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"The Vice Chancellor said that he hadn't taken a decision about the demands. He left the students up in the air." "That's a good example. Don't do this to me, please. Don't leave me up in the air like this." "That's the kind of treatment we get in most government offices. Whenever we go to the municipal office, for example, we are usually left hanging. Most of the time you won't find anyone at the table." "That's true. If we had those kind of people in our office, my boss would ask them to either shape up or ship out." "Shape up or ship out? Does it mean behave yourself or just leave?" "That's right. When you tell someone to shape up or ship out, you are warning them that if they don't behave themselves, you will ask them to leave. In other words, you want them to meet your expectations. Here's an example. Nandini, you're constantly handing in your assignments late. Shape up or ship out." "This is the third time this month that our new driver has been involved in an accident. Tell him that he either shapes up or ships out." "I am sorry to say that your performance hasn't been up to the mark. Either you shape up or ship out." "You sound like my principal. He is such a... " "Stop griping to me about your principal." "Doing business without advertising is like winking at a girl in the dark. You know what you are doing, but no one else does." Stewart Henderson Britt
*The second hand scooter I bought recently hasn't given me any trouble. Knock on wood. There are several explanations as to the origin of this expression. According to some scholars, it comes from an old superstitious belief that knocking on a tree (wood) helped to drive away evil spirits. Another explanation is that `touch wood' was the name of a tag game that children played. The aim of the game was to run after your opponents and catch them. But if an individual was touching a tree (wood), then he was safe; he couldn't be `captured'.
What is the difference between `He is my best friend' and `He is a close friend'?
(S. Malavikka, Chennai) It is possible for you to have several `close' friends. When you say, `He is my best friend', it suggests that he is the individual who is the closest to you; it's this person with whom your share your most intimate thoughts.
What's the difference between `see through someone' and `look through someone'?
(G. Ramesh, Pillani) When you look through someone, you see the person, but pretend not to. As far as you are concerned he is not there, he doesn't exist. When you see through someone, you are able to figure out what the individual is up to. In other words, you understand what he is planning to do; what his intentions are even though the individual is trying his best to hide them. *Harish was able to see through Narender's scheme right from the beginning.
(D. Sridhar, Jamshedpur) No, it is not. Players are shown `a' yellow card, and not `an' yellow one. Many words beginning with the letter `y' are preceded by 'a'. For example, you say, `a young man', `a yard', and `a year'. "One of the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is the belief that one's work is terribly important." Bertrand Russell
"Not give a hoot! I think I've heard that expression before. Doesn't it mean not care one bit or something like that?" "Wow, you're in excellent form today! When you don't give a hoot about something, you don't care about it at all. I don't give a hoot whether the star is sent to jail or not." "The teacher doesn't give a hoot whether we come to class or not." "That's not being a very responsible teacher! Here's another example. My friend Ganpat gives a hoot whether our team does well or not in the tournament." "Your friend Ganpat is pretty strange. How is his new business doing?" "Not very well, I am afraid. Straight arrows like Ganpat never make good businessmen." "A straight arrow? What does it mean?" "When you refer to someone as being a straight arrow what you mean is that he is an honest person. Someone who follows all the laws." "If you want to run a business, you can't be a straight arrow." "Exactly! Your friend Raja is not a straight arrow. I just don't trust him." "What are you talking about? He is... ." "Relax, I was just giving an example. The expression `straight shooter' has the same meaning as `straight arrow'. Both are normally used in informal contexts." "I see. How about this example? We need to elect a straight shooter to office this time. This person needs to help us and not himself." "Straight shooters don't make good politicians." "Sad, but true. Most political parties avoid straight arrows." "Most politicians look right through them." "I'd much rather be a woman than a man. Women can cry, they can wear cute clothes, and they are the first to be rescued off sinking ships." Gilda Radner
"So what you are saying is that your boss' request is equivalent to a command!" "Yes, that's right! There is no difference between the two." "How about this example? The superstar's statement was tantamount to saying that actors and politicians are above the law." "In India they are, aren't they?" "Yes, they are. Met Sujatha on my way here, and as usual we had a fight." "What was it about?" "It was about the word `timings'. She said that it doesn't exist. I told her she was crazy." "She may be crazy, but she is right. You see... ." "What are you talking about? We talk about `Office timings' all the time." "True. But it's an Indianism. Native speakers would say, `working hours' or `office hours'. Anyway, what else did you and Sujatha talk about?" "About how dangerous train travel has become these days." "I guess the Railway Minister wants to make train travel as exciting as living in Bihar. You never know what is going to happen next." "That's exactly what Sujatha and I were discussing about. You see, when ... ." "You cannot say `discuss about'. You can `talk about something', but you `discuss something'. You do not `discuss about something'." "I see. Can we discuss this matter tomorrow? How does it sound?" "Sounds great! Here's another example. I am afraid you are all too tired to discuss the matter now. Let's wait till tomorrow. Tell me, why were the two of you talking about travelling by train?" "Because Sujatha is going to Patna next week. Official work, she said." "Take a train to Patna! She should sleep on it. You see, it ... ." "Sleep on it? Sleep on what? What are you talking about?" "When you tell someone to sleep on something, what you want him to do is to give the matter some thought before taking a decision." "I see. How about this example? I don't want you to give an answer right now. Sleep on it, and let me know tomorrow." "Good example. Chandu proposed to Malathi. She didn't give an answer immediately. She said that she would like to sleep on it."
"I think I understand how the expression `sleep on' is used. Tell me, we have `sleep on'. Do we have the expression `sleep in' as well?" "Yes, we do! The expression has several different meanings. When you `sleep in' you oversleep. For example, we have all slept in one time or the other." "My father missed the early morning flight because he slept in." "We were late for the appointment because the CEO slept in." "Well, if the CEO slept in, then I guess he can't blame anybody else. Anyway, what is the other meaning of `sleep in'?" "The expression can also be used to mean to get up late on purpose. For example, we completed our project at 3: 00 a.m on Friday. The members of the team decided to sleep in on Saturday." "Meaning that they will be getting up very late on Saturday?" "That's right! They may decide to spend most of the day sleeping." "That's what I would like to do. I would like to sleep in all weekend. Unfortunately, my parents think I should study." "A hair in the head is worth two in the brush." Don Herold
it didn't perform well in the race. So when you say that someone has got your goat, you are comparing yourself to the horse, and not the goat.
*I think some of our politicians are selling our country out. *I certainly don't wish to sell you out. `Okay, so God made man first. But doesn't everyone make a rough draft before they make a masterpiece?' Courtney Huston
February 2006
The word `sting' also means to `cheat' or `swindle' something that our politicians excel in doing. Isn't it only fair that after having cheated us, they get stung in return? You know what they say, what goes around, comes around!
Is it okay to say, "Every day they have wada and dosa during the midday?"
(S. Shanthi, Trichy) We know when we say `midday', we mean 12 o'clock in the afternoon. Since we are referring to a specific time in the afternoon, we should use `at' and not `during'. We should say, "They have wada and dosai" at midday. If you would like to use `during', then use `middle' rather than `midday'. *The clerk told us that the forms would be distributed at midday. *You'd better take a cap. It gets really hot during the middle of the day. "Please excuse Ronald from P.T for a few days. Yesterday he fell out of a tree and misplaced his hip." Note from a mother
"That's true. I'm sure you're relieved. Hey, I heard that you finally went to see the hit movie yesterday. What did you think of it? It was very moving, wasn't it?" "Yes, it was a moving experience. It made me move out of my seat and... . out of the theatre." "You must be joking." "I'm not. I walked out after half an hour." "You mean to say that you didn't like the movie? I thought it was great." "You thought it was great. I thought it was syrupy." "Syrupy? What is that supposed to mean?" "When you say that something is syrupy, what you mean is that it is too sweet. It is rather sentimental. In other words, you dislike it." "The word is mostly used to show disapproval then?" "That's right. For example, girls generally go gaga over syrupy love stories." "No, they don't. Not nowadays, anyway. How about this example? I hate it when they make books into movies. The movie always turns out to be syrupy." "You have a point there. You know what they say. The book is always better than the movie." "The lyrics of this song are rather syrupy." "That's another good example. Now before we go any further, let's ... ." "Wait, wait. There's one thing that I've been meaning to ask you. What's the difference between `farther' and `further'?" "In some cases there is no difference." "Are you sure?" "Well, if you are thinking about distance, the two words can be used synonymously." "So, in a sentence like, `We need to drive ten miles further to reach our destination', we can use `farther' as well?" "Yes, that's right. Here's another example. The injured man walked a little further/farther along the path before he found someone who could help him." "They tell me that Vijayawada is further/farther away than Hyderabad." "What are you talking about? I just ... ." "It was just an example. That's all. So are you saying there is no difference between farther and further? None at all?"
