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We all want to improve our situation or
ourselves in some way or other. I don't think
there would be anyone who could truthfully
say, "I have arrived. Everything in my life is
perfect". One of the characteristics of modern
society, as we have gone past the point of
struggling to put a meal on the table, is the
discovery that there are many things more
important than money. We live in a time when
ordinary people are more affluent than at any
other time in history, and with it has come the
understanding, now that basic survival is out of
the way, that "Man does not live by bread
alone."  be bothered applying ourselves. That is, of
I think this is one of the good things about our
materialistic age. We are discovering not only
individually but also collectively, that having
money in the bank is not enough. Origin
Psychics, as a business, has completed tens of
thousands of readings with people from all
over the world, and they are not ringing us on
the phone in order to find out where their
next meal is coming from. No. They are looking
for help and support in dealing with their
emotional issues, often to do with
relationships.
A British university a few years ago did a
massive piece of research involving more than
thirty thousand people. It was about what
made people happy. One clear cut conclusion
that came from the research, was that once
people were earning over ten thousand pounds
a year, there ceased to be any relationship
between money and happiness. As usual, an
expensive item of research, has confirmed for
us what we already know.
There is no need for any of us to be a victim
to the circumstances of life. One thing I have
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learned in my life is that really knowing about
things properly makes a huge difference. The
issue of clarifying the mind and clearing away
ignorance applies all across life. Getting to
know something properly makes all the
difference. I am sure everyone has had the
experience many times of saying to
themselves, "If only I had known then what I
know now, my life would be very different."
Real knowledge is extremely crucial in our
lives. The danger for all of us occurs when we
decide to stop learning. We either think we
have arrived and know enough, or we couldn't
course, usually, until something happens,
seemingly outside of ourselves, to challenge us.
And suddenly, we seek the knowledge which
will equip us to cope with that challenge.
This month
This is what the Origin Psychic Line, and the Yuletide competition
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each individual who uses our services. The
beauty of a genuine psychic reading, or a
personalized retreat, is that the knowledge Dreamscape
which comes forth is personal and timely – it is
what each of us needs in that moment, for us,
personally. Tarot Magic
Real knowledge lightens up our lives. It is like
the sun coming through on a foggy day. Renewals
Everything takes on a different shape and
appearance. A certain grayness disappears and
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life takes on a golden hue. I hope that we can
continue to bring a golden hue around
Inner Beauty
your life and help you to lift any areas of
murkiness.  
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Rod Nicholson
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How Psychic Are You?
Being psychic means being able to create pathways into
the Oneness to discover the knowledge that is meant for
you or someone else. This knowledge is called psychic
insight. You can find your psychic DNA and learn how to
use it.
Gaye Wright
The Oneness is also known by other names such as the
shared consciousness, the shared mind or the cosmic
mind. Psychics create pathways into the Oneness using
their psychic and intuitive skills. This is something that
anyone can learn to do. You can learn to be psychic.
Being psychic requires training and practice to refine
your senses.Your senses tune into energy just like a radio
tunes into particular sound waves.Your senses pick up on
what is going on around you and it comes through to you
via your feelings.
Your intuition is your ability to interpret what your
senses are picking up and communicating to you.
Intuitions are directly related to your feelings. Psychic
insight is what knowledge comes to you through your
intuition.
Some people have a more sensitive sense of sight and
their intuition communicates through one of the psychic
insight arts called clairvoyance. Clairvoyance means clear
seeing. People see energies differently.
The way you live and interact in the Oneness is personal
and unique to you. The way you access psychic insight in
the Oneness is personal and unique to you.You have your
own psychic blueprint! All people have their own psychic
blueprint.
People who do psychic readings are practicing psychics.
Genuine practicing psychics take on another role in the
Psychic Oneness. They help to create a shared psychic
blueprint. Uplifting the psychic arts is about reinstating to
its rightful place the power of intuition and psychic
insight.
Psychics can help themselves and others to think, feel,
and act more in tune with their highest good. In readings
psychics help people through the clairvoyant and psychic
insights they access. Genuine psychic and clairvoyant
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insight helps us to know with who we are and what
makes us truly happy.
There are many psychics who have talent and psychic
ability. Many people have a natural gift for clairvoyance or
one of the other psychic arts. There are many who are
using their psychic gifts to better the world and help
people.
Being a fully integrated psychic is more than doing
psychic work on your own. It involves being part of
something greater and more cosmic. It is the realisation
that being psychic means using your gifts to support
others to discover their pathways into the Oneness so
that they can interact in ways that empower them and
bring them true happiness.
Your psychic blueprint is how you identify yourself at a
sensory level. And just as you need to study and learn
about DNA and cells and so forth, in order to really
understand your fingerprint, then you need to learn
about yourself at a psychic level, in order to really
understand your blueprint. In fact, it’s probably easier to
understand your psychic blueprint than it is to
understand your fingerprint. In order to understand your
fingerprint, you probably would have to have a knowledge
that is way beyond the grasp of most of us in an everyday
sense. But in order to understand your psychic blueprint,
it’s not so far out of the reach of what you might think
after all, because it’s about learning about your intuition,
it’s about learning about your senses, and these things are
available to everybody very easily.
You can learn about what sense you operate from more
easily, what sense is your strongest sense. How do you
relate to others vibrationally? Do you pick up vibes in a
sensory, touching kind of way? Do you hear them? Do
you interpret them through the way you respond to
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right or wrong? All these different ways of identifying

