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April 2011
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By chance, a slave became the Queen of a small country. Her first order was that a small hut be built near the royal palace. In it, she put her tattered clothing of slavery as well as a big mirror. The royal ministers asked the Queen to explain her strange behavior, reminding her that the Queen must guard her dignity, even when she is alone. The Queen answered, "Before I became the Queen I was a slave. When I put on the rags of slavery and look at the image of a slave in the mirror, I remind myself that I was a slave. By remembering this I am able to empathize with those who are not yet free, and it is only with this empathy that I can properly understand the significance and responsibilities of being the Queen." At the Passover Seder, we recite Avadim Hayee'nu - We were slaves - and use the symbols of the Seder as a mirror. We taste the bitterness of slavery by eating the maror (onions or horseradish), and we witness the tears of those who are enslaved when we taste the salt water in which we dip the karpas (parsley, celery, carrots or lettuce). By looking into this mirror and reexperiencing slavery, we reaffirm that freedom is precious, and we protect ourselves against taking that precious possession for
B'khol Dor va-Dor: In every generation, we must see ourselves as if we personally were among those who were brought out of We tell the story of our Mitzrayim.
deliverance. As a free people, we proclaim the joy of freedom as we drink sweet wine (or grape juice) and sit in a relaxed atmosphere. We fill the Cup of Elijah and open our doors as an affirmation that we will work to "open doors" that lead to a brighter future. By participating in a Passover Seder each year, we renew our commitment to work towards building a world of universal freedom, justice and peace. This, to me, is the message of Passover. This is our People's most treasured dream. Elissa and I wish everyone Hag Same'ah v'Kasher a joyful and meaningful Pesah.
YIZKOR SERVICE
The Yizkor service is a memorial service recited in conjunction with the major festivals (which are traditionally "family time"): The end of Passover Shavuot Yom Kippur The end of Sukkot (Sh'mini Atzeret) It is a service of memory to recall those who have died and whose lives and deaths have given our lives meaning and direction.
The primary responsibility is to recite prayers of memory for grandparents and parents, spouses, siblings, children and grandchildren. Others come to pay respect to other relatives and friends, both Jewish and non-Jewish.
The Yizkor service is a way to connect our thoughts to those who have influenced our lives and to those whose lives we influence today. It is a reminder that the energies of the past flow through the present to shape the future. Please join us on the evening and morning of the seventh day of Passover for the very significant Yizkor service: Sunday evening, April 24 at 7:30 p.m. Monday morning, April 25 at 10 a.m.
Try to avoid foods with a lot of chemicals/ingredients unless specifically certified for Passover use
Concentrate on simple foods: salads, fresh fruits (if canned, then in its own juice), meats, eggs, milk, natural juices, unprocessed cheese, cottage cheese, natural applesauce, etc. Avoid wheat/flour products and snack foods that do not have a specific certification for Passover. Soft drinks: Diet Coke products are all acceptable for Passover, with or without certification. (Regular Coke requires certification). Go to <http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/pesahguide5771.pdf> for a full listing of the Rabbinical Assembly's Passover Standards. The key is to live with simplicity... we have the freedom to do exactly that.
