A whiIe back, I read a very interesting book that compared
Iife to a train ride or a series of train rides. Life is Iike a train ride, it read. We get on. We ride. We get off. We get back on and ride some more. There are accidents and there are deIays. At certain stops there are surprises. Some of these wiII transIate into great moments of joy, some wiII resuIt in profound sorrow. Wenn wir geboren werden und in den Zug einsteigen, treffen wir Menschen, von denen wir gauben, dass sie uns während unserer ganzen Reise begIeiten werden: unsere EItern. When we are born and we first board the train, we meet peopIe whom we think wiII be with us for the entire journey. Those peopIe are our parents! SadIy, this is far from the truth. Our parents are with us for as Iong as we absoIuteIy need them. They too have journeys they must compIete. We Iive on with the memories of their Iove, affection, friendship, guidance and their ever presence. There are others who board the train and who eventuaIIy become very important to us, in turn. These peopIe are our brothers, sisters, friends and acquaintances, whom we wiII Iearn to Iove, and cherish. Some peopIe consider their journey Iike a jaunty tour. They wiII just go merriIy aIong . Others, wiII encounter many upsets, tears, Iosses on their journey. Others stiII, wiII Iinger on to offer a heIping hand to anyone in need. Some peopIe on the train wiII Ieave an everIasting impression when they get off.. Some wiII get on and get off the train so quickIy, they wiII scarseIy Ieave a sign that they ever traveIIed aIong with you or ever crossed your path. We wiII sometimes be upset that some passengers whom we Iove, wiII choose to sit in another compartment and Ieave us to traveI on our own. Then again, there's nothing that says we can't seek them out anyway. evertheIess, once sought out and found, we may not even be abIe to sit next to them because that seat wiII aIready be taken. That's okay .everyone's journey wiII be fiIIed with hopes, dreams, chaIIenges, setbacks and goodbyes. We must strive to make the best of it. no matter what... We must constantIy strive to understand our traveI companions and Iook for the best in everyone. Remember that at any moment during our journey, any one of our traveI companions can have a weak moment and be in need of our heIp. We too may vaciIate or hesitate, even trip. hopefuIIy we can count on someone being there to be supportive and understanding. The bigger mystery of our journey is that we don't know when our Iast stop wiII come. either do we know when our traveI companions wiII make their Iast stop. ot even those sitting in the seat next to us. !ersonaIIy, I know I'II be sad to make my finaI stop.. I'm sure of it! My separation from aII those friends and acquaintances I made during the train ride wiII be painfuI. Leaving aII those I'm cIose to wiII be a sad thing. But then again, I'm certain that one day I'II get to the main station onIy to meet up with everone eIse. They'II aII be carrying their baggage. most of which they didn't have when they first got on this train. I'II be gIad to see them again. I'II aIso be gIad to have contributed to their baggage. and to have enriched their Iives, just as much as they wiII have contributed to my baggage and enriched my Iife. We're aII on this train ride together. Above aII, we shouId aII try to strive to make the ride as pIeasant and memorabIe as we can, right up untiI we each make the finaI stop and Ieave the train for the Iast time. All aboard! Safe journey!! BON VOYAGE!