yourself in your interaction with others comes down to
your psychic blueprint. And it becomes a very exciting
journey, because once you start to learn about yourself
in your senses, then you become a much more sensitive
person. And you can relate to the world much more
sensitively. Knowing your psychic blueprint enables you
to interpret your world, interpret your relationships,
interpret your whole life, from a much more subtle level
of sensitivity, to the way things really are. Not the way
that they appear to be, but the way that you sense them
to be. And the way you sense things to be is actually and most beneficial for you. So in order to know your
how you operate. Most of the time we think that we’re psychic blueprint, in order to acknowledge and
operating from something that we’ve worked out in our appreciate your psychic blueprint, it’s really important to
heads. But the truth is that we operate more from what start learning about your senses, to take note of your
we’ve sensed around us. We operate more from a feeling senses, to start acknowledging that your senses play an
that we get when we sense our world around us. extremely important role in how you relate to yourself,
to others, and to the world around you.
The more you understand and know your senses, your
feelings, then the more correctly and accurately you will Your senses, your intuition, your psychic view of the
interpret your world in the way that’s most appropriate world, all come together to create a flow of knowledge
that can only be described as pure magic!

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DREAMSCAPE
Some dreams may appear to be simple
processing of the day’s events and yet when
one looks deeper, layers upon layers of
personal and collective significance can be
found.  Kim Thomas.
Death so common and yet so feared is an integral part
of human experience.  In nature we see the cycle of
death, decay and renewal time and again and yet within
us we resist this process instead holding on or ignoring
the inevitable.  Death occurs all the time, in every cell of
our body, and within this shadowy realm so common to
us all, is the seed of renewal and the potential for
rebirth.  Howard’s dream below describes this process.
Dear Kim,
I found myself near the shopping centre again looking for
a place to buy pastry and a latte. I looked everywhere
and simply couldn’t find it. Then all of sudden it was night
and I looked at the sky and my brother and my mother
who died 4 months ago due to cancer was there also.
What I saw then was just amazing. I saw this star, this
massive bright star which started to expand and get
bigger as if it had just exploded the colours started
changing from white to orange and then to radiant blue, I
then realised that the shock wave started expanding
beyond any measure and I felt afraid that whatever was
coming off the star was going to hit out planet. I was in
fear and started running, then all of a sudden it started
getting freezing cold and I then knew that I was going to
die. The very next second everything around me
including my own body froze and I started chanting……
I died when I still remember that moment very well. I
was conscious yet my body was simply frozen and dead, I
then woke up chanting  a mantra out loud. Very
powerful, what do you think?
Howard
Dear Howard
Yes, a very powerful dream that is offering you
understanding and cathartic release from your recent
loss and perhaps from old ways of being that no longer
serve your passage towards wholeness. I feel searching
for the pastry and coffee is significant.  What do these
substances mean to you?  These foods are commonly
used to make us feel better, to lift us out of our normal
state of mind.  Sugar’s sticky sweetness provides comfort
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and releases the body’s endorphins, dulling our senses
and relieving pain.  Caffeine is a stimulant and causes
expansion to our consciousness as does sugar, both are
addictive. Sugar is known to relieve the pain of loss, as
research with chicks separated from their mothers has
shown, it reduces there crying, so it makes them forget. 
So in a way you are looking to self medicate yourself
from the loss of your Mother.  As we know Mother
stands for comfort and to where or what do you turn
now?  
Without this succour you are left to truly experience
your feelings and work through them.  Yet in your dream
you are reminded of the undying aspect of life – love.
Your Brother and Mother, where ever they are, they
support you in this regeneration process.
I feel what you saw was the beginning, perhaps the
creation of a new world, your new world, a Super Nova
causing stellar shockwaves and creating new stars, the
radiance and colours symbolising the totality of the
Universe, of which you are a part.  In your dream you
feel the fear of the unknown, you run but you can not
avoid the inevitable.  In dying you are reborn, the ice
symbolically cleansing and clearing away the old, making
way for a new version of yourself, more self sufficient,
more knowing. The chanting feels like your higher self,
showing you the way home, reminding you where you
can find solace. Chanting regulates breathing, bringing
prana into the body to revitalise every cell, you have
resuscitated yourself, calmed your mind and faced your
fear. Life contains many deaths, great and small but
always continues transformed. 
My words may not resonate with you, only take from it
