How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You

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Do your homework on the guy. You must ask around. Find out if he has a Myspace/Facebook/other social networking site. This is great for finding out what he's into, like music/films/general opinions. You can use this information to start up conversations later on.

Find out things he likes about girls physically. Remember, most men will fall for your looks before your personality. Not shallow, true. If you're not confident about your looks, start working on it. Get rid of spots, lose those extra pounds, whatever. If you know his history of ex-girlfriends, or girls he's previously dated in the past, or better yet his "type" (blonde hair, environmentalist, curvy build etc), then SLOWLY relate to that. The social networking sites can be helpful here. 3 Use mutual friends to your advantage here. If you see them talking, go over and join in. Your friend should introduce you, and voila! Now maintain the smiling and greetings every time you see him.4 When you next speak to him properly, steer the conversation around to the internet or computers, and ask if he has Instant Messenger.5 Go the extra mile. Stand out from the crowd. Do small things to get his attention, like if you already know him (albeit vaguely) make sure you are always there for him if he needs someone to talk to or if he needs to borrow something. Does he play sports? If so, you better get your butt on a bleacher with a towel, water bottle, and whatever else he needs. This way you're showing him you like him without telling him. Let them feel manly! Seize control without them becoming aware by letting him comfort you through a hard time. Allow him to think he made you feel better. Keep it real: be natural. Keep them laughing, smiling, and happy. Don't attention seek or complain about other people. Except maybe teachers/bosses. Once you get a guy to like you, try to let go a little TINY bit so they can come. Ask your friends for their opinions if he likes you if you cannot tell. Maybe flirt a little with other guys. Play hard-to-get, but always be honest

Don't change who you are! If you have to, he's definitely not worth it. Be honest, and don't be one of the girls that acts completely different around her boyfried

editTips y Don't be afraid to talk to him. What's the worst that can happen? y Remember that patience is a virtue. y Be understanding. Listen to what he has to say don't go over him. y Compliment him. Guys love this! y Don't flirt with his close friends. This will just end up with fights between mates. y Above all, if the guy doesn't love you for your personality, then he is NOT really in love with you. y Never keep hanging on to him when he isn't interested. Men find it annoying when you show up at their house and just won't leave. y Learn to take a hint. If the man starts doing something different while you are talking to him, shut up. Wait until he starts talking to you again or quietly help him with what he's doing. Don't try to force his attention to you. y Don't put him in a compromising position. Men care about how you feel, even if they are not interested in you romantically. Don't force them to answer a question if they look uncomfortable with it. y Be very patient. Men sometimes like more than one girl at a time. (If this is the case then he is not ready for a relationship and should therefore be put in the friend category. Fun to hang around with, but not deserving of the cookies.) y Don't appear/be too easy, and yet don't be stuck-up and snobbish. A man doesn't want to think he's never getting any sex, but he also doesn't want to get it that easy. Guys like a challenge. y Do not get between him and his friends. A man will always put his mates before you, unfortunately you need to accept this, or his friends might think of a way to get rid of you. y Don't say you love him if you don't really mean it, they might become obsessive. Also, don't say those three little words until you reckon he loves you too. y Don't EVER cheat. If he loves you and you don't love him, tell him that in a calm and caring manner. People get hurt when a man's ego gets smacked down. y Be what he needs. Be sure to have that something he cannot live without, you don't have to be pretty to be precious. y Don't put on too much make-up. Xmas trees are not hot. Natural is the best. y Don't get an attitude when you see something on T.V. In fact, don't pull an attitude for any dumb reason. Men think you are immature if you have an attitude. y Respect him if he respects you. Do not shoot down everything he says if he listens to every word you say. This is pretty much both ways. y Don't get mad if he puts down a sports team you like. You will always be more important than sports. y Be the jealous girl. Guys Like to know that you care enough to get jealous. y Blush. Or pretend to. It's been scientifically proven that girls who blush when looked at make men fall in love with them. y Don't make him feel worthless by ranting on and on about your exes. If you say what you dislike in your exes, he might be put off, as most men have the same faults, like leaving the toilet seat up or biting their nails. y And most of all, be yourself. If a guy can not fall in love you for you just being you.. then he's not the one y Do NOT be annoying and obssesive; if he says he wants to be just friends, accept it, but show that you're not giving up.

