after an aggressive incident. These intimacies consist
of grooming and various forms of body contact. Stress responses,
including increased heart rates, usually decrease after these
reconciliatory signals. Different types of primates, as well as many
other species who live in groups, display different types of
conciliatory behavior. Resolving conflicts that threaten the interaction
between individuals in a group is necessary for survival, giving it a
strong evolutionaryvalue.[citation needed] These findings contradict
previous existing theories about the general function of aggression,
i.e. creating space between individuals (first proposed by Konrad
Lorenz), which seems to be more the case in conflicts between
groups than it is within groups.
In addition to research in primates, biologists are beginning to
explore reconciliation in other animals. Until recently, the literature
dealing with reconciliation in non-primates has consisted of anecdotal
observations and very little quantitative data. Although peaceful post-
conflict behavior had been documented going back to the 1960s, it
was not until 1993 that Rowell made the first explicit mention of
reconciliation in feral sheep. Reconciliation has since been
documented in spotted hyenas,[26][27] lions, bottlenose
dolphins,[28] dwarf mongoose, domestic goats,[29] domestic
dogs,[30] and, recently, in red-necked wallabies.[31]
Education[edit]
Universities worldwide offer programs of study pertaining to conflict
research, analysis, and practice. Conrad Grebel University College at
the University of Waterloohas the oldest-running peace and conflict
studies (PACS) program in Canada.[32] PACS can be taken as an
Honors, 4-year general, or 3-year general major, joint major, minor,
and diploma. Grebel also offers an interdisciplinary Master of Peace
and Conflict Studies professional program. The Cornell
University ILR Schoolhouses the Scheinman Institute on Conflict
Resolution, which offers undergraduate, graduate, and professional
training on conflict resolution.[33] It also offers dispute resolution
concentrations for its MILR, JD/MILR, MPS, and MS/PhD graduate
degree programs.[34] At the graduate level, Eastern Mennonite
University's Center for Justice and Peacebuilding offers a Master of
Arts in Conflict Transformation, a dual Master of Divinity/MA in
Conflict Transformation degree, and several graduate
certificates.[35] EMU also offers an accelerated 5-year BA in
Peacebuilding and Development/MA in Conflict Transformation.
Additional graduate programs are offered at Georgetown
University, Johns Hopkins University, Creighton University, the
University of North Carolina at Greensboro, and Trinity College
Dublin.[36]George Mason University’s School for Conflict Analysis
and Resolution offers BA, BS, MS, and PhD degrees in Conflict
Analysis and Resolution, as well as an undergraduate minor, graduate
certificates, and joint degree programs.[37] Nova Southeastern
University also offers a PhD in Conflict Analysis & Resolution, in
both online and on-campus formats.[38]
Conflict resolution is a growing area of interest in UK pedagogy,
with teachers and students both encouraged to learn about
mechanisms that lead to aggressive action and those that lead to
peaceful resolution. The University of Law, one of the oldest
common law training institutions in the world, offers a legal-focused
masters degree in Conflict Resolution as an LL.M. (Conflict
resolution).[39]
Tel Aviv University offers two graduate degree programs in the field
of conflict resolution, including the English-language International
Program in Conflict Resolution and Mediation, allowing students to
learn in a geographic region which is the subject of much research on
international conflict resolution.
The Nelson Mandela Center for Peace & Conflict Resolution at Jamia
Millia Islamia University, New Delhi, is one of the first centers for
peace and conflict resolution to be established at an Indian university.
It offers a two-year full-time MA course in Conflict Analysis and
Peace-Building, as well as a PhD in Conflict and Peace Studies.[40]
Conflict management[edit]
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Republic of the Philippines
National Steering Committee on Women, Peace and Security
Resolution No. 1
ENSURING GENDER-RESPONSIVE CONFLICT MANAGEMENT, CONFLICT
RESOLUTION AND HUMANITARIAN ACTION IN THE CRISIS IN MARAWI
CITY,
LANAO DEL SUR AND THE WHOLE OF MINDANAO
WHEREAS, Republic Act 9710 or the Magna Carta of Women upholds the right of
women to protection and security in emergencies and armed conflict situations, and
recognizes and supports the role of women in conflict-prevention, management,
resolution and peacemaking;
WHEREAS, as Member State of the United Nations (UN), the Philippines is
committed to implement UN Security Council Resolution (UNSCRs) Nos. 1325
(2000), 1820 (2008), 1888 (2009), 1889 (2009), 1960 (2010), 2106 (2013), 2122
(2013), and 2042 (2015) on women, peace and security;
WHEREAS, the Philippines is a State Party to the Convention on the Elimination of
All Forms of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW), and General
Recommendation No. 30 (2013) of the CEDAW Committee provides guidance to
States Parties on legislative, policy and other appropriate measures to ensure full
compliance with their obligations under the Convention to protect, respect and fulfil
women’s human rights conflict and post-conflict situations, and makes suggestions
as to how non-State actors can address women’s rights in conflict-affected areas;
WHEREAS, the Philippines National Action Plan on Women, Peace and Security,
2017-2022, sets specific measures to be implemented by government agencies to
fulfil the country’s national and international obligations to uphold the rights of
women in conflict and post-conflict situations, and mainstream gender in the peace
process within the framework of the Six-Point Peace and Development Agenda of
the Duterte Administration;
WHEREAS, on 23 May 2017, the Maute terrorist group attacked and tried to seize
control over Marawi City, Lanao del Sur – flying the flag of the Islamic State of Iraq
and Syria (ISIS) in several areas, burning down government and private facilities,
and inflicting casualties on the part of Government Forces and the civilian
population;
WHEREAS, the President issued Proclamation No. 216, s. 2017, declaring a state of
martial law and suspending the writ of habeas corpus in the whole of Mindanao on
23 May 2017 for a period not exceeding sixty days;
WHEREAS, as of 06 June 2017, the armed conflict in Marawi City has resulted in
the displacement of 52,774 families or 253,762 individuals.
NOW, THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVEDby the National Steering Committee on
Women, Peace and Security (NAPWPS) that the following shall be observed in the
conflict management, conflict resolution, and implementation of humanitarian action
in the crisis in Marawi City and the whole of Mindanao:
1. Ensure that all persons, especially women, children, the elderly, and persons
with disabilities, affected and displaced by armed conflict are protected from
all forms of gender-based violence, particularly rape, sexual abuse, sexual
harassment, and trafficking, and all other forms of violence in situations of
armed conflict;
2. Provide gender- and culture-sensitive quick response (QR) humanitarian relief
and assistance to displaced women and children, including provisions for food
and non-food items, hygiene and family packages, and segregated latrines;
3. Establish gender-responsive mechanisms and facilities, which include
Women- and Child-Friendly Spaces (WCFS) and Women and Children
Protection Desks, in all evacuation areas and internally displaced persons
(IDP) camps;
4. Provide gender- and culture- sensitive services, such as psychosocial
support, and comprehensive health services, including protection during
pregnancy, for displaced women and girls, including those staying with
relatives and friends;
5. Provide comprehensive gender- and culture-sensitive humanitarian
rehabilitation and recovery program with particular focus on shelter, health,
social health insurance, livelihood, and educational support;
6. Collect age- and sex-disaggregated data on affected population, and identify
groups with specific needs, such as single-headed households, and
unaccompanied and separated girls and boys.
7. Implement gender-responsive protocols and coordinating mechanism to
ensure the physical security of women deployed in conflict areas;
8. Ensure that all camp management agencies and partners have genderbalanced teams
working in the camps or evacuation areas;
9. Adopt a rights- and community-based approach in camp management, with
participation of women, men, girls and boys; and
10.Ensure women’s participation and representation in conflict management,
conflict resolution and peacemaking bodies;
ISSUED, this 07th day of July 2017 in Pasig City.
NATIONAL STEERING COMMITTEE ON WOMEN, PEACE AND SECURITY
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Overview
Successfully mediates conflict between individuals and groups; can hammer out tough
agreements and settle disputes equitably; can find common ground and obtain
cooperation with minimum noise.
Proficiency level
Level 1: Basic Level 2: Level 3: Advanced Level 4: Expert
Intermediate
Identifies situations Successfully Steps up to conflicts; Masterfully defuses
needing attention mediates conflict seeing them as volatile situations
and steps in as between individuals opportunities
mediator and groups
Is objective Is objective in Is unbiased and Is well respected as
situations that trustworthy in a fair and wise
involve personal situations that leader
conflicts of interest involve personal
conflicts of interest
Can promote calm Finds common Hammers out tough Engineers plans to
dialogue and ground and gets agreements and equitably and
cooperation cooperation with settles disputes calmly resolve
minimum noise equitably disputes
Reads situations Moves quickly to Exhibits foresight to
quickly resolve issues to identify and defuse
prevent bitterness conflicts before they
occur
Essential questions
To improve your proficiency, ask yourself the following questions on a regular basis:
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To avoid overdoing conflict management, ask yourself:
Interview questions
Describe for me a couple of instances in which you were the pivotal person to defuse a
volatile situation.
It is difficult to demonstrate the ability to be objective, unbiased, and trustworthy in
situations that involve personal conflicts of interest. Describe a situation in which you
found this most difficult to do.
Think back to a time that showcases your aptitude to engineer a plan to equitably and
calmly resolve a difficult dispute.
Describe two situations in which you exhibited foresight to identify and defuse conflicts
before they occurred.
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INTRODUCTION
Sequel to the variability and dynamism of individual cherished values, core objectives
and dire needs which most times do not always go pari - pasu, conflict occurrences in
organizations like schools becomes aggregately inevitable. Thus, the teacher’s onus as
an inloco-parentis in managing such inevitable conflict becomes grossly unavoidable.
However, for the teacher to possess the disposition to manage such conflicts effectively
in schools, a clear understanding and interpretation of conflict issues are requisite. Such
an understanding is direly needed by the teacher so as to be able to address the given
encumbrances which may be spotted out in the interaction among parties.
There are paradigms for elucidating the causes of those conflict conditions that require
effective management in schools, just as there is cornucopia of avenues available at the
teacher through which conflict within the precinct of schools could be managed. Those
paradigms are what we shall attempt to explore in this paper.
In the classroom and by extension, school precinct, there are certain students-defiant
behaviours that could be tolerated while some are and will remain insufferable, for
example; fighting in the classroom, answering of phone calls in the classroom at the peak
of the lesson, abusing and physically confronting the teacher, stealing, so many to
mention but a few. Although, such conflict causing scenarios could be considered to be
an integral part of every school system, the teacher’s role in preventing or even
ameliorating their occurrences especially the ones that are seen to be internecine remains
pivotal.
Conflict in school is said to occur when one party perceives the action of another party as
encumbering the opportunity for the attainment of a goal. Hence, for conflict to actually
occur in schools, two salient prerequisites must be satisfied, viz; perceived goal
incompatibility and perceived opportunity for interference or blocking Conflict in schools
can be objective or subjective, violent or nonviolent and positive or negative (Schmidt
and Kochan, 1972) in (NUCUP, 2006). But whatever may be the case, the teacher’s
rejoinder to them can either be assertive or cooperative in nature. Also, such school
conflicts may constitute either a prominent debilitating or enchanting effect on the
victims.
The concept of conflict management in schools is perhaps an admission of the reality that
conflict in schools is inevitable, but that not all conflicts can always be resolved;
therefore, what the teacher can do is to manage and regulate them, thus the teacher’s role
as an inloco-parentis. It is also worthy of note to assert that School conflict management
is inclusive of other discrepant variances of conflict management models which are in
most cases at the disposal of the teacher.
