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to happen to me’
Dr. Beverly Smallwood
Bev Smallwood feels your ($22.99, Thomas Nelson Her editor at Thomas Nelson
pain. She has survived the loss Publishers). Publishers, Debbie Wickwire,
of loved ones, including her “I’ve been through a lot of said it’s those 10 choices that
father; more than one failed personal trauma myself,” make Smallwood’s book stand
marriage and diagnosis with a Smallwood says. “We’re going out from the myriad of self-help
potentially fatal disease. She about our everyday lives, and books on the market.
was a teenaged mother who one day, the world crashes in “They are choices that will be
struggled to make it through on us.” made whether through a con-
college while married to an Smallwood uses a faith-based scious decision or not,”
alcoholic. She once had her life approach to dealing with life’s Wickwire says. “The beauty of
threatened with a gun. She took traumas, whether it’s the loss of this book is that it quickly iden-
care of her mother while she a child, the end of a marriage or tifies those choices and empow-
was dying of Alzheimers dis- job, or a crushing medical diag- ers the reader to make the right
ease. And, like thousands of nosis. “Hope” and “faith” are choice. I’ve not seen a book
other South Mississippians, she words that appear on page after with this 10 choice plan espe-
survived the fury of Hurricane page of her book. cially written in a way that so
Katrina. “When things happen, you clearly defines the choices.”
As a psychologist for 25 do have choices,” she says. “I Smallwood, who was born
years and founder of the Hope identified what I feel are 10 and raised in Columbia, weath-
Center in Hattiesburg, critical choices that make or ered her first storm in life when
Smallwood deals with people break the rest of your life.” she was nine years old and her
suffering through trauma and Those 10 critical choices father, a minister, died of can-
loss every day. Her experience include: Denial or reality; vic- cer. As if that wasn’t enough,
helping her clients get their timhood or responsibility; why she and her mother had to
lives back on track led her to or how; doubt or faith; bitter- move from the church-provided
write her latest book, “This ness or forgiveness; guilt or parsonage because he was no
Wasn’t Supposed to Happen to self-forgiveness; isolation or longer pastor there, so she lost
Me: 10 Make or Break Choices connection; depression or grief; her father and her home almost
When Life Steals Your Dreams avoidance or courage; and pow- simultaneously. That’s enough
and Rocks Your World.” erlessness or purpose. to rock anyone’s world.