Give him enough space.Let him hang out with his friends , and once in a while say that you can't come.This will make you find out if he really wants you to be around him or not.

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Don't look like a stalker! Therefore, only tell a few close friends you've been secretly watching his every move :) Don't look at him too much. If you do so, he might feel that you're too easy and will no longer be interested. If you wanna catch his eye do something but don't keep staring or people will notice and point it out the he get's put off. When he comes on MSN/Instant messenger don't talk to him straight away, you will seem obsessed and annoying. Don't, DO NOT!!, whine, complain or that will turn them off. Do not text them every day either, there will be nothing to talk about in person and will get annoyed. Do not text him over and over again if he doesn't reply to your first text. That will make him annoyed.

How to Get the Guy

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Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend- Its pointless to go after someone who is already in a relationship! also make sure he didn't just go through a break up, because he might just be on rebound.

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Get his attention- Make sure he actually knows you exist first! or it may be very complicated to get to know each other better. If you have same classes talk to him, or socialize with his friend, etc.. He has to know you before considering you!

Try to become friends - Most guys tend to date girls that they have more with than just the 'relationship' stuff. Being close friends with him makes it easier for you to interact with him, and harder for him to say no once you tell him.

Found out who he's interested in- It would suck to chase after this guy just to find he likes somebody else already. Make sure that he either likes no one (because then you have to chance to make him fall for you) or that he likes you, which he probably won't tell you anyways.

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Show him that you would be a good fit for him- You can do this by sharing common interests such as certain music, by being flirty and cute but not over doing it, but showing him that you can be a laid back friend too if he needs one as well, Guys tend to like girls who are feminine but chill.

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Find out what he likes in a girl - does he like girls who smile a lot? athletic girls? cheerleaders? make sure that he would even be interested in your type so you don't waste your time.

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Don't get too caught up in 'like'- Don't worry too much about if he REALLY REALLY likes you back, because if you ask him out, he might say yes to try it out and fall in like with you as it goes on, so you don't have to be 100% sure that he likes you, because you probably will never be 100% sure.

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Ask him out yourself- Don't get your friends to ask him out for you, if you dont have the nerve to ask him out, everything else in your relationship probably would be awkward too.. and it's a turnoff to see a girl who isn't confident and talks through her friends.

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Don't wait to long! - Wait for him to ask you out for a certain amount of time, and if he doesn't by then, ask him out yourself, because he may not like you, and if your waiting for him to ask you out, and he's not going to, you'll be hurt more and just wasting your time.

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Don't get discouraged- If he says no, don't be discouraged. If you took this advice, you two are probably good friends, so you should have something there so nothing is too awkward, and your young, there will be much better guys.

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Don't change yourself - You can do little things, like attempt to be a little more laid back, or a little more flirty, but don't obsess, don't make yourself uncomfortable and change your look and behavior for him, he's just a guy. Ads by Google Chinese Love Astrology Year of the Dog Signs read for Free by a Pro-Astrologer! 100% risk-free AboutAstro.com

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DO NOT get other people to ask him out or find out things about him. Ads by Google Network: Vpn Clientless Remote Network Access for Enterprises; View Free Demo! Juniper.net/Vpn Don't obsess over him, you'll end up more hurt if you get rejected in the end, he is JUST a guy. Don't start wearing make up, or changing what you wear, or who hang out with, or what you do just for him, if you have to become a different person in order for him to like you, he's probably not worth it in the first place. Don't try to come off as PERFECT, because then its more pressure on him, try to better yourself but show that you are still human too! You are allowed to feel sad (discouraged), but know that he ain't the only one... You can do so much better!

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Don't overly flirt. You will look fake and stupid. Be ready for rejection, because thats the worst scenario, and if your ready for it you won't be disappointed. Don't completely change who you are. Anyone can sense a fake person and it will make him like you less. Don't engage in foolish acts like smoking, drinking, sex or anything just for him to like you, he's not worth it, AT ALL then.

How to Move on After a Break Up

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If this is the end and thats that best advice would be cut all communications.Wherever it would be His/Her's Number. social networking profiles because you may find yourself becoming obsessive and checking on his/her's status updates and pictures. AVOID THAT AS IT WILL MAKE IT HARDER! If He/Her contact you DON'T jump in with apologies because it will make it hard for you. Try and be casual and keep things simple. Ads by Google Wikis in Education Get a powerful wiki for your class Free upgrades for educators www.wikidot.com/education

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Meet up with your friends and just hang out and enjoy yourself if they asked about your break up just say "It was meant to be" or just say "forget about it". it is natural to feel anger and hatred for him/her.

