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Download this Document for Free !!!! ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! !"#$%&%'("#)*((*+%,-%.,/*%012"34% 56%78'%.5987%:!%;<=>6%?%8>@578% A,BCD"*E%FGH%<BB1$6*(IJ,B% ! Table of Contents !Fiqh / Etiquettes of the First Night !The praying of husband and wife together !Dua to recite for both before making Love/Sex !How Husband should come to Wife ! The Prohibition of Sodomy !Making Wudhuu between 2 acts with ones wife !Bathing is preferable after act !The Bathing of Husband & Wife together !The Prohibition of sex when She is Menstruating

!The Penitence of One who Has Sex during Menses !What is Permissible when She is on her Periods !When is it allowed to resume Sexual Activity after Menses? !Making Wudhuu between 2 acts with ones wife !Making Wudhuu after Sex and before Sleeping ! The Ruling of this Wudhuu !Making Tayammum in a state of Janaba instead of Wudhuu !Bathing before Sleeping is Preferable !The Lawfulness of Coitus Interrupts !The Prohibition of Spreading Bedroom Secrets !The Obligation of a Wedding Feast !! !! Page 2 of 14 UmmahNet.com Fiqh / Etiquettes of the First Night In the ideal Islamic situation, the husband and wife will most probably be total strangers to each other, having no kind of personal contact with each other previously due to the strict laws of hijab and veil (pardah) in the Shariah. Coupled with this feeling of strangeness are the natural constraints of haya and modesty that form an integral part of Imaan. Under the particular circumstances it is quite natural that both the husband and wife will be extremely bashful of each other and under considerable strain and anxiety. In order to break the ice, they firstly greet each other with the traditional Islamic greetings of salaam. Thereafter the husband should gently place his right hand on his brides forehead and recite: Allahumma inni asa'luka min khairiha wakhairi ma fiha wakhairi ma jabaltaha alai wa audhu bika min sharriha washarri ma fiha wa sharri ma jabaltaha alai (Recommend reading from Arabic script for correct pronunciation) Translation:-O Allah! I ask you of her goodness, the good within her and the goodness upon which she was created. I seek Your protection from her evil, the evil within her and the evil upon which she was created. (Bukhari, Abu Dawud, Ibn Maja, Al Hakim, Al Baihaqi and Abu Yala) Thereafter, wudhu and two rakats of salatul-Hajah maybe offered as a token of gratitude and thereby requesting assistance from Allah (Rabbul-Izzat) for a successful and blessed marraige, pious offspring, etc. Then they should engage themselves in some religious talk showing importance to the obedience of Allahs commands and , through wisdom and tact, become more free and open in the discussion, trying to discover each others temperament. As sexual inclinations vary with every individual, the bride and the bridegroom will have to display patience with each other. Sexual union on the first night of marriage is not the most important thing between the couple. Their first intimate

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