In this instance, when we talk about conflict management in school and the role of the
teacher, we simply mean those responses that the teacher makes in order to deal with the
conditions that can encumber the realization of the aggregate objective of the school and
the teacher’s instructional and/or behavioural classroom lesson objective.
What is CONFLICT?
Therefore, for every system like the school to develop, they must deal with conflict
situations decisively and squarely; because conflict enthrones disintegration as it
simultaneously dethrones harmony, trust, love and tranquility. Let also note that conflict
may arise as a result of the inability of two equal or unequal opposing and/or
contradictory ideas or opinions to synergize or harmonize.
The School is an institution that collects, organizes and synthesizes human knowledge to
be transmitted from one generation to the other (Okujagu, 1993) in (Morish, 1973). The
school can also be seen as an artificial social institution which is established for the
conscious management of the process of cultural transmission and social integration
(Okujagu, 1993). This therefore implies that the school as a miniature society cannot be
regarded as a natural institution but a “hand work of man” and if it does not engage in
developing the human capital and social structures of the school, it will experience
defiant and anti-social behaviours (Ohaka, 2011).
The school is the aspect of the society that engages in the character moulding of the child,
development of the knowledge of the child and skill training of the child through
conscious guidance and supervision. The school is a corporate environment where
learning and teaching strives.
The school provides a transformational, theoretical and practical learning experiences for
the child by bringing the child out from his personal beliefs to the ideologies and
experiences of the modern day society. The school also creates better opportunities where
the child can become armed with a broader perspective of life and sundry parts of the
environment (Ibidem, 2011).
The school is the modern day of the society and modern society is a product of the
school. Schools are usually created by the society to maintain, allocate roles, socialize,
differentiate and reform society. The school is very sensitive to the dilemmas,
contradictions and contests in the society, economic, political, ideological, religious, etc
conditions of the society (Okujagu, 1993).
It is not just an ordinary place where students and teachers meet, but an educational
institution with definite goals; a social organization established by the society to
perpetuate its cultural heritage. As an institution, it is not just aware of its social
environment, but seeks to include as many elements of the societal cultures as possible in
the programme of activities of the schools (Achuonye et al, 2003).
The Teacher could be seen as an individual who consciously and meticulously attempts
to cause a much needed transformation in the learning abilities, attitudes and skills of
another individual or group of individuals under his guidance and supervision. A teacher
is one who consciously attempts to mould character, transfer knowledge and develop
desirable skills in another. In fact, the teacher influences expected change in behaviour as
a result of learning experiences.
The teacher guides the students/pupils through planned activities so that they may acquire
richest learning possible from their experiences (Van Dalen & Brittel, 1959). The teacher
also interacts with the students under his/her responsibility in order to bring about the
expected change in the student’s behaviour (Clark in Awotua-Afubuo, 1999).
In the school, the teacher as an inloco-parentis has a pivotal role to play if effective
teaching and learning must take place. He must prepare adequately by arming himself
with the appropriate and available lesson contents, instructional materials and aid in order
to achieve the desirable learning outcome. The teacher must also put himself in the right
temperament suitable for a classroom learning situations.
Usually, the teacher is seeing as an individual who is mostly trained in the arts, science
and theories of teaching. He/she is the one who can guide, motivate and inspire the
learner through a variety of appropriately selected and sequentially arranged learning
experiences towards the achievement of specific goals and objectives of the school for
positive changes in the society. The effectiveness of the educational system relies on his
adequacy, pedigree and devotion to duty (George, 2011). Thus, the effective utilization of
teaching strategies for the sublime academic performance of the students relies on his
professional pedigree and intellectual opulence.
The teacher designs the appropriate learning environment in such a way that the pupils
are restless until they have satisfied their curiosity by interacting with other components
of the instructional system which includes the contents, media, materials, teacher, etc.
The teacher is to help the individual learn how to learn, so that he not only knows the
how and where to obtain needed information, but also develops the habit of enquiry and
be a life-long learner (Achuonye & Ajoku, 2003).
Michael Armstrong (2011) the author of “How to be an Even Better Manager” in his
concrete exposition on how to manage conflict situations in organizations like the school,
proposed that there would be clashes of ideas about tasks and projects among individuals.
He went further to express that in the process of managing the conflict, disagreement
should not be suppressed. For him, to manage such a conflicting situation, it has to be
exposed as that could be the only true process to ensure that the issues that caused the
conflicts in the organization are explored and resolved.
One salient and indefatigable idea in school conflict management just as Armstrong
(2011) will put it, is to “smooth out” differences amongst conflicting parties and then,
emphasize the common ground. In school conflict management, the school constituents
are usually wheedled to peacefully and harmoniously co-exist by eschewing strife,
rancor, bickering, violence, pandemonium, acrimony and even violence; there is a free
movement and exchange of ideas, information and messages.
In the school like every other institution in the contemporary society, the
institutionalization of conflict management approaches remains sacrosanct since conflict
is inherently inevitable. Still on conflict management, Armstrong (2011) asserted that;
“new or modified ideas, insights, approaches and solutions can be generated by a joint re-
examination of the different points of view as long as this is based on an objective and
rational exchange of information and ideas”.
Like the other microcosms of the society, there are cornucopias of variables or natural
and artificial tendencies that usually culminate into conflict in schools. But we shall
attempt to streamline our scope to those ones that causes conflict between students,
teachers and teachers and students alike.
It is worthy of note to affirm that what may lead to conflict between parties may not
cause conflict in other miniature societies. This may be relatively linked to the locality,
the individual themselves, the interest they seek to protect personally and the goals they
all pursue at their disparate quotidian endeavours. For instance; in the family what may
cause conflict could be the blatant refusal of the first son to equitably distribute the
legacies bequeathed to them by their demised father. While in the school, the quest to
become a class monitor between two students or the struggle between two teachers over
who becomes the next principal/headmistress/head master/H.O.D can be a conflict
causing factor.
Where any modicum of anticipated threats of conflict does not abound in the school, the
student tends to learn and move freely without any phobia of anxiety. They freely express
themselves and participate actively in the class.
- It brings about a clement environmental condition for effective learning and teaching to
take place.
- It helps to establish and maintain peaceful and harmonious co-existence between the
human resources of the school.
- It brings about the effective and efficient utilization of the limited/scarce resources of
the school.
- It brings integrity to the school, paints it in a positive image in the larger society and
then rightly positions and re-positions it in the committee of schools.
- It contributes in the improvement of the school’s aggregate productivity.
- It leads to the rise in the demand of the products and services of the school.
- It accentuates the level of peaceful and harmonious co-existence between the
constituents of the school community.
- It helps to restore and maintain peace and tranquility in the school.
- It promotes political stability
- It gives the school the requisite disposition to meet up with her social corporate
responsibility.
Let me begin by alternatively hypothesizing that, the onus of the teacher in school
conflict containment is critical and at the same time, pivotal. The reasons for my avowal
are not far-fetched but copious as the teacher could be considered to be the centre piece
of conflict management in schools.
There are five momentous aspects in the behaviour of the teacher through which the
teacher can influence group dynamics in the school and also effectively and efficiently
discharge his onus of conflict management. Such pertinent areas may include;
- Maintaining good classroom structure which could be either cooperative or competitive;
- The nature of leadership which the teacher chooses to adopt and such leadership pattern
could either be participative, directive or permissive;
- How compatible the goals of the teacher and that of the students are;
- The level of inter-personal relationship which may involve the students-teachers
patterns of communication and attraction within the group and
- The kind of sub-groups within the group size and composition (Yelon and Weinstein,
1977:337 cited in Awotua-Efebo, 1999:293).
When a teacher becomes conscious of these important areas and works assiduously to
institutionalize them in his quotidian school activity, he invariably works against possible
conflict causing occurrences.
In school conflict management situations where the teacher will have to play the role of a
third party, he must avoid the temptation of supporting or appearing to be supporting
either of those in contention. Rather, the teacher should adopt a counseling approach
which involves;
The teachers by virtue of their position as inloco-parentis and in a bid to contain conflict
should have control in order to create conducive teaching/learning environment devoid of
rancor and disagreements. That is, the teacher should judiciously administer rewards and
punishments in an attempt to manage conflict and maintain the type of environment most
conducive so as to realize the classroom instructional objectives, aims and objectives of
the school and the general goals of education. Every student must be made to twig those
control measures which involves the teacher’s “dos” and don’ts and their consequences
(Awotua-Efobo, 1993:298).
As part of school conflict management strategies for teachers using realistic control
measures, Awotua-Efebo (1999) quoting Perterson (1960) adduced the following key
points on classroom control;
- Be businesslike
- Be prepared
- Keep lesson and presentation interesting
- Know when to overlook
- Know when to assert oneself
- Do not bluff
- Be consistent
- Be fair
- Do not pretend that you know everything
- Get to know your students
- Keep your sense of humour
The personality traits or psychological makeup of the teacher should be perceived as the
single most pertinent variable in school conflict management as the peaceful and affable
quotidian disposition of the teacher in the school environment also affects the student’s
dispositions to conflict. That is, the teacher’s ability to develop an impeccable
personality, exhibit axiomatic and legitimate professional competences, communicate his
thoughts and ideas in a decipherable approach, create a harmonious interpersonal
relationship and meticulously use the available time at his disposal contributes
fundamentally towards the containment and control of chaotic occurrences in the
classroom learning environment and by extension, the school precinct.
Also, the teacher’s ability to perform his role of managing conflict in school should
commence by raising and resolving the fundamental question of how the teachers
themselves perceive the conflict in relation to how the other parties to the conflict also
perceives the conflict. Hence, working in tandem with the opinion of McGregor (1960) as
was alluded to in Weihrich et al, (2010), such viewpoint, must require some relative
thought that are anchored on the perception of human nature.
In view of the insatiability of human wants and since their continuous quest to attend to
these needs at all cost may usually culminate in conflict in schools it behooves on the
teacher to deploy his requisite motivation theories such as that of Abraham Maslow’s
hierarchy of needs theory (1986), Frederick Herzberg’s hygiene theory (two-factor)
(1959), Douglas McGregor’s theory X and Y (1960), Victor H. Vroom’s expectancy
theory (1964), Bandura, et al (1954). Thus, just as Weihrich et al, (2010) will affirm, by
deploying those theories of motivation which he/she (the teacher) hopes will lead to the
satisfaction of those drives and desires, the teacher has invariably induced into the student
the utmost need to eschew those behaviours that could result into conflict thereby,
making the student act in a more acceptable and desirable manner.
Similarly, the teacher in a conscious effort to carry out his/her role of conflict
containment and regulation, must also provide a conducive learning and teaching
atmosphere that will be devoid of disagreements, pandemonium, rancor and even strive
by clearly demonstrating a clear understanding of the concept of motivation and
effectively applying its core principles especially as it pertains to behaviour modification.
Also, another way through which the teacher can manage conflict in the school is through
the use of the equity theory of motivation as propounded by J. Stacy Adams, (1963)
which is referred to as an individual’s subjective judgment about the fairness of the
reward he or she gets, relative to the inputs (which includes factors such as effort,
experience, and education), in comparism with the reward of others (Weihrich,
2011:331). This approach is relatively recommendable for the teacher who is playing the
role of a conflict manager. This is because; it makes for a balance of the outcomes/inputs
relationship for one student in comparison with that of another student and that if the
conflicting students continue to perceive the reward for their classroom performance and
active participation in school activities/projects as been inequitable or not being evenly
distributed, they will tend to be rancorous in behaviour which will in turn, culminate in a
social unrest.