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If you do end up bumping into them wherever it would be a nightclub or anywhere DON'T give them the pleasure of knowing you are hurting because they will try and make it worse for you. so be positive if they start conversation go along with it and show an interest (it maybe hard but it can be done), when it comes to you having a say tell them what you been doing with yourself AVOID the past if let's say you turned your life around when after the break up tell them about it and thank them for the change because at the end of the day life is to short to hold grudges and be heartbroken!

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Indulge in your hobbies or discover new ones!

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Talk to other girls/guys but don't go on about your ex partner because they may think you still feel for them even if you do it can be easily suppressed by the time.

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Enjoy your life because one day you will wake up and realize you are over that person and before you know it you will find happiness again. SO SMILE AND BE POSITIVE. Ads by Google How to Find True Love Now you too can experience The amazing love of God. www.TrueLoveAndGod.com

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Don't listen to love songs!! Listen to songs with a good up lifting beat that makes you want to dance and make a fool of yourself to the point you will laugh at yourself. It's okay to cry try crying infront of a mirror. If your Ex does communicate with you via SMS or Email don't Bombard with replies..Reply once and then get on with your life until they reply back. Don't show Him/Her that your still sore about the break up you will be surprised how nasty a situation could be. see if He/Her are trying to be civil they don't want to hear that you still love them and what not.

How to Have a Healthy Relationship

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Do not expect anyone to be responsible for your happiness. Ask yourself why you aren't happy. Too often, relationships fail because someone is unhappy and blames the partner. Your life is solely under your control, with your relationship you have to take the good with the bad. You need to give as well as take. This is with the exception of domestic violence. Ads by Google Unblock FB with VPN Fast VPN, Hide Your IP, Secure Quick Setup, 24x7 Live Support www.strongvpn.com

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Make and keep clear agreements. Respect the differences between yourself and your partner. Do not expect your partner to agree with you on every issue. Reach a mutual agreement or plan, and then commit to it. If you say you're going to meet your partner for lunch at noon, be on time or call if you absolutely must be late. If you agree to have a monogamous relationship, keep that agreement. Keeping agreements shows respect for yourself and your partner, as well as creating a sense of trust and safety.

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Use communication to establish a common ground to understand different points of viewand to create a mutual, collaborative agreement or plan. You can choose to be right or to have a successful relationship. You can't always have both. Many people argue to be "right" about something. They say. "If you loved me, you would..." and argue to hear the other say, "Fine, you're right." If you are generally more interested in being right, this approach will not create a healthy relationship. Having a healthy relationship means that, while you have your experience, and your partner has his or her experience, you love and share and learn from those experiences. And if you can't reach any kind of mutual agreement, that doesn't mean either of you are wrong.

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Approach your relationship as a learning experience. Each one has important information for you to learn. A true relationship will consist of both partners who need to equally contribute. Not only is that the only type of relationship that will work out, but it will work out in both of your favor.

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Tell the unarguable truth. Be truthful to yourself and your partner if you want true love. Many people are taught to lie to protect someone's feelings, either their own or their partner's. Lies create disconnection between you and your relationship, even if your partner never finds out about it. For any sort of relationship, to work you need to have trust.

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Forgive one another. Forgiveness is a decision of letting go of the past and focusing on the present. It's about taking control of your current situation. Talk about the issue and try to reach a mutual agreement on how to handle the situation in the future and then commit to it. If you can't reach an agreement, it's a bad sign. If you learn from the past and do not repeat the same pattern, it's a good sign. It's the only way to prevent yourself from more disappointment, anger orresentment. Respect your partner, when your partner tells you to leave them alone, do give him or her the time and space.

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Review your expectations. Try to be as clear as you can about any expectations - including acceptable and unacceptable behaviour and attitudes, especially attitudes towards money. Everybody needs love, intimacy, affection, and affirmation.