what you feel to be your Truth. Nevertheless, I do feel
that the positioning of these two dream sequences
together are significant of you letting go of dependencies
as you move into a deeper place of inner strength.
May light guide you
Kim
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Skye Magic
Regular readers of our magazine are no doubt aware by
now of my love for Skye - I write about it often enough!
But it's not just the beauty and the stillness of this island
that I want to share. I have to admit that I have been
changed by living here over the last few years - the spirit
of the island has reached out to me and befriended me.
This is a major motivation for me to now write an 'Isle of
Skye Tarot' - to channel and share the spirit of Skye as it,
and its oldest inhabitants, share their wisdom so freely.  'To be strong and wield a sword in life, you must first
The spirit of Skye actually wants to reach out to the
world. It has long held open a gateway to the magical
universe that we, in our modern civilization, have lost
touch with. This is the island's destiny, and it has been
quietly fulfilling that mysterious destiny for eons. It has
waited - still and quiet - building up the strength of its
energy field, until the time when we would have the
consciousness to recognize and hear what it needs. It
appears to me as a giant, a gentle giant, a quiet, loving,
incredibly strong, immovable giant. And it shares its
energy so happily.
The messages I will continue to share through the Tarot
are an expression of the spirits of this place - a kind of
merging of channeling and spirit guidance, expressed
through the imagery and the archetypes of the Tarot. For
this month, the legendary warrior queen Sgathaich has
stepped forward, not surprisingly! And she has a message
about Strength. 'Strength' in the traditional Tarot is one
of those cards which seems to communicate an obvious
meaning - at least I can remember feeling that was when
I first started reading! And yes - there are some obvious
messages about overcoming fears, experiencing deep
instinctive feelings, even overcoming one's own pride or
desire to control a situation. The archetype of 'Strength'
is 'The Warrior'. 
Sgathaich has another message - 'know your own
strength!'. 
Sgathaich was a warrior queen who presided over a
famous military academy at the South end of Skye. Near
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to Tarscavaig and overlooking Whale Bay stand the ruins
of Dunscaith Castle, said to mean 'the Fort of Shadows',
her stronghold. Sgathaich was a formidable woman, a
teacher of war-craft and a prophetess, skilled in the art of
divination. She was reputed to be the matron of self-
defence and female independence as well as the guardian
of young people who seek to know their full potential. 
wield a sword in your consciousness. Grasp the sword of
your own consciousness and be prepared to know your
own strength. When you need strength in your life, this is
what you must discover and access.You don't need
'armour', nor other defences.You don't need to be
tough, nor aggressive.You need first to be still and allow
your own strongest qualities to permeate your heart,
mind and body. Then the paradox is that you will be
equipped like the Celtic warrior - to go into unknown
territory, knowing you are infused with your strongest
qualities. This way you will be able to draw on your inner
resources confidently and intuitively. The more you get to
understand what your real, innate, personal strengths
are, the more quickly and effortlessly you will be able to
access them. The pathways are already there in your
consciousness - the qualities which are strong in you feel
natural; they have become part of you. Confidence in the
qualities within you is the source of your real strength,
and it will equip you to handle anything.' (Channeled
from Sgathaich September 7th, 2010) 
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RENEWALS
This month, working with spirit during
healing sessions
Lynne Leslie
Before a healing session with a client, I take time out to
prepare - to disconnect myself from the busy daily
routine of life with its stresses and pressures, and to
create a calm and healing space (and therapist!) for my
clients.
In preparation for a therapy treatment, I spend some
time smudging my energy field (cleansing using the smoke
from a stick of burning white sage), and allowing my
energy to settle, allowing any tension to leave my body.
Once I have prepared myself, I bless the therapy room,
clearing it of any lower vibration energies – again by
smudging - and then drawing healing energy into the
room, with the intention to create a safe, calm and
supportive healing space for my client. I also ask that I be
given help to provide whatever healing the client needs.
When clients enter that space it is the start of the
healing process – the vibrational energy of the room has
been raised and they often mention how peaceful it feels.
After a treatment, clients will often say that they felt
someone else was in the room at the same time – for
example someone was working at their feet while they
knew I was working on their head. I feel very humbled
when this happens, as I do believe that I am often an
“assistant” in the healing process, assisting a protective,
healing presence who has come to help my client.
Sometimes we get a different type of “visitor” during the
