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Preface
Authors
Students and Student Counselors of The Hong Kong University of Science and Technology
Publisher
06 A Process to Understand
Myself Better - Mr.F
08 - AC
10 -
12 - MN
pening
Perspectives
- Lester
18 - KC
20 - C
ocalizing
Feelings
24 Emotions' Battle - LK
26 Life is a Mixture of Tastes - CC
28 - Sue
30 Committing Myself to Challenges
xploring Life,
Discovering Self
34 -
36 - SHM
38 Build Up My Confidence - BC
40 - WM
42 - Lisa
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Peer Counselors -
45 - Agnes Wong
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48 Fruitful & Wonderful
Experience - Kow Hong Yee
20119
First Edition September 2011
All rights reserved
Professional Counselors -
Editor
52 - LQ
Cognition of Emotion
56 - Silver Chan
58 Embrace LoveEnjoy Life
- Vava
60 - Sindy Yip
62 ? - Mabel Wan
You Think ;
therefore I Exist
Preface
From the prime of life at about 30 years of age, our body functions
deteriorate gradually toward old age. At around age 75: our blood pH
regulation will drop to only 20%; taste buds to 30%; oxygen absorption
during exercise to 40%; brain weight, spinal nerve cells, lung volume all
to roughly 60%; cardiac blood output at rest and kidney filtering rate
to 70%; blood circulation for the brain to 80%; and nerve transmission
speed to 90%.
Preface:
Psychological growth, however, can span the whole life. For example,
Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development outlines eight themes that
emerge with prominence at different stages of life: from mistrust to trust,
from shame and doubt to autonomy, from guilt to initiative, from inferiority
to industry, from role confusion to identity, from isolation to intimacy, from
stagnation to generativity, and from despair to ego integrity.* At our unique
baselines, we grow toward our personalized maturity.
* http://psychology.about.com/od/psychosocialtheories/Psychosocial_Theories_of_Personality.htm
** Second Corinthians 4:16, New Testament Bible (Todays English Version)
Learn
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Journey
Mr. F
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http://mytv.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport/103270#page-1
http://mytv.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport/3533#page-1
http://mytv.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport/105177#page-1
http://mytv.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport/105600#page-1
http://mytv.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport/101668#page-1
http://mytv.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport/105998#page-1
http://www.metrohk.com.hk/printable.php?id=131124
Steve Jobs
'You've gotto find what you love,' Jobs says http://news-service.stanford.edu/news/2005/june15/jobs-061505.html
http://www.memail.net/051124/117,1323,1143341,00.shtml
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c o u n s e l o r
c o u n s e l o r
c o u n s e l o r
c o u n s e l o r
s t r o n g
sophisticated
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MN
Learn
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Grow A New
Journey
Vava
Va v a
Vava
Va v a
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Opening
Perspectives
Lester
Two years ago, I was a year one student who got lost and depressed. I
disliked people around me. I hated my family and my jongmates. I did not
want to do anything and failed two core subjects in that semester. I tried to
transfer to other majors in order to restart my university life. As expected,
the transfer was not successful because of my poor results. I was not able
to quit because my family was poor. I could not get into sleep easily. I quit
the society cabinet finally. I really needed someones help and so I went to
counseling. Counseling is really common in western nations but it seems to
be abnormal in Hong Kong. After two years, I really change my perspective
of seeing things around me. Everything has two sides and its a pity that you
only focus on the dark sides but neglect the beauties. Through counseling, I
explore myself and understand myself more. At the beginning, I really relied
on my counselor and wanted her to plan everything for me. However, rather
than that, the counselor helps me figure out my problems and my needs.
This is because the problem returns if you do not dig deeper for the cause.
She is the one who walks along with me instead of pulling me to walk. She
raises me up to face the challenges rather than protecting me. I really feel
relieved and being charged up after each counseling session. If you have
something to share but do not want to let your friend or relatives know, you
may try counseling. You may find a new way out!!
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Opening
Perspectives
SAO
KC
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P S : Va v a
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Opening
Perspectives
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Vocalizing
Feelings
LK
Challenges may exist every day either you have hard times in hall life, studies or
personal relation. Some people are always there to listen to, share with and spend
time with you. They are the counselors from SAO. Having regular appointments
with them, I find this useful. This is a simple way to express your feeling, clarify your
doubts and laugh out loud.
In my two years of studies, I faced many difficulties. I was challenged by my tutor
about my class participation in one of the courses. When I answered the questions,
I always raised my hands first, looked at her, as a signal that I could answer her
questions, and marked down how many questions that I had answered. No matter
how hard I tried to make her understand that I did answer so many questions, she
still did not believe me. I felt extremely frustrated. I valued the course. Even though
I am not a talented student, I found the answers before the lessons. My hard work
was questioned by this stupid tutor. She played favoritism. It was clear that I was
not in her team. It was so hard to believe, in HKUST, such thing does exist. My
counselor guided me, comforted me and taught me that I could not change how
she felt. This is impossible. Therefore, I had to prove that I was capable and I did
not make up my class participation. At the end of the course, I was appreciated by
my classmates. I did not need her appreciation. I got my satisfactory grade for the
course and I learnt something more than the course content throughout this course.
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Feelings
CC
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of var i ous t aste s f r om our enc ounter s,
b e i t swe et , s our, bi t ter o r h ot .