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Be Responsible. Here's a new definition: responsible means having the ability to respond. Respond to the real problem, to your true needs. It does not mean you or your partner are to blame. There is tremendous power in claiming your creation. If you've been snippy to your partner, own up to it and say sorry. You'll be amazed how this works

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Appreciate yourself and your partner. In the midst of an argument, it can be difficult to find something to appreciate. Start by generating appreciation in moments of non-stress, and that way when you need to be able to do it during a stressful conversation, it will be easier. One definition of appreciation is to be sensitively aware so you don't have to be sugar-coating anything; so tell your beloved that you love him or her, and that you don't want to argue but to talk and make it better.

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Admit your mistakes and say sorry. One possible way to do this is to talk after having a misunderstanding or argument. For example you can ask your partner to give you some time to think of the wrong and right things that you and he/she did. Ask your partner to do the same thing and talk to them when you are both ready. Ask your partner to give you time to talk and explain to them why you were angry, the wrong things you did, the things they did that you did not like and what you would like them to change. Ask your partner to do the same thing and give them a fair chance to talk and explain also. This will make your relationship stronger and help strengthen the communication between you and your partner.

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Spend some quality time together. No matter how busy you two are, there is always an excitement when you do something together, when you share your precious time. Play a sport, eat at a restaurant, or watch your favorite movies together. You will feel the magic of love and connection that you have with each other.

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Laugh Together. Not only is it true that laughter is the best medicine, but it's also true that laughter can make a great relationship. In a tedious relationship, it is hard to communicate with your partner and share humorous feelings. Not only does laughing establish a connection, it can help keep passionate feelings in perspective.

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Develop a realistic expectation about sex and intimacy. This should not be based on what is taught in the media or films. This also implies finding new and creative ways to pleasing each other intimately.

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Arrange a safe haven (time and place) from the stressful daily hassles of life to enjoy one another. This can include a quiet dinner along the beach, a walk in the park, etc.

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Very importantly, support each other. If your partner has to do something for his school, studies or work, support them. This will make them feel loved, and it will make them realize that they also have a friend in you, not just a romantic interest. Be supportive. Be their number one fan

How to Avoid Being an Obsessive Girlfriend

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Give him space. If he wants to hang out with friends, encourage it. Let him know that you want him to have a good time and to spend as much time with them as he'd like. If you have to, fake it. There are times when you would really rather spend that time with your man than have him out with his friends, however forcing him to spend time with you results in his pulling further away. If you're able to encourage and support his time away it will reinforce his belief that you want what is best for him, and in the long run it will strengthen your relationship. Ads by Google Still Loving your Ex? Get back with your Partner, read this Free Personal Astrology Report AboutAstro.com

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Take time for yourself. Visit friends, family, take a class, anything you find interesting or would like to learn. Do this even if you have to tear yourself away from your man. He should be supportive of you, and encourage your interests, too. Focusing only on the one you love isn't living your own life to the fullest. It's also about personal growth and experiencing new things. Taking time for yourself isn't selfish. If you aren't

the best person you can be, then you can't expect to be the person you need to be for your significant other. Having your own experiences will also improve your relationship by giving you more to talk about.

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Keep your hobbies and friends. All of us tend to become obsessive at the beginning of a relationship. The key to a healthy relationship is balance. Couples need time apart to reestablish their individual identities. Remind yourself of who you are by reconnecting with friends/relatives, or picking up those old hobbies you've been setting aside. Suggest that he do the same. This is a simple way to show him that you are confident and interesting (even if you don't feel very confident or interesting). Suggest to him that he go out with his friends while you visit with yours. Or even suggest he work on his hobby or interest while you take time for yours.

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Set up days or times to reconnect after spending time apart. This is simple and very effective. After asking for time apart, set up a time and day to reconnect. For instance, if one of you wants to hang out with friends for the day, suggest that you could meet him later for dinner. Or suggest a time the following day, and an activity, in which the both of you could get together. This gives both people in the relationship permission to enjoy their time apart, while also giving each of you a grounding point, or rather a reassurance in knowing you will see the other person and they wish to see you.

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Reaffirm who you are and why you are special. Do those things that you do best. If you're not sure, try everything. If you're feeling less than confident, or insecure in your relationship, sometimes it helps to go back to something that created a sense of accomplishment. Don't look for confidence from your partner, find it within yourself. To do this, seek out those things at which you can succeed.