session – someone who has passed over who is linked to
the client. I may get a visual impression of the person
and can describe them to my client, other times it is
more a feeling of what kind of personality and energy
they had when they were alive. Occasionally, clients
who are particularly sensitive to energy will feel their
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loved ones in the room themselves, even before I tell
them. That is a comfort in itself, to know that their loved
ones have been present, there to watch over them.
During one session with a client we had a visit from
someone in spirit who had a very strong energy – so
strong that it could have been masculine, but as I tuned
into the energy it became obvious that the visitor was a
female relative who had a strong character, and had been
very dominant when she was alive. She made sure she
stayed close by during the healing “supervising”!
It is my belief that we are all energy, and this energy
never dies, it simply transforms. Our soul is our vital
energy, the essence of who we truly are. When we die, it
is only our physical body which dies - our soul continues
to exist, and this soul energy is what I am sensing during
a healing session or a psychic reading. They can often be
present during a healing session because the higher
vibrational energy of the environment of the healing
room is more in alignment with their energy and makes
it easier for them to be present.
Forms of spirit are around us every day, but because of
the pace of everyday life, we don’t slow down and still
our busy energy enough to pick up the subtle signs – a
shadow seen out of the corner of the eye, a gentle
tingling, or the feeling that someone is standing right
behind us. If we can allow ourselves regular time to be in
that quiet space, we can start to open up the pathway to
connect to spirit, and to a whole new understanding of
life.
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 This month Graham Watt
explains all about the four
seasons of the Celtic year.
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Our Celtic ancestors divided the year initially into four
quarters (closely linked to our four seasons). Their whole
life depended on the farming of the land, therefore it was
imperative that their crop rotation/tending of the animals
was rigidly adhered to around the four quarters dates.
The four quarters were also sub divided to create a total
of 8 festivals, two of these being the Equinoxes and two
being the Solstices. Creating an 8 spoked wheel
symbolizing the celtic sacred world. Let us now look at
the individual festivals and there meaning to the Celts.
Yule (Winter Solstice) - Rebirth. Dec 21st
Yule marks the longest night of the year, it is the apex of
the wheel and from here a new cycle begins. The
following day marks the return of the sun encouraging
more light , warmth and growth. Even in the dead of
winter the tree shows signs of growth, reminding us of
the force of Mother nature.
Imbolc (Candlemas) - Quickening. Feb 1st
Although February can traditionally be the hardest
month for weather, the ground starts to show signs of
growth Snowdrops start to appear, lambs are born and
birds start to nest. It is a time of preparation and
purification when we clear out old clutter and make way
for new growth.
Ostara (Spring Equinox) - Emergence. March 21st
This date marks the first day of spring, all around us we
witness the earths beauty and vitality. On this day light is
in equilibrium - light and darkness are in perfect balance.
It was traditional to celebrate the new found fertility
with painted eggs, giving us the Easter celebration that
we know today. It is a time to renew your relationship
with natures spirits.
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Beltane (May day) - Growth. April 30th
This time marked the beginning of Summer and was one
of the major gateways between the worlds. Traditionally
people would jump over fires and cattle would be driven
between fires for purification and good luck. Fires would
be lit on hilltops to bring down the sunlight to Mother
earth. At this time of the year we can energize projects
and new life directions and honor the growing fullness of
our lives.
Midsummer (Summer Solstice) - Fruition. June 21st
The longest day of the year, when the sun reaches its
peak. Bonfires would be lit and the ashes scattered over
the fields to bless them. Midsummer has a tradition of
being associated with Magic and connection to the Fairy
realms.
Lammas (Lughnasadh) - Releasing. July 31st
A time of celebration, horse fairs and trial marriages
Bringing in the harvest and preparing special meals with
grains and berries.
Mabon (Autumn Equinox) - Harvest. Sept21st
The first day of Autumn, a time to celebrate the many
blessings in our lives. All of the crops would now have
been harvested and stored for the winter. This was also
a time to work with the energy flows of the new moon.
Samhain (Halloween) - Death. October 31st
For the ancient Celts, Samhain marked the end of the old
year and the start of the new. It is a time when the veil
between the spirit world and the physical world is at its
thinnest, creating the current celebration of Halloween.
It is a time of getting rid of old patterns and bringing in
new ones. Cattle and sheep would be brought down
from the hills and life became a preparation for the
oncoming winter.
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Inner Beauty