"Of course, there is a difference. The word `further' can be used to mean `in addition' or `more'. `Farther' cannot be used in this way." "If you wish to have further discussions, please meet me in my office." "That's a good example. In such a context, you cannot use `farther'. The floods caused further damage to the old bridge." "I don't think we should discuss this matter any further." "Hey, that's a nice shirt. Where did you get it?" "Thanks. Cost me two hundred and fifty." "Two hundred and fifty rupees! That's a rip-off!" "Rip-off? You mean the shirt is torn somewhere?" "No, no! I mean to say that you were cheated. Rip-off is a term used in informal contexts to mean `deceive' or `cheat'. "If you are not careful, you'll get ripped off." "I once wanted to become an atheist, but I gave up they have no holidays." - Henry Youngman
"I see. Can I say... ." "Do you know where the word `stymie' comes from?" "Haven't a clue." "It's a term that is used in golf. When you are stymied, you really don't know what to do because your opponent's ball is between yours and the hole." "In other words, it is blocking your shot?" "That's right." "It's a pretty awkward position to be in, I guess. How about this example? The students' plans to have a rock concert were stymied when the principal refused allow outsiders into the campus." "Why do you always have to make the principal the villain in your examples?" "Well, someone has to be the villain. So, why not the principal?" "Raju was stymied when Satish refused to help him when he had money problems." "Why should he have been stymied? After all, when Satish had problems, Raju never helped him. You cannot expect someone... ." "You take everything too seriously. You need to lighten up." "Lighten up? Do you mean to say that I am putting on weight?" "No, no! It has nothing to do with weight. When you tell someone to lighten up, you are asking them to relax." "In other words, you are telling them to take it easy. To calm down." "Exactly! You don't have to shout at her so much. All she did was ask you an innocent question. You need to lighten up." "I'll tell you who needs to lighten up. Promod!" "You have a point there! He gets upset about everything doesn't he? But who is going to tell him to lighten up? Everyone is scared of him." "Well, that's true. What was it that stymied the Minister? Has someone found evidence that his colleagues have been lining their pockets?" "Lining their pockets? Hey, I have come across that expression before. Doesn't it mean to make money in an illegal manner or something like that?" "Exactly!" "Politicians taking money is not considered news in India. We expect them to. The problem is many of our politicians are more interested in lining their pockets than in serving the people."
"You can't really blame them for wanting to line their pockets. After all, they spend lots of money trying to become a minister." "That's true. And as soon as they become public servants, they begin to treat the public like servants!" "You have a point there! I just read somewhere that some of the top executives in a well known company were more interested in lining their pockets than in looking after the welfare of their employees." "Nothing new in that. Happens all the time." "You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance." Franklin P. Jones
"Of course, I can say it. You don't know my principal..." "What I am trying to tell you is, `say our opinion' is wrong. You can `give your opinion', `express your opinion', and `state your opinion'. But you cannot `say your opinion'." "I see. The teacher refused to give her opinion on the matter." "The author expresses his opinion about the cricket team in this article." "Do I really have to give my opinion? I don't feel like doing so." "Tell me, why didn't the principal allow the students to talk?" "He was angry that we entered his room without permission." "You should have waited. What was..." "Waited? We waited for half an hour before entering his room." "The principal must have sensed that you people were angry about something. That's the reason why he was letting you cool your heels." "Cool our heels? What are you talking about?" "When you let someone cool his heels, you make him wait for some time." ""But by making people wait, you only succeed in increasing their anger. While he was having dinner, he made his clients cool their heels in the lobby of the hotel." "That's not a nice thing to do. Whenever my secretary gets angry about something, I never ask her to come and see me immediately. I let her cool her heels for a while before talking to her about it." "Government officials make it a habit of making people cool their heels." "That's probably because many of the people who work in government offices think they are the cat's whiskers." "Cat's whiskers? What does it mean?" "When you say that you are the cat's whiskers, what you are suggesting is that you are better than those around you. You are the most outstanding." "In other words, the others are beneath you." "I guess you could say that. For example..." "Let me try. Cinderella probably thought that she was the cat's whiskers in her new dress." "Many of our film stars think that they are the cat's whiskers." "That's probably because everyone keeps running after them. Not even in government offices are they made to cool their heels."
"Sad, but true." "However far your travels take you, you will never find the girl who smiles out at you from the travel brochure." Unknown
March 2006
The dictionaries list only `once and for all'. The expression is used to mean `now and for the last time'. When you do something once and for all, you finish doing it so that you don't have to worry about it again. *After she completes the project, Seetha plans to return to France once and for all.
The majority of people who live in this region speak either Spanish or Portuguese. Both these languages, unlike English, have descended from Latin. Hence South America is called `Latin America', and the people who live there are called `Latinos' or Latin Americans.
Which is correct "My house is opposite to the railway station" or "My house is opposite the railway station"?
(V. S. Paul Devasahayam, Madurai) You normally say that the house is opposite the railway station, and not `opposite to'. When you use the word `opposite' in this manner, you are suggesting that there is something separating the two objects. In this case, it could be that the railway station and your house are separated by a road or a street. Opposite implies that the two buildings are on different sides of the road/street. Similarly, when you say, "Divya's room is opposite Puja's", what you are suggesting is that the two rooms are facing each other; there is a corridor between them. *The nearest supermarket is opposite the hospital. *The people who live opposite Anand's house are slightly crazy.
Cricket commentators talk about `the rub of the green... ' What does it mean?
(Rajesh, Delhi) This is an expression that is mostly used in the context of sports. In the first test match, for example, England had the rub of the green on the fourth day. The Indians fielded poorly and dropped a few catches. Even some of the umpiring decisions went England's way. The visitor's seemed to have all the luck. When you say that someone has the rub of the green, what you are implying is that everything is going their way they have dame luck on their side. *Ananya hasn't had the rub of the green in the last few tournaments
(B. Jambulingam, Thanjavur) The war in Iraq has given rise to a new sort of journalism mouse journalism. This is a term coined by Robert Fisk, a correspondent of the Independent. He said that the situation in Iraq is so dangerous for journalists, that mouse journalism is the best way for correspondents to stay alive. In this sort of journalism, the reporter goes to the scene of the event, gathers news as quickly as possible (usually about ten minutes), and leaves before "men with guns arrive." `Dear God, Thank you for the baby brother, but what I prayed for was a puppy.' A child.