Since in the classroom or school, a breakdown of law and order mostly arises as a result
of ineffective classroom management and poor managerial control measures respectively,
the teacher’s role in this regard is to keep the classroom discussions lively, relatively
motivated and all inclusive – all should be carried along. To also contain conflict, it is
also necessary for the teacher to be acquainted with his/her students in terms of what
Awotuo-Efebo (1999) would regard as their cognitive level (vocabulary understanding
level), open-mindedness (willingness to accept ideas), information and techniques that is
most likely to gain their attention. Hence, taking their minds away from thoughts that
could bring about conflict.
By way of managing conflict in schools, the teacher could also use reinforcement and
punishment. Reinforcement according to Slavin (2000) in Vipene (2005), is any
consequences that strengthens a behaviour” and those ‘reinforcers’ could either be
negative or positive. While punishment according to Akinade (2001) in Vipene (2005) is
an aversive event or stimulus that reduces or checks the continuation of emission or a
preceding response” and they include; timeout, response cost and extinction which must
ameliorate conflict occurrences and reverse unwanted conflict causing behaviours.
Like some other miniature societies, the teacher in an attempt to manage conflict in
school especially as it pertains to him and fellow teachers can also adopt the following
Western Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) strategies. These methods under discuss
and as has been highlighted by Ojiji (2005) may include the following;
- Problem-solving
- Compromising
- Accommodation
Shedrack (2006) also highlighted certain suggestions which could also be added to the
list. They are presented as follows;
- Communication
- Collaboration
- Negotiation
- Conciliation
- Mediation
- Arbitration
- Adjudication
The teacher is meant to be seen applying those conflict resolution strategies in his/her
personal life and also instruct and guide the students as they strive to practice conflict
prevarication at all cost. More so, since in the school, what one student or group of
students perceives as having the potency to create conflict may at the same time, lack the
strength to cause conflict for another, the teacher can also make necessary reference to
some universal cultural norms and values. This is so because, culture which is regarded
as a common good, and as a pertinent indispensable and independent variable can also
ascertain the most preferable conflict handling style for the teacher.
CONCLUSION
Right from the inception of this literary piece, our dire desire has been to discuss conflict
as it pertains to school environment and also explicate those strategies the teacher can
deploy so as to be able to actually handle the conflict. However, from the above
exposition, one could actually assert that relatively that desire has been satisfied.
Al though, the teacher is considered as not being the only individual solely saddled with
the onus of school conflict management, his momentous role remains key. Considering
this onerous task placed on the teacher, he should be supported, encouraged and
complemented by both the school management and all other agents of socialization.
Even though conflict is most times regarded as being positive, its adverse effects still
remains insufferable, excruciating, unbearable and even debilitating. So, the teacher
should also channel his watch light to that flashpoint where conflict may abound.
Both students and teachers must always look in wards in situations of conflict for a
proper understanding and judicious utilization of the appropriate conflict management
strategies.
In all, the teacher as an inloco-parentis has a central role to play as far as school conflict
is concerned and to attain this unprecedented feet, the teacher must seek to understand,
know how to apply the relevant conflict management theories to the school situation and
the rationale behind the various conflict management spectrums especially as it pertains
to the school precinct and classroom learning environments.
Children find themselves in precarious situations that often lead to escalated conflict with
their peers. Conflicts arise in the classroom, lunchroom, library, school bus, playground,
while standing in line, and any place where kids gather. During adolescence into the
developing stages of puberty, many children act out their emotions in the form of teasing,
gossip, and physical aggression. If left unchecked, these same behavioral patterns will
transfer over into the teenage years, where stiffer competition exists among peer groups.
The inability to resolve conflict without resorting violence is symptomatic of youth’s
inability to handle confrontation. Teaching youth how to resolve conflict in a peaceful
way can help reduce incidents of violence and criminal mischief. Conflict resolution
education aims to make that a reality.
Educators have identified four conflict resolution strategies that can be used in a variety
of school-based settings. These four conflict resolution strategies include peer mediation,
process curriculum, peaceable classrooms, and peaceable schools. All four approaches
provide youth with the necessary tools to help cope with conflict. Educators can work
with their local school district to determine which approach to use for the best results.
Many experts assert that the youth will learn to recognize and resolve problems before
they escalate.Many schools and communities have adopted the peer mediation approach
to teaching conflict resolution. Under this approach, trained mediators work with their
peers to resolve conflict. Mediation programs aim to reduce traditional use of
punishment, such as suspension, detention, and expulsion. Peer mediation programs have
proven effective in most cases involving conflict turned violent. As a result, these
programs have become highly valued among teachers.
Teachers also have the option of devoting a separate course, or curriculum, to the
principles and processes of conflict resolution. The process curriculum approach aims to
teach kids how to solve disputes by helping them envision scenarios that could occur in
the future. This approach introduces ways to solve problems before they arise. The same
applies for the peaceable classroom approach, except that it integrates conflict resolution
into the daily curriculum and overall management of the classroom. The peaceable
classroom approach reinforces cooperative behavior and encourages the acceptance of
diversity. It also teaches caring and effective communication.
Schools that have adopted the peaceable classroom approach typically have the entire
school involved the process. In fact, many schools have adopted the peaceable school
approach, which incorporates the above three approaches. A peaceable school creates an
environment where everyone works together toward conflict resolution, including
students, teachers, and administrators. The peaceable school approach ensures that the
entire school remains watchful of possible conflicts.
The aforementioned conflict resolution programs have helped schools, communities, and
juvenile justice settings improve their overall climate. Many institutions have reported a
reduction in disruptive and violent behavior, chronic school absences, and disciplinary
referrals and suspensions. These conflict resolution programs have also given the young
increased self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-respect. Adults play an important part in
making sure kids exercise their newly found conflict resolution skills. Therefore, it
remains vitally important for school personnel to set an example. All of these programs
aim to keep both children and adults in line without resulting to violence.
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1. Both students agree not to interrupt or name call, and to work to solve the conflict.
2. One person tells his or her side of the story, using "I messages."
3. The other person restates what the problem is for the first person. Repeat steps one
and two for the other person.
4. Both people suggest possible solutions through brainstorming.
5. Both sides agree on a resolution. This process can be simplified according to level of
maturity. For example, when working with younger children, instead of having them
restate the other person's position, you may ask them if they understand what the
other has said. The agreement needs to be specific about who will do what, when,
where, and with whom. Without these details it is unlikely that the solution will be
carried out. Also, the agreement needs to be balanced. Both people need to share the
responsibility to make the agreement work. The agreement should also be one that
both sides can carry out, and the problem must be solved effectively. The teacher, as
the main person to whom children turn with problems, has the responsibility for
educating them in positive conflict resolution. One way to aid in this process is by
showcasing conflicts. With the consent of the students, bring their problem up in
front of the class and work it through. Each classroom can have a "Quiet Corner"
where children go to resolve their conflicts. It should be a place removed from the
class, with easy-to-read instructions posted on the wall.
Before taking their problem to the quiet corner, students must ask the teacher's
permission and briefly explain their conflict.
Furthermore, students must state their solution to the teacher before rejoining the class.
This allows the teacher to make sure that the process is carried out and that the solution is
workable.
SCHOOLYARD HELPERS
Another suggestion of the Community Board Program is to use conflict managers in the
schoolyard. Conflict managers are students, trained in the resolution process, who offer
help, which students can either reject or accept. They do not solve the problems but rather
act as a neutral third party. By redirecting the disputants' attention to this neutral party,
anger can more easily be diffused. It is important to give students a big role in conflict
resolution. They will have the most profound impact on their generation; we are just there
to lead them in the right direction. Luckily, I am part of a successful conflict resolution
program. Shelter Bay Public School in Meadowvale is one of a handful of schools in
Ontario with such programs. Under the leadership of Marilyn Rathke, Shelter Bay has
established both a conflict managers program and an in-school conflict resolution
program. In small groups, students are exposed to activities that require co-operation and
effective communication. One of the most important ways to avoid conflict is through
effective social skills. This may be as simple as learning to ask for something nicely or
waiting your turn to speak, but the rewards are endless.
Finding students who experience difficulties in the classroom, teachers reward their
positive behavior by giving them time to share their success with Mrs. Rathke. This
serves to improve self-esteem by giving these children the attention and reinforcing the
messages that they need to learn. The conflict managers are selected from grades four and
five, to ensure the continuation of the program from year to year. They are nominated by
their classmates but retain the option of saying yes or no, since those selected to be
conflict managers should really want to be there.
They receive training in conflict resolution and must pass a test to qualify for the
position. These students have been very effective in aiding conflict resolution among
their peers.
Students are glad they don't have to take their problems to a teacher and that they are
trusted to work their problems out on their own. This new responsibility has given
students a vested interest in the program and has reduced conflicts. It really does work.
PEACE IN THE SCHOOLYARD
It's 10:15 a.m. and the students of Shelter Bay Public School are pouring out onto the
playground. Two figures stand out from the rest. Overtopping their jackets these grade
five students proudly display their uniform; a black and white T-shirt with the words
"Conflict Manager" on the front and back. It is their job to help settle any conflict that
may arise in the schoolyard. Their chance has come. Two students have just begun to
argue and one of them is in tears. The Conflict Managers question both students and
determine that one has hit the other--but also that the child who was hit had called the
other child names. They both express feelings of hurt and anger and demand an apology.
The Conflict Managers' job has been made simple by one fact: both students wish to
solve the problem. By listening to one another describe their feelings of hurt, they are
better able to understand one another and why what they did was wrong. Both students
apologize and agree not to hurt each other in the future. The Conflict Managers move on.
It is not long before another argument breaks out. This time, one student is accusing
another student of stealing Pogs, part of a popular schoolyard game. The grade four
student had dropped his Pogs by accident, and in the process of picking them up had seen
the other child pick some up and put them in his pocket. When he had asked for them
back, the boy denied taking them. The boy did have Pogs in his pocket, but far more than
he had been accused of stealing. The Conflict Managers, in their role of mediator, are
unable to secure an agreement between the two students. In this case the Conflict
Managers feel that it is best to inform a teacher of the situation, and both students agree.
This is a good example of some of the limits placed on Conflict Managers. They are not
in a position to judge other students, nor are they able to force students to solve the
problem.
Just as recess is about to end, one further conflict breaks out on the soccer field. The
soccer game has just been interrupted by one of the students who has been watching the
game; she has taken the ball and refuses to give it back. As the Conflict Managers arrive,
the student is attempting to join in the game. The other students refuse to play. When
asked why she took the ball, she states that she is never picked to play soccer and that all
she wants to do is join in. The other students express that they would have let her play if
she had asked rather than just taken the ball, but now it's too late. She refuses to give the
ball back until she is allowed to play. The Conflict Managers ask the group if they
wouldn't mind letting the girl play at afternoon recess. They agree. In return, the girl
gives the ball back and apologizes to her friends. As the Conflict Managers leave, they
overhear some of the students apologizing for not including the girl. The bell sounds and
the students of Shelter Bay file back into the school. The Conflict Managers have done
their job and return to being ordinary students--until they're needed again.
Conflict is a part of life. By teaching young people how to respond to conflict in a
constructive manner, we are giving them the power and the knowledge to shape the
future. The Conflict Manager program is just one example of how children can make a
difference. Conflict doesn't have to be negative. It offers a chance for us to learn about
others and about ourselves. Embrace it.
