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Always be pre-
pared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the
reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness
and respect . . . (1 Peter 3:15).
Table of Contents
Off the Map? Let God’s Word Light the Way 4
Loving a ‘Friend’ 6
Collage: Words 8
Your Very Own Word 10
Make a Long Story Short 11
This Year of Delight 12
I’m Not Afraid Anymore 15
This Issue’s Theme: Words and the Word
Verse of the Season:
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was
God” (John 1:1).
Roshaunda Cade, Ph.D., lives in the St. Louis area with her hus-
band and their two children. She loves to praise dance at her church,
West Side Missionary Baptist Church, and she is the Writing Center
Coordinator at Webster University.
“Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light stubbornness and pride, I can end up
unto my path” (Psalm 119:105). lost, confused, and alone. Likewise,
when we attempt to navigate this world
My husband and I have two very dif- without God’s Word in our hearts to
ferent approaches to navigating while show us the way, we often find our-
driving. I’m a spontaneous driver who selves way off the map.
likes to trust my instincts and assume
that, if we miss one turn or exit, we can Even though I grew up in church, I
simply take the next one. I love to take failed to realize the necessity of study-
a road just to see where it leads. My ing God’s Word and applying it to my
husband, on the other hand, is a pilot daily living. My own arrogance and
who believes strongly in precise direc- lack of understanding fueled me to rely
tions and following a map. After all, more on myself and those around me
these tools were invented for a reason. than on God. I thought that being a
As you can imagine, these differences good person would somehow be good
have led to some very “interesting” road enough. It didn’t take long for me to
trips, and I can say without a doubt that find myself at the end of myself. Lost,
purchasing a GPS has helped us put confused, and alone, I was a college
the fun back in family vacations. student hundreds of miles from the
friends and family who had kept me
While my way of navigating the road in my cozy bubble, and that bubble
has led to a lot of adventures and burst wide open. And that’s exactly
pleasant surprises over the years, I’ve where God found me crying out for
also found myself in some places that help. I was overwhelmed by my past
aren’t so desirable. Blinded by my own mistakes and anxious about my future.
Through tears, I opened my Bible to
4 the first passage I could find and read
these words, “Don’t worry about any- his Word, the more he began to work in
thing; instead, pray about everything; my life and give me new eyes to see.
tell God your needs and don’t forget to The changes didn’t come overnight,
thank him for his answers” (Phil. 4:6, but looking back now I see how that
The Living Bible). As I poured my heart one small step opened the door to the
out to him and let go of everything I’d life-transforming power of Christ. He
been trying to do on my own, a peace changed me and kept my feet mov-
came over me like a warm blanket. “If ing in the right direction even when I
you do this you will experience God’s wasn’t sure of the final destination. And
peace, which is far more wonderful the more I learn, the more I realize I’ve
than the human mind can understand. got a long way to go!
His peace will keep your thoughts and
your hearts quiet and at rest as you How often do we call everyone we
trust in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:7, TLB). know and ask for advice or “Google”
a random question instead of seeking
I’m not recommending that we study God’s heart through prayer and the
God’s Word so haphazardly, but I did Bible? I’m pretty sure the creator of the
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learn something about our Lord that universe can handle our problems if we
day that I’ll never forget. All those have the patience and perseverance to
years I had done things my own way, wait for his answer in his time. When
he was wait- we feel lost
ing for me to
How often do we call everyone and discour-
turn to him we know and ask for advice or aged, we can
and ask him “Google” a random question rest assured
for help. He instead of seeking God’s heart that he will
was pursuing through prayer and the Bible? help guide
me even in us back on
the midst of my ugly rebellion, sin, and the right path. “And I am sure that God
pride. His Word was not a set of re- who began the good work within you
stricting rules to crush my adventurous will keep right on helping you grow in
spirit, but rather his law was there to his grace until his task within you is fi-
free me to be everything he created me nally finished on that day when Jesus
to be and to keep me from wandering Christ returns” (Phil. 1:6, TLB).
off into places that aren’t good for me.
Psalm 119:18-19 says, “Open my eyes These days if we’re traveling and we
to see wonderful things in your Word. miss a turn, we simply listen as the
I am but a pilgrim here on earth: how I GPS states, “Recalculating,” in her
need a map—and your commands are very calm voice. If you know you’ve
my chart and guide” (TLB). been going in the wrong direction or
you missed that last turn, it’s never too
In my last year of college, a friend in- late to chart a new course. If you’re
vited me to join her Bible study. I kept feeling lost and are in need of a good
coming up with reasons not to go, but recalculating, jump into a Bible study
she was insistent and I reluctantly and let God’s Word light the way. “For
went. It felt awkward and uneasy at first the word of God is living and active.
and, frankly, I didn’t think a bunch of Sharper than any double-edged sword”
“church ladies” would be much fun. But (Heb. 4:12, NIV).
the more I learned about God through 5
Loving of this girl, whose birthday is only
one day after my daughter’s, turned
my girl into someone who couldn’t
a ‘Friend’
by Roshaunda D. Cade
even verbalize her anger and frus-
tration.
I’m a scholar of American have kids when I grew up, but I’d pre-
literature, which means pared a list of baby names just in case.
