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Concept Note:
We all human beings get emotional upsets often, some are forgotten with
the passage of time, and some are settled in corner of our brain and heart
where as some are continuously impacting our present behaviour. Human
beings put lots of efforts to come out of that disturbances and improve
performance in day today life.
REBT is based on the concept that emotions and behaviours result from
cognitive processes; and that it is possible for human beings to modify such
processes to achieve different ways of feeling and behaving. According to
Theory emotional upsets occurs when people attempt to fulfill their goals
and encounter an activating event that blocks the goal. Almost all human
emotions and behaviours are the result of what people think, assume or
believe(about themselves, other people, and the world in general). It is what
people believe about situations they face – not the situations themselves –
that determines how they feel and behave. REBT, however, also argues that
a person’s biology also affects their feelings and behaviours. In turn, people
have beliefs about this activating event influence how they feel and act.
Thus, the activating event does not create the feeling, but beliefs about the
event contribute to the emotional consequence. These beliefs may be rational
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ones that result in moderate, healthy emotions, or irrational beliefs that lead
to disturbed emotions and inhibit goal attainment and satisfaction.
Irrational beliefs drive from a basic “must”. They represent demanding and
unrealistic perception of how things should be, statements of blame directed
at self and others, “awful zing” statements that reflect an exaggeration of the
event, and the inability to tolerate frustration (Vernon, 1983). To eliminate
these thinking patterns, a process known as “disputing” is initiated.
Disputing involves challenging the irrational beliefs through rigorous
questioning, with the goal being to achieve a more flexible, no absolutistic
viewpoint. For example, if a person felt angry because someone had treated
her/him unfairly, disputes such as “why must people treat you fairly, why
should people do what you want them to do all the time and how does it help
you to be angry over someone else’ behaviour which you can’t control?
Help challenges the irrational thinking and enable the person to deal more
effectively with her/his upset. In addition to verbal disputes, behavioural
assignments and use of imagery are also ways of elimination irrational
beliefs.