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06 Feature Article:
Getting the Confidence to Get Physical
09 The Kiss
10
T I P S
SEX
Beyond Kissing
12 Get-Her-Hot Tip #9
Stepping Out of the Shower
12 Get-Her-Hot Tip #8
Stubble
12 Get-Her-Hot Tip #7
Her Feeling Good about Herself
13 Get-Her-Hot Tip #6
Kissing Her Unexpectedly
13 Get-Her-Hot Tip #5
Full-on Eye Contact
14 Get-Her-Hot Tip #4
Touching Her Hair
14 Get-Her-Hot Tip #3
Taking a Bath Together
15 Get-Her-Hot Tip #2
Working Out Together
15 Get-Her-Hot Tip #1
Telling Her You Love Her
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f a woman is going to get close to you, she has bodybuilder in board shorts. Instead, they sim-
to like what she sees. ply wanted a healthy, strong, and, above all, clean
guy.
And no matter how many articles you read about
the importance of designer clothes, expensive co- Don’t believe me? Let me list some of their re-
lognes, and salon hair products, the fact remains sponses here. Women were turned off by guys
that her basic human biology programs most of with:
a woman’s turn-ons and turn-offs … not ad cam-
Women ask for a lot less than you might expect »» Bad teeth, including visible
plaque and bad breath
when it comes to looks. For example, a recent dis-
these women’s “Most Wanted” list! You’ll be amazed at how relaxing it feels to get
Wrong.
Don’t blame yourself if you answered no to most
Taking things slowly is crucial to building antici- of these questions. Unfortunately, many of us –
pation. If you can feel comfortable touching her male and female alike – have so little opportunity
in a casual, non-sexual way, then you can bet that for human touch that we misconstrue any form of
she’s thinking what your hands would feel like on touch as sexual.
other parts of her body. Let her wonder. It’s good
for her! But you’ve got to change that attitude if you’re go-
ing to be successful with women. Repeat after
If you’re consistently blowing it or freezing up me: touching doesn’t have to be sexual! You can
when it comes to getting physical, you need to touch someone to comfort them, show that you
scale things right back and start off with the ba- care about them, get their attention, or tease them.
sics: how comfortable you feel with human touch Touching a woman you’re interested in doesn’t
in general. Ask yourself these questions: have to be any different than touching one of your
friends.
• Do you feel comfortable touching
someone you just met, whether Your task is to get good at casual, non-sexual
male or female? touching, so that when you touch a woman, it
feels completely natural and easy. You need to
• Do you often hug your friends
make sure that she feels comfortable with your
when saying goodbye?
touch (and touching you back) before you try for
that first kiss.
• If you have siblings or kids in
There are a lot of ways you can touch a woman
your family under the age of 10,
without it being sexual. Touch her arm to make a
are you okay with picking them
point. Put your hand on the small of her back or
up, giving them hugs, or hold-
take her hand as you guide her across a crowded
ing their hand to cross the street?
room. If friends come over to join you table, sling
You already have all the information you need But even this isn’t foolproof. I’ve heard stories from
about how far she’ll go. Just keep a part of your many men who find it difficult to get physical with
head clear and notice, while you’re kissing, wheth- women that they’re super-attracted to. Some even
er she’s pushing her groin into yours, wrapping her find that they have a hard time getting it up with a
arms around you, and getting lost in your kisses. gorgeous woman, because of all the pressure they
If she’s throwing herself into the experience with put on themselves.
abandon, you’ll know that she’s attracted to you For me, the solution is obvious: don’t take the
just as much as you are to her. game so seriously. As great as it is to make out
and go home with a girl, it’s only one part of your
If, on the other hand, her body is rigid, her lips are entire life. Not getting laid doesn’t make you a
tight, and she won’t meet your eyes, you’ll know failure, any more than getting laid makes you the
that you need to stop and give her space. She may world’s greatest Casanova. It only matters if you
not want to kiss you but be afraid to say so, or she think it matters.
may just be feeling uncomfortable with the whole
situation. Either way, you need to back off and Bolster your confidence by getting rid of the idea
give her some space. One idea is to end the kiss that sex is a competition to see if you can con-
by taking her hand and kissing her fingers, then quer the girl and get the reward. Women would
stepping away. This shows her that you’re still at- agree that sex is NOT a win-or-lose proposition.
tracted to her, but that you won’t push the situa- Rather, it’s an opportunity to feel close to another
tion. human being, and it doesn’t matter whether you
do it “right” or not.