CULTIVATING PEACE ON THE PLAYGROUND
As both urban and suburban schools fill to capacity we are forced to assess the quality of
our childrens' experiences both inside and outside of the classroom. Conflict resolution,
through mediation and peer management, has been successful in modifying aggressive
behavior in the classroom, and to some extent, the playground. However, more can be
done. Some schools have already concluded that the environment must play a key role in
conflict resolution. By naturalizing school playgrounds, each child, regardless of his or
her interests, will be able to find a place to belong.
Not every child takes comfort in large group activities such as baseball or tag. In fact, by
giving students no other opportunity to socialize on the playground, we are creating a
situation where bullying and conflict are most likely to thrive. Thearchitects of the
modern playground appear to have given little thought to this situation. More often than
not, there is inadequate space provided for children to sit or get out of the sun. We cannot
assume that the schoolyard experience is positive for everyone, just as we cannot
presume to know what each child wants.
Shelter Bay Public School near Mississauga is showing what communities and schools
can do to correct this problem. The school has embarked on a plan to create a more
natural and healthy environment. The staff, parents, and students planted trees and
flowers and constructed alternative play areas. While this is only a start, the benefits can
already be seen. These areas are being used and they are a source of great pride for
Shelter Bay students. With a little hard work and a vision, we can make a difference.
FOOTNOTES:
(f.1) Naomi Drew. Learning the Skills of Peacemaking. California: Jalmar Press, 1987.
(f.2) Gail Sadalla, Meg Holmberg, and Jim Halligan. Conflict Resolution: An Elementary
School Curriculum. San Francisco: The Community Board Program, Inc., 1990.
Caitlin McVean is a graduate of political science and peace and conflict studies at the
University of Toronto. She is entering teaching college in Ottawa in the fall.
http://peacemagazine.org/archive/v11n4p24.htm
Edna C. Olive
We should not have to settle all conflict situations in our groups - only those which fall
through the cracks of our better programming. What can we learn from schools which
implement “better hygiene” principles?
Too many of our young people are caught up in conflicts every day that they do not know
how to manage teasing, jealousy and physical aggression. Juvenile delinquency and
violence are symptoms of youth’s inability to manage conflict in their lives. Teaching
youth how to manage conflict in a productive way can help reduce incidents of violent
behavior. Conflict resolution education is a beneficial component of a comprehensive
violence prevention and intervention program in schools and communities.
1. Peer Mediation,
2. Process Curriculum,
3. Peaceable Classrooms, and
4. Peaceable Schools.
In all four approaches, conflict resolution education is viewed as giving youth nonviolent
tools to deal with daily conflicts that can lead to self-destructive and violent behaviors. It
is up to each local school district to decide how conflict resolution education will be
integrated into its overall educational environment. The expectation is that when youth
learn to recognize and constructively address what takes place before conflict or
differences lead to violence, the incidence and intensity of that situation will diminish.
The program examples provided below empower young people with the processes and
skills of conflict resolution. However, youth need to know that conflict resolution does
not take precedence over adult responsibility to provide the final word in a variety of
circumstances or situations. Conflict resolution has a place in the home, school, and
community, but it can only supplement, not supplant, adult authority.
One Albuquerque elementary school principal reported, “We were having 100 to 150
fights every month on the playground before we started the New Mexico Center for
Dispute Resolution's Mediation in the Schools Program. By the end of the school year,
we were having maybe 10 (fights).” Other elementary schools using the same Peer
Mediation approach to conflict resolution education reported that playground fighting had
been reduced to such an extent that peer mediators found themselves out of a job.
In a North Carolina middle school with more than 700 students, conflict resolution
education was initiated. The school used the Peace Foundation's Fighting
Fair curriculum and a combination of components from various conflict resolution
projects. After a school year, in-school suspensions decreased from 52 to 30 incidents (a
42-percent decrease), and out-of-school suspensions decreased from 40 incidents to 1 (a
97-percent decrease).
The effective conflict resolution education programs highlighted above have helped to
improve the climate in school, community and juvenile justice settings by reducing the
number of disruptive and violent acts in these settings; by decreasing the number of
chronic school absences due to a fear of violence; by reducing the number of disciplinary
referrals and suspensions; by increasing academic instruction during the school day; and
by increasing the self-esteem and self-respect, as well as the personal responsibility and
self-discipline of the young people involved in these programs.
Young people cannot be expected to promote and encourage the peaceful resolution of
conflicts if they do not see conflict resolution principles and strategies being modeled by
adults in all areas of their lives, such as in business, sports, entertainment, and personal
relationships. Adults play a part in making the environment more peaceful by practicing
nonviolent conflict resolution when minor or major disputes arise in their daily lives.
https://www.cyc-net.org/cyc-online/cycol-0306-conflict.html
Peaceful Playground
These are the 5 principles of Peaceful Playground.
Principle #1
Well-marked game lines and boundaries are a must. They serve as a motivating reminder
to the students that those marks represent a fun activity. No one has to waste time asking
themselves, "What shall we do now?" especially if there is a variety of games marked all
around the playground, both on the blacktop and in the grassy areas. With so many
choices, children have fewer conflicts and are spread more evenly in the playing area. It
means that children wait in line less and play more. When they know they will be getting
their turn quickly, there is less reason to argue over rules. Also the colorful shapes
provide a more appealing, almost amusement park, look to the surroundings. There is the
expense of the paint and labor to consider. In most schools where the Peaceful
Playgrounds Program has been used, community members and parent groups such as
PTA, PTO, high school leadership groups, and Boy/Girl Scout troops have donated paint
and labor. They work together with district maintenance crews to organize "painting
parties" as a community service project. Blueprints for the entire layout are available in
the companion Primary Blueprint. A complete set of rules for each game can be found in
the Activities Guide.
Principle #2
The toughest part of playground supervision is solving disputes between angry
participants. The program philosophy is that a consistent set of rules eliminates the
playground arguments, which can be attributed to rule infractions. The rules aren't
difficult, but they must be introduced by teachers and inter-actively taught to students
through instruction, use, and modeling. Each teacher makes it a point to cover the rules of
each game and enforces them to the letter. There can be no exceptions, e.g. do-overs,"
"freebies," "seconds," "no-takes," etc. The playground supervisors should also take part
in the instruction of the rules and the importance of consistency. Substitute supervisors
should be given an easy-to read copy of the rules. lf Mrs. Smith's students play by the
same set of tetherball rules as Mr. Franco's class, the students shouldn't have any
argument about rules. An in-service at the beginning of school can prepare the staff for
their role in teaching the playground game rules and insure consistency. lIt has to be a
team effort-, and when implemented properly, ultimately everybody wins.
Principle #3
Appropriate social interaction requires that students are taught skills for dealing with
playground problems and disagreements. Ideally, if a problem occurs, a child doesn't
have to go to an adult to resolve it. Teaching students how to solve problems can be
em6edded in many curricular units and part of a school's social skills curriculum. The
Peaceful Playground Program is designed to help youngsters develop negotiating and
communication skills that will serve them in adulthood. Rather than having school yard
supervisors intercede in playground conflicts, pupils learn to handle the matters
themselves' For most situations students know that there are three options to resolve
conflicts, WALK, TALK, PAPER-SCISSORS-ROCK. Walk away from the problem; 2)
Talk together with whom they are having a problem until they reach an agreement; or 3)
Use Paper, Scissors, Rock Game. These options work well with disputes over rule
infractions.
lf the strife is the result of name calling, teasing or hitting, the pupils involved are asked
to leave their play area and reminded that they must "work out" their disagreement before
returning to the activity.
Principle #4
Most educators agree that books, paper and pencils are necessary equipment for
successful academic instruction. The playground, too, requires appropriate equipment for
successful game participation. A central check-out system with one person in charge of
equipment check-out and check-in is the most desirable . Distributing equipment from
each classroom is not as effective and results in more loss. A central person can monitor
the check-out and retrieval as well as the inventory and maintenance of equipment.
An air pump should be in the equipment room so balls can be properly inflated and
quickly distributed. A general rule of thumb is that there should be a minimum of one
piece of equipment for every ten students on the playground at any given time. The life
expectancy of a playground ball, if it is used correctly, is one year, and Therefore, should
be budgeted for and replaced accordingly.
Principle #5
It is especially important that the Peaceful Playgrounds Program is implemented school-
wide to insure success. Each staff member should understand and support the principles
outlined. Not only should teachers hold students responsible for playing by a consistent
set of rules, they also need to hold students accountable for handling their playground
problems by choosing from one of the three options. If a staff member starts settling
conflicts for students, soon students believe their role in handling conflicts is limited or
nonexistent, so they fall back into the habit of whining and tattling to the supervisors.
Being able to play cooperatively empowers children and teaches them to work
cooperatively in the classroom. In an age when violence in schools is too often on the
front page of newspapers administrators need to look at new strategies for more peaceful
playgrounds. This program works to head off problems early. It also instills student
responsibility and conflict resolution skills that transcend the playground to the
classroom, the home, and the community.
Rutherford
https://stillwaterschools.org/schools/elementary-schools/rutherford-
elementary/programs/peaceful-playground
CONFLICT RESOLUTION
There are three basic conflict resolution models which can be used successfully in
isolation, or they can be combined to create a model specific to a school:
1. In-class Model
A self-contained classroom where conflict resolution strategies are used. They are not
used throughout the school because the school has not "bought" into it.
2. School-wide Model
The complete school addresses conflicts via conflict resolution strategies. Teachers in
halls/etc. can approach any student conflict and will be able to interact using conflict
resolution strategies because all students know how the system operates. Parents are often
involved as well.
3. Community-wide Model
Students are taught concepts such as due process, the rights and responsibilities of
individuals, how problems are resolved in courts, etc. Parents are highly involved, as are
other community members.
Which model to use depends upon local needs. If most of the staff is in agreement but the
community is not, then it is wise to start with a school-wide model. If the staff is not
supportive, then start with the in-class model.
1. Avoidance
2. Confrontation
3. Problem-solving
Active Listeners:
1. Listen politely
2. Ask questions for clarification
3. Repeat what was said in your own words
4. Summarize
5. Acknowledge speakers point of view, feelings, etc.
Problem-Solving:
how it works,
given time for practice in various role-playing situations,
reinforcement of what was taught, and
the importance of consistency
CONFLICT RESOLUTION
STEP #1:
Person #1: TELL YOUR SIDE of the story
Facts
Describe WHAT happened...NOT WHY it happened
Use "I" statements
Be respectful
consequences
checking back to be sure the solution works
Life-Space Interview
Clarify
Reality
IF Next phase of
STEP 7 |__ --- Motivation
UNREALISTIC the timeline
Options
Consequences
Implement
The timeline is
|__ IF REALISTIC --- Follow through
continued
Evaluate
STEP 8 CLOSURE
Combined with a
MONITORING BEHAVIOR
Any policy that is implemented needs to be monitored. Monitoring will take many forms:
A sample monitoring form is on the next page. It assumes that many of the strategies will
have been used to both address the problem and to find a positive solution. These notes
are kept by the teacher. If the principal, or parents are involved, they also get copies. This
way everyone involved is aware of what is going on. This type of system is useful
because over time a specific student's file can be pulled and patterns can be looked for. If
patterns are found, then pro-active strategies can be developed to help that student learn
what "triggers" him.
2. Monitoring information going home
Some information does not have to go home, others must. Often this is student and/or
situational dependent.
3. Monitoring the overall success of the policy
In order to see if what is being implemented works, there needs to be a monitoring
component. This is often built into the Action Plans.
4. Monitoring changes in teacher/student/administrator/etc. behaviors
Staff meetings are great places to have a "social" component where problems with the
system are discussed and alterations suggested.