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As Pesah approaches, I reflect on the many relationships I have formed with congregation members over my past year as president. Beth Am is truly a unique and amazing place, with our membership made up of so many distinct personalities and capabilities. Our membership is comprised of conservatives, liberals, young, old and everything in between. In dealing with so many types of personalities in my role as president, I try to keep in mind a story that my parents told me when I was a young boy and remember each day to use the message of this story as a guide to living my life. Is this story true? As Rabbi Rick so often tell his students, both young and old: "It does not matter if it happened or not, it is what you have learned from the story." I hope this little story will give you as much insight into living each day as it has given me. This story takes place thousands of years ago in ancient Palestine. A man carried two large pots on the ends of a long pole across his back as he returned home after getting water from a nearby stream. Unfortunately, one of the pots developed a small crack. While the other pot was perfect and consistently delivered a full portion of water after the long walk from the stream, the cracked pot leaked, arriving home only half full. Working to capacity, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishment; however, the cracked pot was embarrassed by its inadequacy and felt unhappy that it accomplished only half of what its partner could. After years of failure, the cracked pot spoke to the water
carrier. "I am ashamed of myself. I want to apologize to you." "Why?" asked the carrier. "I deliver only half my capacity because of the crack in my side. My crack makes you work extra hard." Feeling sorry for the cracked pot, the water carrier wanted to pick up its spirits. "The next time we go to the stream for water watch the beautiful flowers on the roadside." The cracked pot noticed the beautiful flowers on the roadside, which made it feel better. But at the end, it still felt bad because it had leaked half its water, so again the pot apologized to the carrier for its failure. The carrier said to the pot, "Did you notice that the flowers were only on your side of the path, not on the other side? Knowing about your flaw, I planted seeds on your side of the path. You watered them every day as we walked back from the stream. Without you being the way you are, we could not have these beautiful flowers to enjoy." While some of us are full of ourselves, each of us has flaws. We're all like the cracked pot. But it's our flaws that make our lives rewarding. Let us appreciate each person for what they are, and look for the good in them.
A PASSOVER GUIDE
A Passover guide, with information about how to make the Seder a memorable experience and how to prepare your home for Passover, is available through a link on the Home page of our website. The guide is also being distributed through our weekly e-mail message. If you don't have e-mail or internet access, printed copies of the guide are available at our office.
everyone in attendance, even those who are not "firstborn"... but only after we study!
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CBA SISTERHOOD
Affiliated with Women's League for Conservative/Masorti Judaism As I write this, the Purim Carnival is coming up and then our joyful celebration of Purim. I hope you were able to participate in one, or both, of these events and most importantly I hope you had the opportunity to have a homemade Hamantaschen! The Baking Day in February was wonderful. Thank you to Norma Greenberg, Lillian Tobias, Lisa Alpert, Katie Alpert, Amber Goldberg and Nancy Brown for making the dough in the morning. Thank you to everyone who came to bake. It was a lot of fun and the best part was watching the children! In February, at the Judaic Needlecraft meeting, there was interest in getting a group together to learn more about needlepoint, knitting, cross-stitch and more. Cyndie Elman very graciously offered to teach. If you are interested in learning or perfecting your skills, or if you would just like to work on your project with others, please contact me so we can make arrangements for the group to meet. For ideas on projects, be sure to check out Crafty Needle either online or on Facebook. Thank you to everyone who responded to the quick survey that was emailed in March via Survey Monkey. Your responses will enable our CBA Sisterhood to make plans for our future. Many of the respondents noted that they hadnt joined Sisterhood because they forgot! It is not too late. Join now and you will be a member through June 30, 2012! On behalf of CBA Sisterhood, I wish all our CBA families a happy and joyous Pesah.
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CONTINUITY AT CBA
Every member of the congregation is invited to attend one of two VITAL meetings with Rabbi Rick in April (a third meeting will be scheduled in May or June). We NEED our members to attend either meeting, which will focus on the continuity of Congregation Beth Am. This is the agenda, in order of priority: Flavor and culture of the congregation What people think the congregation needs to do to service our families' spiritual needs The need for leadership Funding for the Educational expansion Again, this type of meeting with Rabbi Rick is absolutely vital to the continuity of the congregation. The first meeting is at the home of Erica & Paul Karlinsky on Sunday, April 3 at 7 p.m. Please R.S.V.P. (407.804.0935 or ekarlinksy@cfl.rr.com) as soon as possible to get their address and directions. The second meeting is at the home of Margie & Paul Schlesinger on Sunday, April 10 at 4 p.m. Please R.S.V.P. (407.951.6371 or margieinfl@hotmail.com) as soon as possible to get their address and directions. This meeting is vital to our congregation's future. Please call with your YES or NO response, with the hope that you will say YES!!!!!!