How to be a Goddess

Michelle Walter

How do you feel about your body? Is it for you the key
to your success or do you recognise that real beauty
comes from inner calm, and being at peace with yourself?
Real success is to be found by viewing your whole body
and mind as something to be kept precious and treated
with love and respect.
In this article, we are looking at the whole picture of
how you see yourself and how this can influence your
self-esteem.
Beauty in the noughties means following a complex, and,
let’s face it, almost unachievable formula of absolute self-
control.Yoga for the perfect mind, a carb-free diet for
the perfect body, 8 glasses of water for the perfect face,
no smoking, no drinking, no drugs,  more exercise, more
meditation, etc etc. Anyone capable of this level of self-
mastery deserves to be beautiful.Yet often they are not.
What makes you beautiful could be your vivacity, your
infectious laugh, or your depth and stillness. When you
are in that space - that is when you attract others, no
matter how you seem on the outside. This is because
people respond much more to energies than they do to
appearances. Of course, in the first few minutes height,
weight and other visual cues are important - but what
counts for the many minutes, months, and years later is
the beauty of who you are - flowing and expressed
openly. Not covered up behind a facade of the 'perfect
girl' Remember when someone is looking at you - they
are really looking at you - the real you! Unless you are
looking up from a magazine page or TV screen, the
person seeing you is feeling you and experiencing you
too. Most people would rather spend their night with
someone who makes them feel good rather than just
someone who looks good.

It is a well-known fact that those who diet too much

become snappy and aggressive. Too much body control
with exercise makes you an obsessive control freak. Not
enough letting go and breaking out once in a while
makes you an emotional time-bomb, waiting to explode.
So what is the key to inner and outer beauty? 

We have all seen it, the unlikely couple: the beautiful,

successful, younger man with a somewhat unattractive
or mismatched woman by his side.  How did she get
him? What is her secret?

Confidence? Great personality? Large bank account?

Maybe she was just being herself: and her inner beauty
has the power to shine through on all levels. Inner
beauty is how alive you are, the magic of how you see
the world, your uniqueness.