NAME: NAME:
Date: Date:
This student was: This student was:
Signed: Signed:
MEETING: MEETING:
Students(s) Teacher Principal Students(s) Teacher Principal
Parent(s) Other(s): Parent(s) Other(s):
What each person involved is: What each person involved is:
GOING TO DO: GOING TO DO:
BY WHEN: BY WHEN:
OTHER? OTHER?
CLOSURE: CLOSURE:
Personal Growth
Student: Date:
Student's Signature:
Parent's Signature:
COMMENTS:
Scenarios....
STUDENT - TO - STUDENT:
In the morning, the bus driver brings in two students (to classroom teacher). Says
they were fighting on the bus. Didn't see what started it. Concerned about the
violent verbal and physical behavior of Sally/Sam.
Denise/Dwayne:
{cocky...mouthy towards Sally/Sam...when S says something, D would respond in a
"smart-ass" way}
Sally/Sam:
{extremely distraught...refuses to let D person talk...obviously mad at what happened...}
S claims:
1. S claims D pulled a knife and jabbed it several times at S.
2. S claims it's a real knife.
3. S threatens to tell mother.
D claims:
1. It's not a real knife, but a toy one {can't produce it as evidence}
2. Doesn't care if S tells the "whole world"
Additional information:
STUDENT - TO - ADULT:
A student (Shirley age 16) says she has a headache and wants to skip the last two
classes of the day. As you {a teacher or support worker} come into the room, a
teacher, or support worker, is already arguing with Shirley. Shirley says she wants
to go home, the teacher/support worker is saying she can't. There are at the stage of
the arugment where the teacher/support worker is going to send Shirley to the
office. You are 99% certain Shirley does not have a headache and is 'just trying to
skip school.'
2. How can the teacher/support worker who is arguing with Shirley "get out of the
situation" they are in?
3. Other scenarios?????
ADULT - TO - ADULT:
A case conference is being held to discuss what should be done with Barry, a 15 year
old student. He is constantly in trouble, skipping classes, not doing homework, being
disruptive in class, and so on. Present at the case conference are: principal, Barry's
teachers, counsellor, and a support staff member who interacts on a regular basis
with Barry. Two of the adults are arguing about what to do with Barry. One person
wants him suspended, the other says suspensions don't work. Their argument is
getting heated.
1. Barry IS disruptive in the class, in the halls, and outside.
2. When Barry is away, the class is much 'quieter'.
3. What has been 'done for Barry' to date includes:
in-school suspensions;
a 5-day suspension;
parents have been in several times, always supportative;
Barry has been 'talked to' many times by teachers, support staff, principal;
the principal, and teachers have tried to councel Barry, to no avail;
Barry says he wants to graduate;
Barry has refused counselling;
4. The teacher who wants Barry suspended has had enough. He/she feels the school has
done everything for Barry and it's time to focus on the needs of other students. The other
person in the argument disagrees.
One of our primary responsibilities as teachers is to help our students learn. It is difficult
for learning to take place in chaotic environments. Subsequently, we are challenged daily
to create and maintain a positive, productive classroom atmosphere conducive to
learning. On any given day, this can be quite a challenge. In our attempts to face this
challenge, we find ourselves making common classroom behavior management mistakes.
This article is designed to presents some of these common mistakes followed by
suggestions as to what we should do instead. The mistakes presented are committed
frequently, at many grade levels and in all types of learning environments. Each
suggestion is relatively easy to implement and useful for all types of learners.
We have based our suggestions on several assumptions and beliefs. First and foremost,
teachers have considerable influence over student behavior. This is particularly true if
interventions begin early and are supported at home. Next, most student misbehaviors are
learned and occur for a reason. It is our job to determine those reasons and teach
appropriate behaviors to replace those misbehaviors. We believe that prevention is the
most effective form of behavior management. That is, the most efficient way to eliminate
misbehaviors is to prevent their occurrence or escalation from the beginning. Using a
proactive approach also allows us to focus more on teaching appropriate behaviors rather
than eliminating negative behaviors. Our experience tells us that management systems
should be flexible enough to meet the changing needs of our classrooms. Finally,
students, parents, and other professionals can be effective partners in behavior
management.
When attempting to change misbehavior, we often describe it by only how it looks (e.g.,
calling out, hitting, getting out of seat). Defining misbehavior by how it looks only
provides us with an incomplete picture of the behavior; it tells us little about why it
occurred and doesn't help much in our behavior-change efforts. For example, a student
who is off task is a common classroom problem. If two of our students are off task
regularly, they may or may not be off task for the same reason. If they are off task for
different reasons, our approaches to change their behaviors may need to differ. Actually,
a strategy that will eliminate the off-task behavior of one student might worsen the off-
task behavior of the other. Defining a misbehavior by how it looks tells us nothing about
why it occurred and often doesn't help in our behavior-change efforts. Just because two
behaviors look the same, doesn't mean they are the same.
Instead: Define Misbehavior By Its Function
Although we are tempted, it is not a good idea to ask our students, "Why did you do
that?" First, many times our students will not know the reasons why they misbehaved.
Second, we often will not like their answers. For example, if Victor is playing at his desk
during our lesson and we ask him why, he may very well say, "Because this lesson is so
boring." We are not likely to be pleased with that response.
The function of a behavior is the purpose it serves the student (i.e., what the student gets
from it). As stated previously, most misbehaviors serve a getting or an avoiding function.
To determine a behavior's function, we need to study what is happening in the classroom
before and after it occurrs. This information-gathering procedure is called a functional
assessment. An Antecedent-Behavior-Consequence (ABC) chart can be used as a
functional assessment tool. An ABC chart has three columns on which we record the
behavior and what happened before and after it. The standard way to make this chart is to
separate a sheet of paper into three columns and label the first Antecedent, the second
Behavior, and the third Consequence. When the misbehavior occurs, it is written down in
the behavior column, then the observer records what happened immediately before
(recorded in the antecedent column) and after its occurrence (recorded in the consequence
column). To make data collection simpler, a modified ABC chart can be used that
contains several predetermined categories of teacher or peer antecedent behavior, student
responses, and consequential events (See Figure 1).
Many times, an ABC analysis is all that is needed to determine a functional assessment.
For complex behavior problems, a more detailed, multifaceted functional assessment may
be needed. At those times, we should contact a behavior-management specialist, school
psychologist, or other trained professional for a more thorough assessment. Conducting a
functional assessment can be time consuming. However, research shows that behavior-
change programs designed from this process tend to be more effective than those begun
without the comprehensive information provided by this assessment (Kamps, 2002). For
additional information on conducting a functional assessment, we recommend visiting the
Center for Effective Collaboration and Practice Web site at http://cecp.air.org/fba/.
When a management approach isn't working, our first tendency is to try harder. The
problem is that we most often try harder negatively. We make loud, disapproving
statements, increase negative consequences, or remove more privileges. This does not do
anything to teach appropriate behavior. Instead, our increased negativity results in
impaired student-teacher relationships and increases the likelihood of our students feeling
defeated.
When an approach is not working, instead of trying harder, we should try another way.
Some examples include verbal redirecting, proximity control, reinforcing incompatible
behaviors, changing the academic tasks and providing additional cues or prompts. These
approaches are more effective, simpler to use, and create a more positive classroom
climate than trying harder. If two of our students, Danny and Sara, are talking in class,
instead of reprimanding them, we could walk in their direction (use proximity control),
make eye contact, and provide a nonverbal cue to get on task. This approach allows
Danny and Sara to save face with their peers and promotes teacher respect.
Finally, when we find ourselves making more stop than start requests, we need to reverse
our behavior. For example, instead of asking Sam to stop talking, ask him to work on his
assignment. When he complies, provide praise. For excellent resources on practical,
positive classroom management techniques, see Rhode, Jenson, and Reavis (1992) and
Kerr and Nelson (2002) in the appendix.
Classroom rules play a vital role in effective classroom management. However, rules
alone exert little influence over student behavior. Too often, rules are posted at the
beginning of the year, briefly reviewed once, and then attended to minimally. When this
is the case, they have little to no effect on student behavior.
There are several rules for rule setting that, when followed, help create orderly,
productive classrooms that teach appropriate social skills along with the academic
curriculum. To be more effective, our classrooms should have four-to-six rules that could
govern most classroom situations. Too many rules can make it difficult for students to
comply and for teachers to enforce. Along with other professionals (e.g., Gathercoal,
1997; Paine, Radicchi, Rosellini, Deutchman, & Darch, 1983), we see benefits to students
actively participating in rule setting. When students play an active role, they begin to
learn the rules, and they are more inclined to have rule ownership. The rules become their
rules, not our rules. To include students, conduct several short rule-setting meetings the
first few days of school. For these meetings to be effective, we need to share with our
students the rule-making guidelines (e.g., the rules need to be stated positively, they have
to be observable and measurable, consequences need to be realistic). With guidelines in
place, students often select rules similar to the ones we would have selected. Without
guidelines, students are inclined to make too many rules, make rules that are too
stringent, and make those that are not specific enough.
Classroom rules should be simple, specific, clear, and measurable. The degree of rule
simplicity depends on the age and ability levels of our students. For younger students, we
may want to include pictures in the rule posters. Rules are specific when they are clear
and unambiguous. For example, the rule "bring books, paper, and pencils to class" is
much clearer than the rule "be ready to learn." Clearly stated rules are easily observed
and measured. The classroom rules should be posted.
Another characteristic of effective rules is that they are stated positively. Positively stated
rules are "do" rules. Do rules provide information as to how to behave and set the
occasion for teacher praise. An example is "Raise your hand for permission to talk."
Conversely, negatively stated rules or "don't" rules tell students what not to do and
encourage us to attend to student rule breaking. An example of a don't rule is "Don't call
out."
Some teachers develop subrules that correspond with each of the major classroom rules.
For example, a classroom rule might be, "Follow classroom expectations." One of the
corresponding subrules for line behavior could be "Keep your hands and feet to yourself."
Once the subrules are set, we need to teach or role play appropriate behavior by having
mini-lessons ( 3-5minutes) several times a day for the first few weeks of school. Some
teachers continue to review subrules prior to each activity or periodically, depending on
their students' needs. A simple, quick way to review is to have a student volunteer to read
the posted subrules prior to each major activity.
We consistently need to carry out the consequences and noncompliance of our classroom
rules or they will mean very little. If our students follow the rules for group work at the
learning center, we should verbally praise them and provide additional reinforcement as
needed (e.g., stickers, extra free time). On the other hand, if the classroom consequence
for fighting with a peer is the loss of recess, then we must make certain that we follow
through. We need to make clear the consequences for following and not following the
rules (Babyak, Luze, & Kamps, 2000).
We often need reminders to praise our students throughout the school day. One way is to
place a sign in the back of the room that says, "Have you praised your students lately?"
Each time we notice the sign, we should praise a student or the group for following one
of the classroom rules. Another way is to keep a running tally of our praise comments on
an index card or on a card clipped to a string that hangs from our necks (similar to those
used with many school identification cards).
To summarize, the guidelines for classroom rules include the following: (a) develop 4-6
measurable, observable, positive classroom rules and include students in rule
development; (b) teach the rules and subrules directly; (c) post the rules and review them
frequently; and, (d) be sure to carry out the consequences for rule compliance and
noncompliance.
