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Research indicates that “deeply affected, feeling physical symptoms that Inside this issue:
bullying behavior, when angry, guilty and help- typically affect school
not addressed, fre- less” because either they attendance and perform-
quently leads to increas- don’t know what to do, ance (NEA, 2008; NCPA,
ingly serious behavioral or feel guilt for doing 2008). Worse, as a stu- Who’s At-Risk? 2
issues, “exacting a terri- nothing (NEA, 2008). dent gets older, he or she
ble toll on children” with may believe violence is
lasting scars (NEA, The target of continued the only solution to their Do Bullies Prefer 2
2008). Bullying behavior misery. “One of the com- to be Alone?
bullying begins to live
becomes habitual and a with a constant sense of mon areas that binds all
bully “may not develop a fear, dreading the next of the school shooters History Still in the 2
mature sense of jus- incident. Anxiety, hu- together is all of them Making
tice” (NCPA, 2008). miliation, depression, were the victim of bully-
Thoughts of suicide, and stress often leads to ing” (PBS, 2008). Dr. Ted
An Easy Target 3
criminal activity, and Feinberg states that bul-
family violence into lies are sometimes dealt
adulthood can be the with in a “dramatic and
consequences when final way” when victimi- Breaking the 3
these destructive behav- zation has continued Silence
iors go unabated (NEA, without adult interven-
2008; NYVPRC, 2008). tion (PBS, 2008). How Much? 3
The bystander, even “A very substantial “In the end, all children
when not directly tor- percentage of the are affected when bully- September Q&A 4
mented, still may suffer population views bullying ing goes unad-
the consequences of bul- as a rite of passage.” dressed” (CES, 2008).
lying. Bystanders can be -Dr. Ted Feinberg
Special points of
Teasing & Name Calling interest:
The lasting effects of
In Kevin Henkes book by ium Twinkle loves Chry- attempts to stop this be-
bullying behaviors.
the same name, Chry- santhemum’s name and havior, they can send a
santhemum thinks her her positive influence message that teasing is
The power of influence.
name is absolutely per- inspires others to appre- acceptable and the vic-
fect until school begins. ciate one students beau- tims feel unsup-
Truth or Myth?
By the end of the first tifully unique name ported” (NASP, 2008).
day, Chrysanthemum’s (Henkes, 1991).
The history of Labor
name has gone from ab- Day.
When educators do not
solutely perfect to dread- In the elementary years, accept name-calling and
ful. Mrs. Twinkle, Chry-
Breaking the silence
when name-calling and teasing behavior, stu- bullies depend on.
santhemum’s teacher, teasing first begins, dents frequently begin to
discovers her distinctive teachers are highly influ- establish their own re-
The bully and their
name has become an ential with students. “If spectful and tolerant en- target.
object of derision. Re- teachers allow teasing to vironment.
markably, Mrs. Delphin- continue by not making
Who’s At Risk?
Surprisingly, bullies may be like- discipline styles are either limited emotional reaction or re-
able, and thus have little difficulty “extremely permissive or excessively morse, and there’s little effort ap-
in making friends. Bullies generally harsh” (NYVPRC, 2008). plied to problem solving (NASP,
have a “strong need to dominate 2008).
others” and also tend Dr. Ted Feinberg and a
to be confident, with an team of guidance counsel- Most importantly, Dr. Feinberg and
inflated sense of self- ors found that bullying is his team found that bullying is
esteem (NYVPRC, more prevalent in boys more prevalent in “environments
2008). Bullies are com- than girls, but the gap is dominated by negative feedback and
monly more physically narrowing (NASP, 2008). attention” (NASP, 2008). Educators
aggressive, easily an- When correlating bullying play a critical role in the learning
gered, impulsive, and behaviors to normal peer environment through discussions,
may have problems at interactions, Dr. Feinberg positive behavior reinforcement,
home (NYU, 2008). found that bullies engage role-playing and utilizing character
Bullies usually come in adverse behaviors re- development curricula.
from homes where peatedly, their actions are
there is little positive How are bullies grown? purposeful, they manifest
interaction and where
Bullying In 2005, a group of tweens indicated bullying is “not cool” and felt the need
to do “something.” The great news is 56% said “they usually either say or do
something to try to stop bullying that they observe or tell someone who can
help” (HRSA, 2008).
With increased anti-bullying education, our youth are realizing the critical
Promoting social & role they play in ending bullying in schools and communities (HRSA, 2008).
emotional fitness for kids.
Resources
Cooperative Extension Service. “Bullies.” http://www.ces.ncsu.edu/depts/fcs/pdfs/fcs505.pdf (accessed Sep-
tember, 2008).
Henkes, Kevin. Chrysanthemum. New York: The Trumpet Club, 1991.
Health Resources and Services Administration. “How to Talk with Educators at Your Child’s School About
Bullying.” http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/HHS_PSA/pdfs/SBN_Tip-3.pdf (accessed August, 2008).
Health Resources and Services Administration. “Myths About Bullying.”
http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/HHS_PSA/pdfs/Fact_sheet_Myths-32.pdf (accessed August, 2008).
National Association of School Psychologists. “Bullying Behavior.”
http://artemis.crosslink.net/~scc/Bullytlk.htm (accessed August, 2008).
National Association of School Psychologists. “Name-Calling and Teasing.”
http://www.nasponline.org/resources/handouts/revisedPDFs/namecalling.pdf (accessed August, 2008).
National Education Association. “Bullying Prevention Week-October 5-11.”
http://www.nea.org/takenote/bullyweek.html?mode=print (accessed August, 2008).
National Education Association. “National Bullying Awareness Campaign.”
http://www.nea.org/schoolsafety/bullying.html?mode=print (accessed August, 2008).
Northern County Psychiatric Associates. “Dealing with Bullies and How Not to be One.”
http://www.ncpamd.com/Bullies.htm (accessed September, 2008).
NYU Child Study Center. “Bullies: More Than Sticks, Stones, and Name Calling.”
http://www.aboutourkids.org/articles/bullies_more_sticks_stones_name_calling (accessed April, 2007).
National Youth Violence Prevention. “Bullying Facts and Statistics.”
http://www.safeyouth.org/scripts/faq/bullying.asp (accessed August, 2008).
Michigan Positive Behavior Support Network. “Bullying Websites & Articles.”
http://www.bridges4kids.org/PBS/bullying.htm (accessed September, 2008).