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Hidden Gems
Our monthly delve into the Origin
archive. This month, why you should
break the rules if you want to be a dating
success. By Michelle Walter.
It amazes me to see the effect a little book called, "The
Rules", has had on the dating world. Clients ring me,
baffled as to why their men are still running away, even
though they are 'Rules Girls'. They did all the right things
and got all the wrong results.
What went wrong? Lisa (not her real name) is a client of
mine who has been dating on and off for a number of
years. She has done a lot of work on herself and she now
feels ready to meet her soul mate. When Darcy appears,
introduced to her through a friend, Lisa thought her
moment had come. Not wanting to appear too keen, she
waited for him to approach her. He did. They got talking
and had a wonderful night wrapped up in each other’s
company. Being a 'Rules Girl', she consciously ended the
night first and to her delight, he asked for her number
and if he could call her.
The next day went by. No phone call. Then the next day.
No phone call. On the third day, Lisa receives a voicemail
from Darcy. "Oh! Maybe he’s playing by the Rules too!"
She decides to ignore the voice message and let him
chase her. After all, it is a man's instinct to hunt and she
doesn't want it to be too easy for him. Friday night
comes around again and she is invited out by the same
group of friends. In the back of her mind, she wonders,
"Will Darcy be there?" Sure enough, late that night Darcy
appears. Lisa is careful to make sure that he approaches
her. And, he approaches her alright, right at the end of
the night after he has chatted up every other girl in the
room? What went wrong? Is he simply a player? Was he
trying to make her jealous? Was she simply not his type
and he only wanted to be friends.... the list of possibilities
was endless. In order to find the correct answer, first we
must look at the Rules Lisa obeyed.
What are the Rules?
At a quick glance, the rules are all about playing it cool.
Withholding your feelings, keeping your distance, playing
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hard to get and then finally playing hardball if you don't
get what you want. Surprisingly, the rules weren't written
by men, although they pretty much outline a male
approach to a business deal.
1. Being a creature unlike any other is really an
attitude, a sense of confidence and radiance that
permeates your being from head to toe. It's the way you
smile (you light up the room), pause in between
sentences (you don't babble on out of nervousness),
listen (attentively), look (demurely, never stare), breathe
(slowly), stand (straight) and walk (briskly, with your
shoulders back).
2. Realize that you may not meet Mr. Right naturally
and that you therefore must take social action
immediately even if you don't want to. Do something to
increase your chances of meeting men.
3. Don't waste time on a fantasy relationship. You may
have a good rapport with your doctor, lawyer or
accountant, and you may find yourself wondering if he is
interested in you romantically. How can you know for
sure? If he's never asked you out, then he's not
interested!
4. On e-mails, responding once for every four of his e-
mails is a good rule of thumb.
5. On the first three dates we don't have sex with a
man or have him stay at our place overnight
It goes back to the basic premise of The Rules: Man
pursues woman. Never pursue him - let him chase you.
Put an ad out, don't respond to his ad.
7 We know this is hard to accept, but it's not that he
hasn't called because he's busy, or because you didn't
smile or talk enough (or did too much). It's not that he
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lost your phone number. The bottom line is, if he hasn't
called, he's not that interested.
8. If you've followed The Rules, your man probably
loves you and wants to marry you.Your problem is not if
he marries you, but when! If it's been more than a year,
see less of him and think about dating others.You've
already spent more than a year waiting for him to
propose; do you have another year to wait?
9. Love may be blind, but Rules girls are not stupid!
How does he act in the
relationship? Is he cheap on dates?
Is he critical of you? Remember,
The Rules are not about marrying
the first man you are attracted to
who calls you by Wednesday for
Saturday night and buys you
flowers. It's about marrying your
own personal Mr. Right - a man
whom you love and whose
character you admire and can live
with.
10. Take care of yourself - take a
bubble bath and build up your soul
with positive slogans like "I am a
beautiful woman. I am enough." You
must learn to accept that, as an
adult, you can't always rely on a
friend to do things with you. Even if
you don't meet Mr. Right, going out
- whether it's a restaurant, a lecture
or a party - is a chance to meet
new people and practise The Rules.
The One good thing about the Rules
The Rules, like many other popular self-help books for
women, build up your self-esteem.Valuing yourself and
knowing that you are worthy of a happy, loving
relationship is important. Not settling for a relationship
that makes you unhappy is important. Taking your life
into your hands and going out there to meet people, is
important. However having a script for how your
relationship progresses can lead to trouble....
What about Lisa and Darcy?
So poor old Lisa, an old hand at the dating game, was
totally baffled when Darcy ditched her. Let's take a step
into Darcy's mind. "I was really attracted to Lisa from the
moment I laid eyes on her. She was a confident, no-
nonsense woman. I've been sick of dating girls who
either have nothing interesting to say or create stupid
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dramas over nothing. Then there was Lisa - we talked for
hours and hours. She had me laughing my socks off. I felt
totally comfortable in her presence. Then she just took
off. I thought she might have changed her mind or had a
boyfriend, because she didn't seem to want me to go
back to her place or anything, and she hardly seemed like
the kind of woman who hadn't had a relationship before.
I got her number all the same. But over the next few
days it really bugged me. Had I said something to put her
off? Maybe she has a partner. The truth was I didn't want
to be thinking these things and feeling insecure. But I
decided to call her anyway. When
she ignored my message - that was
the last straw. I thought, 'stuff this I
don't need it'."
Why the RULES backfire...
The Irony of rule number one: ‘Be a
creature unlike any other’ is that
the rest of the book is a complete
protocol on how you should act,
when you should speak, when to
call, when to sleep with him and
even how to breathe. This is
obviously a complete
contradiction. And in truth, it sums
up the contradiction implicit in
following the rules.Yes - you want
to be appreciated and loved for the
special, unique person you are, but
how can that happen if your
behaviour is giving contradictory
messages? For example if you are
an enthusiastic, friendly and no-
nonsense person, and then
suddenly you are ignoring phone
calls - it doesn't make sense! If you are strong and
confident and you don't take initiatives to call or arrange
dates, a prospective partner will believe you aren't
interested. If you are quiet and shy and then suddenly cut
someone out because they didn't ask you out quickly
enough - it doesn't make sense. Obviously they may be
responding to the messages coming from your 'real'
personality!
Playing hard to get is a simple approach, which as a
stereotypical "Me tarzan, you Jane" formula may work
for some primitive men! So girls, take a risk be yourself
and Follow your Heart, not the Rules!
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Origin Horoscopes
Kim Thomas
Aries: October is potentially a significant time to create structure within partnerships, the keynote
this month is intensity. Now is the time to think deeply about your most intimate connections, how
they reflect you, mould you and shape you.  This 7th house focus suggests legal matters and contracts so
try to keep on the ball regarding paperwork especially regarding other people’s money.  From the 20th
expect change and movement, as Mars connects with 4 other planets and a Full Moon in your sign,
prepare yourself for adventure and possibly travel but certainly new understanding about your dreams
and how to fulfil them.