Beyond Kissing So do the women of the world a favor and start get-
E X T I P S
S 10 Foolproof Ways to Get Her Hot
Okay, so women aren’t always that easy to turn on. When you’ve been
together for a while, sex can become routine. It’s not so easy to turn one
another with just a glance and a wink.
That’s why I’ve compiled this list of 10 No-Fail Female Turn-ons, culled from
a report by Women’s Health magazine. No sexual gymnastics or model-
perfect body necessary; just good old-fashioned sex tips from the mouths of
women themselves!
#9 Get-Her-Hot Tip:
Stepping Out of the Shower
And here’s one reason to grow stubble that you
can’t beat: a few extra minutes to sleep in in the
morning!
Ooo, baby. There’s nothing hotter than a man
who’s just stepped out of the shower. Whether it’s
knowing that the only thing separating his naked
skin from hers is a fluffy white towel, or whether
#7 Get-Her-Hot Tip:
Her Feeling Good about Herself
#8 Get-Her-Hot Tip:
Stubble
strongly influenced by how she feels about herself
at that moment. If she’s feeling happy and positive,
The research is in, and the results are clear. she’ll respond more readily to her lover’s advances
Women go gooey over men with stubble. than if she’s feeling depressed and down about
herself. (A strong scientific link exists in both sexes
Researchers at Northumbria University in the U.K. between depression and lack of sexual desire.)
found that men with light stubble are considered
the most attractive of all facial hair types, as well You can help her feel good about herself by
as being the ideal romantic partner for both short- complimenting her and verbally appreciating her
and long-term relationships.
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whenever she does something positive for herself, or neck. Pretend you’re teenagers again and make
like exercising, wearing sexy lingerie, or going to out in the darkened car one evening.
the salon. A woman will make more of an effort
with her body when she knows that her man notices Go a step further by mixing up your sexual
and appreciates her efforts. routine. Try spending twenty minutes just kissing
#6
and caressing one another, without engaging in
Get-Her-Hot Tip:
Kissing Her Unexpectedly sex. One of the biggest desire-killers in long-term
couples is fatigue, so try having sex at different
When you’re with the same partner for a while, times of the day rather than always just before bed.
your sex life starts to become habitual. You know Your imagination is the best weapon against getting
what each others’ kisses mean and when to expect bored, so make good use of it!
them. You have the same sexual routine: five
minutes of kissing, ten minutes of foreplay, and
then the main course. #5 Get-Her-Hot Tip:
Full-on Eye Contact
Arousal is fueled by anticipation and the When was the last time you looked deeply into the
unexpected, so it’s no wonder that it becomes eyes of your beloved and shared a lingering,
harder to get turned on with the same partner the longing gaze? If you’re like many long-term
longer you’re together. You know each other inside couples, the answer is ages ago. It’s almost as if
and out, so nothing is a surprise anymore.
you’ve seen your girl’s face so many times that you
already know what she looks like by heart and
You can introduce surprise – and desire – back
don’t feel any need to look again.
into your relationship by doing things out of the
ordinary. Kiss her when she least expects it. Try It’s unfortunate, because you can learn a lot by
kissing her in unexpected places, like her shoulder making eye contact with your partner. You can
#4 Get-Her-Hot Tip:
Touching Her Hair
There’s a reason that hot tubs or Jacuzzis have a
reputation as being the perfect place for dirty
deeds. Hot water gets the blood circulating and
Touching a woman’s hair can be an incredible
heats up the libido.
turn-on both for you and for her. The head is full of
nerve endings and can feel amazing when stroked. Even if you don’t have your own private spa, you
Even something as simple as brushing your wom- can still get hot and steamy at home by running
an’s hair can make her feel electrified. (Another
a warm bath. Invest in some luxurious bubble
often-ignored place is the feet. Try giving her a foot
bath with a fragrance that both of you enjoy, and
massage!)
don’t forget the loofah. Wash her, then have her
wash you. Touching one another while wet makes
Try this. The next time you’re feeling in the mood
for some nooky, run your fingers through your everything slippery and extremely erotic. Just take
woman’s hair and tell her how beautiful her hair care to postpone sex until you’re out of the tub if
is. Give her scalp a gentle massage. You’ll feel oh- you plan to use a condom.
so-close and will also find yourself in the perfect
position for some X-rated cuddling.
#1 Get-Her-Hot Tip:
Telling Her You Love Her
to continue foreplay in hopes she’ll warm
up, but rather to reassure her of your love
and the deep emotional connection you share.
demonstrate your love for her, the more attracted up your love life, no matter how long you’ve been
to you she’s going to feel. together! Try one of them or all of them today.