"That's right." "Tell me, how do you pronounce a..l..b..e..i..t?" "That's a word I haven't come across in a while. The first syllable is like the word `all', and the second is pronounced like the word `bee'. As for the final syllable, it's... ." "It's probably pronounced like the word `it', right?" "Exactly! The main stress is on the second syllable. Any idea what the word means?" "The character in this book says, `The Government was making progress, albeit, slowly.' My guess is, it means `although'." "Very good! That's exactly what it means. It's mostly used in formal contexts." "I guessed as much. How about this example? Renu tried, albeit unsuccessfully, to jog 20 miles." "Sounds good. But if I were you, I would avoid the word. It's considered rather old fashioned. Your teacher might frown on it." "No way! Haven't you heard? Our teachers are on strike. Isn't that great?" "For you, maybe. But why are they on strike?" "I think they want more money. The good news is that all the faculties are on strike. And they will be on strike for at least a week." "You mean the faculty is on strike, don't you?" "I am talking about all the teachers from our college. So shouldn't it be faculties?" "No, the entire teaching staff is usually referred to as `faculty'. Not faculties." "I see. The faculty agreed to work on a Sunday. How does that sound?" "Sounds good. Here's another example. Our faculty will be on strike all of next week." "Let's forget about `faculty' for the time being. Tell me, what does `faculties' mean? The word exists, doesn't it?" "Of course, it does. The word `faculties' is used to refer to the power of the mind or body." "In other words, you are talking about an individual's physical and mental abilities." "That's right. Here's an example. The man is nearly 95 years old. You can't possibly expect him to be in possession of all of his faculties." "The man was drunk. He definitely wasn't in control of his faculties." "Are you in control of your faculties?"
"We're going to have the best educated American people in the world." George W. Bush
April 2006
"If the company is doing really well, why is your boss unwilling to give you a raise?" "Why don't you go ask the worrywart?" "The who?" "The worrywart. A worrywart is someone who worries excessively. He worries even when there is no reason to. When I went to the library, I ran into that worrywart, Harish." "I hate meeting worrywarts. Ten minutes after being with one, you end up feeling depressed." "That's true. Just imagine how I feel after spending half an hour with you." "I may make you feel depressed every now and then, but I am certainly not a worrywart." "You have a point there. I was just trying to needle you." "Needle me? Does it mean that you were trying to irritate me?" "Yes, that's right. When you needle someone, you are trying to annoy or irritate him/her by making unkind remarks. Raju enjoys needling his neighbour about her accent." "How about this example? The students succeeded in needling the new teacher." "Sounds good. Maybe I should keep needling my boss till he gives me a raise." "I seriously doubt if you will get one by needling him. Anyway, how is work? Enjoying it?" "Spinning my wheels. That's all." "Spinning your wheels? What are you talking about?" "When you say that all you're doing is spinning your wheels, what you mean is that you are wasting your time. I think I need to find another job. Something more challenging. I feel that I am just spinning my wheels here." "Lots of students spend their three years in college spinning their wheels." "Everyone has a purpose in life. Perhaps yours is watching television." David Letterman
(Neha Singh, Pune) The word `shy' is often added to nouns like `camera', `gun' and `publicity' to mean that that an individual is not particularly fond of that thing. For example, a person who is `camera-shy' does not like standing before cameras; he/she doesn't like getting his/her picture taken. Similarly, a person who is `publicity-shy' will do anything to avoid publicity. He doesn't want his name mentioned in the media. A person who is `gun-shy' is afraid of guns and tries to keep away from them. Guns and the noise they make, make him nervous. Nowadays, the expression `gun-shy' has taken on a wider meaning. When you say that someone is `gun-shy', what you mean is that the individual is very timid and afraid to take risks. *After their last bridge collapsed, the company is gun-shy to build any new ones.
*Jai shouted to us to come and join him on the boat. "You know your children are growing up when they stop asking you where they came from and refuse to tell you where they're going." P.J. O'Rourke
What is the meaning of `what is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander'?
(P. Habeeb Rahman, Madurai) Some parents treat their sons and daughters differently; they do not have the same set of rules for the two. For example, they may allow their sons to go out with their friends on Friday evenings, but may not allow their daughters to do so. As far as they are concerned, it is not okay for girls to go out. Such parents do not believe that what is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. In other words, they don't think that what is appropriate for one person, is appropriate for another. It's also possible to say, `what's good for the goose is good for the gander'. The expression has been around for several centuries, and is considered rather old fashioned. *If you're going to punish me for watching too much television, then you should punish Geetha, too. What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.
*After the riots, it took a week for some semblance of order to return. `Semblance' can also be used to suggest a likeness between two objects. *The clouds took on the semblance of a small elephant.
What's the difference between `I am giving an exam' and `I'm taking an exam'?
(U. N. Limaye, Pune) When you say that you are `taking' an exam, it means that you are going to be writing one. In other words, you are going to be a candidate, an examinee. When you say that you are going to be `giving' an exam, it means that you are going to give someone else an exam; you are the examiner. You are probably a teacher and you are going to give your students an exam. In India, this distinction is not always maintained. "The best way to keep children at home is to make the home atmosphere pleasant - and let the air out of their tires." Dorothy Parker
What is the difference between `slap on the back' and `slap on the wrist'?
(P. Yadav, Patna) As a child, whenever you did something wrong, you invariably got punished for it. Sometimes the punishment wasn't as severe as you had expected it to be; in fact, it turned out to be pretty mild. When you get slapped on the wrist for doing something wrong, you receive punishment which is not as severe as it might have been. People who drive without a license shouldn't get off with a slap on the wrist. They should be put in jail. *The children got a slap on the wrist for not doing their homework. The expression `get your wrist slapped' has the same meaning as `slap on the wrist'. *We got our wrists slapped for not drinking the milk. You normally hit someone on the back when you are proud of what he/she has done. The idiom `slap on the back' is used to show approval. It has the same meaning as `pat on the back'. *We should give Rahul a slap on the back for helping us organise the cultural programme.
Which of the following sentences is correct? `The majority of the applicants is not qualified' or `The majority of the applicants are not qualified'?
(M. Ratnasabapathi, Neyveli) The second sentence is grammatically correct. `Majority of' is invariably followed by a plural noun. For example, we say, `majority of students', `majority of young mothers' and `majority of cases'. Since the noun in all the examples is plural, the verb that follows must also be plural. *The majority of students are unwilling to take part in the strike. When `the majority' is not followed by `of', then the verb that follows can be either singular or plural. For example, *The majority is of the opinion that we must go on strike. *The majority feel threatened by the possible changes. "The phrase `working mother' is redundant." Jane Sellman
May 2006
The term is also used in cricket. When a batsman `stonewalls', he spends a lot of time at the crease without really attempting to score runs.
"Exactly! So when you say `down to the wire', what you actually mean is `up to the finishing line'. The race was exciting right up to the finishing line." "That makes sense. Tell me, have you decided whether you are going to buy that beautiful flat you saw last week?" "I have decided not to." "But why? You liked the flat so much. Why have... ." "The builder wants me to pay 60 per cent of the amount immediately. I don't have that kind of money right now. I told him that I would be able to pay the advance in dribs and drabs, but he... ." "Dribs and drabs? What does that mean?" "What do you think it means?" "It probably means in small amounts. You told the builder that you couldn't pay 60 per cent of the money at one go. But you would be willing to pay him in small amounts over a period of time." "Exactly! For example. Not all the students were allowed to enter the museum at the same time. The children were let into the main hall in dribs and drabs." "How about this example? The striking miners returned to work in dribs and drabs." "Sounds good. " "But tell me, where does the word `dribs' come from?" "It's the short form of `driblet', which in the 17th Century meant `a drop' or `tiny quantity'. Some believe it comes from `dribble' meaning `trickle'. Do you know what trickle means?" "Of course, I do! It means to flow out very slowly and in small quantity." "Well done! The word `drab' was used in the early 1800s to refer to a small sum of money." "A small amount of money trickling down at irregular intervals. Hence, dribs and drabs." "It can be a small amount of something or a small number of something." "Tell me, how do you pronounce l..a..t..i..n..o?" "Well, the `a' in the first syllable is like the `a' in `cat', `bat' and `hat', and the following `i' is like the `ee' in `fees', `bees', and `knees'." "And I guess the final `no' is pronounced like the word `no'." "Exactly! The main stress is on the ... ." "It must be on the first syllable." "Sorry, no. It's on the second syllable `ti'. Do you know what `Latino' means?"
"I have no idea." "A `Latino' is someone from Latin America who has settled down in the U.S. It's a term mostly used in American English." "My wife is suffering from sickness and as I am her only husband at home, I may be granted leave." Unknown
What is the difference between `Only Ram can play tennis' and `Ram can only play tennis'?