Taurus: This month sees you having to work hard in your daily life, its all about consolidation. 
Your need to learn and grow is channelled into new projects, you may be signing contracts or doing
deals but certainly you will have to handle other people and their values.  Partnerships from the 8th
may feel like they are going backwards but trust there is more to learn through this process.  It’s not
all work though, circle the 24th on your calendar as a day for enjoying the company of others when
you will sweetly but decisively be able to put your point across

Gemini: The time has come for Gemini’s to get serious about what you create, this could be
anything from art to romance.  Early month opportunities for advancement appear and then
disappear like a gigantic, enticing carrot so keep it real and focus, one thing at a time, please!  On the
3rd, your mind starts whirring about how to make your dreams a reality, while the New Moon on the
7th offers co-operation and partnership, so perhaps a celestial solution?  After the 20th, your work
begins as you implement what you have built into your daily life.  Dare to dream.

Cancer: The changes you have been thinking about for sometime are now happening.  This
month sees you focusing on your home, finding a base, putting down roots, perhaps literally but
certainly metaphorically.  This coupled with refreshing energy in your romance sector feels like you
could be well on the way to transforming your life.  The Waxing Half Moon on the 14th may have
some challenges for you in the partnership front but enjoy as it will be anything but dull!  The
Moon’s culminating power on the 23rd finally shows you how far you have come and how much
more you can create.

Leo: The Sun in Libra traditionally heralds a turning inwards of energy. For Leo this month
internal energy is focused on the mind and working with communication.  Your solar fire is
contained by Saturn to direct its power and come up with solutions.  Family togetherness or
socialising at home brings a sense of peace to allow you to loosen your grip and relax a little on
the 3rd.  The Aries Full Moon on the 23rd brings healing to some deep rooted hurts, the vision
you decide upon now creates your future, so choose wisely.

Virgo: Working diligently and cleverly to support yourself, balancing finances and making plans
feature for you early October. Do check yours sums as there may be a tendency to overextend
yourself or your purse.  On the 3rd and 4th try to stay positive or at least keep your thoughts
to yourself, with Mercury moving into your house of communication from the 20th you will have
ample opportunity to speak your mind, and with Venus there you will be more diplomatic.  You
may uncover opportunities around the time of the Full Moon on the 23rd, be sure to reach out
and grab them.

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Libra: With the Sun and Saturn in your First house, this month, you are focused on your
personal identity, there may be certain restrictions but inevitably they will help you to see
yourself realistically and improve your confidence in the future.  Coupled with the Libra New
Moon on the 7th you may be in for a challenging month as realisations arise, the energy is
focused on transforming your home and family life and breaking down old ways of being, an
uncomfortable process but worthwhile.  Venus turns retrograde from the 8th, blessing you with
time to reassess your relationships, values and resources.

Scorpio: Life goes in cycles and as you are coming to the end of one you may be feeling tired
due to all the psychological processing of the past year.  Mars is here to give you a boost in
October and coupled with Venus on the 3rd, you are able to manifest balance with regard your
needs and wants, albeit in your very intense way.  Around the 22nd, try to escape your ordinary
life for a while, in preparation for the Aries Full Moon which may symbolise some stress or other
with the women in your life.  Creative tension brings change.