I’m both desirable to em- The impulse behind giving a name is
ployers and popular at thrilling and profound. While there may
parties. Okay, neither of be no logical relationship between the
those is true. word “baby” and a tiny human being, in
our culture, the name you give a baby
But I do love language. I suggests many influences. Trends.
love Ferdinand de Sau- Status. Tradition. Dreams. Creativity.
ssure’s theory that the basic unit of Compromise.
language is a sign, composed of a sig- Genesis 2:19-20. “Now the Lord God
nifier (a word, sort of) and a signified had formed out of the ground all the
(a concept). The relationship between wild animals and all the birds in the
the signifier and the signified—and be- sky. He brought them to the man to
tween a sign and its referent—is arbi- see what he would name them; and
trary. People like Saussure and I like whatever the man called each living
to crawl inside a word to check out its creature, that was its name. So the
moving parts. man gave names to all the livestock,
the birds in the sky and all the wild ani-
While language at the molecular level mals . . .”
may be arbitrary, naming is not. When I
was in grade school, I wasn’t sure if I’d To name all the animals! I wonder if
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Adam was thrilled at the prospect. I
wonder if he suffered namer’s regret
after the fact. When Caroline was 4
months old, I experienced serious
namer’s regret. Suddenly, I feared
Make a
we’d made a terrible mistake because
she seemed nothing like a ‘Caroline.’
Long Story
Around the same time, I also suspect-
ed my breast-pump was talking to me.
Short
So there’s that.
In three words, what
does God mean to you?
Now well-rested, I can’t imagine call-
ing her anything else. Sweet ‘Caroline’
just fits. We chose the name not be- “Supplier.
cause of its meaning—we just thought
it sounded pretty. God, on the other Creator.
hand, gives names loaded with the
essence of transformation: remember Confidante.”
-Heather Asunskis, mom of two in need of a
Abraham, Sarah, Peter, and Paul? 25-hour day
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myself daily that I needed to remain use my God-given talents.
steadfast and trust that God would
work out the details. He did! On Octo- I knew that 2010 was going to be
ber 23, 2007 I received a perfect new a year of seeking five things in my
heart, and more than three years later life: God, Vitality, Discipline, Bal-
I’m thriving and healthier than I’ve ever ance, and Adoption. The word ‘seek’
been. Nothing I did during that time bookmarked that year, as did Mat-
allowed me to get a heart faster, but thew 7:7-8: “Ask and it will be given
remaining steadfast on what his Word to you; seek and you will find; knock
promised gave me peace and joy dur- and the door will be opened to you.
ing a stormy time in my life. For everyone who asks receives;
the one who seeks finds; and to the
At the beginning of 2007 I liked the one who knocks, the door will be
idea of choosing a word, but I had no opened.”
idea how powerful this yearly exercise
would become for my spiritual life. Ev- As 2011 approached I began search-
ery year since, I have spent time pre- ing for a new word. I had prioritized
paring my heart and mind to choose seeking God, vitality, discipline, bal-
a word that would set the tone for that ance, and adoption, but felt that
year. I typically choose a scripture to there was a component missing. In
reinforce my word—this way I have a quiet time one day I came across
God’s Word backing up my chosen a familiar verse. Psalm 37:4-5 says,
word. “Delight yourself in the LORD and
He will give you the desires of your
heart. Commit your way to the Lord,
The year 2008 would be a year of res- trust also in Him, and He shall bring
toration physically, emotionally, spiri- it to pass.” Delight—that’s what I
tually, and mentally. I chose the word desired. I had grown accustomed to
restore to mark that year. Psalm 30:2 seeking God, exercising and eating
states, “O Lord my God, I cried to you right, practicing discipline, finding
for help, and you restored my health.” balance, and working through adop-
God had faithfully restored my health, tion paperwork, but it had all become
my life. Just nine months after my mundane, part of my routine, some-
transplant, my husband and I climbed thing to check off my mental and
to the top of a 14,000 foot mountain in physical checklist every day.
Colorado; my health was restored.
I mentioned earlier that one thing I,
In 2009 I was recovered and needed along with my husband, were seek-
to find a new purpose for my life. “And ing in 2010 was adoption. I am
we know that God causes everything thrilled to report that on April 10,
to work together for the good of those 2011 we adopted a perfect, newborn
who love God and are called accord- baby boy. I believed that if I delighted
ing to his purpose for them” (Romans in the Lord, committed my plan and
8:28). I was blessed to return to teach- desires to him, and trusted him to
ing elementary school full time, serving orchestrate the behind-the-scenes
in our church, and finding new ways to story that he would bless us with a
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child. I had always imagined adopting
a girl, but the moment I laid eyes on
our son there was no doubt that God’s
fingerprints were all over him. He is our
dream come true and a great delight
ONE
WORD
to us.
Anymore’
again and again—by speaking wise
words to others in need, feeling peace
in troubling times, trusting God com-
One Woman’s Encounter pletely—and she wants others to know
with the Word the immense riches found in the Bible.
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way. Pat Beckner experienced this world around her: “I’m not afraid any-
kind of revelation earlier this year, and more. I can say that in all honesty: I’m
her life is transforming. not afraid.”
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