(Pradeep, Shimoga)
The first sentence means that no person other than Ram can play tennis. You may have many friends who play games, but none of them, except Ram, can play tennis. They may play other games, but not tennis. The second sentence, on the other hand, means that tennis is the only game that Ram can play. He cannot play any other game. Your other friends may play cricket, table tennis, badminton, etc, but Ram cannot play any of these. Here are a few more examples. *Only Geetha likes the Physics teacher. (No other student likes the teacher.) *Geetha likes only the Physics teacher. (She doesn't like any other teacher.)
What is the difference between `psych out' and `psych someone out'?
(C. Ganpat, Hyderabad) Both are expressions used in informal contexts. When you `psych out' you become terribly excited about something. You get so excited that in the process you sometimes lose your ability to think clearly. *When my brother saw the new car I had bought, he psyched out. When you `psyche someone out' you get them very excited and make them lose control of their mental ability. *Watching their children spending money recklessly psyched out the parents. The expression can also be used to mean `to figure someone out'. When you `psyche someone out' you begin to understand how his mind works. *After having been married for twenty years, I still haven't psyched out my wife. "The trouble with children is that they are not returnable." Quentin Crisp
"There are a few things more satisfying than seeing your children have teenagers of their own." Doug Larson
"Hoops. When you jump through hoops, you do everything that the other person wants you to." "In other words, you bend over backwards to please the individual." "Exactly! Here's an example. I don't get along with Radha. She wants all her friends to jump through hoops for her. Something that I am not willing to do." " You can also say, `jump through a hoop'. For example, I am not willing to jump through a hoop for you." "I don't expect a Scrooge like you to...." "Me? A Scrooge! I've lent you more than 500 rupees. Fork it over." "Fork it over! What are you talking about?" "When you ask someone to fork something over, you want him to hand it over to you. The expression is used in informal contexts and is usually used with money." "You borrowed money from me last week. Fork it over. How does it sound?" "Good. Now about that money you borrowed...." "Do you think the bank will fork over more money to help us...." "I don't think so. Tell me, how was the movie that you were planning to see yesterday?" "I didn't go. You see, it was so hot yesterday that I decided to stay indoor and watch TV instead." "You decided to stay indoors not indoor." "How do you use `indoor' then?" "Table tennis is an indoor game." "There are many hotels which have an indoor swimming pool." "Good example. Most gyms are indoors. Now coming back to the five hundred rupees! When are you going to fork it over?" "My! My! Just look at the time. It's getting late! Good night Scrooge!" "Children really brighten up a household. They never turn the lights off." Ralph Bus
June 2006
The `oi' is like the `oy' in `boy', `toy', and `joy'; the following `g' is silent. The first syllable `poign' therefore rhymes with the word `coin'. The sound following the `n' is like the `y' in `yes', `yell', and `yellow'. The `a' that follows is like the `a' in `china', and the main stress is on the first syllable. When you say that something is `poignant', what you mean is that it affects you very deeply and makes you feel rather sad. Please change the channel. I am not in the mood to watch a poignant love story.
What's the difference between "How are you?" and "How do you do?"
(Rohan Tendulkar, Bidar) In British English, `How do you do?' is normally used when you are introduced to someone for the first time. It is a way of greeting someone, and the standard response to this expression is, `How do you do?' You normally use this expression only once with a person. The next time you meet him, you can say, `How are you?' This expression is used with people you already know. Unlike `How do you do', `How are you' is intended to find out how the individual is doing both emotionally and physically. `How do you do?' does not carry this meaning. Did you know that the word `hi' is actually from `how are you'? When `how are you' is said very fast, it sounds like `hiya'. So instead of saying, `how are you', people started saying, `hiya'. Later on, `hiya' was reduced to `hi'. Therefore when you meet someone and say, `Hi, how are you?', what you are actually saying is, `How are you? How are you?'.
When you `shovel something down', you take a huge bite of something and gulp it down very quickly. It is an expression that is mostly used in informal contexts. Listen, you don't have to shovel your sandwich down. We have plenty of time. When you `shovel something into something', you make use of a shovel to put something into something else. The old gardener spent a lot of time shovelling gravel into the wheelbarrow. "When you steal from one author, it's plagiarism; when you steal from many, it's research." Wilson Mizner
"I have a cousin who thinks that bottom fishing will always get you something of value." "Not always, I am afraid. Personally, I don't think bottom fishing is always wise. There is a reason why the seller is willing to sell something at such a low price." "You have a point there." "Of course, I do! My cousin who plays the stock market does a lot of bottom fishing." "Your cousin? Which one? The one who lost a lot of money recently?" "Yes, that's right! It seems to make no difference to him. Whenever he loses money, he sponges from his parents." "Sponges from his parents? What does it mean?" "When you sponge something from someone, you beg or borrow something from them. For example, my cousin sponged a thousand rupees from my parents." "My cousin has been sponging food from her relatives for a year now." "That's a good example." "Why don't you tell your cousin's parents not to let their son sponge off them?" "Unfortunately, my uncle doesn't trust people. He feels that the person advising him is trying to lead him down the garden path." "Which garden are you talking about?" "When you lead someone down the garden path, you are cheating or deceiving the individual. This is an informal expression commonly used in American English." "Latha told Pradeep that she loved him. What the fool didn't realise was that she was leading him down the garden path. She needed help with her project. How does that sound?" "Good. It is also possible to say, `up the garden path'. The mechanic led us up the garden path about the cost the repairs turned out to be really expensive." "This is either a forgery or a damn clever original!" Frank Sullivan
A `password', on the other hand, is usually a secret word or phrase that you are expected to know in order to enter restricted places. It tells the other person who you are. For example, if you want to check your email, you have to type in your user mail id and your password. If you forget the password, you will be denied access. Unlike buzzwords, passwords are not usually new, and are not used frequently by one and all. They are usually kept a secret. "Originality is the art of concealing your source." Franklin P. Jones
"It means that when someone gives you a gift, don't go about finding fault with it. Accept it for what it's worth." "I see. My friend is leaving for the U.S for six months. She said that I could stay in her flat for free. Though there are several things wrong with the flat, I've decided not to look a gift horse in the mouth." "Excellent example. Tell me, what is the connection between a gift horse and its mouth? I mean... ." "People can tell how old a horse is by looking at its teeth. The longer the teeth, the older the horse is. So,... ." "When someone gifts you a horse, don't open its mouth to find out how young or old it is. If it is old, don't complain about it. After all, the horse is a gift." "Exactly! Accept the gift for what it's worth." "According to me, people should never complain about... ." "How many times have I told you about according to... ." "I don't know why, but I always keep forgetting. You cannot say, `according to me'. It's always according to someone else. According to my uncle I am brilliant." "Has your uncle actually said that to you?" "No, but I understand that he told my cousin... ." "Then it's just hearsay." "Hearsay? What does it mean?" "Things that one has heard from other people. They may or may not be true." "It's like a rumour, then?" "Kind of! A lot of things reported in this article are based on hearsay." "In our factory, we make lipstick. In our advertising, we sell hope." Charles Revson
July 2006
"You're absolutely right! The stress is on the first syllable of the two words. `Okey dokey' is a very informal way of saying O.K." "So when someone says, `Please give me Rs. 50', can I respond by saying, `Okey dokey'?" "You certainly can. But remember not to use the expression in formal contexts." "Okey dokey, I'll remember that! Now then, can you lend me Rs. 100?" "You're joking, right? You know that I don't... ." "Joking? Of course, not! I'm being serious. You see, I need the money to buy... ." "Forget it! I'm not lending you any money." "Forget it? You're not supposed to say `forget it'. You are supposed to say, `Okey dokey'." "Sorry. If it's money you want, ask Geetha. She has money coming out of her ears." "Money coming out of her ears? How is that possible?" "When you say that someone has something coming out of his ears, what you mean is that the person has lots of it. For example, if it is tax forms you want, ask Devidas. He's got forms coming out of his ears." "If you want pictures of Brett Lee, ask Ananya. She's got them coming out of her ears." "She's a big Brett Lee fan, isn't she? If it's an Asterix comic that you want, ask Bala. He's got them coming out of his ears." "I'm not interested in anything coming out of a person's ears. Well, since you're not willing to help me with money, can you help me with this problem in physics, at least?" "Me? Help you with physics? You must be kidding! Why don't you ask Sujatha?" "I did! But she said you knew a lot more about the subject than she did." "Ms. Know-it-all said that? I don't believe it!" "Ms. Know-it-all? Is that the expression that is used to refer to someone who knows everything?" "It's an expression used to talk about someone who thinks he knows everything." "I know the type. He tries to impress people with his knowledge. Ends up annoying them." "That's right! He is the sort... ." "So when you refer to someone as a `know-it-all', you are not really complimenting the person?" "Not at all! You are, in fact, showing your disapproval. For example, I don't wish to speak to that know-it-all."