Sagittarius: October invites you to make your dreams reality, with a little help from friends, of
course.  Community or social responsibilities weigh heavy on your shoulders early month but
think of it as a test to your fellowship and a stepping stone towards your own vision.  On the 1st,
temper your need to expand with strategy and forethought, all that glitters may not be gold.   
Keep steady as around the 11th more information is revealed which may mean a change course. 
Month end, your drive returns and the adventure begins.

Capricorn: The complications persist at work, there is a call for pulling in all your resources
and concentrating your energy to get through these challenges.  Do your best to transcend any
need to control or excessive worry as on the 8th, important news sheds light on your life path
and future.  Your plans may be tested on the 14th and levels of frustration may peak, but this is
truly a test.  Yes, you have responsibilities but being true to yourself comes first, so do the truly
Capricornian stay grounded and go get what you want.

Aquarius: So what are your options? You are being given an opportunity to see the bigger
picture this month, open yourself up to possibilities: study or travel.  But to maximise your
potential - stay grounded on the 2nd, as Saturn is teaching you a lesson and that is for external
change to occur it has take place within you first.  The Moon on the 17th adds power to your
understanding while Uranus positively encourages you to celebrate your uniqueness and move
towards communicating new life goals with others.  By the 24th the focus moves to your career
and transforming your life, so get planning.

Pisces: The Sun shines on healing and regeneration this month, your energy is focused on the
emotional and psychic realms, a psychological detox, helping you to let go of recent endings.  You may
also face dealing with taxes or mortgages, details will be very important so do read the small print. 
Full Moon Madness on the 23rd and Neptune’s transcendent powers encourages you to take time
out and perhaps even plan a holiday.  The healing work you are undertaking is challenging and
sometimes frustrating be kind to yourself as the process of self-change is well underway.

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Feeling special – 5
reasons why you are the
best thing since sliced
bread!

I was watching a television documentary the other day, in
which a group of young teenage girls were being asked
what they liked and didn’t like about themselves. Each girl
was able to quickly list a myriad of traits and features
(especially physical ones) which they didn’t like about
themselves. When it came to listing things they liked
about themselves, responses ranged from silence to
uncomfortable mumblings.
It strikes me as very sad they we live in a society where
saying something positive and confident about yourself is
so challenging. It's ironic that in such an individualistic
culture that prides itself on the idea of ‘being different’
that anyone who might present themselves as genuinely
special could be seen as being ‘big-headed.’ Are we still
sheep dressed in wolves' clothing?
This gave me an idea to try and find 5 things that make
you special.
You are truly beautiful – A recent NBC survey found that
the most attractive quality in a person for both men and
women was a smile. Regardless of whiteness or quality
of teeth, respondents immediately found the smiling
person more attractive than a non-smiling person. Even
better, each person’s smile is completely unique. So, you
are uniquely beautiful. So, forget watching your weight or
fad exercise machines. All you need to do is turn that
frown upside down.
are stars in the universe, which is about the number of
stars in the Milky Way Galaxy.  
You are a child of the stars - The kind of chemical
elements you find inside the human body – hydrogen and
oxygen in the water, carbon in our tissues, calcium in our
bones, iron in our bloodstream - they’ve come basically
from the earth because that’s where the plants got them
from. The earth and the sun, because they formed at
much the same time, got these elements from preceding
exploding stars.You are quite literally a child of the stars.
You are a natural healer – You don’t have to be a Reiki
practitioner or doctor to help heal someone. Laughter
for example has been consistently shown by scientific
studies to support natural healing processes. Human
touch has also been demonstrated as helping people
recover from physical and psychological trauma. So, all
you need to do is crack a joke or hug a friend and you
can be your own natural healer.

You have a good heart – I am speaking metaphorically,

rather than literally of course. In a world ravaged by
war, famine and other social ills, it might be easy to think
that we are pretty selfish people. Scientific research has
shown that infants as young as 18 months show altruistic
behaviour, showing that we have a natural tendency
towards altruism. Whenever you get down on yourself
or think you haven’t done the right thing – remember
you are a naturally good person.

You are as vast as the night sky– While we might marvel

at the glowing stars of the night sky, the human brain is
equally compelling. It is estimated that the brain has 100
billion nerve cells and more connections in it than there

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