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Question:
“Tiny tyrants, who contradict their parents, terrorise their teacher and
gobble their food.” Why do more children in Singapore fit such a
description and can be done about this problem?
Teacher’s Comment:
Analysis is sufficient, however, this piece of work could be better if
there were hard facts to accompany it.
Marks: 6/10
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Tiny tyrants in this case refer to children who misbehave, rebel against their parents, go
against their teachers and do not practice good mannerism.
- Upbringing
Singapore is a developed country and the people are mostly educated. They seldom
carry out conservative practices as they have become more open- minded. Therefore,
unlike the olden times, parents nowadays tend to be lenient to their children and
refuse to carry out strict disciplinary actions as they believe that it will worsen the
children’s behavior. Still, if a parent is too permissive and doesn't set limits, children
will feel that they have too much power, and become self-centered, like in Singapore,
where many parents tend to give in to their children’s needs and demands. As such,
there have been an increasing number of spoilt and pampered children.
- Permissive society (where most people are non- judgmental and tolerant of
children’s behaviors)
In a modern society like Singapore, people have become more lenient and open-
minded. Parents and teachers are less inclined to discipline children and religious and
conservative beliefs are far more lax than it was years ago. Therefore, children find
that they can get away with things as they will not be severely punished for. As a
result, they grow up thinking that they are always right as society and their parents do
not carry out strict disciplinary actions to reprimand their bad behavior. Therefore,
children nowadays tend to be more rebellious as they find that adults tend to show
more empathy towards them, and therefore, may not have the heart to punish them
strictly for misbehaving.
- Encourage or praise children once they show some willingness to care about
others.
Let them experience how good it feels to care for others. Through such behaviors, we can
gradually introduce the idea of taking turns to praise every tiny effort they put in. This
will further encourage the child to carry out such values and in Singapore, these values
have always been implemented in schools, where teachers never fail to encourage and
support their students in doing the right things. Frequent mass activities with their peers
may also further cultivate values such as caring for others, because through interactions,
relationships are built, and through these friendships, children are able to learn the
importance of protecting a loved one.
- Keep the consistency of all these from young, until it develops into a habit.
This is the most important point of all because there is no use in carrying out these
practices half- heartedly. Parents should ensure that these practices are constantly carried
out so as to nurture it into their child. Soon enough, such moral values will be
implemented into their child and will unconsciously become a habit.