"Saraswathi, the know-it-all in our family, told us to invest our funds in the stock market." "That doesn't sound like very good advice. It's also possible to say, `know-all'. They both have the same meaning. For example, nobody really likes Chandra because she is such a know-all." "Our class is full of know-alls." "You know who can help you with your physics problem? Mukund." "Mukund! He hardly opens his mouth. Gives the impression that he doesn't know anything." "Still waters run deep, my friend." "What are you talking about?" "It means that a quiet person may not be what he pretends to be. Just because someone remains quiet, doesn't mean he has no knowledge of the subject matter. He... " "He could be very knowledgeable or very passionate about the subject." "Exactly! The quiet person may be thinking important or deep thoughts. Surabhi has been very quiet of late. You know what they say, still waters run deep." "It's true that still waters run deep. But I don't think it applies in Janaki's case. She doesn't say much because she's half asleep most of the time." "That's a nasty thing to say." "I know! I'll see if Mukund is at home. See you tomorrow." "Okey dokey!" "Do Lipton employees take coffee breaks?" Steven Wright
up a hornet's nest', you are asking for trouble; you say or do something controversial which results in a lot of commotion. *The teacher's article in the local paper stirred up a hornet's nest. *The Minister's remarks about the striking students stirred up a hornet's nest. How is word `cuisine' pronounced? (Durga, Chennai) The first syllable `cui' is pronounced like the `qui' in `quit', `quiz', and `quick'. The `s' that follows is like the `z' in `zip' and `zoo'; and the final `ine' is like the `een' in `seen', `teen', and `keen'. The main stress is on the second syllable. The word comes from French and is mostly used to talk about a particular style of cooking - the way in which an item is prepared. When you refer to the cuisine of a restaurant, you are talking about the different varieties of food served there. *The new restaurant on M.G Road offers excellent traditional Thai cuisine.
Samuel Butler wrote a novel in 1872 called `Erehwon' in which he made fun of utopian concepts. `Erehwon' is actually `nowhere' spelt backwards! "The vanity of teaching doth oft tempt a man to forget that he is a blockhead." George Saville
"Yes, it certainly can!" "Then, how about this example? According to Dharmendra, everything Gayathri says is just lip gloss. The woman is a born liar." "Sounds good to me. By the way, `lip gloss' like the expression `barnburner' is mostly used in informal contexts. So be careful about how you use it." "And you should be careful too! You shouldn't put a curse on other people." "Me? Put a curse on someone? What are you talking about?" "Last week you got angry with my Principal and said something...." "Oh, I remember that! I said I hope the man breaks his leg, or something like that." "That's right! Well, believe it or not, he slipped in the bathroom yesterday, and broke his leg." "What are you trying to do? Send me on a guilt trip of some kind? If you are...." "Send you on a guilt trip? Are you...." "When you send someone on...." "I think I know what the expression means. When you send someone on a guilt trip, you try to make the person feel very guilty about something. Am I right?" "One hundred per cent. For example, my parents always try to send me on a guilt trip for not calling them often enough." "It is also possible to say, `lay/put a guilt trip on someone'. For example, Madhu put the guilt trip on all of us for not helping her during her time of need. So, who is going to be the acting Principal?" "According to rumours, it's going to be some senior faculty." "Don't say `senior faculty'. You can either say, `a senior faculty member' or `a senior member of the faculty'. But not, `senior faculty'." "I see. Shall we take a walk in the spitting rain?" "It's a wise husband who will buy his wife such fine china that she won't trust him to wash the dishes." Unknown
The expression `top brass' was first used in the Army. `Brass' referred to the gold braid found on the hats of military officers it indicated the individual's rank. The word `brass' is actually a shortened form of `brass hat', and this was the term used by enlisted men in the late 19th century to refer to their commanding officers. It was during World War II that `brass hat' became `top brass'. As time went by, the expression began to be used in non-military contexts; important individuals of an organisation began to be called `top brass'. The term `the brass' can also be used to refer to such people.
(P. Balakrishnan, Mangalore) When you `mull over' a problem or plan, you think about it for a long time before arriving at a decision. *Shashi has been mulling over the problem for several weeks now. "I told my mother-in-law that my house was her house, and she said, `Get the hell off my property'." Joan Rivers
"Exactly. A person who has verbal diarrhoea talks continuously. Talks non-stop. Siddhu has verbal diarrhea." "If you ask me, many of our politicians have a serious case of verbal diarrhoea." "That's a good example. So, what are you going to do?" "About Sujatha, you mean? I am not really sure. I think I will argue with her... ." "Listen, no matter how much you argue, at some point you will have to throw in the towel. You... ." "Throw in the towel? What are you talking about?" "When you thrown in the towel, you decide to stop doing what you have been attempting to. You decide not to pursue the matter. You just give up." "In other words, you quit doing what you were doing." "Exactly! Although Nadal lost the first two sets, he didn't throw in the towel." "How about this example? Amru has been working on the problem for two days now. He refuses to throw in the towel." "It is also possible to say, `throw in the sponge'. When things didn't go according to plan, she threw in the sponge." "Tell me, where does the idiom `throw in the towel' come from?" "It comes from the world of boxing. You see during a fight, the boxer's trainer/manager stays with him. In between rounds, he gives the fighter water, tells him what his opponent is doing, wipes the sweat and blood off the boxer's face, and... ." "And he uses a sponge or a towel to do this!" "That's right! If he feels that his fighter is taking too much punishment, he may decide to call the fight off." "This is to prevent any serious injury, I suppose." "Yes. In order to stop the fight, what the trainer/manager does is to throw the towel or sponge into the ring. This is a signal to the referee that he wants the fight to be stopped." "I see. So he actually throws a towel into the ring. Interesting. Do you think you can lend me Rs. 50?" "If God wanted us to be brave, why did he give us legs?" Marvin Kitman
August 2006
"Is something the matter? You look very depressed." "I feel depressed too. My best friend is leaving for Delhi tomorrow. His father has been transferred." "These things happen. Listen, your quarterly exams start next week. If you want to do well in them, you'd better snap out of it soon." "Snap out of what?" "Your depression, of course. When you tell someone to snap out of something, what you mean is that you want them to get over it." "So in my case, you're telling me to overcome my sense of depression." "When we lost the World Cup, many of my friends were very disappointed. It took them a while to snap out of it." "I remember how disappointed I was. Hey, are you going somewhere? You seem to be all packed." "Going to Thiruvananthapuram tomorrow. Remember the project I was telling you about? The one... " "The client liked your ideas? Congrats." "I didn't say that. They want me to come over... ." "To sign the contract! What else could they want? You've clinched the deal!" "You know what they say. It's not over till the fat lady sings." "Fat lady? What fat lady? What are you talking about?" "It's an expression mostly used in American English. When you say that something is not over till the fat lady sings, what you mean is that you can't be sure of the result till the very end." "Though you may seem as if you are losing, you might end up winning. In other words, don't give up!" "Yes, something like that." "We need to get 150 runs in 10 overs. As they say, it's not over till the fat lady sings." "Good example. " "Are you flying or taking the train?" "Since the company is paying, I'm flying. I should be back in a couple of days." "You will get done in two days? That's pretty fast. So, when... ." "In this context, a `couple' doesn't have to mean two days. It could be more. If you say that you'll be gone a couple of days, what you mean is that you will be gone for a few days."