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Suggest he take time for his hobbies and interests. The key is to allow him to choose by assuring him you want to spend time with him, but letting him know you understand the importance of his hobbies and interests, too. Let him know that you can and will find activities to occupy yourself while he enjoys his time. This frees him from feeling guilty for taking that time for himself. You create a bonding situation by suggesting that the both of you go to stores that are of interest to him. For example, if he enjoys video

games, suggest a trip to the video game store. Help him look for games he wants, or maybe is interested in. Then give him space to use those games.

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Know when to back off. Learn his body language. Ask questions, but not too many questions. Too many questions might annoy him and steer him away. Listen to what he is saying. Men don't always come out and say how they feel, and may not tell you even if you ask. Listen to what your gut instinct is telling you. If you feel he is pulling away, don't force yourself on him more. A woman's tendency is to be clingier at this point. The problem is it drives men away. A possible solution involves letting him know you are available when he wants, while finding other things to do with your time, or discuss the situation with him.

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Hang up the phone. If you're calling/texting him 24 hours a day, stop. In worst case scenarios, turn your phone off. It's okay to call and see how his day is, but if you're calling every couple of hours, this could reinforce his belief that you have nothing else going on in your life. People are attracted to interesting people. If your only interest is him, then he's going to lose interest in you. Some ideas to refrain from grabbing the phone are: Call a friend or family member, take a nap, go for a walk or workout, learn something new that you can discuss with him later. Start a journal. Write your feelings, not what you did during the day. Try to discover why you feel a certain way. Insecurity often leads people to act in ways that men would describe as crazy. If you're worried about losing him, dig deep into why you feel that way. Not how is he acting, but why YOU are concerned about losing him. Fear of being alone? Fear of rejection? A journal is a place where you can explore your thoughts and feelings without having to set them in stone. It should be an area where you can express every possible emotion without fearing recrimination. Once on paper, re-examine it, does it still sound true

to you? What can you do so that you won't fear rejection or loneliness, and can become more confident in who you are? Oh, and make sure he doesn't find it. It could turn into a sticky situation. Don't follow him when he says he's going to a friend's house so that you can check up on him. This is an instant message to him that you don't trust him. Men aren't stupid; they see your car parked down the street. Create situations that have an ending point. For instance, you want to hang out with him during the afternoon, ask him if he's interested and then suggest that after the outing he can drop you off at your house. This gives him the freedom to decide if he would like to spend the rest of the evening with you, instead of feeling as if he's trapped into spending it with you. Quality time, not quantity time. Use the time you do have together wisely. Ask yourself if you'd rather have 8 hours of mediocre time with him, or 2 hours of fantastic time together.

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How to Love Yourself

Steps 1. 1Be honest with yourself about how valuable you believe you are. The way you see yourself and
treat yourself is the very way others will see you and treat you. Do you see yourself as valuable and worthy of the gift of love? Do you treat yourself lovingly and as a valuable being? And most importantly, do you treat OTHERS with love? That's the first step to feeling better about yourself. Its ok to be truthful with yourself, though it may not be pretty! Awareness is the first and more powerful step on the path to change!

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Start sharing. This is one of the most important steps you need to take. This may be the reason you are suffering and cannot feel love in your life. If you are serious about yourself and don't want to lose yourself, start sharing today. Share with others everything you have. Everybody has something to share. Share your happiness, sadness, money or things you use, and most importantly your knowledge. By sharing slowly and surely, you will start feeling worth for yourself and you will start loving yourself. Initially, you may feel that other people are taking advantage of you, but after a month of practice, you will see a change in yourself.

3. 3FORGIVE yourself if you ever believe you aren't worthy of love. After all, there were probably
things in your childhood or previous years that created that belief for you. It SIMPLY IS NOT TRUE; every being on this planet is worthy of love, after all, love is what we are here for, its what its all about. Say to yourself now; I forgive myself for believing that I was not worthy of love. Go look in a mirror and say it out loud to yourself, look yourself right in the eyes and say it like you mean it.

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Post this affirmation up someplace where you will see it each and every day; "I have the courage to believe that I am worthy of love." Read it out loud, every day, at least once, ideally at least ten times each time you notice it. Sticky notes are fabulous for affirmations.

