Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 33

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 33

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-12-3

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) The stages of achieving successes and successes themselves are very valuable treasures of positive knowledge. 2) Optimism helps us achieve a happy marriage. 3) Optimism helps us maintain real co operations. 4) Enthusiasm increases and maintains our perseverance. 5) An enthusiasm increases our power. 6) Optimism makes us more confident in our success. 7) Optimism maintains our enthusiasm. 8) The efficient management of our time helps us increase our chances of meeting more favorable situations. 9) The efficient management of our
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time helps us achieve efficient co operations. 10) Man who have wives or girlfriends that have higher incomes and then they do must respect them. 11) The co-development of men and women is good for them and helps them maintain a happy marriage. 12) Some people, to step out sometimes at any price, talk about everything without thinking what they are talking. 13) The more we know and apply more methods of creation the more chances we have of achieving much more successes. 14) The more we know and apply more methods of creation the more chances we have of becoming more efficient. 15) Studying day by day, continuously, for as long as we live, the life of people around us, of those who have successes, we have great possibilities of finding
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many efficient positive behaviors that can help us a lot in achieving our personal goals. 16) Unfortunately, in 2007, there still are irresponsible behaviors of many people that negatively affect other people more or less. It is necessary and mandatory that all of these illegal behaviors are punished with tickets corresponding to their gravity and that they pay the damages and moral or psychical sufferings created in order to prevent repeating other irresponsible behaviors. 17) Efficient co-developments make us more believable. 18) The more credible we are the more chances we have of meeting more possibilities of choices that we can make. 19) Efficient co operations increase our chances of meeting more choices to be
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made. 20) The sense of making the right choices will help us greatly in achieving more and realizing personal objectives. 21) The science of making the right choices helps us a lot to have more chances to meet more favorable situations. 22) A happy marriage makes us more credible. 23) We are very wrong when we hold responsible others for our failures. 24) Egoism is one of the behaviors that very much stop the achievement of efficient co-developments. 25) States need to motivate and encourage more the production of ideas. 26) In anger many words are said that, after they are said, people who said them regret it. 27) He who wears a grudge has nothing
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to gain. 28) There are still many situations when those who have common sense are being marked by those who do not have it. 29) Some people for their own sake have no common sense in many situations. 30) In order to achieve some personal desires some people do not even have the minimum necessary common sense. 31) In order to have more chances of achieving more personal goals, it is necessary that daily or at the end of the week, we have periods of reflection about what we have done, how we have done it, what to do next, what to do in the future, etc. 32) Optimism helps us get through lifes difficulties a lot easier. 33) A better organization makes us more performing. 34) A better organization helps us
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achieve more and greater successes. 35) The most advanced technologies help us become more efficient. 36) The most advanced technologies help us a lot in achieving our personal goals. 37) The most advanced technologies help us achieve more and greater successes. 38) The most advanced technologies help us have more chances of meeting more favorable situations. 39) Capitalists who would have successes in the future are only humanist capitalists. 40) Humanist capitalists will be helped by people to achieve their humanist objectives. 41) Imagination is a main factor that helps us a lot to achieve more and greater successes.
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42) Imagination is a main factor that helps us a lot to achieve our personal goals. 43) Imagination is a main factor that helps us a lot to have more chances to meet more favorable situations. 44) Imagination is a main factor that helps us a lot to maintain efficient co operations. 45) Imagination is a main factor that helps us a lot to deal with exceptional difficult situations. 46) The economy of excess must be replaced with a humanist economy. 47) Humanist economy is the economy of the future. 48) Humanist economy is the economy that will succeed in the future period. 49) Economy will exist as long as people exist. 50) Humanist economy will take the
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place of present economies at an incredibly high rate. 51) Humanist economy will be the economy that solves most of peoples problems in record time. 52) Humanist economy will reject luxury. 53) Humanist economy will be for the people and not against the people. 54) The consumers economy will be replaced by humanist economy. 55) The only economy that does all that is best for people is humanist economy. 56) Humanist economy eliminates economical discrimination. 57) Humanist economy has no common motivation. 58) Humanist economy has the motivation to do good, to make a man happy, to offer him everything that he needs, to harmoniously develop his