"So when you say that a couple of shops were open, it can mean that more than two shops were open?" "That's right. The word `couple' is often used to mean two or more." "In other words, a few shops were open, but not many." "Exactly!" "Where will you be staying in Thiruvananthapuram? Will you staying with your friend, Bala?" "No, I haven't touched base with him in a while. So, I don't think... ." "Touched base with him? Does it mean keep in touch with him?" "Very good. That's exactly what it means." "How about this example? Do you want me to touch base with you while you are in Thiruvananthapuram?" "No thanks. I think I want to be left in peace. I will touch base with you when I return." "So if you are not staying with Bala, where will you be staying?" "The company that's invited me is putting me up in a really top-drawer hotel." "Top-drawer hotel! Does it mean top quality or something like that?" "Exactly. My cousin is on the lookout for a teacher who is top-drawer." " How about this example? The college that my cousin's children go to is top-drawer. You should see the place... ." "I'm sure it's a great place. Listen, my flight leaves early tomorrow. Need to get my sleep." "O.K. Have a safe flight." "Thanks." "A rule of thumb in the matter of medical advice is to take everything any doctor says with a grain of aspirin." Goodman Ace
`Matricide' is the killing of one's mother, and when a parent kills his/her child, it's called `filicide'. If you kill another human being it's `homicide', and when you kill yourself, it's `suicide'.
Why do we say `five star hotel' and not `five stars hotel'?
(K. Subramanian, Nagercoil) This is because `star' is functioning as an adjective, and not as a noun. You can say that you saw `Five stars shining in the sky.' But when a noun like hotel follows the word `star', you say, `I had dinner in a three star hotel'. You do not say, `three stars hotel'. Similarly, you say, `I want five rupees'. But when the word `rupees' is followed by the noun `coin' or `note', you say, `I need a five rupee coin/note'. You do not say, `five rupees note'. Joggers talk about a `twenty-mile marathon', and not a `twenty miles marathon'.
*After seeing the film, he went around telling the story to everyone. Unlike a story, a `tale' is usually fictitious; the word carries with it a sense of exaggeration. Tales, in general, deal with exciting, but imaginary events that took place in ancient times and in far off lands. For example, we talk about the tales of King Arthur and the Round Table. "Make crime pay. Become a lawyer." Will Rogers
"Tell me, why did your new accountant ask for a raise? It seems rather foolish." "You know what they say! Fools rush in where angels fear to tread." "What does that mean?" "It means inexperienced or ignorant people often do things without really thinking things through. They end up doing things which informed or experienced people would avoid." "Rajeev was keen on becoming the President of the Club. Now he feels he shouldn't have contested. Fools rush in where angels fear to tread. Tell me, what did your boss do? Did he have a good laugh and tell the accountant that he should wait?" "My boss is a nice guy, but he doesn't suffer fools gladly." "Don't think I have come across that expression before." "When you say that someone doesn't suffer fools gladly, what you mean is that the individual doesn't tolerate stupidity." "The lady who teaches us English is a wonderful teacher. But she doesn't suffer fools gladly." "My uncle is a fair man, but he doesn't suffer fools gladly." "I don't think anyone does. Anyway, what did your boss tell the accountant?" "We don't know what exactly he said, but he gave him an earful." "An earful of what?" "When you say that you got an earful from someone, you mean that the person spoke to you angrily for a long time. The teacher gave the students an earful for not doing their homework." "When I came home late last week, my mother gave me an earful." "And if you don't return the Rs. 50 by tomorrow, you will get an earful from me." "You want your pound of flesh, don't you? You're worse than Shylock." Sign at a cemetery: "Persons are prohibited from picking flowers from any but their own graves."
What is the meaning of `cross the bridge when you come to it'?
(Bhaskar, Trivandrum) This idiom is used to tell someone not to worry about things that may or may not happen in the future. Very often, when we come up with what we think is a good proposal, the prophets of doom in the office give us a detailed account of the things that could possibly go wrong. They take great delight in telling us why the project will fail, and they come up with all kinds of imaginary problems. In such a context, if you tell your detractors that you will cross the bridge when you come to it, what you mean is that you will deal with the various problems as and when they arise. You are not going to worry about them unnecessarily right now. *What if we run out of funding? We'll cross the bridge when we come to it. *Mohan seemed unconcerned. He said that he would cross the bridge when he came to it.
Which is correct? `A small percentage of the students is worked up about the fee hike' or `A small percentage of the students are worked up about the fee hike'.
(Rajender, Patna) People who are fond of grammar would argue that when the word `percentage' is preceded by the definite article `the', then the verb is usually singular. It doesn't really matter if the noun preceding the verb is singular or plural. *The percentage of students from Delhi is relatively small. Although the noun (`students') is plural, the verb that follows (`is') is singular. *The percentage of people willing to participate keeps decreasing every year. When you talk about `a percentage', on the other hand, it can be followed by a singular or plural verb. It depends on the noun which follows `percentage'. *A very small percentage of the students are from Delhi. *I'm told that a small percentage of Padma's income goes to charity.
September 2006
What is the difference between `He cooked a good meal' and `He cooked up a good meal'?
(T.Mala, Thiruvananthapuram) The result is the same in both cases you end up eating a good meal! `Cook up' suggests that the various dishes were prepared rather quickly, and at short notice. The expression is considered to be informal and has the same meaning as `rustle up'. * My grandmother managed to cook up a decent meal for the guests who arrived unannounced.
* My appointment has been cancelled. Think you'll be able to rustle up something for lunch?
Which is correct? `My wife knows well that I can't sing' or `My wife knows that I can't sing well'?
(S. Chethan, Nagpur) Both sentences are grammatically acceptable, but they don't have the same meaning. The first sentence suggests that your wife knows that you cannot sing. There is no doubt in her mind that you are not a singer. The second sentence suggests that your wife knows that you can sing but not very well. In this case, you are a singer, but not a good one. * You know well that I don't play tennis. (You know that I don't play tennis at all.) * You know that I don't play tennis well. (I can play tennis, but I am not very good at it.) "The main purpose of holding children's parties is to remind yourself that there are children more awful than your own." Unknown
"Some of his classmates tell me that he's become a cyberchondriac." "Cyberchondriac? Don't think I've come across that word before." "Do you know what `hypochondriac' means?" "I think I do. Isn't a hypochondriac someone who constantly worries about his health? Although there may be nothing really wrong with him, he always imagines that there is something seriously wrong." "That's right! A hypochondriac is obsessed about his health. He has imaginary ailments." "Such people give doctors a tough time. Luckily, we don't have a hypochondriac in our family." "We have several in ours. You are welcome to one." "No thanks. Coming back to the point, who is a cyberchondriac?" "Well, he is someone who gets all his medical information from the Internet and...." "He reads about the various diseases going around, and imagines that he has them too." "I am told that my boss' wife is a cyberchondriac." "Maybe that's the reason your boss is in a bad mood all the time." "That could explain why he cut me dead this morning." "You need a little cheering up. How about a movie?" "Sorry, I can't. A colleague of mine is immigrating to New Zealand. So the boys in the office are throwing him a farewell party." "Tell me, what's the difference between `emigrate' and `immigrate'?" "Well, in both cases the person is leaving the country he was born in, and...." "I know that. He is moving to another country on a permanent basis. He plans to settle down there." "That's right! The word `emigrate' is normally used to refer to the movement from a place. When the person leaves his country of origin, he is emigrating. For example, my colleague is leaving India ...." "He is emigrating from India to New Zealand." "The person who `immigrates', moves to another country. In this case, you are talking about the movement in terms of the country the person is going to settle in." "Exactly! During the Second World War, lots of Germans immigrated to the United States." "If I were two-faced, would I be wearing this one?" Abraham Lincoln
(Avinash, Tirupathi) When you call another person a `git', what you mean is that you dislike him because you find him annoying. The `g' is like the `g' in `get' and `guess', and the following `it' is pronounced like the word `it'. `Git' is used in British English in informal contexts to refer to a man. *How could you have fallen in love with a git like him? *Tell the git standing over there to stop whistling. The word is also used to mean `get'.