5. 5Take action and make those words real. Begin loving and valuing yourself. It is said that you cannot
give what you do not have. So, if you are not able to love and accept yourself unconditionally, how in the world are you going to love and accept anyone else unconditionally? Much less accept that love in return from them?

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Learn to let go. There are a lot of people out there that have had hard lives/bad beginnings or moments. A lot of people close up on themselves out of grief or fear and have a hard time opening back up. It is important to let go of all the pain that is still inside of you from that bad experience. This is often the hardest part of the journey, but once you've done it, you will really benefit from it.

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Remember that love is not a feeling, it is a choice! Make the choice to love yourself and the feeling will come. After all, who deserves it more? The more loving you are to yourself, the more loving you will be able to be to everyone around you. Family and friends will especially benefit from this. Make a choice to come from a place of love for yourself and for everyone who is important in your life.

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Think about what you need to fill that emptiness inside, that place that is longing for love. What specifically are you lacking? Find the answer and then give it to yourself. No one is more capable of loving you, and giving you exactly what you need than you are! When you learn how to fulfill yourself in that way, you stop searching for it outside of yourself and you suddenly begin attracting it to you. You change yourself from a sponge to a magnet! People see you radiating self love and they are drawn to you.

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Keep a journal. Write about your experiences, good and bad. When you write down your good experiences allow yourself to feel those good feelings again. When you remember the bad experiences, allow yourself to feel pride. Pride because you faced a challenge in your life and you are here today to write about it, which must mean you are a survivor and a fighter. Tell yourself, "I know pain, but I have yet to be introduced to surrender." Keep on keeping on.

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Do 3 things a day, to change yourself into your dream person If it is gaining or losing weight, then take a step by dancing for 20 minutes. If you want to ace your midterms, study harder. If you need to become more organized and stop procrastinating then start cleaning and maintaining a place for every single item. Do what is on your to do list by scheduling yourself. Those are examples of 3 things to do in one day, to further a goal of someone becoming more fit, working towards a great career and gaining the mental clarity from the liberation of clutter! Achieving your goals, can make you love yourself much more because you are building a foundation of your own life and character. That is very attractive and will make you more valuable! Motivation? Happiness, success and hopefully, inner peace. Grab a hobby, finish or start education. The brand new you will arrive. Success is the best revenge!

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Well this is something that I think is useful, remember that you are only human because sometimes we feel like outcasts or weirdos but that is just something that makes you unique and to be human is to be imperfect Ads by Google Tal Ben-Shahar Speaks Harvard "Happiness Professor" Available To Speak at Your Event www.speakingmatters.org Here's something to try saying every day. Place it on your mirror. It always helps: "Look in the mirror and what do I see? A handsome boy staring back at me!" "Oh wow!" I thought. Who could that be? [smile and say] "Oh! It's most definitely me!" Keep a list of the things you love about yourself or things you've done that if you saw someone else do them, you would love them. For instance, if you scored more in basketball, write it down, then eventually you can build up more pros, to help you know why to love yourself (if you're analytical). Practice Metta meditation. It will help you love yourself and others more. Just don't become vain,vanity is not loving yourself.. Do what you enjoy. Go out anywhere, or with anyone. Or stay at home, prepare yourself a nice meal and settle down with a good book in front of a cozy fire. Make yourself happy. Every time you feel a negative emotion, pause and feel it, then thank yourself for feeling it. Emotions are nothing more than an experience which contributes to who we are. Accepting negative things as good things in another perspective can yield great results. Mirrors will be your friend in this process. Seeing yourself as lovely and worthy of love is extremely important. Pick a favorite characteristic about yourself, and determine what exactly you don't like about yourself. Then proceed to fix these imperfections. Never EVER EVER EVER expect to be like someone else 100%. Use your life to build a mysterious and appealing YOU. Not a remake of someone else which turns people away. Write a diary of your exciting and unique life! Listen carefully to the messages you are sending for yourself. Turn off negative messages or turn them into a positive messages.

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Treat yourself like the most loving parent would Visit the free online guide 'The Art Of Loving Yourself' http://lovingyourself.wordpress.com/

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Loving oneself is different from self-adoration or narcissism, which are negative and a huge turn off to others as they involve placing oneself above others. Loving yourself does not mean grabbing all of the attention and becoming selfish. It is actually a golden confidence that whispers, I know when it is my time to shine and I can become selfless.