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personality according to the surrounding environment. 59) It is a very big mistake to support shopping and sex are all that is left. 60) Chasing after instantaneous satisfaction is a very big mistake. 61) Self delusion is very harmful. 62) Self delusion stops us from being active in solving a problem or problems that delude us. 63) Self delusion reduces our optimism. 64) Inner beauty maintains a happy marriage. 65) Inner beauty makes us happy. 66) Inner beauty impresses a woman or a man for ever. 67) Inner beauty achieves happy marriages. 68) The inner beauty of a woman makes a man happy. 69) The inner beauty of a woman
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maintains most men by her side. 70) The inner beauty of a woman never disappears. 71) The inner beauty of a woman develops itself most of the time. 72) All women have the most to gain if they give the necessary attention to inner maintaining and developing. 73) The inner beauty of a woman is more and more appreciated by man. 74) Man needs to appreciate inner beauty in women as a priority. 75) The inner beauty of the women makes this world a lot better. 76) Women need to come together, to unite and cooperate in order to create a better world because they have all the chances. 77) Feminine qualities make men happy. 78) A woman, in order for her to be
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truly happy, needs to feel happiness. 79) A man, in order to be truly happy, needs a woman with whom he can build their happiness together. 80) The inner beauty of a woman contributes the most in achieving a happy marriage. 81) Men need to develop their inner beauty as well in order to achieve their joined happiness with the woman. 82) Each woman needs to have as a personal goal, for as long as she lives, day by day, the formation and development of inner beauty. 83) States need and must support, impel, encourage, reward the formation and development of inner beauty in women. 84) Each young woman needs to have daily, continuously, for as long as she lives as a personal objective the formation,
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development and maintenance of inner beauty. 85) The inner beauty of a woman is irreplaceable. 86) The inner beauty of a woman, as long as the woman is concerned, contributes the most in achieving mature love. 87) The inner beauty of a man, as far as the man is concerned, contributes the most in achieving mature love. 88) Physical beauty without inner beauty cannot achieve, by itself, a happy marriage. 89) The inner beauty of a woman without the physical beauty can create a happy marriage. 90) Physical beauty withers in time and inner beauty grows and develops. 91) In extremes, when a marriage can no longer continue and when it reaches a
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divorce, it is fair and necessary that the divorce is done in a friendly way, without meanness, reproaches, revenge, because negative behaviors harm both parties a lot and if there are children involved, because for children such a breakup is enormously harmful. 92) Relations and behaviors of spouses during the divorce need to be positive, understanding and even mutually supportive. 93) Divorces are extremely painful most of the time, both for the husband and for the wife and especially for children if those who get a divorce unfortunately have children as well. 94) Life imposes that the sense of forming and maintaining a happy marriage is formed and developed. 95) The sense of forming and maintaining a happy marriage will
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contribute a lot in forming and maintaining many happy marriages. 96) Our present scientific knowledge, the human experience related to marriage, love can contribute in a short time in the formation and development of a powerful science of forming and maintaining a happy marriage. 97) Presently, there is a great number of unhappy marriages due to the fact that those who have failed marriages have given too little attention and too little time to find the right partner. 98) Presently, there is a great number of failed marriages and many divorces because the two spouses unfortunately do not give the attention and time needed to maintain a happy marriage. Many of them, unfortunately, do not give the least attention and the smallest amount of time to maintaining a happy marriage. Then,
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how can it exist? 99) Unfortunately most women give too little attention and too little time to achieving a happy marriage. 100) Unfortunately, the majority of men give too little attention and too little time to achieving a happy marriage. 101) A happy marriage is neither achieved easily nor hard. 102) A happy marriage is achieved through continuous efforts, through searching, finding and applying the necessary knowledge of achievement. 103) It is certain that if people give the attention and time needed to achieve a happy marriage they will succeed in achieving more happy marriages. 104) It is certain that our life can be much more beautiful if we give the necessary attention and time to achieving and maintaining a beautiful life.