October 2006
What is the difference between `The theatre is closed' and `The theatre has been closed'?
(Revathi, Mysore) The first sentence suggests that the theatre is not open at the moment; it is locked for the time being. Chances are, it will open a little later. It has not been closed permanently. The second sentence, on the other hand, seems to suggest that someone has forcibly closed down the theatre. Perhaps the municipal authorities were unhappy with the safety features, and decided to shut the place down. In this case, the closure is either permanent or for a lengthy period of time.
An individual who is an expert, or is very knowledgeable in his limited area of interest (for example, computers) can also be called a geek. He is someone whose focus of interest is rather narrow, but he knows everything about the subject. *If it is a computer geek you require, you'd better hire Dravid. He's excellent. *I want to learn everything on my own. I don't want some geek telling me everything. I understand the word comes from the Dutch `geck' which means `fool'. It is in this sense that Shakespeare used the word in some of his plays. In the 1920s, the Americans used the word `geek' to refer to an individual in a carnival who performed bizarre acts. The original `geek' was someone who entertained his audience by biting off a live chicken's/snake's head! With the passage of time, the word began to be used to refer to anyone who was socially inept; whose interests were very different from those of others.
"A statesman is a politician who places himself at the service of the nation. A politician is a statesman who places the nation at his service."
"In other words, you have lost your enthusiasm for it." " Many people have become weary of the war in Iraq." " Tell me, how... ." "What does `wary' mean?" "When you are wary of something, you are unsure of it, and therefore you are cautious of it." "Is it because you think it could be dangerous?" "It could be dangerous or it may cause problems for you. The word can be used with people as well. For example, most parents teach their children to be wary of strangers." " It's also possible to `keep a wary eye' on someone or something." "What does it mean?" "When you keep a wary eye on someone, you watch them very carefully to see what they are up to." "The shareholders kept a wary eye on the developing story." "I don't think I'll be able to keep a wary eye on anyone right now. I'm feeling sleepy." "Being a philosopher, I have a problem for every solution." Robert Zend
"How about this example? When the government does decide to hire new teachers, I hope they get young people. Not a whole bunch of retreads." "That's a good example." " It's important to remember that the word is mostly used in informal contexts. And you never tell someone that he is a retread to his face." "Most people working for any government agency are either retreads or clock-watchers." "Clock-watchers? Haven't heard that expression before." "A clock-watcher is someone... ." "Hey, the meaning is fairly obvious. A clock-watcher is probably an employee who keeps looking at the clock instead of doing his work." "It needn't be an employee. It could be anyone. A student could be a clock-watcher as well. " "My father says that there are five clock-watchers in his department." "You stop being a clock-watcher when you are working on a crossword puzzle, though. You've been sitting with that one for two hours now. Why don't you give up?" "I can't. I have only one left. Why don't you help me? I'm sure that... ." "You know that I'm not a cruciverbalist. In fact, ... ." "You're not a what?" "A cruciverbalist. Someone who is skilled at doing crossword puzzles. You can... ." "Skilled, eh? Well, in that case, I'm not a cruciverbalist. You know that I'm not very good at solving crossword puzzles." "But you don't have to be. A cruciverbalist can also be someone who just enjoys doing crossword puzzles. He doesn't have to be good at it. You love torturing yourself, don't you?" "That I do. Crossword puzzles are a great deal of fun." "Well, help me with this one. This is the only clue that I haven't found an answer to. It's a six-letter word which means `understand'. Starts with the letter `c'." "It's probably capish. Spelt c..a..p..i..s..h. It's a word mostly used in informal contexts." "You're right! It is ca.., ca.. How do you pronounce the word?" "The `a' is like the `a' in `china'; the following `i' is like the `ee' in `fees', `bees', and `knees'. The final `sh' is like the `sh' in `ship', `sheet', and `sheep'. The main stress is on the second syllable. "What no wife of a writer can ever understand is that a writer is working when he's staring out of the window." Burton Rascoe
(J. Priyanka, Cochin) The `e' in the first syllable and the `i' in the third syllable are pronounced like the `i' in `sit', `bit', and `kit'. The `ma' sounds like the word `may'; the `c' that follows is like the `sh' in `ship', `shin', and `show'. The `ated' at the end rhymes with `hated', waited', and `fated'. The stress is on the second syllable `ma'. This is one way of pronouncing the word. Someone who is `emaciated' is very weak and thin. *The emaciated child was unable to walk for more than a minute.
What is the meaning of "run with the hare and hunt with the hounds"?
(N.Vijayaselvam, Srivilliputtur) Very often when two people have an argument, they go to a third person and ask him to be a judge. If the person is timid and is afraid to take a decision, he will end up saying that both parties are in the right. He will support both sides of the argument because he doesn't want to hurt the feelings of his friends; sometimes, he does this with an ulterior motive in mind. This desire to be on friendly terms with both warring factions by supporting their arguments is what we mean by the expression, "running with the hare and hunting with the hounds." The individual is trying to be both the rabbit (hare) and the dog (hound). He wants to be the hunted as well the hunter; and this is just not possible. This idiom is considered rather old fashioned. *Latha is a very clever person. She runs with the hare and hunts with the hounds.
Which of the following is correct? "He is busy at weekends" or "He is busy on weekends"?
(R. Satish, Madurai) Both are acceptable. "At weekends" is commonly used in British English; the Americans, on the other hand, tend to use "on weekends." Use whichever expression you feel comfortable with. *I informed my new boss that I do not do any office related work at weekends. *My friends and I are planning to go sailing on the weekend. "Good resolutions are simply cheques that men draw on a bank where they have no account." Oscar Wilde
Nov 96
What is the difference between `break a sweat' and `break into a sweat'?
(S. Venunathan, Kozhikode) When you do something `without breaking a sweat', you do it without any difficulty. You find the task so easy that you don't have to exert yourself at all; you perform the task very easily or quickly. There is no need for you to sweat. *Rahul answered all the questions without breaking a sweat. Another expression that has more or less the same meaning is `no sweat'. *Listen, I'll carry the two large suitcases. No sweat at all. When you `break into a sweat', you actually start sweating. And when is it that we begin to sweat? When we exert ourselves or when we are extremely nervous or frightened about something. *The children broke into a sweat when they heard strange noises coming from the bedroom. *Uma broke into a sweat when she saw the policeman walking towards her.
What is the difference between `I read your article' and `I did read your article'?
(T. Vasanthi, Chidambaram) The first sentence is a statement. It could be the reply to the question, `Did you read my article?' The second sentence is what you would tell someone if they didn't believe that you had actually read the article. The `did' is used to add emphasis; you are saying that you have indeed read the article. You are not lying. "I love mankind; it's the people I can't stand." Charles Schulz
"Sure! Let's talk about the marathon. Did you manage to run the distance easily?" "Not really! Had a tough time, but I managed." "It's quite an achievement, actually. I'm impressed. So, how did you celebrate your achievement?" "Celebrate! There was no celebration. I hotfooted it home. I felt so... ." "You hotfooted it home? Does it mean you went home immediately?" "When you hotfoot it to some place, you get there quickly. You do not delay." "I see. In other words, when you `hotfoot it', you run." "You run or walk quickly. Here's an example. When the car broke down, the CEO and his wife were forced to hotfoot it to the airport." "I got up late yesterday. So I had to hotfoot it to school." "Good example. The expression `hotfoot it' is mostly used in informal contexts." " Tell me, what did you do once you got back home?" "All I know is that I was dead to the world for the next fifteen hours or so." "Dead to the world? What do you mean? Do you mean you were unconscious or something?" "When you say that someone is dead to the world, what you mean is that the person is sound asleep, and you're finding it rather difficult to wake him up." "I see. How about this example? After doing all the karate exercises, Tapas was dead to the world." "Sounds good. Sujatha was dead to the world. We were just unable to wake her up." "How did Sujatha's mother react when she was unable to wake her up? She must have ... ." "Don't think she told Sujatha anything. In the evening, she came to our place and bellyached about how lazy her daughter had become." "She bellyached about how lazy her daughter had become! Does it mean she complained about how lazy her daughter had become?" "Very good. When you `bellyache', you complain in a whining manner." "In other words, you sound as if you are moaning." "Exactly! For example,,... ." "Wait! Let me try. Whenever I run into Pankaj, he bellyaches about all the work he has to do." "Good example. Do you know what you call a person who is constantly complaining?"
