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Beckert, PhD
90. Eye
91. Heart
92. Maintain any and all confidences
93. The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (John Gottman)
Criticism
Contempt
Defensiveness
Stonewalling
94. General Barriers to Effective Communication
95. Failure to express what one is feeling and/or thinking
96. Poor timing
97. Incomplete statements
98. Leaving out valuable details
99. Interrupting and over talking
Assuming what your partner is thinking and feeling and not allowing him or her
to express it.
100. Reacting to the “words” used rather than the “feelings” felt
Failure to communicate with one another about your communication
(metacommunication)