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105) Presently, resources of all kind of society are too much used not for the good of the majority of people but they are used in a very small group of people compared to the population of the earth. 106) Presently, it is necessary to form and develop a theory of humanist economy that we can apply and that uses all types of resources for the good and happiness of all the people on the globe. 107) Humanist economy would develop many programs and global projects. 108) Humanist economy would lead to preventing many international conflicts and wars. 109) Humanist economy would lead to reducing the production of arms. 110) Humanist economy would lead to highly reducing the waste of all resources. 111) Humanist economy can reduce sufferings, troubles, accidents, conflicts,
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negative effects of actions a lot. 112) The economy of the harmonious development of human personality is an economy that is part of humanist economy. 113) Happy marriages can be easily achieved because they only depend on two persons although the majority of people say that it is very hard. 114) The necessary efforts and time needed to achieve a happy marriage must be done and allocated because what a happy marriage can offer us we cannot obtain somewhere else and it is priceless for our good and happiness. 115) Humanist scientific knowledge, human living experience, stored in books, on the Internet, in the media, human qualities allow the achievement of an incredibly high number of happy marriages, but, unfortunately, many
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people do not give the time and the attention necessary to achieving and maintaining a happy marriage. How can you achieve and maintain a happy marriage if you know do not advocate it the time and the attention needed? 116) Most people realize facts, activities a lot harder than they achieve a happy marriage. 117) Many people are unconscious and irresponsible and mock their happy marriage. After a while, when they are divorced, they realize their irresponsibility, the enormous value that they had lost and that their children had lost. 118) Humanist economy develops social human values. 119) Humanist economy will help in the humanization of society. 120) Humanist economy will contribute a
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lot in the harmonious development of human personality. 121) Present economies harm people very much. 122) Present economies harm society a lot. 123) Present economies, besides their positive effects also have many negative effects. 124) Presently, humanist economy must take the place of present economies that do not consider people, as soon as possible. 125) Humanist economy is against the economy of luxury. 126) Each man must act, support, and promote the formation and development of humanist economy for the sake and happiness of all people. 127) Humanist economy can reduce poverty all around the globe in a record
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time. 128) Humanist economy can reduce to zero and can prevent illiteracy all around the globe. 129) Humanist economy will continuously ensure workplaces and useful activities that are positive for all persons on the planet and it will eliminate and prevent unemployment. 130) Humanist economy will reduce greatly the number of sick people and diseases and at the same time will prevent illness. 131) Humanist economy will greatly develop preventive economy. 132) The economy of knowledge will be an integral part of maximum importance in humanist economy. 133) Humanist economy will contribute, support, achieve and maintain happy marriages.
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134) Humanist economy would prevent and reduce marginalization. 135) Humanist economy will contribute greatly to preventing and reducing all forms of discrimination. 136) Humanist economy will contribute greatly to reducing overproduction. 137) Humanist economy will reduce greatly and prevent the number of bankruptcies. 138) Revenge can many times lead to revenge. 139) Hatred can create hatred many times. 140) Some vices create other vices. 141) Some qualities create other qualities. 142) Industriousness creates prosperity. 143) Lying produces much harm. 144) Many times, aggression produces much aggression.
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145) We must not respond to aggression with aggression. 146) Effective ideas create efficient actions. 147) Rewards make the facts that are rewarded repeat themselves. 148) Commitment increases our efficiency. 149) Discipline creates discipline. 150) Discipline creates harmony. 151) Discipline creates efficiency. 152) Discipline prevents stress. 153) Discipline prevents conflicts. 154) Discipline prevents many mistakes. 155) Discipline creates orders. 156) Discipline prevents many accidents. 157) Discipline creates quality. 158) Happiness cannot be replaced by anything. Happiness just happens. 159) A mature reciprocal love cannot be replaced by anything.
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160) Although a mature reciprocal love is what we all desire, most of us do too little and spend too little time in achieving it. Still, many of us are very surprised about why we have not achieved a mature reciprocal love. 161) Humanist economy makes life happier for many people. 162) Sometimes we sacrifice ourselves for many people but few of them appreciate the gesture. 163) Humanist economy will create and satisfy many hopes. 164) Discipline maintains optimism. 165) Industriousness forms and develops skills. 166) There are many women and many men who can form and have happy marriages, but they do not find each other although they could. They do too little and spend too little time in finding each other;
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they consume their time and energy for things that are less important. 167) The education for humanist economy must take the place of the present economical education. 168) Humanist education reduces the insecurity of everyday life very much. 169) We must work in order to live and not live in order to work. 170) Those who deny the reality will be beaten by the reality they deny. 171) Educational needs change continuously and they must be satisfied immediately. 172) The strength of the mind is always more powerful than physical strength. 173) Sometimes something is won by small differences but the first, the winner also has n more advantages than the second. 174) Positive global states have positive