Norma Greenberg
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April 2011
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STUDY & DISCUSSION GROUP MEETS AFTER KIDDUSH LUNCHEON EVERY SATURDAY
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9:00 AM 8:00 PM Kabbalat Shabbat Mitzva Class 10:00 AM M'tzora Bat Mitzva Laura Myers Bat Mitzva Laura Myers Sunset: 7:48
10 Men's Club Kashers Kitchen For Passover 9:00 AM Bloodmobile 9:30 AM Religious School 10:00 AM Adult Education 1 11:00 AM Adult Education 2 4:00 PM CBA Meeting at Member's Home 17
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12 5:00 PM Religious School (Winter Springs) 6:00 PM Poker Tournament (Highland Manor) 7:30 PM Board Meeting
13 4:00 PM Raffle Drawing 4:15 PM Religious School (Longwood) 7:15 PM Adult Education 3
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Sunset: 7:52 18 19 OFFICE CLOSED 20 21 22 7:37 Welcome Shabbat At Home With Your Family
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No Religious School 7:15 AM Siyum B'khorim 6:30 PM First Night Congregational Seder NIGHT: Search for hamaytz 24 25
OFFICE CLOSED 7:00 PM Book & No Religious School No Religious School Movie Club 10:00 AM 9:00 AM (Member's Festival Morning Home) Festival Morning Service Service Evening: (COS) Second Night Seder (at home) 26 27 28
No Religious School OFFICE CLOSED OFFICE CLOSED 10:00 AM Festival Morning Service & Yizkor
4:15 PM Religious School No Religious School (Longwood) 9:00 AM Festival Morning Service (COS) Passover Ends At Sunset
8:00 PM 9:00 AM Kabbalat Shabbat Mitzva Class 10:00 AM K'doshim Bar Mitzva Jonah Goldberg Bar Mitzva Jonah Goldberg
Sunset: 8:00 Adult Ed. 3: Reading the Bible "Between the Lines"
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EBAY AT CBA
Do you have:
A gift or gift certificate that you can't use? A piece of artwork that used to hang in your house but no longer fits in? New or gently used non-clothing items? Designer clothing or accessories? Jewelry that you no longer wear? An impulse buy that you don't use?
You support Beth Am and get the tax deduction we sell the items on eBay and other venues and use the proceeds to fund operations, activities and programming at Beth Am. We thank the people who have given us items to sell and we thank Herb Weissman, through whose efforts we are raising almost $300 each month. He has sold electronics, small appliances, artwork, menoras, candlesticks, etc. So please think of CBA when you think of disposing of gently used items you no longer need. Please call Herb (407.774.9695) if you have any questions or to arrange for pickup of your unused treasures.
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SUPPORTERS OF BETH AM
ONEG/KIDDUSH SPONSORS The Kirschenbaum Family, to celebrate their granddaughter, Leah Avery Falkner, receiving the title of a Hebrew name Anita & Bernardo Perelmuter, to celebrate their grandson Ethan becoming a Bar Mitzva Renee & Steven Perelmuter, to celebrate their son Ethan becoming a Bar Mitzva Jill & Jim Riola, in appreciation of the Board of Directors Nancy & Marc Sharfman, to celebrate their 12th wedding anniversary Lori & Todd Sitrin, to celebrate Alex and Jamie becoming B'nai Mitzva Suzanne & Eric Weinstein, to celebrate their daughter Emily becoming a Bat Mitzva GENERAL FUND Anne & Alan Brown, to honor the memory of Alan's father, Sidney Brown Jo Ann & Stuart Farb, to honor the memory of Ceil