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EVERYBODY’S BUSINESS:
THE OFFICE
ROMANCE E
very business owner and employer wants an
organisation that works well as a team; one
that has a family culture where colleagues
build great relationships. However, what happens
with 67% believing that they are not a problem as
long as they do not interfere with work compared
to just 8% of women. Additionally, 27% of men
believe that love affairs between colleagues are no
when a professional relationship turns into a one’s business other than the two people involved.
personal one?
Relationships in the workplace can quickly go from love to Katherine Dyson from Barnsley in Leeds spoke of
Perkbox recently investigated the impact of office her office romance with her now husband and the
hate. Using Perkbox’s latest research, Sonia Rach investigates relationships on emotional intelligence, with 1,050 impact it had on her working life. “The biggest issue
why office romances rankle. UK managers and employees conducted in January I had was that it changed the way my line manager
2017. With UK employees clocking in more hours treated me – she was close to my husband before
at the office than ever before, the workplace has we were together and I think she felt a bit pushed
become a common environment for love to out, so she would sometimes make sarcastic
blossom. Overall, a third of employees have had a comments to me and comment negatively on
relationship with a colleague at some point in their my work.
career – equating to some 8.85 million of the 26.8
“I was in an entry-level role, so had been thinking of
million employees in the UK**–17% of these
moving on anyway, but when I started having the
workplace couplings have resulted in marriages or
problems with my manager I decided that it would
civil partnerships.
probably be a lot easier if I just looked for a
THE TRUTH ABOUT different job.”
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PROMOTING
OFFICE ROMANCES
FINANCIAL WELLNESS OFFICE ROMANCES
17%
Of office romances
45%
Of bosses think
1 in 7
Workers leave their
have resulted employees should keep jobs because of failed
in marriages personal problems office romances
to themselves
and how an employee may teamwork and morale” (48%). are all were aged between 35 and 54. Only
to be more poker faced and composed grips with this – the most critical of all
in the face of difficulty, lest the act of so-called ‘soft skills’ – using engagement
communicate with his or her colleagues
Yet despite this, over a quarter of UK inevitably 22% of 55-64 year olds and a quarter of
displaying emotions or confiding in tools and through training, the more
– particularly within stressful situations, 18-34 year olds felt the same –
from managing deadline pressures to
bosses (28%) viewed emotional played out in indicating that both millennials and baby
peers harms their career prospects. It’s adept they will be at creating the kind of
intelligence as unimportant, with 44% also quite concerning how half of UK inspirational work environment that
dealing with workplace conflict and
maintaining that, “employees should be
the realms of boomers are more amenable to opening
employs the most successful and
personal trauma. bosses in our research see emotional
professional and do their job regardless our 9-5 job” up emotionally to their managers
if needed. intelligence as unimportant and less productive of teams.”
of their emotions and private lives”.
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