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w a r n i n g l et te r
: " Come and
share with us. A trouble shared is a
t r o ub l e h al ve d."
c o un s e lin g
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Vocalizing
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Feelings
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Exploring
Life,
Discovering
Self
c o u n s e l i n g
Li f t 3 S AO
S AO
c o u n s e l o r
c o u n s e l i n g
c o u n s e l o r
c ounsel o r
counselor
counselor
c o u n s e l o r
c o u n s e l o r
c o un s e l o r
c o u n s e l o r
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Exploring
Life,
Discovering
Self
SHM
C ounsel o r
C o u n s e l o r
C o u n s e l o r
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C o u n s e l o r H K U S T
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Discovering
Self
I am very thankful to have been introduced to the help and support provided by my counselor.
Having many problems such as lacking confidence and easily being discouraged, I didnt find
settling in HKUST easy. After having some confrontations with another student who continued
to verbally insult me, one of my friends made the recommendation to visit a counselor, and
from doing so I received many ideas and insights for dealing with difficult and complicated
situations, and noted certain characteristics about myself which I wasnt aware of.
After many sessions, my personality has noticeably changed. One of the biggest inadequacies
that I had was my lack of confidence and ability to stand up for myself. But now I am more
confident and able to cooperate with others more. Also, I was able to enjoy my life more in
HKUST. Not everything is short and easy. It takes multiple sessions and a long relationship for
the visits to be effective, but it worths.
BC
I highly recommend anyone feeling happy or not, social or lonely, academically well or
otherwise, to talk to a counselor. This is definitely helpful for dealing with stress and other
emotional difficulties, especially in an environment where the competition is fierce and the
workload is heavy.
Thank you so much for your help.
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Exploring
Life,
Discovering
Self
Vava
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Vava
V a v a
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Exploring
Life,
Discovering
MPhil
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Lisa
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Agnes Wong
Peer C ounselor
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Pe e r C o un s e l o r
Peer C ounselor
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Agnes Wong
Peer C ounselor
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Pe e r C o un s e l o r
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Peer
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Kind Hearts
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Voice of
Kind Hearts
Peer Counselors first came into my life via nonlocal postgraduate student help desk in August,
2010. However, I had no knowledge about this
group till late October, 2010, when I participated in
a sharing program for Mainland students.
Amazing!! This is the word that I can use to express my experience of being a Peer
Counselor in HKUST. I am happy that I can be the Peer Counselor in HKUST in my first year
of study.
Being a Peer Counselor, I was offered a lot of opportunities to explore and discover myself,
which has also built up my self-confidence and enhance my view on my life. I joined
the activities organized by the Counseling & Development Service and also helped in
organizing activities. The most memorable activity that I had was my involvement in
organizing the Hall Night for students living in halls. That was an excellent experience
because I could work together in a team to design games, to prepare food and to hold
sharing discussion for the participants. But the most important value that I have gained is to
share our kindness and bring happiness to people around us.
Four years of university study ends very fast. Honestly speaking, study is not the only
component in our university life. On the other hand, there are other values and elements
that we should include in our life too. In the Peer Counselor Program, I learned that there
are lots of chances around us and it totally depends on how we identify and grab those
opportunities. Therefore, we shouldnt limit ourselves to certain boundaries. I also learned
the attitude of being positive-minded in our daily life because this will help people around
us too! This has motivated me and let me enjoy every challenge in my life.
Once again, its extremely my great pleasure to be a Peer Counselor. Although this is only a
one-year program, I strongly believe our spirit as the Peer Counselor will not fade eternally.
I will still continue to share, love, show encouragement as well as bring more happiness to
my friends and students in HKUST!
Tony
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Counselors -
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Voice of
Kind Hearts
Peer Counselors first came into my life via nonlocal postgraduate student help desk in August,
2010. However, I had no knowledge about this
group till late October, 2010, when I participated in
a sharing program for Mainland students.
Amazing!! This is the word that I can use to express my experience of being a Peer
Counselor in HKUST. I am happy that I can be the Peer Counselor in HKUST in my first year
of study.
Being a Peer Counselor, I was offered a lot of opportunities to explore and discover myself,
which has also built up my self-confidence and enhance my view on my life. I joined
the activities organized by the Counseling & Development Service and also helped in
organizing activities. The most memorable activity that I had was my involvement in
organizing the Hall Night for students living in halls. That was an excellent experience
because I could work together in a team to design games, to prepare food and to hold
sharing discussion for the participants. But the most important value that I have gained is to
share our kindness and bring happiness to people around us.
Four years of university study ends very fast. Honestly speaking, study is not the only
component in our university life. On the other hand, there are other values and elements
that we should include in our life too. In the Peer Counselor Program, I learned that there
are lots of chances around us and it totally depends on how we identify and grab those
opportunities. Therefore, we shouldnt limit ourselves to certain boundaries. I also learned
the attitude of being positive-minded in our daily life because this will help people around
us too! This has motivated me and let me enjoy every challenge in my life.
Once again, its extremely my great pleasure to be a Peer Counselor. Although this is only a
one-year program, I strongly believe our spirit as the Peer Counselor will not fade eternally.
I will still continue to share, love, show encouragement as well as bring more happiness to
my friends and students in HKUST!
Tony
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Kind Hearts
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Professional
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1. January 17, 2005, Time Magazine, The Science of Happiness (Cover Story & Special Issue)
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2. Lyubomirsky, S. (2008). The how of happiness: A scientific approach to getting the life you want. New York: Penguin Press.
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