"A bellyacher? "Excellent! That's exactly what he is called. " "Some of your friends tell me that you bellyache about a lot of things." "Me, a bellyacher? Not a chance! How dare you... ." "Hey, easy does it. Let's not get into a fight. I'd better hotfoot it down to the supermarket before it closes." "Lawyers are like rhinoceroses: thick skinned, short sighted, and always ready to charge." David Mellor
*The witch doctor tried to exorcise the evil spirit from the library.
The word that you probably have in mind is `extinct', not `extinguished'. When something becomes extinct, it ceases to exist; you don't find it anywhere on the planet. Any living organism can become extinct. Dinosaurs, for example, have become extinct. *There are reasons to believe that the tiger will soon become extinct. *Some of the animals in the rainforests are on the verge of extinction. The word `extinguish', on the other hand, is usually used along with the word `fire'. When you extinguish a fire or a flame, you put it out. *The firemen battled for three hours before they extinguished the fire.
Correction
The `c' in `sotto voce' is pronounced like the `ch' in `child' and `chips', and not like the `sh' in `ship' and `sheep' as indicated in last week's column. "Try not to have a good time....this is supposed to be educational."
December 2006
could get a servant to do his bidding in two different ways he could either `call' the servant or `beckon' him.
Which is correct? `Sunita has gone off Rajender' or `Sunita has gone off with Rajender'?
(C. Mala, Mumbai) In terms of grammar, there is nothing wrong with the two sentences; their meanings, however, are very different. The first sentence means that Sunita no longer likes Rajender. When you `go off someone', you stop liking him/her. It is also possible to `go off something' as well. The expression `go off someone/something' is mostly used in British English in informal contexts. *Ganesh started to go off the idea of building a new house. The second sentence, `Sunita has gone off with Rajender', suggests that Sunita has accompanied Rajender to some place. When you `go off with someone', you run away with the person leaving your family behind. *The rumour is that Sridhar has gone off with Geetha.
"Effeminate? Does it mean a man who sounds like a girl?" "When you refer to a man as being effeminate, what you mean is that he is unmanly." "In other words, an effeminate person behaves, looks, and sounds like a woman rather than a man." "That's right! The word is normally used with men. It is used to show disapproval. Here's an example. The students made fun of the principal's effeminate walk." "Tarun's effeminate manner raised eyebrows among the members of the club." "That's a good example. Now then, shall we... " "Let's not worry about who is effeminate and who is not. Did you manage to see the film yesterday?" "Unfortunately, I did. It helped me to... " "What do you mean `unfortunately'? It was a great movie. Everyone is raving... " "What did you say? Could you please run that by me again?" "Run that by you again? What are you talking about?" "When you tell someone to run something by you again, you want him to repeat what he said." "I see. So if I'm in a noisy room and I don't hear what someone has said, can I say, `Could you run that by me again'?" "You certainly can. It is also possible to say `run that by me one more time'. What did you have to say about the movie? Could you run that by me one more time?" "I said it was a great movie. All my friends loved it." "It was a sleepfest. I didn't... " "A sleepfest? What does it mean? I don't think I've heard the expression before." "When you say that something was a sleepfest, what you mean is that it put you to sleep." "In other words, it was so boring that you fell asleep for a long time." "Exactly! Here's an example. The students said that Indra's lecture on Shakespeare was a real sleepfest." "What did Rajesh think of the movie? Did he like it?" "He didn't even bother to come. Said that he'd rather stay at home and read." "Read? Not many people do that nowadays." "I know. Anyway, don't utter the word `read' in Rajesh's presence. You'll get him on his favourite hobbyhorse. You'll never... "
"Hobby-horse? What does it mean?" "A hobby-horse is a subject or an idea that you have very strong feelings about. You love talking about it at great length whenever you get an opportunity to." "How about this example? Corruption is a favourite hobby-horse of my father's." "That's a good example. Here's another one. Deepak is usually a great person to be with. But once he gets on his hobby-horse, he can be downright boring." "That's true. I hate it when he talks about... " "Could you get the phone, please?" "You answer it. It must be Rajesh." "Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. That's relativity." Albert Einstein
What is the meaning of `pull the rug from under someone's feet'?
(K. M. Karthik, Vizag)
If someone were to pull the rug on which you are standing, what do you think is likely to happen? You will probably fall and hurt yourself, and in the process create problems for yourself. When someone pulls the rug from under your feet, what he is doing is taking away the support or help that you have been receiving. By taking away your support rather unexpectedly, he creates all kinds of problems for you. Prabhu pulled the rug from under his children's feet by denying them their allowance. The company was losing money. It decided to pull the rug from under the ill-fated project.
Is it okay to say, "It took Mohan six months to recover from his fatal accident"?
(B. Akshay, Pune) No, it isn't. The word `fatal' usually has a negative connotation. An accident or an illness that is described as `fatal', usually results in the death of an individual. As you probably know, it is difficult for a person to recover from death! The ailing chief minister suffered a fatal heart attack around midnight. Several policemen were fatally wounded during the encounter with the militants. The word `fatal' can also be used to mean `undesirable' or `causing disaster'. The captain made the fatal mistake of asking Agarkar to bowl the final over. Sahu's injury proved fatal to our plans of winning the trophy. "Women are like cell phones. They like to be held and talked to, but push the wrong button, and you'll be disconnected." Unknown
"The word `tout' can also mean to sell something. For example, now that Ganguly is back in the team, many multinationals will use him to tout their products." " Let's talk about something a little more interesting. Like your recent trip, for example. Did you manage to see all the monuments you'd planned to?" "Yes, I did see most of them. But I was rather disappointed. You see... " "Were they not as beautiful as you had expected them to be?" "Unfortunately, many of them were in a state of disrepair." "State of disrepair? What does it mean?" "When you say that something is in a `state of disrepair', what you mean is that it's in very bad condition. It's in a state of neglect. Repairs need to be carried out." "I see. We haven't had anybody living in the old house opposite ours for quite some time. It's in a state of disrepair." "Good example. It's also possible to say, `fall into disrepair'. The old library building fell into disrepair after it was closed." " By the way, does one `sit in a chair' or `sit on a chair'?" "It depends on the type of chair, I guess! Why do you want to know?" "Because I've had another one of my silly bets with Sujatha. I told her that it's always `in'." "As I said, you can either sit in a chair or on it. I read somewhere that you normally `sit in' a chair that has arms." "And `sit on' is used with chairs which don't have arms! Is that what you're saying?" "That's what I've heard. Did you manage to see the new.." "Talking about managing, how is your new accountant?" "He seems to be doing a good job. My boss just loves him. He says that the man has the ability to think on his feet." "He can't think when he's sitting down, eh?" "Please, don't try to be funny. You know you were never good at it. When you say that someone can think on his feet, what ..." "I know what the expression means. When someone thinks on his feet, he reacts very quickly to a situation. You mean that he is mentally alert." "Especially in a situation when things are happening very quickly."
"The reason why Priya is being sent to represent the company is because my boss feels she has the ability to think on her feet." "That's a good example. Ganpat prides himself on his ability to think on his feet." "Well, tell him to take some pride in his house as well. It's in a state of disrepair." "Never pass up an opportunity to keep your mouth shut." Paul Miller