Step 1. Identify the context and the predictable behavior (where and when the
misbehavior occurs);
Step 3. Systematically modify the context (e.g., changes in instruction, tasks, schedules,
seating arrangements);
Step 4. Conduct behavior rehearsals (have students practice the appropriate behavior);
Step 5. Provide strong reinforcement such as frequent and immediate teacher praise;
Let's apply this step to a traditional classroom behavior problem--calling out during
teacher-led instruction. The misbehavior occurs during guided instruction (Step 1). The
behavior that we want instead is for our students to raise their hands and wait to be called
on (Step 2). To accomplish this goal, we could verbally remind our students to raise their
hands prior to each question and no longer respond to our students' call outs. Also, we
could model hand-raising as we ask the question to prompt students to do the same (Steps
3 and 6). Before our teacher-led lessons, we could have a short review of the rules for
appropriate hand-raising (Step 4). When our students raise their hands appropriately, we
should praise immediately and frequently and perhaps give them bonus points on the
classroom management system (Step 5). Finally, to determine if our plan is effective, we
should tally how often students appropriately raise their hands (Step 7).
When planning our teaching day, planning for transitions often gets overlooked. Yet, a
significant amount of class time is spent transitioning from one subject to another or from
one place to another. Without proper planning, transitioning can be one of the most
frustrating times of the day for teachers. These times seem to invite behavior problems.
Why? At times students are not ready for the transition. Inconsistent expectations cause
transition problems. Furthermore, because we are often transitioning with the students,
our attention is diverted away from them, making transitions longer and inviting even
more misbehavior.
Once we have developed our transition rules, we should teach them to our students. We
can do this by having brief lessons at the beginning of the school year followed by
frequent reviews. It is a good idea to post the transition rules, and have a student
volunteer to read them before transitioning. We should consistently provide readiness
signals or cues for pending transitions. We can do this by letting our students know that
in 5 minutes the next activity will begin and that it is time to finish the task at hand. We
need to follow that statement by praising students as we see them finishing their tasks. It
is important not to move to the next step of the transitioning process until everyone has
followed the previous steps. For example, if we ask our students to return to their seats
and get out their math books, everyone needs to have followed those directions before we
begin our math lesson. For groups that have a difficult time switching gears, such as
many students with learning disabilities or behavior disorders, providing a 30-second
group silence at their seats prior to beginning the next activity promotes calmness before
moving on. This is particularly useful when students are returning from a highly
stimulating activity, such as physical education.
Many students respond positively to transition timing games. To do this, first set a time
goal (e.g., everyone should be in line within 20 seconds). Using a stopwatch, time their
transition and then praise individual students or the group for meeting the goal. When
transitions involve leaving the classroom, prior to leaving, we should have our students
take out the materials for the lesson that is going to be conducted on their return. This
will facilitate getting started when they return to the classroom.
Our role as teachers during transitions should be to monitor students' performance and to
praise appropriate behavior. To do this, we must have our materials prepared ahead of
time. When needed, we should use students or aides to gather materials or equipment,
allowing us to better attend to our students and provide praise.
Ignoring can be a valuable tool in reducing misbehaviors when used with behavior-
building strategies. However, it's difficult for many of us to determine which behaviors to
ignore and which to give attention. We tend to take ignoring to extremes by ignoring
almost all misbehaviors or none at all. Neither approach is effective.
First, not all behaviors should be ignored. We should only ignore the behaviors motivated
for our attention. For example, if Larry is playing his favorite computer game instead of
doing math, ignoring him will not work because his behavior is not motivated by our
attention. His motivation is playing on the computer. However, when behaviors are
attention seeking we need to ignore continuously (every single time). As soon as we
begin to ignore our student's misbehavior, he or she will seek it elsewhere, most likely
from peers. It can be difficult for peers to ignore misbehaviors. Therefore, ignoring
misbehavior should be a classroom rule that receives powerful reinforcement. Also, we
need to plan for the misbehavior to get worse (happen more often and more intensely)
before it improves. When this happens, we must continue to ignore.
There are occasions when ignoring is inappropriate. These include when there are
concerns for observational learning of misbehaviors, when our students are engaging in
extreme or dangerous behaviors, and, as stated earlier, when the misbehavior is not
attention seeking.
Time out can be an effective tool but only when used appropriately (Turner & Watson,
1999). First, we must remember that time out is not a place. Instead it is a process
whereby all opportunities to get reinforced are withdrawn. Consequently, for it to work,
the time-in area (the activity) must be more reinforcing than the time-out area. Ways to
make the time-in area more reinforcing include changing the activity, our instructional
techniques, and increasing our praise. For example, Trevor constantly disrupts the
language arts lesson by throwing paper or talking to peers, resulting in frequent time outs
in the hall. Time out would only be effective if the language-arts lesson is more
stimulating than what is going on in the hall, which often is not the case. A better method
would be to make the language-arts lesson highly stimulating by using cooperative
learning, hands-on activities, and frequent student responding. If we still need to use time
out with Trevor, we need to find a less stimulating, designated time-out area, such as a
partitioned corner of the room.
For mildly disruptive misbehavior, time outs should be done in class. In-class time out
involves the removal of all forms of reinforcement for a brief period of time. One type of
in-class time out is planned ignoring, which involves the brief removal of
social reinforcers, such as attention or verbal interaction. This involves looking away
from the student, refraining from any interaction, or remaining quiet. A second form of
in-class time out is the brief removal of the student from an activity by being placed on
the outskirts (i.e., a few steps back) but still able to "look" into the more reinforcing time-
in setting.
When misbehaviors are more severe, we may need to send our students to out-of-class
time out. The out-of-class time out area should be a quiet, nonintimidating,
reinforcement-free room with no other purpose. It should not be a highly stimulating,
reinforcing place like the office area, other classrooms, or the hallway. If possible, we
should use the same place for each time out. Despite our frustrations, we should
administer time out with a calm, neutral tone of voice. We should also give our students a
brief explanation for the time out to help build an association between the misbehavior
and the time-out consequence. Time outs should last for only brief, reasonable periods of
time (from a few seconds for in-class to several minutes for out-of-class time outs) and
should be monitored occasionally to make certain the student is not receiving
reinforcement. We should collect data to assess the overall effectiveness of time out.
Finally, time out should always be used with precorrective, behavior-building strategies
and reinforcement.
Instead: Have Clear Expectations That Are Enforced and Reinforced Consistently
Expectations are clear when they are identifiable and consistent. Reviewing expectations
and rehearsing rules help build routines and minimize the potential for problems. We can
do this by asking our students to read the expectations prior to each activity. When we
have temporary expectation changes (e.g., changes in rules due to a guest being present
or special school event), we must inform our students.
Expectations are pointless if they are not backed up with reinforcement for compliance
and reasonable negative consequences for noncompliance. For rule compliance, positive
consequences should be applied continuously at first (every time the student is
appropriate) and then intermittently (every so often). For example, if "following teacher's
directions" is the classroom rule, then we should provide some form of positive
consequence, perhaps praising the students for following directions quickly and
appropriately. At first, praise should be delivered each time the student follows teacher
directions. Once the teacher establishes the behavior (in this case, following teacher
directions), we can move to an intermittent praise schedule. On the other hand, negative
consequences (punishment procedures) are most effective when applied continuously.
For instance, if our classroom consequence for verbal aggression toward a peer is the loss
of recess privileges, then each time one of our students is verbally aggressive we should
apply that negative consequence. Of course, to effectively deal with this verbal
aggression, we also need to implement additional precorrective methods, such as teaching
appropriate expressions of anger, peer mediation, prompting and providing praise for
socially, appropriate interactions.
Managing classroom behavior may be more challenging today than ever before. Many
teachers face larger class sizes, more students who come from stressful, chaotic homes,
and increased diversity in students' abilities and cultures (Grossman, 2004). Yet, many of
us are determined to manage classroom behavior ourselves. After all, collaborating with
others takes time and energy to build rapport and come to a consensus on behavior-
change priorities and strategies. It's tempting just to forge ahead. Although, going at it
alone may seem like a good idea in the short-run, in the long run, we are more likely to
burn out and lose our effectiveness.
The power of the peer group can be used to produce positive changes in student behavior.
Peers can serve as academic tutors and can monitor and reinforce each other's behaviors.
Also, group-process, conflict resolution, or peer mediation meetings can be used in which
students provide each other with behavior management suggestions (e.g., "Ignore him
when he calls you names"), praise each other for behaving appropriately, and help each
other resolve a current classroom behavior problem (Barbetta, 1990; Smith & Daunic,
2002). To help facilitate group cohesiveness, we can use group-oriented contingencies in
which the class earns its level of privileges and reinforcers as a group.
We should also include other adults in behavior management. Fellow teachers can
provide support in several ways. One way is to schedule regular meetings where we share
behavior management solutions. Occasionally, we may need some extra support from a
colleague, particularly if we work with students with emotional disorders. During those
days, we shouldn't hesitate to ask a colleague to stop by during his or her planning period
and provide us with some additional support or a short break. If we find ourselves in a
teaching situation with one or more volatile students, we should develop a support plan
with a teacher in a classroom nearby (Lindberg & Swick, 2002). This plan could include
an agreement that our colleague will cover our room in the event we have to escort a
disruptive student out of the room or contact the principal or school security. Another
example of how we can support each other is by playing an active role in school-wide
behavior management (Lindberg & Swick). As we move throughout the school grounds
(e.g., hallway, cafeteria, auditorium, playground), we should be aware of all students'
behaviors (not just our own students) and prompt and provide praise or negative
consequences as appropriate.
Parents and teachers who work actively together make a powerful team. Most parents can
provide useful information about their child (i.e., medications, allergies, issues at home).
Some parents can assist in our behavior management efforts at home by providing their
child additional prompting and reinforcement. Although, there are many benefits to
working with parents, some teachers are reluctant due to the challenges that often exist.
The potential benefits, however, make it worthwhile in most situations, and there are
many ways to increase parent-teacher team effectiveness (See Jones & Jones, 2002 in
appendix). As teachers, it is our responsibility to build productive and positive parent-
teacher partnerships. We can do this by contacting parents when their child does well,
treating them with respect during conferences, maintaining positive and on-going
communication, and validating any concerns they may have.
At times there is a direct link between our lessons and student misbehavior. Perhaps our
lesson is too easy or difficult, ineffective, or nonstimulating, which can lead to student
misbehavior (Center, Deitz, & Kaufman, 1982).
The first line of defense in managing student behavior is effective instruction. Good
teachers have always known this and research supports this notion (Evertson & Harris,
1992). Jones (1991) found that when teachers demystify learning, achievement and
behavior improve dramatically. Examples of how to demystify learning include students
establishing his or her learning goals, students monitoring his or her own learning,
involving students in developing classroom rules and procedures, and relating lessons to
students' own lives and interests.
Effective teaching practices include (but are not limited to) instruction that is fast paced,
includes high rates of active student responding, involves modeling new behaviors, and
provides guided practice and positive and corrective feedback (Evertson & Harris
1992; Sugai & Tindal, 1993). Effective instructional strategies include the use of
response cards, guided notes, and peer tutoring (Heward, 2003; Heward et al., 1996;
Miller, Barbetta, & Heron, 1994). Consistent use of these strategies, and others that share
the characteristics of effective instruction, helps create highly effective learning
environments, which, in turn, reduces the likelihood of behavior problems.
Conclusion
This article briefly reviewed common behavior management mistakes that we make as
teachers and provided numerous strategies as to what to do instead. We believe these
suggestions will be useful in the context of developing and implementing a
comprehensive behavior management plan. By no means do these suggestions represent a
complete list of effective strategies. For more thorough information on some of the
recommended strategies, refer to the reference list.