Rosenberg's father, Louis Schiff Kim & Howard Finkelstein, to honor the memory of Howard's father, Lee Finkelstein Rivka & Yerach Lazarovitz, in appreciation of being called to the Torah for an aliya Miriam Levy, to honor the memory of Ivor's mother, Leah Levy Miriam Levy, to honor the memory of Ivor's sister, Betty Silverne Gloria Schwartz, to honor the memory of Bea Finkelstein, mother, grandmother and dear friend Bernie Siegel, to honor the memory of his mother, Anny Siegel Diane & Marc Siegel, to honor the memory of Diane's grandmother, Erna Stern Helen Tishman, to honor the memory of her first husband, Leon Tishman Lillian Tobias, to honor the memory of her sister, Selma Pensky Lillian Tobias, to celebrate the birthday of Edith Zwick Rachel Weiner, to honor Judith Smith "DOR-TO-DOR" (GENERATION-TO-GENERATION) CAMPAIGN TO FUND SCHOOL ADDITION Sandy & Alan Hammer, to honor their granddaughters, Lily and Maddie Feinman Erica & Paul Karlinsky, in appreciation of Rabbi Rick's kindness Bernice Shapiro, to honor the memory of her husband, William "Bill" Shapiro Sheila & Joseph Shapiro, to honor Rachel, Sam, Lindsey and Rebecca Ruth & Moishe Sniad, to honor the memory of Ruth's father, Carl Liebeskind EDUCATION FUND Frances & Fred Brown, to honor the memory of Fred's father, Sidney Brown RABBI'S DISCRETIONARY FUND Ruth & Moishe Sniad, in appreciation of Rabbi Rick and to honor Kedron Morgenstern
* Denotes plaque on Memorial Board in our Sanctuary. Please call our office to memorialize your loved ones with a plaque.
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We welcome the following members to the Beth Am family: Karen & Harry Lipkind Barbara & Sherwin Sokolov
APRIL ANNIVERSARIES
1 1 3 4 5 8 8 Tammy & Bruce Weinstein Nance & Louis Wilson Leah & Eric Smith Jessica & Josh Kane Jo Ann & Sam Woociker Heddy & Michael Bernstein Robyn & Kevin Colley 8 8 9 13 14 16 16 Robin & Jay Mackler Nancy & Ron Stern Marlene & Michael Steinfeld Stacey & Sheldon Weiss Krissy & Evan Gardner Lilly & Doug Robbins Edith & Charles Schulman
APRIL BIRTHDAYS
1 1 1 1 2 3 3 3 3 3 4 4 4 6 6 6 Luci Belnick Steve Jaffe Carol Kirschenbaum Ethan Perelmuter Lloyd Werk Jonathan Eichenholz Sydney Forrest Jonathan Katz Lindsey Shapiro Lucas Zick Jonah Goldberg Marc Greenstein Jacob Karlinsky Nathan Altidor Sheila Rashy Aileen Schaked 6 6 6 7 7 8 9 9 9 10 11 11 11 11 11 12 Lisa Shenkman Logan Sheplan Larry Silver Craig Golub SuzAnne Kaltbaum Michael Baron Rich Gair Laura Myers Joan Somers Sue Brodersen Jackie Arndt Mike Berren Paul Brodersen Hailey Perlstein Lilly Robbins Alan Applebaum 12 12 12 14 15 15 15 15 16 16 16 16 17 17 17 Abby Arace Lori Helman Ceil Rosenberg Ed Sheplan Linda Bernstein Sue Bobele Arielle Cooper Sari Greenstein Pam Bellet Karen Klein Hannah Sabulsky Hannah Woociker Rich Altman Russell Goldberg Renee Moss 17 18 18 18 18 21 21 22 22 23 23 23 24 24 24 25 Michael Steinfeld Robyn Eichenholz Nancy Mendel Gabrielle Perlstein Aubrey Stern Sherwood Weisman Mike Zelkowitz Caryn Coultoff Theresa Myers Warren Moss Steve Seidler Jason Tollefson Jeff Green Rebecca Katz Thom Oxborough Becky Goldstein 25 25 26 26 27 27 27 28 28 28 28 28 29 29 29 30 Millie Harris Morgan Ulch Anna Karasik Maxine Morris Marissa Kaprow Ed Pollack Susan Shapiro Serena Martin Steve Sable Sam Shapiro Heidi Ulch Ronni Wortman Elizabeth Barnes Erica Karlinsky Tobey Smith Sasha Klein
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