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effects on the whole world. 175) Hatred causes arguments between those who hate each other. 176) He who says unconsidered words many times causes arguments. 177) He who says unconsidered words many times harms himself. 178) Life is a lot more beautiful when we do not argue. 179) He who says unconsidered words can many times harm others too, not only himself. 180) He who is mean unfortunately thinks a lot about causing harm. 181) The calculated man makes fewer mistakes or none at all. 182) The calculated man manages to accomplish smaller or greater successes. 183) Most calculated men manage to achieve happy marriages. 184) Most calculated men manage to
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maintain efficient co operations. 185) Most calculated people manage to make much more chances to meet more favorable situations. 186) Calculated people succeed in achieving efficient co-developments. 187) Calculated people besides calculation also develop other skills. 188) Calculated people manage to make friends a lot easier. 189) Calculated men participate in changing the world for the better. 190) Hopes unite people with the same hopes. 191) Through meanness nothing positive is made and only harm is. 192) Gossips have only negative effects and no positive effects. 193) A pleasant woman more quickly finds the right man. 194) A man with many qualities is highly
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appreciated. 195) The more qualities a man has the more chances he has of achieving true friendships. 196) The more qualities a man has the more chances he has to meet more favorable situations. 197) The more qualities a man has the more chances he has of achieving efficient co-developments. 198) A good word said at the right time can do much good. 199) Expostulations do no good but only harm. 200) Friendly words are very good for children. 201) Those who can control their unconsidered words manage to prevent many arguments. 202) Wisdom has only positive effects. 203) The wiser we are the more chances
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we have of achieving our personal goals. 204) Kindness is a quality that does much good. 205) Kindness makes us be appreciated. 206) Kindness makes us be able to solve more problems. 207) Those who do well are loved by people. 208) An honest woman more easily finds the right partner. 209) A woman with many qualities more easily finds the suited partner. 210) Nothing can take the place of common sense. 211) The love towards children is unique, has something different and cannot be replaced by any other love. 212) Bastards are always trying to take advantage of those who are powerless. 213) Thanklessness makes those who are bastards be rejected by the others.
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214) Thanklessness must be fought by each and every one of us. 215) Thanklessness is a primitive behavior. 216) A positive image of the self must be permanently maintained. 217) A positive image of the self helps us achieve successes. 218) A positive image of the self helps us have more chances to meet more favorable situations. 219) A real imaging of the self helps us a lot to maintain our marriage happy. 220) The desire of recognition and training mobilizes people to achieve successes. 221) A tolerant behavior helps us a lot in achieving true friendships. 222) Emotional stability helps us a lot to achieve our personal goals. 223) Social behavior helps us achieve
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efficient co operations more easily. 224) Each of us needs to develop continuously and to maintain the ability of dealing with any situation. 225) He who is sure of himself has more chances to face stressing situations. 226) People who are continuously well intentioned must be appreciated. 227) People who are continuously well intentioned must be supported. 228) People who are continuously well intentioned must be rewarded. 229) People who are continuously well intentioned must be encouraged. 230) People who are continuously well intentioned have more chances to find the right partner. 231) People who are continuously well intentioned have more chances to achieve efficient co operations. 232) People who are continuously well
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intentioned have more chances to achieve happy marriages. 233) People who are continuously well intentioned are loved. 234) People who are continuously well intentioned are agreeable. 235) People who are continuously well intentioned have more chances to achieve more successes. 236) We each have more or fewer qualities. 237) We each have a certain weaknesses. 238) We must each develop our qualities. 239) We must each use our qualities. 240) We must each control our weaknesses. 241) We must each know our qualities. 242) We must each know our weaknesses. 243) The more we know ourselves the more chances we have to achieve personal
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goals. 244) The more we know ourselves the more chances we have to achieve more successes. 245) Knowing ourselves must be appreciated. 246) Knowing ourselves must be encouraged. 247) Knowing ourselves helps us achieve more successes. 248) Knowing ourselves helps us more easily achieve personal goals. 249) Knowing ourselves helps us achieve more efficient co operations. 250) Knowing ourselves helps us achieve performances. 251) Knowing ourselves helps us maintain our health. 252) Knowing ourselves helps us achieve our happiness. 253) Knowing ourselves helps us a lot to
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find the right partner for life. 254) Knowing ourselves helps become more efficient. 255) Knowing ourselves helps achieve a happy marriage. 256) Knowing ourselves helps perfect ourselves. 257) Knowing ourselves helps surpass ourselves. 258) Knowing ourselves helps maintain a happy marriage. 259) Knowing ourselves helps become even more productive. 260) Knowing ourselves helps prevent many failures. 261) Knowing ourselves helps prevent arguments. 262) Knowing ourselves helps control ourselves. 263) Knowing ourselves helps prevent many conflicts.
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264) Knowing ourselves helps us a lot to prevent many unpleasant surprises. 265) Knowing ourselves helps us a lot to prevent many illnesses.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-12-3

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