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Conflict resolution through negotiation can be good for all parties involved. Often, each
side will get more by participating in negotiations than they would by walking away, and
it can be a way for your group to get resources that might otherwise be out of reach.
To understand more about those whose ideas, beliefs, and backgrounds may be
different from your own. In order to resolve a conflict, you'll need to look at the
conflict from your opponent's point of view and learn more about this person or
group's perspective and motivations.
To ensure that your relationships with opponents continue and grow. If you make
peace with your opponents, you increase your own allies in the community.
Successful negotiations pave the way for smooth relationships in the future.
To find peaceful solutions to difficult situations. Full-blown battles use up
resources -- time, energy, good reputation, motivation. By negotiating, you avoid
wasting these resources, and you may actually make new allies and find new
resources!
Possible Outcomes
Legitimacy
What third party, outside of the conflict, might convince one or both of us that a
proposed agreement is a fair one?
What objective standard might convince us that an agreement is fair? For
example: a law, an expert opinion, the market value of the transaction.
Is there a precedent that would convince us that an agreement is fair?
Their Interests
Interests play an important role in better understanding conflict. Often, groups waste time
"bargaining over positions." Instead of explaining what the interests of their position are,
they argue about their "bottom line." This is not a useful way to negotiate, because it
forces groups to stick to one narrow position. Once they are entrenched in a particular
position, it will be embarrassing for them to abandon it. They may spend more effort on
"saving face" than on actually finding a suitable resolution. It is usually more helpful to
explore the group's interests, and then see what positions suit such interests.
Example:
Your parent group wants the local high school to change its American history textbook.
You feel that the textbook doesn't represent the history of African-Americans, Latinos,
and Asian-Americans in the U.S. adequately. You come to the School Committee and
say, "The only textbook that works for us is The People of the United States, and that's
final!" You have presented a position rather than your interests. By drawing a bottom
line, you're stuck in one position. If you don't convince the School Committee to choose
this textbook, you'll lose.
A more effective way to approach the School Committee would be to state your interests.
You might say, "We're concerned about the under-representation of racial minorities in
the current U.S. history textbook, and would like to find an alternative." By
communicating your interests, rather than one position, you are leaving some room to
negotiate while still being firm and clear about your goals.
Often, the same interest can have many positions. For example, the School Committee
might vote to supplement the history textbook with a packet of articles about minorities;
add mandatory units on slavery, the Harlem Renaissance, and Japanese internment
camps, or offer a new course about minorities in America. These are different positions
that address the same interest.
2. COMMUNICATE WITH THE OPPOSIT ION
Now that you have thought through your own interests and those of the other party, you
can begin to communicate directly with your opposition. Here are some tips for
productive talks:
Listen. Their opinions are important to you, because their opinions are the source
of your conflict. If something is important to them, you need to recognize this.
Recognizing does not mean agreeing, of course!
Let everyone participate who wants to. People who participate will have a stake in
a resolution. They will want to find a good compromise.
Talk about your strong emotions. Let the other side let off steam.
Don't, however, react to emotional outbursts! Try an apology instead of yelling
back. Apologizing is not costly, and is often a rewarding technique.
Be an active listener. Rephrase what you're hearing as a question: "Let me see if
I'm following you. You're saying that... Have I got that right?" You can still be
firm when you're listening.
Speak about yourself, not the other party. In the textbook example, you might say,
"I feel angry to know that my children are reading this old-fashioned textbook,"
rather than, "How could you choose such a racist book?"
Be concrete, but flexible. Speak about your interests, not about your position.
Avoid early judgments. Keep asking questions and gathering information.
Don't tell the opposition, "It's up to you to solve your problems." Work to find a
solution for everyone.
Find a way to make their decision easy. Try to find a way for them to take your
position without looking weak, but don't call it a way for them to "save face."
Egos are important in negotiations!
Work on coming up with as many ideas as possible. Don't judge or criticize the
ideas yet -- that might prevent people from thinking creatively.
Try to maximize (not minimize) your options.
Look for win-win solutions, or compromises, in which both parties get something
they want.
Find a way to make their decision easy
During the meeting, seat people side by side, facing the "problem"-- a blank
chalkboard or large pad of paper for writing down ideas. The facilitator will
remind people of the purpose of the meeting, review the ground rules, and ask
participants to agree to those rules. During the brainstorming session, the
facilitator will write down all ideas on the chalkboard or pad.
Setting ground rules for you and your opponent to agree upon (for example, you
might both agree not to publicly discuss the dispute)
Creating an appropriate setting for meetings
Suggesting possible ways to compromise
Being an "ear" for both side's anger and fear
Listening to both sides and explaining their positions to one another
Finding the interests behind each side's positions
Looking for win-win alternatives
Keeping both parties focused, reasonable, and respectful
Preventing any party from feeling that it's "losing face"
Writing the draft of your agreement with the opposition
Perhaps Harriet is considering quitting her job because her boss wants to transfer her to
another office. The mediator might say, "It sounds like Harriet doesn't care about
transferring to the downtown office. What she's worried about is losing rank. Harriet, do
you agree with that? Ms. Snell, do you understand Harriet's concern? How can we assure
Harriet that she won't lose rank if she agrees to transfer?"
6. EXPLORE ALTERNATIVES
There may be times when, despite your hard work and good will, you cannot find an
acceptable resolution to your conflict. You need to think about this possibility before you
begin negotiations. At what point will you decide to walk away from negotiations? What
are your alternatives if you cannot reach an agreement with your opponent?
It is important that you brainstorm your alternatives to resolution early on in the
negotiation process, and that you always have your best alternative somewhere in the
back of your mind. As you consider possible agreements with your opponent, compare
them to this "best" alternative. If you don't know what the alternative is, you'll be
negotiating without all the necessary information!
In order to come up with an alternative, start by brainstorming. Then, consider the pros
and cons of each alternative. Think about which alternative is realistic and practical. Also
think about how you can make it even better.
At the same time, don't forget to put yourself in the shoes of your opposition. What
alternatives might they have? Why might they choose them? What can you do to make
your choice better than their alternative?
Roger Fisher and Danny Ertel call this alternative your BATNA -- Best Alternative To a
Negotiated Agreement. You can read more about BATNA in their book Getting Ready to
Negotiate.
7. COPE WITH STRESSF UL SITUATIONS AND PR ESSURE
TACTICS
So far, we've talked about how to negotiate with a fairly reasonable opponent. However,
you need to be prepared to negotiate with all kinds of opponents, both reasonable and
unreasonable. What if your opponent is more powerful and influential that you are? What
if they refuse to meet or talk with you?
All of these situations are stressful, and intended to put extra pressure on you to make a
quick decision in the opposition's favor. When a situation like this takes place, stay calm
and go slow. Don't get angry or make a rushed decision. Instead, talk about the pressure
tactic without judging.
HERE ARE SOME POSSIB LE S ITUATIONS:
My opponent is more powerful
If you have already decided on your best alternative, you have nothing to fear. You can
walk away at any time, and go that route instead. Think about everything that you can do,
and that your mediator can do. Although you may be less powerful, at least you will be
negotiating with all the available information.
My opponent won't budge
In a situation like this, you may be tempted to do the same thing: "If you won't change
your mind, neither will I!" However, you will fail if you insist on sticking to your
position. Instead, treat your opponent's position as a real possibility. Ask lots of
questions. Listen to their logic. Understand what their interests are, and what it is that
they really want. Learn what their criticisms of your idea are. The more you know about
where they're coming from, the better a resolution you can create.
IN SUMMARY
In conflict resolution, the best solution is the solution that is best for both sides. Of
course, that's not always possible to find, but you should use all your resources to solve
your conflict as smoothly as you can.
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Since most of us grew up in a culture that treats negotiation and conflict resolution as
forms of competition, we have much to learn about how concerned parents and school
officials can better communicate and resolve conflict. In this article, we present several
exciting and challenging possibilities for improving collaboration and conflict resolution
skills.
We aim to present "what works" in conflict resolution between parents and educators.
The concepts presented here may be useful to parents and educators in direct
collaboration, or in mediation. They may also be used in training students and others who
wish to work as mediators with parents and educators.
The goal in all cases is to resolve issues in ways that will benefit the child and endure.
Such cooperation not only supports the child, but also supports the essential ongoing
relationship between parents and schools. Developing a quality relationship between
educators and parents promises to pay continuing dividends into the future.
When direct collaboration is tried and fails, the parties may appropriately reach for
mediation, a guided opportunity to reach a resolution that is acceptable to all. The
effective mediator keeps the parties on course and employs methods based on the
following concepts:
Conflict arises when one or more participants views the current system or relationship as
not working! At least one party is so dissatisfied with the status quo, that he or she is
willing to speak-up in hopes of improving the situation. It is no accident that we most
often find ourselves in conflict with those with whom we spend the most time -- family,
friends, and colleagues. In addition to our closeness, we all have different perceptions of
a situation and interpret our perceptions in terms of our sometimes different beliefs and
values.
It is important to recognize that educators and parents bring different perceptions and
beliefs to most situations. What is "true" for one, may not be "true" for the other.
Mediators will commonly encourage an atmosphere in which participants may
comfortably express themselves. The mediator cannot move forward until each
participant experiences being heard. Each is supported to clearly state his or her
perspective, what it is that is desired, and why. Simple expressions of perspective,
however, are not enough; participants must also come away with the feeling that they
have not only spoken, but have also been heard.
Once they feel heard, people in conflict are willing to consider new ways of resolving the
situation. In collaboration and conflict resolution, everyone can have their "truth" and still
come to agreement. Participants need only agree on arrangements for the future, not the
past nor the reasons why.
People in conflict may frequently not want to acknowledge that they often share much
common ground. Mediators and collaborators do well in observing these points:
We have overlapping interests. Parents and educators share an interest in doing what is
best for the child. Typically, they also have friends and colleagues in common. Both are
interested in expeditious and economic resolution.
No one is an island. We are interdependent. Neither the educator nor the parent has the
ability to unilaterally impose a resolution. Each must somehow work with the other.
We can find easy points of agreement. Even when there are many disputed issues, there
will likely still be several points of agreement. Once these points are identified, they may
be used as the foundation for further discussions.
So often, conflicts deteriorate into one side insisting on "our way" and the other side
saying, "No, our way!" The wise mediator and collaborator observes that neither way will
likely prevail, and charges participants to fashion a third way--one that builds on common
and cumulative interests.
In our culture during the negotiation process, we regularly cast our side as stronger, and
the other side as weaker. Any resolution, however, based on one side imposing their will
is not likely to endure and chances for a viable working relationship may be jeopardized.
We suggest that each participant be assisted to become as capable as possible. In the
interests of a resolution that will endure over time, paradoxical as it may seem, each party
may reasonably endeavor to empower the other. This can be achieved by providing sound
information about special education issues and by careful choice of effective discussion
and negotiation approaches.
These potentially damaging issues can be managed in ways that support mutual respect
and personal safety. Once participants voice these problems and sense that they have
been heard, they are then more able to focus on future arrangements. Ignoring past
difficulties is tempting; however, if they remain unexpressed, they tend to contaminate
attempts to reach agreement. The following suggestions are ways to deal with emotional
issues:
Use a private feedback process. Participants may send personal messages to other
participants, either anonymously or with identification (as the group decides). This can
allow for desirable direct communication of feelings in a safe way. It can provide an
effective catharsis (as well as some valuable information).
Take a group "temperature." A "10" may mean the group is hot, that is, operating as well
as it possibly can; a "7" may mean that members are warm (pretty good); a "3" may mean
that things are "cool" and could be improved; and a "1" may mean that things are
"frozen" between participants. Following the taking of group temperature, the mediator or
moderator might note, "It seems the group sees itself somewhere around a "5," perhaps
not as bad as we could be, but also not as good as we can be." The mediator might then
ask: "What can we do to take this so-so performance and improve it to an "8," or a "9," or
even a "10"?
"2" Support
There is a saying in the field of conflict resolution that "a problem well stated is a
problem half solved." Participants may, however, offer issues for discussion as
accusations, such as "how to get the school to stop . . ." or "how to get the parents to do
their share of . . ." It is important for group members and any facilitator to reflect any
such "blame frame" statements back to participants as effective problem-solving
challenges. Effective problem-solving statements may be expressed: (a) "How can we
best . . . ?" or (b) "What is the best way for us to . . . ?" The key is to recognize the
essence of the concern and then state that issue as one for discussion in mutualizing,
affirming, problem-solving terms. For example, a special education coordinator's
complaint that the parents are not there to pick their child up in a timely way might be
restated as follows: "How can we best ensure that everyone performs their
responsibilities under this plan in a consistent and timely way?"
Remember to ask, "How can we best discuss these issues?" It may make sense for a
group to adopt "ground rules" for their discussion. A sample of such understandings is:
We will have a full and equal opportunity to speak up on every issue presented for
discussion. There is no need to rush or interrupt.
We will use each other's first names, not the pronouns "he" or "she."
The group can then immediately begin to practice such understandings. If someone
"violates" such a behavioral norm, an effective inquiry to the group might be: "Did we
still want to have the understanding about using first names...?" The key here is to avoid
shaming any participant.
Having defined our communication process, perhaps "gotten current", identified our
common ground, and developed an agenda for solving our problems, we can begin to
address the issues. The following procedures leads to active participation and
empowerment. Best of all, it leads to solutions that are likely to endure because they
come from the participants themselves. The procedure below follows a logical
progression: (a) defining interests and intentions, (b) developing options, (c) selecting
arrangements, and (d) integrating and finalizing. A flip chart is handy for identifying
participants' interests and intentions. And once the intentions are clear, to identify options
that might satisfy one or more party. Finally, we identify arrangements that are
acceptable to everyone.
A mediator might ask, "On this issue, what would you like to create?" If a participant
responds in positional terms, such as by saying, "We want private placement," "We want
the million dollar machine," or "We want to mainstream him," it is wise to help the
speaker go beneath such a positional demand to their underlying interests. The easiest
way to do this is to ask, "If you had your [positional demand], what would be satisfied?"
To the extent that the parties answer in terms of negative interests, such as, "We would
then avoid. . ." or respond with revenge motives such as "We want more now because
we've been cheated in previous years," the wise mediator asks, "Imagine that you were
successful in [avoiding ___, or getting ___], what would you then have?" Through such
questioning, you can help parties appreciate that positions, negative interests, and revenge
motives can be understood in terms of their underlying positive intentions, for example, a
desire for equal treatment, respect, appreciation, security, or the like. The theory here is
that all behavior is ultimately, positively intended. As biologic beings, we are constantly
seeking to improve (not to worsen) our condition. The question in collaborative
discussions and conflict resolution is, specifically, what positive intentions are the
participants seeking to satisfy? So reframed, collaborative conflict resolution discussions
can become a joint search for mutual satisfaction.
DEVELOP OPTIONS
Once the interests and intentions are established, participants can then identify all options
that might satisfy one or more interests. This may be done by brainstorming. Participants
are encouraged to generate a full range of possible solutions, and this is done before any
kind of evaluation. The resulting solution is often a "package deal," and may include
components of several of the generated possibilities.
SELECT ARRANGEMENTS
One might assume that participants would make their decisions based on objective
criteria, but we have found that often they do not. Instead, they select options based on
subjective and idiosyncratic criteria, standards, principles, rationales, or rationalizations.
The key point is that participants will only move to agreement when they can develop
some explanation that will satisfy themselves and significant others. It is this ability to
explain that makes the movement to agreement a safe one. In helping parties select from
among options, you may encourage participants to identify any "easy agreements," with
each option being considered in its own right. Also, remember that options can be broken
apart and at other times combined. It may then be helpful to consider any possible
"package deals," possibly a good homework exercise. Finally, participants may want to
prioritize any options that remain. When the parties understand how important each
option is to the other, exchanges may be stimulated.
Near the end of a discussion of a topic, it may be helpful to ask, "Can we do any better in
a way that may be acceptable to all?" If the answer is "yes," we may say, "Then, we are
not yet done working." If the answer is "no," we can confirm as follows: "Then you are
telling me that we have reached what you perceive to be the best possible mutually
acceptable agreement?" With the participants' gentle head nods, "yes," we can conclude
that we have, in fact, done our best.
CONCLUSION
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Role playing
Role playing can bring a level of levity to conflict resolution. When students are placed in
opposing roles than what they may play in a real life situation, it teaches them empathy
and forces them to look at actions from another point of view.
Role playing also provides insight into where the conflict started. Rather than having
conflicts rise with statements like “Well, how would you like it if I did this to you?” your
students can look at conflict from a more objective standpoint by acting it out.
This is a very effective method of helping your students manage conflict, and should be
something to consider trying in your own classroom. Not only will your students learn
how to solve whatever conflict they’re in, but they’ll learn how to be more empathetic
toward others.
Tracking
As an assignment, have students observe and track various conflicts that they either
witness or are involved in over a period of time. These can be tracked in a journal
and written without specifically identifying other students. The identities are not as
important as the activity they witness and the reaction of those involved.
Encourage students to be on the lookout for situations where conflict resolution can help.
This will also set a baseline for how severe a problem may be.
At some point, students should voluntarily share their observations in their journals and
discuss the positives and negatives of the involved students’ reactions. This allows
students to discuss specific incidents, without “outing” offenders.
This activity can be completed multiple times over the school year, ensuring that your
students are paying attention to their surroundings. This will also give you a better idea of
what’s going on in your classroom and how you can help and better implement conflict
resolution strategies.
Listening
Many conflicts start because of misunderstandings and miscommunication. Teaching
students good listening habits can be an important tool.
Start with a classroom discussion about recent student conflicts. You are likely to hear
things like “He wouldn’t listen” or “They didn’t understand what I was saying.”
This is a good opportunity to let students realize the power of listening. It also lends itself
to teaching “how” to listen.
Teach them to:
Look directly at the speaker and make eye contact.
Let the speaker talk without interruption.
Ask questions.
Do not give advice or offer suggestions.
Give the speaker positive reinforcement by nodding or smiling.
Repeat what you have heard in your own words.
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by Girard, Kathryn L.
Violence prevention, conflict resolution, peer mediation, peaceable classrooms: These are
the words that frame a growing movement in education. Violence prevention connotes
both a need and a program, a part of which may address conflict resolution skills.
Conflict resolution refers generally to strategies that enable students to handle conflicts
peacefully and cooperatively outside the traditional disciplinary procedures. Peer
mediation is a specific form of conflict resolution utilizing students as neutral third
parties in resolving disputes. A peaceable classroom or school results when the values
and skills of cooperation, communication, tolerance, positive emotional expression, and
conflict resolution are taught and supported throughout the culture of the school.
This Digest will discuss several approaches, both inservice and preservice, to preparing
teachers to play a role in conflict resolution within schools and will identify problematic
issues related to preparation.
The study of conflict and its resolution encompasses many fields. Accordingly, teaching,
research, and writing occurs in many academic departments. Course materials typically
draw from social psychology, education, law, sociology, communication, and
anthropology, as represented in foundation texts (Deutsch, 1973; Fisher & Ury, 1981;
Axelrod, 1984; Hocker & Wilmot, 1991; Duryea, 1992).
Inservice Training
Conflict resolution in schools has grown rapidly. The National Association for Mediation
in Education (NAME) estimates that in 1984, the year of its founding, there were
approximately 50 school-based conflict resolution programs. Eleven years later NAME
estimates the number of programs at well over 5,000. One of those early programs was
the Responding to Conflict Creatively Program (RCCP) sponsored by Educators for
Social Responsibility, which now operates in 300 schools nationwide. Other programs
have expanded similarly. The New Mexico Center for Dispute Resolution has carried out
a statewide school mediation program for 10 years and currently involves over 30,000
students. Through the Community Board Program, three-fourths of San Francisco's
schools have peer conflict managers (National Institute for Dispute Resolution [NIDR],
1994; Inger, 1991).
Educators primarily learn about conflict resolution on their own or through staff
development programs. The issue of whether teachers can conduct peer mediation and
other conflict resolution programs without training is a central question. While mediation
and peaceable school curricula are available to individual teachers, the authors encourage
substantial training (Kreidler, 1984; Bodine et al., 1994; Schmidt, 1994). NAME provides
a curriculum and program to train those interested in conducting staff development in
schools (Townley & Lee, 1993). Training is viewed as necessary due to the difficulty in
changing adult attitudes and behavior. Without sufficient training to address teachers'
own behavior, there is the danger that the adults' words will not match their actions. Since
modeling is essential, training is viewed as essential (Bodine et al., 1994; Lieber &
Rogers, 1994; Miller, 1994).
Who conducts training for teachers? In Massachusetts one source is the Office of the
Attorney General. Some states, such as Ohio, sponsor dispute resolution centers or
commissions. University faculty based in special programs or in schools of law,
education, or public justice provide training. In many states private nonprofit
organizations work specifically on peace or conflict resolution in schools (NIDR, 1994).
Other issues arising in the preparation of inservice teachers echo problems encountered in
any change effort. They include the importance of the principal's leadership; the need for
targeted follow-up support to teachers; the fit (or lack of it) between program demands
and resources; and the need for systemic, school-wide change versus individual
classroom change (DeJong, 1994; Lieber & Rogers, 1994).
The inclusion of conflict resolution within preservice and graduate education programs
has grown more slowly but curricula have found their way into schools and departments
of education in a variety of ways. The subject has been introduced within the frameworks
of existing courses and as separate courses. Coursework combined with action research is
viewed as particularly effective (Girard & Koch, 1995; Lieber & Rogers, 1994; Hughes,
1994).
NAME and NIDR initiated the Conflict Resolution in Teacher Education Project in 1993.
That project brought together experts in prejudice reduction, multiculturalism, conflict
resolution, and teacher education, including representatives from professional
associations and specialties of health, counseling, and administration. The project's
curriculum, Conflict Resolution in the Schools (Girard & Koch, 1996), is the first
comprehensive set of materials directed at the incorporation of conflict resolution in the
professional preparation of educators. It includes background material and instructional
modules on the nature of conflict, foundation skills, conflict resolution processes,
rationales for conflict resolution in schools, and application options for schools and
teacher education. Eleven colleges and universities participated in a pilot training based
on this curriculum and then implemented conflict resolution at their home sites.
CONCLUSION
Limited evaluation studies show positive trends related to aggression, student self-image
and skills, and overall school climate (Lam, 1989; Metis, 1990). However, the full
benefits of conflict resolution in schools may depend on the inclusion of this subject in
the preservice curriculum; more comprehensive training; support of teachers,
administrators, and parents at sites; and expansion from individual to school- and district-
wide programs.
* National Association for Mediation in Education, 205 Hampshire House, Box 33635,
University of Massachusetts, Amherst, MA 01003-3635. (413) 545-2462.
* National Institute for Dispute Resolution, 1726 M Street, N.W., Suite 500, Washington,
DC 20036. (202) 466-4764.
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